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Re: My Sister Cancels Her Wedding. Is She Doing The Right Thing? by authority2006(m): 2:54pm On Aug 11, 2020 |
hosemujica: Really! What kind of disaster if I may ask? Can you be specific? 1 Like |
Re: My Sister Cancels Her Wedding. Is She Doing The Right Thing? by emperorshaokahn(m): 2:57pm On Aug 11, 2020 |
ImaIma1:she wont pay bride price,she wont contribute money for rent,she wont pay for her hospital bills(during pregnancy),heck she wont even pay for her fake human her,what then exactly is her use?popping out babies?,you see why i think marrage does not favour men. |
Re: My Sister Cancels Her Wedding. Is She Doing The Right Thing? by Aimerosa25(f): 3:11pm On Aug 11, 2020 |
vickydevoka:alright |
Re: My Sister Cancels Her Wedding. Is She Doing The Right Thing? by ImaIma1(f): 3:30pm On Aug 11, 2020 |
emperorshaokahn: Popping out babies? She slept with herself right? Pay bride price? Did she ask herself to marry herself? Fake human hair? Is it an essential item for survival or he has a gun to his neck to buy it? Hospital bills? Even my husband and I use each other's HMO. Couples figure things out and try to make life better for the other. Look, when the time comes for you to get married, you will understand marriage and figure it out. But if that time never comes, that means you shouldn't bother getting married. 1 Like |
Re: My Sister Cancels Her Wedding. Is She Doing The Right Thing? by lolaluv1(f): 3:34pm On Aug 11, 2020 |
Awon “my mummy said” gang. If he cannot rent house, then he should not be married. 3 Likes |
Re: My Sister Cancels Her Wedding. Is She Doing The Right Thing? by etoete77: 3:36pm On Aug 11, 2020 |
She should go on with the wedding, the guy is tempting him. She may be surprised that the guy have rented an apartment already. No man would ever want to marry without getting an appointment. Unless it is a family house where he has his section. |
Re: My Sister Cancels Her Wedding. Is She Doing The Right Thing? by lightpurple: 4:08pm On Aug 11, 2020 |
PapaNnamdi:I did, at least in my area. That’s why I am bothering to reply you. Perhaps you’re not of the new age. People like you with your glorified sense of entitlement are just one lazy liability lol, a burden. Why do you think women be killing their husbands recently? You should feel honored when a sister gives you 2 secs of her time |
Re: My Sister Cancels Her Wedding. Is She Doing The Right Thing? by ChristieCrown: 4:28pm On Aug 11, 2020 |
georgeiyke009: Thanks for taking your time to write this. Precise and plain truths |
Re: My Sister Cancels Her Wedding. Is She Doing The Right Thing? by Timbers(m): 4:29pm On Aug 11, 2020 |
emperorshaokahn:I've never dated a Nigerian girl and never will I do it . They all look like bodybuilders with boobs and distorted ass 1 Like |
Re: My Sister Cancels Her Wedding. Is She Doing The Right Thing? by Neddyogu(m): 4:30pm On Aug 11, 2020 |
I just shake my head at some rather silly comments here condemning the lady in question. D'yer guys know the kinda exothermic reaction that can occur when a DIL shares same immediate vicinity with a MIL attached to an incurable Mummy's boy 24/7? Share same kitchen? As territorial as women can be? The first step to manhood is independent living. Even the Bible said it that a man would leave father and mother and be joined with the wife. @OP, ur sister is doing the right thing joor. I bet those cowards tongue-lashing her wouldn't let their sisters, nieces, daughters or any woman in their lives undergo such. |
Re: My Sister Cancels Her Wedding. Is She Doing The Right Thing? by PapaNnamdi: 4:41pm On Aug 11, 2020 |
lightpurple: I'll pass thank you |
Re: My Sister Cancels Her Wedding. Is She Doing The Right Thing? by dominique(f): 5:14pm On Aug 11, 2020 |
ogbuefi677: If the man can't afford to pay rent of ordinary self contain apartment to the point that he has to stay with his mum with his wife, then he has no business marrying. You people are quick to insult a woman that can't cook or clean but see nothing wrong with a man that can afford a small roof over his head. So because the wife doesn't want to stay with in-laws, she should be the one to pay rent alongside cooking, cleaning, doing laundry and taking care of the kids? You men and double standards are inseparable 1 Like |
Re: My Sister Cancels Her Wedding. Is She Doing The Right Thing? by authority2006(m): 5:46pm On Aug 11, 2020 |
ImaIma1: Lol. Like the pressure on you ladies to get married doesn't surpass the ones on men |
Re: My Sister Cancels Her Wedding. Is She Doing The Right Thing? by lapzy36(m): 5:49pm On Aug 11, 2020 |
the guy is mad. absolutely no self respect |
Re: My Sister Cancels Her Wedding. Is She Doing The Right Thing? by lapzy36(m): 5:49pm On Aug 11, 2020 |
the guy is mad. absolutely no self respect |
Re: My Sister Cancels Her Wedding. Is She Doing The Right Thing? by authority2006(m): 5:52pm On Aug 11, 2020 |
Joshmanuel10: Can't we copy good things like we copied bad things? |
Re: My Sister Cancels Her Wedding. Is She Doing The Right Thing? by mrksquare: 6:10pm On Aug 11, 2020 |
Chii59: My parents do not even come close to my flat. they stay upstairs while I stay in one of the two bedroom at the ground floor. They respect my privacy just like I respect theirs. I only go upstairs to see them when it is compellingly necessary. I can't move out cos in my area the said flat I stay in is close to 500k. If she doesn't want to stay she should bring money let's rent alternative apartment. My dad has an aversion for tenant in his compound else would have rented the flat and use the proceed to secure alternative apartment. |
Re: My Sister Cancels Her Wedding. Is She Doing The Right Thing? by LadySarah: 6:12pm On Aug 11, 2020 |
ImaIma1: Nne you get time. Most of them are young school leavers and jambitez. |
Re: My Sister Cancels Her Wedding. Is She Doing The Right Thing? by ImaIma1(f): 6:16pm On Aug 11, 2020 |
authority2006: The pressure doesn't make marriage marriage more important to the woman. In all of this plenty talk, guess who goes to ask for the hand in marriage, who performs all the traditional rites, etc? The man! Did he have a gun to his head? Or is he a(let me borrow the Nairaland grammar) simp? Marriage is more beneficial to men blah blah but the man comes to marry. Was he under duress? Please let's drop this matter. God created marriage and he knows what He was doing. If you don't understand it from his perspective, drop it. |
Re: My Sister Cancels Her Wedding. Is She Doing The Right Thing? by authority2006(m): 6:20pm On Aug 11, 2020 |
ImaIma1: And my point is that for the fact that men come to women for marriage doesn't mean that the marriage is more beneficial to men. Our culture demands that men come to women. Our women, even if they're dying in silence, will never ask for men's hands in marriage |
Re: My Sister Cancels Her Wedding. Is She Doing The Right Thing? by ImaIma1(f): 6:26pm On Aug 11, 2020 |
authority2006: Does he have to go according to culture? Why doesn't he just do without getting married? Will he die if he doesn't get married? Since it doesn't favour him to get married, why doesn't he wait for a woman who is begging to be married to, come propose to him? Or he can remain single and have a baby mama and a maid instead. |
Re: My Sister Cancels Her Wedding. Is She Doing The Right Thing? by ImaIma1(f): 6:27pm On Aug 11, 2020 |
LadySarah: I am off work today and bored jare. When they grow up, they will get it. |
Re: My Sister Cancels Her Wedding. Is She Doing The Right Thing? by Zzyzxt(m): 6:52pm On Aug 11, 2020 |
I am equally facing the same problem with my partner. Though the marriage plans is still on. In my own case, my building is still at the foundation level. My father has a 3 bedroom flat not occupied since renovation. To get a satisfactory apartment at least you must have #350k I told my partner that if we spend this money on our building for two years, we will see an appreciable level... We are still on it. No compromise yet but suspending the wedding arrangement is not an option. I think with communication they will Better resolve it not calling off the wedding. Pls advise your sister o. She shouldn't lose a good man on that basis o. Sincerely no point getting married and spending 10 years in a rented appartment. Couples should plan their lives going into marriage. When they have agreement on this, they will achieve greater things together. |
Re: My Sister Cancels Her Wedding. Is She Doing The Right Thing? by Nobody: 7:00pm On Aug 11, 2020 |
OluwaLina1:she is correct ..that guy is a baby nigga but she should try other means too to convinced him |
Re: My Sister Cancels Her Wedding. Is She Doing The Right Thing? by ogbuefi677(m): 7:22pm On Aug 11, 2020 |
OluwaLina1:How big is the house? Do any other of the guy's siblings live full time in the house? |
Re: My Sister Cancels Her Wedding. Is She Doing The Right Thing? by Pickieox(m): 7:22pm On Aug 11, 2020 |
Powerfly:Lol, I love how you capture reply, an innuendo if I'm right... |
Re: My Sister Cancels Her Wedding. Is She Doing The Right Thing? by ogbuefi677(m): 7:24pm On Aug 11, 2020 |
Jesse25:so says the negro who was looking for IT placement just last year. You've apparently never paid bills from your sweat in your whole life so I won't blame you. |
Re: My Sister Cancels Her Wedding. Is She Doing The Right Thing? by ogbuefi677(m): 7:37pm On Aug 11, 2020 |
mrksquare:Which parent ever invades the privacy of their married children except they're living in a 1 room and parlor apartment?My dad will rather call you on d phone to come upstairs than knock on your door.Mum rarely comes towards my apartment. OP mentioned the guy is financially ok,so apparently, we're dealing with either an only child or probably all other of his siblings are living far away and he's the only close to the mum. He even mentioned the guy is building his own house,yet d wizard of a girl is so sure she is going to be having problems with the MIL. I just pity the guy that marries this type of girl. 1 Like |
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