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Cheating In Marriage, Is It the side chick's fault? by Norano: 10:01am On Aug 11, 2020
So yesterday I went to do something at the bank, there was this preacher preaching, he said that God will punish all the side chicks sleeping with married men, he also said that women that gets beaten and cheated on their husbands deserves it, that it is karma for sleeping with other women husband when they were single. He blamed the side chicks and women through out, not once did he blamed the married men. So what of the women that married as a virgin that have cheating husbands, is it also karma ? Do you think it is the married women and side chick fault that the man is cheating ?
Re: Cheating In Marriage, Is It the side chick's fault? by frozen70(f): 10:11am On Aug 11, 2020
Some circumstances can make someyone to cheat

It's only the grace of God that will prevent it

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Re: Cheating In Marriage, Is It the side chick's fault? by Mindlog: 10:21am On Aug 11, 2020
The "preacher" is schizophrenic as he reflects spiritual delusions for he is convinced that the married man who was having sexual relationship outside his marriage was not committing adultery rather it was the side chick that was fornicating.

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Re: Cheating In Marriage, Is It the side chick's fault? by xynerise: 10:22am On Aug 11, 2020
She needs to survive na grin
Re: Cheating In Marriage, Is It the side chick's fault? by Chiveraa(f): 10:36am On Aug 11, 2020
undecided

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Re: Cheating In Marriage, Is It the side chick's fault? by misse1(f): 10:45am On Aug 11, 2020
The man should be blamed in most cases because they are the ones that go about pursuing these girls.

Some will even lie that they are single. Some will say their wife is late. While some others will say their wife is very wicked and they want to divorce her. So many lies they tell, just to get a girl.

Though in some cases, it is the girl that goes after the man. But a man with self worth will not fall for such cheap advances.

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Re: Cheating In Marriage, Is It the side chick's fault? by Juliusmomoh: 10:46am On Aug 11, 2020
I support the man preaching... Ask me how
Re: Cheating In Marriage, Is It the side chick's fault? by bukatyne(f): 11:27am On Aug 11, 2020
Side chick loun loun.
Re: Cheating In Marriage, Is It the side chick's fault? by culf: 12:36pm On Aug 11, 2020
frozen70:
Some circumstances can make someyone to cheat

It's only the grace of God that will prevent it

God bless you.


It takes only the grace of God. Its not by bragging or saying I will never cheat, I can never cheat.
Re: Cheating In Marriage, Is It the side chick's fault? by culf: 12:38pm On Aug 11, 2020
its not the side chick fault, unless if she use jazz to get the guy.
Re: Cheating In Marriage, Is It the side chick's fault? by Patented: 12:41pm On Aug 11, 2020
NOt every preacher is worth listening too. every party to adultery bears blame. the exclusion of one from blame is wickedness. life no balance but sense suppose balance

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Re: Cheating In Marriage, Is It the side chick's fault? by frozen70(f): 2:40pm On Aug 11, 2020
culf:


God bless you.


It takes only the grace of God. Its not by bragging or saying I will never cheat, I can never cheat.

Amen,
Honestly just grace of God
Re: Cheating In Marriage, Is It the side chick's fault? by culf: 7:09pm On Aug 11, 2020
frozen70:

Amen, Honestly just grace of God

you're very correct and that's what I usually tel people.
Re: Cheating In Marriage, Is It the side chick's fault? by Biglittlelois(f): 7:12pm On Aug 11, 2020
misse1:
The man should be blamed in most cases because they are the ones that go about pursuing these girls.

Some will even lie that they are single. Some will say their wife is late. While some others will say their wife is very wicked and they want to divorce her. So many lies they tell, just to get a girl.

Though in some cases, it is the girl that goes after the man. But a man with self worth will not fall for such cheap advances.


Apt!!!

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Re: Cheating In Marriage, Is It the side chick's fault? by Norano: 9:31am On Aug 14, 2020
bukatyne:
Side chick loun loun.
Do you mean the side chick should the blamed?
Was she the one that made a vow with the woman?
Re: Cheating In Marriage, Is It the side chick's fault? by bukatyne(f): 9:33am On Aug 14, 2020
Norano:
Do you mean the side chick should the blamed?
Was she the one that made a vow with the woman?

Do you understand what 'loun loun' means? undecided
Re: Cheating In Marriage, Is It the side chick's fault? by Norano: 9:35am On Aug 14, 2020
bukatyne:


Do you understand what 'loun loun' means? undecided
I don't understand Yoruba, that's why there is a question mark

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Re: Cheating In Marriage, Is It the side chick's fault? by Norano: 9:36am On Aug 14, 2020
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Re: Cheating In Marriage, Is It the side chick's fault? by bukatyne(f): 9:56am On Aug 14, 2020
Norano:
I don't understand Yoruba, that's why there is a question mark

Well, how do I interpret this in English? undecided

It is a local expression that the side chic is 'too far' from the center of blame.
Re: Cheating In Marriage, Is It the side chick's fault? by Klass99(f): 2:49pm On Aug 14, 2020
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Re: Cheating In Marriage, Is It the side chick's fault? by Klass99(f): 3:00pm On Aug 14, 2020
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Re: Cheating In Marriage, Is It the side chick's fault? by misse1(f): 4:58pm On Aug 14, 2020
Klass99:


God bless you ten times over for this.

D
When I was still single I met a number of randy ones. Some married men are just scum. I thank God for the wisdom He gave me.
Re: Cheating In Marriage, Is It the side chick's fault? by Norano: 7:45pm On Aug 14, 2020
Klass99:


Sadly, a popular preacher did something similar in church one day and I was taken aback at the fact that his emphasis was more on women than men (single women in particular, in my mind I said we have suffered cheesy)

This preacher made it sound like, we are the cause of adultery by men, the cause of troubled and broken marriages as a whole. He even went as far as pronouncing a curse on women, if we don't heed his warning to leave married men alone after today. I was like, if only this man could walk in my shoes for one week, as a single lady.

Lol, this is so apt.
That is how Nigerian pastors preach, they lay curses and all the blames on the single women and absolve the men of all the blames.
Re: Cheating In Marriage, Is It the side chick's fault? by Nobody: 7:56pm On Aug 14, 2020
I would've gone up to him and tell him he's preaching nonsense. People like him should never be given the microphone to preach on streets or allowed near a pulpit, but i guess anyone in Nigeria can become a Preacher these days. Rubbish

Norano:
So yesterday I went to do something at the bank, there was this preacher preaching, he said that God will punish all the side chicks sleeping with married men, he also said that women that gets beaten and cheated on their husbands deserves it, that it is karma for sleeping with other women husband when they were single. He blamed the side chicks and women through out, not once did he blamed the married men. So what of the women that married as a virgin that have cheating husbands, is it also karma ? Do you think it is the married women and side chick fault that the man is cheating ?
Re: Cheating In Marriage, Is It the side chick's fault? by sisisioge: 7:57pm On Aug 14, 2020
Well, it is official, married women too cheat! But in a bright way....they fall in love with the other guy and continue to maintain sensible relationships with the husbands. Seen two lately... This is love grin grin grin grin


To answer your question, it is the devil's fault tongue
Re: Cheating In Marriage, Is It the side chick's fault? by Norano: 8:34pm On Aug 14, 2020
OutsideTheBox:
I would've gone up to him and tell him he's preaching nonsense. People like him should never be given the microphone to preach on streets or allowed near a pulpit, but i guess anyone in Nigeria can become a Preacher these days. Rubbish




The shocking thing is that most people there agreed with him, if I had walked up and told him he was preaching bullshit he'd have labeled me a witch and give testimony on Sunday about a witch that wanted to stop the work of God he was doing. Most preachers in Nigeria need a mental check up before being allowed to go out and preach trash in the streets.
Re: Cheating In Marriage, Is It the side chick's fault? by Saintmary(f): 8:35pm On Aug 14, 2020
sisisioge:
Well, it is official, married women too cheat! But in a bright way....they fall in love with the other guy and continue to maintain sensible relationships with the husbands. Seen two lately... This is love grin grin grin grin


To answer your question, it is the devil's fault tongue
All this is happening while the husband is busy telling the side chick
"my wife is awesome!"
grin
Re: Cheating In Marriage, Is It the side chick's fault? by Nobody: 12:27pm On Aug 15, 2020
Norano:
The shocking thing is that most people there agreed with him, if I had walked up and told him he was preaching bullshit he'd have labeled me a witch and give testimony on Sunday about a witch that wanted to stop the work of God he was doing. Most preachers in Nigeria need a mental check up before being allowed to go out and preach trash in the streets.
I'm not surprised they believe the nonsense he was feeding them. Nigerians tend to worship their Pastors and anything they say goes. A mental evaluation and an assessment of personal beliefs would go a long way in preventing folks like him from spreading falsities and brainwashing people, but in Nigeria ministers of religions aren't regulated like other parts of the world.

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