So yesterday I went to do something at the bank, there was this preacher preaching, he said that God will punish all the side chicks sleeping with married men, he also said that women that gets beaten and cheated on their husbands deserves it, that it is karma for sleeping with other women husband when they were single. He blamed the side chicks and women through out, not once did he blamed the married men. So what of the women that married as a virgin that have cheating husbands, is it also karma ? Do you think it is the married women and side chick fault that the man is cheating ?

Some circumstances can make someyone to cheat

It's only the grace of God that will prevent it

The "preacher" is schizophrenic as he reflects spiritual delusions for he is convinced that the married man who was having sexual relationship outside his marriage was not committing adultery rather it was the side chick that was fornicating.

She needs to survive na

The man should be blamed in most cases because they are the ones that go about pursuing these girls.

Some will even lie that they are single. Some will say their wife is late. While some others will say their wife is very wicked and they want to divorce her. So many lies they tell, just to get a girl.

Though in some cases, it is the girl that goes after the man. But a man with self worth will not fall for such cheap advances.

I support the man preaching... Ask me how

Side chick loun loun.

frozen70:
Some circumstances can make someyone to cheat

It's only the grace of God that will prevent it

God bless you.


It takes only the grace of God. Its not by bragging or saying I will never cheat, I can never cheat.

its not the side chick fault, unless if she use jazz to get the guy.

NOt every preacher is worth listening too. every party to adultery bears blame. the exclusion of one from blame is wickedness. life no balance but sense suppose balance

culf:


God bless you.


It takes only the grace of God. Its not by bragging or saying I will never cheat, I can never cheat.

Amen,
Honestly just grace of God

frozen70:

Amen, Honestly just grace of God

you're very correct and that's what I usually tel people.

misse1:
The man should be blamed in most cases because they are the ones that go about pursuing these girls.

Some will even lie that they are single. Some will say their wife is late. While some others will say their wife is very wicked and they want to divorce her. So many lies they tell, just to get a girl.

Though in some cases, it is the girl that goes after the man. But a man with self worth will not fall for such cheap advances.

Apt!!!

bukatyne:
Side chick loun loun.

Do you mean the side chick should the blamed?
Was she the one that made a vow with the woman?

Norano:
Do you mean the side chick should the blamed?
Was she the one that made a vow with the woman?

Do you understand what 'loun loun' means?

bukatyne:


Do you understand what 'loun loun' means?

I don't understand Yoruba, that's why there is a question mark

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Norano:
I don't understand Yoruba, that's why there is a question mark

Well, how do I interpret this in English?

It is a local expression that the side chic is 'too far' from the center of blame.

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Klass99:


God bless you ten times over for this.

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When I was still single I met a number of randy ones. Some married men are just scum. I thank God for the wisdom He gave me.

Klass99:


Sadly, a popular preacher did something similar in church one day and I was taken aback at the fact that his emphasis was more on women than men (single women in particular, in my mind I said we have suffered )

This preacher made it sound like, we are the cause of adultery by men, the cause of troubled and broken marriages as a whole. He even went as far as pronouncing a curse on women, if we don't heed his warning to leave married men alone after today. I was like, if only this man could walk in my shoes for one week, as a single lady.

Lol, this is so apt.
That is how Nigerian pastors preach, they lay curses and all the blames on the single women and absolve the men of all the blames.

I would've gone up to him and tell him he's preaching nonsense. People like him should never be given the microphone to preach on streets or allowed near a pulpit, but i guess anyone in Nigeria can become a Preacher these days. Rubbish

Norano:
So yesterday I went to do something at the bank, there was this preacher preaching, he said that God will punish all the side chicks sleeping with married men, he also said that women that gets beaten and cheated on their husbands deserves it, that it is karma for sleeping with other women husband when they were single. He blamed the side chicks and women through out, not once did he blamed the married men. So what of the women that married as a virgin that have cheating husbands, is it also karma ? Do you think it is the married women and side chick fault that the man is cheating ?

Well, it is official, married women too cheat! But in a bright way....they fall in love with the other guy and continue to maintain sensible relationships with the husbands. Seen two lately... This is love


To answer your question, it is the devil's fault

OutsideTheBox:
I would've gone up to him and tell him he's preaching nonsense. People like him should never be given the microphone to preach on streets or allowed near a pulpit, but i guess anyone in Nigeria can become a Preacher these days. Rubbish

The shocking thing is that most people there agreed with him, if I had walked up and told him he was preaching bullshit he'd have labeled me a witch and give testimony on Sunday about a witch that wanted to stop the work of God he was doing. Most preachers in Nigeria need a mental check up before being allowed to go out and preach trash in the streets.

sisisioge:
Well, it is official, married women too cheat! But in a bright way....they fall in love with the other guy and continue to maintain sensible relationships with the husbands. Seen two lately... This is love


To answer your question, it is the devil's fault

All this is happening while the husband is busy telling the side chick
"my wife is awesome!"

Norano:
The shocking thing is that most people there agreed with him, if I had walked up and told him he was preaching bullshit he'd have labeled me a witch and give testimony on Sunday about a witch that wanted to stop the work of God he was doing. Most preachers in Nigeria need a mental check up before being allowed to go out and preach trash in the streets.

I'm not surprised they believe the nonsense he was feeding them. Nigerians tend to worship their Pastors and anything they say goes. A mental evaluation and an assessment of personal beliefs would go a long way in preventing folks like him from spreading falsities and brainwashing people, but in Nigeria ministers of religions aren't regulated like other parts of the world.