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Re: Do I Tell My American Patient He's Being Scammed By A Nigerian Romance Scammer? by MrBen619(m): 12:13pm On Aug 14, 2020 |
Fake news everywhere, is the lady using charm? |
Re: Do I Tell My American Patient He's Being Scammed By A Nigerian Romance Scammer? by chukwuibuipob: 12:16pm On Aug 14, 2020 |
omanzo02:Where do u live dat odas Neva live/go b4 ![]() ![]() |
Re: Do I Tell My American Patient He's Being Scammed By A Nigerian Romance Scammer? by AlexandertheGr8(m): 12:17pm On Aug 14, 2020 |
Who not mind your business sir/ma |
Re: Do I Tell My American Patient He's Being Scammed By A Nigerian Romance Scammer? by AlexandertheGr8(m): 12:18pm On Aug 14, 2020 |
Fiction |
Re: Do I Tell My American Patient He's Being Scammed By A Nigerian Romance Scammer? by chukwuibuipob: 12:27pm On Aug 14, 2020 |
omanzo02:How is dis official chat? If calling u a thief and post the evil online and got sack,GOOD! |
Re: Do I Tell My American Patient He's Being Scammed By A Nigerian Romance Scammer? by Geekhard: 12:28pm On Aug 14, 2020 |
Devise a way to tell him anonymously through electronic means without you being directly involved or traceable to you. Good luck. 1 Like |
Re: Do I Tell My American Patient He's Being Scammed By A Nigerian Romance Scammer? by fabienjoe: 12:31pm On Aug 14, 2020 |
khia: You are certainly proving your knowledge of the US to me. Good Luck. No one ropes you into anything...except perhaps there's something you're hiding. Reporting a crime cannot create a problem for you, except you're running away from the law and don't wanna be busted..because once the police is involved, they would like to know your identity, including your status in the US.. |
Re: Do I Tell My American Patient He's Being Scammed By A Nigerian Romance Scammer? by tammie24: 12:46pm On Aug 14, 2020 |
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Re: Do I Tell My American Patient He's Being Scammed By A Nigerian Romance Scammer? by DeAlphaMale(m): 12:51pm On Aug 14, 2020 |
Damn tell the guy please ![]() |
Re: Do I Tell My American Patient He's Being Scammed By A Nigerian Romance Scammer? by emmatuegbe(m): 1:03pm On Aug 14, 2020 |
Please tell him, otherwise, if he eventually finds out, he will treat you like the scammer. Informing him will pass the message that not all Nigerians are dubious or fraud inclined. What if this guys eventually commits suicide, after exhausting himself out pursuing love, how would your life fare afterward. ALEX182: |
Re: Do I Tell My American Patient He's Being Scammed By A Nigerian Romance Scammer? by emmatuegbe(m): 1:05pm On Aug 14, 2020 |
Please tell him, otherwise, if he eventually finds out, he will treat you like the scammer. Informing him will pass the message that not all Nigerians are dubious or fraud inclined. What if this guys eventually commits suicide, after exhausting himself out pursuing love, how would your life fare afterward. ALEX182: |
Re: Do I Tell My American Patient He's Being Scammed By A Nigerian Romance Scammer? by Allsome: 1:18pm On Aug 14, 2020 |
NobleSeed: What are you saying ? What am I saying ? Where is the justification of fraud up there? They are they biggest fraudsters themselves. They just know how to keep their acts looking clean even when they are leaving you with the biggest damage. Them no holy, we no holy. Nobody holy pass. Them dey do us, we dey do them... Shikena. 1 Like |
Re: Do I Tell My American Patient He's Being Scammed By A Nigerian Romance Scammer? by kunkelhanspeter(m): 1:19pm On Aug 14, 2020 |
ERCROSS:The person is in Nigeria already do you think sending location will be a problem? Think again |
Re: Do I Tell My American Patient He's Being Scammed By A Nigerian Romance Scammer? by ogbonnachrys: 1:26pm On Aug 14, 2020 |
And intimidating people Ategberoson: |
Re: Do I Tell My American Patient He's Being Scammed By A Nigerian Romance Scammer? by enigmatique(m): 1:34pm On Aug 14, 2020 |
ALEX182: Hi ALEX182. For the sake of redeeming your own image as another Nigerian, I would actually prefer that you told him directly. He will be pained to hear the truth, but he will also know that it's not all Nigerians that are scammers or accomplices to the scamming that gets perpetuated by Nigerians. This is the same argument that J111333 was making when he encouraged you to tell him directly. I agree with him. So please tell him directly. On the other hand, consider what might happen if a social worker tells him on your behalf instead. Unless the social worker reveals you as the source of the info, he will eventually also look like at you in the light of the experience he has had with the scammer and not in the light of the person who saved him from the scam. It would have been best if he were not scammed at all, let alone by a Nigerian. But since he's being scammed by a Nigerian already, it would go a long way in redeeming your image as a Nigerian if he was also delivered from the trap by a Nigerian who saw the trouble he is in. Thanks. For your reference, the post by J111333 that I'm talking about is this: J111333: |
Re: Do I Tell My American Patient He's Being Scammed By A Nigerian Romance Scammer? by Nobody: 1:35pm On Aug 14, 2020 |
Nigerians are already in a bad light, thanks to these scammers. Showing him the videos won't put y'all in any light you're not already in. If you want Nigerians to stop being in a bad light (that they've put themselves in), you should tell them to desist from scamming others. I suggested showing him the videos as a means of proof that these romance scammers exist bc just talking to the patient may be ineffective. Many people here are already aware of these scams but there are people like this patient who aren't (they don't watch much Tv or the News, or YouTube, or they so badly want a relationship that they will believe the lies and cooked up stories of what their "lover"/ "girlfriend"/ "boyfriend" in Nigeria is telling them). I suggested he gets his family involved (if he knows them) bc it may be a family affair, depending on the person's story and bc family members are often unaware their loved ones are being defrauded and may know what to do to talk some sense into their loved one. In my city alone vulnerable individuals have sent over $100,000 of their money to Nigerian scammers. I remember watching an episode of Dr. Phil a year ago in which one man sent about $145,000 to his "girlfriend" in Nigeria and when Dr. Phil sent his people to Nigeria to meet her/investigate they couldn't find her as she/he had gone into hiding. It was a family affair bc the man had lost his wife years earlier and had just started dating again only to fall into the hands of a scammer in Nigeria. This has everything to do with Nigeria. I'm not afraid to call Nigerians out if I need to nor do I care about protecting any image most of you there don't care to protect yourself. nnekytravels: |
Re: Do I Tell My American Patient He's Being Scammed By A Nigerian Romance Scammer? by NobleSeed(m): 2:08pm On Aug 14, 2020 |
Allsome:stop that crap.... You no holy no me say the next person no holy. |
Re: Do I Tell My American Patient He's Being Scammed By A Nigerian Romance Scammer? by Amorprincesa24: 2:11pm On Aug 14, 2020 |
Please tell him. That girl/boy is a criminal. They are the ones giving Nigerians bad name. If there is a way that person can get arrested, that your friend should follow the protocol for complaints on scammers. Lazy youth! Stealing someone's hard earn money just for show offs. At the end they use it to buy cars just to oppress people who are doing legit. Rubbish! Heartless human being. 1 Like |
Re: Do I Tell My American Patient He's Being Scammed By A Nigerian Romance Scammer? by abbey621(m): 2:33pm On Aug 14, 2020 |
onoja12: That's your cup of tea and yours alone, I'm sure you wouldn't say this shit to a friend of mine who left 9ja for over 20 years only to return and on his way from the airpot he got robbed, his sister was shot, at the hospital they refused to treat her because of no police report, they spent 3 hours going from hospital to hospital and the one that accepted to treat her demanded 500k deposit. My guy had all his dollars stolen so no money, he had to call friends in the middle of the night to come to his aide, by the time the money came, the sister was dead. My guy frustrated and all, now had a dead body, the police detained him asking silly questions and no passport or identification to even think about getting back to the USA. For this person, would you spew the same bullshit? Would you tell him there's no place like 9ja and that he should be happy and patrotic? This is just one experience, if I showed you people with more experiences at the zoo called 9ja you would cry like a baby....Just maintain your lane and know that your opinion is? JUST YOUR OPINION! |
Re: Do I Tell My American Patient He's Being Scammed By A Nigerian Romance Scammer? by OgbeniSamm(m): 2:40pm On Aug 14, 2020 |
chukwuibuipob: I can always disagree with you bro, and there are times I might just not like your reasoning and judgment, but one thing is certain, it is that I really admire your commitment to your stupidity and foolishness. Keep it up� |
Re: Do I Tell My American Patient He's Being Scammed By A Nigerian Romance Scammer? by twilliamx(m): 2:42pm On Aug 14, 2020 |
Olude193: As at the time I checked ur post....check how many likes u had...
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Re: Do I Tell My American Patient He's Being Scammed By A Nigerian Romance Scammer? by nnekytravels: 2:48pm On Aug 14, 2020 |
OutsideTheBox: And I believe the word "Online Scam" was neither first used for us or developed for us. Think on that. |
Re: Do I Tell My American Patient He's Being Scammed By A Nigerian Romance Scammer? by Nobody: 2:49pm On Aug 14, 2020 |
VickyRotex: He already embarrassed himself on a Public Forum. Please don't make it that obvious ![]() 1 Like |
Re: Do I Tell My American Patient He's Being Scammed By A Nigerian Romance Scammer? by DexterousOne(m): 2:50pm On Aug 14, 2020 |
onoja12: What you typed up here makes no sense |
Re: Do I Tell My American Patient He's Being Scammed By A Nigerian Romance Scammer? by Chiblings: 2:55pm On Aug 14, 2020 |
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Re: Do I Tell My American Patient He's Being Scammed By A Nigerian Romance Scammer? by Nobody: 2:56pm On Aug 14, 2020 |
ALEX182: Too much oyinbo cheese bro! Reduce it because it dulls the mind ![]() That is why no matter how far I travel, I must to stay close to My Naija. Why? Street Wisdom too boku for Naija, Lagos to be Precise. No Dulling! Ngige sabi wetin hin dey talk when hin dey claim Lagos Boy by force ![]() |
Re: Do I Tell My American Patient He's Being Scammed By A Nigerian Romance Scammer? by DarkTruth: 3:03pm On Aug 14, 2020 |
Please Nigerians... Learn to mind your businesses. "Dem no dey tell person because everybody gast learn dia own lessons in life". He will definitely get over whatever the outcome will be but my brother, stay professional and mind your business. No matter how much you try to sugarcoat it, blacks will always be shits to the whites. There is never going to be an end to racism and the picture they get whenever they see the color of your skin. So all these *holier than thou* people should focus more on how to help poor Nigerians around them if they are so righteous and wants to do something good for anyone. People like me and the enlightened Nigerians knows there is never going to be a balanced in how the whites see the blacks. God bless Nigeria��, God bless Africa✊� 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Do I Tell My American Patient He's Being Scammed By A Nigerian Romance Scammer? by Nobody: 3:04pm On Aug 14, 2020 |
That doesn't matter. Irrelevant. nnekytravels: |
Re: Do I Tell My American Patient He's Being Scammed By A Nigerian Romance Scammer? by Hifeylove: 3:08pm On Aug 14, 2020 |
Are you NORMAL ![]() |
Re: Do I Tell My American Patient He's Being Scammed By A Nigerian Romance Scammer? by chukwuibuipob: 3:15pm On Aug 14, 2020 |
OgbeniSamm:U are stupid and defective upstairs.imbe ![]() |
Re: Do I Tell My American Patient He's Being Scammed By A Nigerian Romance Scammer? by VickyRotex(f): 3:30pm On Aug 14, 2020 |
donbuchi1: Nah. The OP said the patient mentioned WNV (West Nile virus). Besides, Lassa fever was more of an epidemic not pandemic. |
Re: Do I Tell My American Patient He's Being Scammed By A Nigerian Romance Scammer? by Amiblaize77(f): 3:39pm On Aug 14, 2020 |
Akanoaaa: Aamiin Aamiin Aamiin 1 Like |
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