Faber:


O boi stop derailing this thread...Guys like you are the problem of ladies. Ur mumu suppose don do or I tear u hot slap...that's why u registered some days back( precisely on 03 August 2020) to come here and fool yourself...ugly he goat. Ewu Kagoma.

Who's o boy?
Young man, stop trying to make a fooll out of yourself ehn.

I made it perfectly clear to her,i also told her i dont want to date her and she knows i have many girls so i dont need to lie by telling her about love, that was why i went straight to the point.

I forgot to tell u that she knows am dating her Boss but i dont care if she told her about what i said to her. Though i have not seen any change of attitude from her boss(her boss is sexier with balanced wicked butt that makes one scream dammnnnn!!).

You are right,that was why i dont call u her,i think why she said i should be the one to call is because she felt i wasnt serious by calling her often when she gave me her number.
Secondly, it will be improper for her to be one to call me when she has leave to come and fvck her.
She also has a boyfriend but i convinced her to skip her Bf for me,since mine is temporal.

I have not given a kobo b4,she even once said am stingy to her,i dont like to spend.

















quote author=Regex post=92858785]

The last thing a lady will tell you is she's not interested(no) when she can keep you around to inflate her ego and for other resources. Her actions should tell you whether or not you should continue.

From what you narrated, she's using you for a cruise. She told you to call her, that's the time you'd have asked her if she wouldn't call you when you don't. Her answer will tell you if you are going to stay or not.

Plus you wanna fu<k her, did you make it perfectly clear your intentions? [/quote]

Rawhumper:
Bro please i seek your advice,nobody knows it all thats why i need you to clarify this: Plz be patient to go thru it.

There is this chick i met somewhere,she should be around 20.
She has turned down multiple guys that have been asking her out.

I want to bleep not inlove with her,so i met her one day and told her i find her attractive and would like to take her out far away from the Estate where nobody will see us together.

She told me all those girls that call me on phone whenever i was in her workplace,am i not satisfied?

I told her its my nature,thats why am telling her am not in love with her cos if i said that i would be lying and also put her thru many hurts.

Las las she agreed and gave me her number,she said we only hang out when she is on leave cos she works from monday to monday and comes back 8pm everyday,truly no chance but whats bothering me is she doesnt call me nor reply my texts but told me to call her not later than 8:30pm in the night.

I seldom call her,but she makes me feel she isnt into me by all this though she accepted to have a fling with me(Even requested we spend time in a place far from our area when she is free).

Note during that time i told her if she doesnt want she should just tell me no so that i can move on,since love or sex is by force but she said i should be calling her from time to time to know when she will have leave,that she wont call me to inform me if i didnt call her.

I will appreciate your advice alot...
Thanks alot












quote author=Vecto post=92841069]

And this is why the player always have an edge over others. When a woman sees you have many women at your disposal, she believes you must be special, and like a prize, she tries to get you for herself. She tries to win you over. Unlike guys, she isn't in the least bit concerned if the guy is a flirt or not. She just wants that guy every lady wants. This is why the player will always have more women to his side, lol. With women, he gets MORE women. It's just the gospel truth. But the good guy, who tries to stick to one girl and be faithful to her will always have nothing but tears.

Truly women don't reason like men. They reason with their emotions.

I think it all boils down to concealing your intentions.
You already announced your motives, lol.
This is where you fück**d up.
This door is already closed and might never open again. See, everything about seduction is based on schemes. You should always conceal your intentions. You do not announce your intentions or reveal them directly in words.
If she has no clue what you are up to, she can never prepare a defense.
What you did is the same as walking up to a girl and telling her you have feelings for her LOL

Chii59:

Truly am a small boy
Young man, I'll stop making a fool
out of myself .

..

I feel you bro but you gat to know 40% of the girls i bleeped i told them straight on,even virgins among them...like the last girl i met in the bank and bleeped within two weeks turnef out to be a virgin(Corper serving in Jos but family resides here).


It has been working for me oo,its either they accept or say no but its not i tell them straight i want sex as if they are my wives but i use a pattern cos we all know,even a redpiller knows that once a guy approaches a lady,she already knows in her mind is sex we want but will pretend to find out the guys intentions.

Anyways i dont feel a thing if i dont blerp her,i have no emotional aytachement to her and i dont call her(sent texts).

Anywhere i visit, i like to keep one or two chicks around be it Church, School, Banks, Market,Hospital,Police Station,Barracks etc. I must have a chick standing by so i dont feel anything if anyone dissappoints.

Vecto:

I think it all boils down to concealing your intentions.
You already announced your motives, lol.
This is where you fück**d up.
This door is already closed and might never open again. See, everything about seduction is based on schemes. You should always conceal your intentions. You do not announce your intentions or reveal them directly in words.
If she has no clue what you are up to, she can never prepare a defense.
What you did is the same as walking up to a girl and telling her you have feelings for her LOL

Faber:

..

You're funny. Very funny.

Rawhumper:

I feel you bro but you gat to know 40% of the girls i bleeped i told them straight on,even virgins among them...like the last girl i met in the bank and bleeped within two weeks turnef out to be a virgin(Corper serving in Jos but family resides here).


It has been working for me oo,its either they accept or say no but its not i tell them straight i want sex as if they are my wives but i use a pattern cos we all know,even a redpiller knows that once a guy approaches a lady,she already knows in her mind is sex we want but will pretend to find out the guys intentions.

Anyways i dont feel a thing if i dont blerp her,i have no emotional aytachement to her and i dont call her(sent texts).

Anywhere i visit, i like to keep one or two chicks around be it Church, School, Banks, Market,Hospital,Police Station,Barracks etc. I must have a chick standing by so i dont feel anything if anyone dissappoints.

Quite true.


However, like you said, the lady in question has been forming hard-to-get and turning down proposals from many guys. And since you already know this before hand you should know the direct approach might not work out like it has been working out for you with the other ladies

If you give her some space she will come back to her senses

Listen here, Rawhumper:

Rollo Tomassi said something that I find exceedingly interesting in Positive Masculinity.

He said "Redpill is theoretical. Game is the Practical"

Ordinarily, the practical would be superior to the theoretical. But not in this case.

The theories of RedPill are the FUNDAMENTAL FOUNDATIONS that are necessary for what we call game.

They help you UNDERSTAND what makes game work. And until you do, you'll continue to fumble.

Not minding the fact that you have GAME...or a semblance of it - which I absolutely believe you have.

You have game (that's why you were able to bed the girls you have)...but you DEFINITELY do not understand the FUNDAMENTAL principles of REDPILL.


So I am going to tell you this ONLY once, so pay attention:

NEVER IN YOUR LIFE ALLOW A WOMAN TO TELL YOU WHAT TO DO...NEVER!!!

No amount of excuses/reasons would justify allowing that rubbish.

What's so difficult in calling you. And you're even trying to justify her actions that "she can't be calling you to come and f*ck her."

Here's a fact:

You're NOT going to f*CK her.

You want to F*CK her.

And she wants to F*CK you.

You both want to F*CK each other. It's a two-way thing.

So let that SINK in...

I'd advise you to FORGET about that girl completely...

Your neediness is already seeping through your posts, despite the fact that you claim otherwise.

Do yourself a favour and READ "The Rational Male: Positive Masculinity" by Rollo Tomassi...so you can refine your crude game.

I will do bro that but if i stop talking to her whenever i visit her office she may think am childish maybe because i have not heard from her.So how do i go about that when i come around her workplace.

Yeah bro,i have received calls in her front before telling girls on phone how i enjoyed sex with them,she heard them even when they call me asking me when i visit them again.
To crown it all she knows am having something with her senior colleague so i dont want to compound the whole thing by telling her about love or wasting my time to date her.

Giving her space will be a good idea,but one thing with me is if i lose interest in a girl i have lost it forever.

Same thing happened with a girl,she was delaying till i travelled and came back 2years later,when she met and told me about hanging out i told her to forget about so i never slept with her.
Same will happen to this one,and i dont give a shit if i bleeped her or not.

I dig it out with the ladies,the know i dont really give a crap but at same time i like them...thats the mystery about me.


Thanks so much for your invaluable advice










quote author=Vecto post=92862587]

Quite true.


However, like you said, the lady in question has been forming hard-to-get and turning down proposals from many guys. And since you already know this before hand you should know the direct approach might not work out like it has been working out for you with the other ladies

If you give her some space she will come back to her senses [/quote]

GLYCOLYSISS:
--- A woman’s uppity moral facade is no more than a shaming mechanism designed to manipulate men into deference. Be shameless in your convictions, lest you allow her to co-opt you with guilt.

.

Shamelessness is a trait men lack and it is a very important character to have when dealing with women. Men always want to be seen as responsible and honest but get punished for it.

Bro you are intelligent but not perfect,yes you sensed my concern and mistook it for neediness.
Its just that she has really kept me in suspense,why i didnt delete her and gave her benefit of doubt is her work closes 8:30pm from Mon to monday.

Just 10mins ago my neighbours niece called me telling me do i want to kill her for not calling her throughout today?

Sure i have game and it has really put plenty women and girls for my pleasure.

You have to understand to everything,there is modification but we ask if that modification can be of help or not from this statement one can deduce that Redpill theory can be modified to suit a particular situation.

Hence i can say that if the advice of a lady will be of benefit to me and prevent me from doom,i will heed it bro sometimes in life its good to be flexible for two heads are better than one.

I appreciate your teachings and i always learn under you guys and know am willing to learn more from you and others,tapping from your wisdom.
Thanks man

SkyFlint:
Listen here, Rawhumper:

Rollo Tomassi said something that I find exceedingly interesting in Positive Masculinity.

He said "Redpill is theoretical. Game is the Practical"

Ordinarily, the practical would be superior to the theoretical. But not in this case.

The theories of RedPill are the FUNDAMENTAL FOUNDATIONS that are necessary for what we call game.

They help you UNDERSTAND what makes game work. And until you do, you'll continue to fumble.

Not minding the fact that you have GAME...or a semblance of it - which I absolutely believe you have.

You have game (that's why you were able to bed the girls you have)...but you DEFINITELY do not understand the FUNDAMENTAL principles of REDPILL.


So I am going to tell you this ONLY once, so pay attention:

NEVER IN YOUR LIFE ALLOW A WOMAN TO TELL YOU WHAT TO DO...NEVER!!!

No amount of excuses/reasons would justify allowing that rubbish.

What's so difficult in calling you. And you're even trying to justify her actions that "she can't be calling you to come and f*ck her."

Here's a fact:

You're NOT going to f*CK her.

You want to F*CK her.

And she wants to F*CK you.

You both want to F*CK each other. It's a two-way thing.

So let that SINK in...

I'd advise you to FORGET about that girl completely...

Your neediness is already seeping through your posts, despite the fact that you claim otherwise.

Do yourself a favour and READ "The Rational Male: Positive Masculinity" by Rollo Tomassi...so you can refine your crude game.

When it comes to playing mind games,women have no shame. This is why they do what they do and feel happy about it.

I'm already training myself in the art of shamelessness. It's not been easy but I know it can be achieved.

Epositive:

Future ~ Mask off Meek Mill ~ Respect the game Chris Brown ft Lil Wayne & Tyga ~ Loyal
You are welcome

Duncan mighty ft wizkid_ Fake love

Rawhumper:
I made it perfectly clear to her,i also told her i dont want to date her and she knows i have many girls so i dont need to lie by telling her about love, that was why i went straight to the point.

I forgot to tell u that she knows am dating her Boss but i dont care if she told her about what i said to her. Though i have not seen any change of attitude from her boss(her boss is sexier with balanced wicked butt that makes one scream dammnnnn!!).

You are right,that was why i dont call u her,i think why she said i should be the one to call is because she felt i wasnt serious by calling her often when she gave me her number.
Secondly, it will be improper for her to be one to call me when she has leave to come and fvck her.
She also has a boyfriend but i convinced her to skip her Bf for me,since mine is temporal.

I have not given a kobo b4,she even once said am stingy to her,i dont like to spend.

Then forget about her. It's not improper for her to call you and tell you when she's on leave. It's all in your head.

luminouz:


Learn new words on a relationship forum? Most of those big ass words are better reserved for English students,not online peeps who want to get the message ASAP. Much of the message is lost in ambiguous words and its really a wasted effort on the OP's part. Now, many peeps dont even know what he wanted to pass across to them.

Who lost? Me? Nope....
OP? Oh yeah!!!

Oga download dictionary and check the words you do not understand. Don't be hard on yourself.

GLYCOLYSISS:
--Women are Machiavellian as water is wet.
The angelic,innocent and princess mental image of them you hold,to the trash can it belongs .

my brother women are really dangerous... seeing what my sister do to men.. chai... it's deadly to be a simp..

GLYCOLYSISS:
--Women are solipsistic, not abstractive. They do not care about things that do not affect them. If you want a woman to care about something, you have to show her how it affects her on a personal level. Otherwise, she will be disinterested and indifferent.

100%

I'm reading things

liveyourlife007:
Oga download dictionary and check the words you do not understand. Don't be hard on yourself.

K

Chii59:


I am very useless and funny. Very funny and useless indeed.

GLYCOLYSISS:
--Damaged women try to lead other women into degeneracy to equally damage them.

They can't feel pride in who they are, what they've done and are haunted by how they're perceived by the world

To level the playing field, they glorify the behavior to entice others on the path to hell.
Feminism,nudity and single mothers [ baby mamas ] are celebrated for a reason.

Truth of truths.

When you meet a woman for the first time
You are meeting her Agent
They front their Best Personality
( no flaws 100yard wife material)
if you notice you get less impressed as time goes on

Faber:

You are funny though. Look, insults won't get you anywhere with me.

2dice01:
When you meet a woman for the first time
You are meeting her Agent
They front their Best Personality
( no flaws 100yard wife material)
if you notice you get less impressed as time goes on

Funny enough, I put my worst foot forward.
Day 1, "Nice to meet you. I have Sickle Cell. And by the way, I hate cooking" I think I managed to scare off a couple
Growing up with boys made me care less what males think. Person wey like you like you regardless of how ugly your bad sides are (though you should try to work on your weaknesses).

Martinez39s:
Weak married western men, and some weak married African men (unfortunately), can relate. All in the name of being a feminist husband that supports "female rights" they provide 100% and participate in the duties of their wives duties their wives should have relieved them off. It didn't occur to them that "no traditional wife, no fulfillment of traditional roles." Simps!

Lol. Some western women r like this. Cos if Ur a family man n got wife n kids then the wife should know what the husband is upto. Same goes Vice Versa. Some are just too controlling tho. Although I believe if U love someone U consider their feelings on things U do. Also goes for relationship with just bf and gf. Is just how it is here. But some go too far n treat their man bad. I guess is just different cultures but there are many happy relationships in western countries too

GLYCOLYSISS:
-- Women loathe being sexually objectified by lesser men, crafting their disgust for the unworthy into a veneer of moral superiority. Yet hidden within this guise of upright disgust is a depraved desire to be objectified by a powerful man. The weak man gets nothing, the strong man enjoys her perversions.

and also, the harsh treatment the top men give a woman they don't like, the woman herself passes the same harsh treatment to the men she doesn't like. As a form of revenge..

GLYCOLYSISS:
-- The 90 days rule by Steve Harvey is one of the most ridiculous rule in contemporary sexual market place.
A woman is going to f*ck a hot guy she just met that she found arousing within a short time frame,and believe " it just happened",but make rules for another guy she is not sexually attracted to;

-"let me think about it"

-"let's just be friends"

- " I'm not comfortable with you , yet".

Always remember these ,guys.

that is why Men must only deal with women who like lust them. If you don't make a woman's pussy wet just don't bother with her. If a woman's vagina doesn't tingle when she sees you, you're wasting your time.

If a woman finds you a turn on, she'll fvckk you now. Nevermind she's married or you're ugly. Most men have never seen their GF and wife's Lust side. Because they don't turn their wives on since women date and marry for money not sex. Women don't marry men who turn them on. They marry men who can provide. And I'll say about 90% of men in relationships don't know what their women look like when in Lust. And they'll never know. Because the women don't Lust these men. Men marry women they Lust over. But women CHEAT WITH men they Lust over.

Many guys have seen a woman talk to a great guy and she gets tongue-tied, and struggles to breathe and coughs a little. She's overwhelmed by the man. And only if the men knew what is happening between her legs!! That pussy is pulsating like a living breathing thing. When a woman feels this way, for a stranger, it won't matter he's a stranger, or she's married etc, she'll fvckk him. NOW. And chances are she'll fvckk him raw. Women in lust have 0% self control and 0% reasoning.

And tomorrow she will say, "I don't know what came over me!"

The Lust of women need to be studied more and watched out for.

Snow02:
met her where we worked bitch was held in high esteem saw herself as a reserved smart independent blah blah blah as for me I was rugged, careless outspoken never talked safe around her didn't know everytime I talked her panties got wet she told me she doesn't have interest in being sexually involved with anyone I kept calling bullshit in just 2 weeks of working together bitch started kissing on me and begging to give me head lmao I got to discover she was even a Virgin lmao I stopped listening to females when they talk all that talk from that point onwards tried having a relationship with her after I quit working there but mehn

Skmoda360:

I won't lie to you bro...there is this lady I used to talk dirty with almost every time on phone with to the extent she has begged me to stop calling her that my voice use to get her dripping wet, I was confused at first but I later realise that it's what have been saying over time that's making her drip...up till date she is still calling and now she is married but I'm ignoring her advances lately because I don't wanna sleep with another man's woman....

ubunja:
lol when a woman can't string a sentence together when she's talking to you it's a good sign.

With women's Lust the biggest problem is that men can't read the clues. Lust can't be negotiated. It's either you turn a woman on or you don't. Most men are clueless as to the signs when they DO turn a woman on.
And women will be turned on by the craziest most insignificant thing. Especially the least thing a man expects women to be turned on by.

What needs to be explained is the difference between attraction and Lust. A neatly dressed handsome man is attractive. But doesn't mean he turns a woman on. The things that usually turn women on are the raw things of biology, divested from the artificial like clothes etc. Women have been made wet by a man's voice. His walk. His look. His body. Rarely does a man's face or Money turn a woman on. But these two will draw many women to a man. But it's only a surface attraction. That's why during sex the stylishly dressed man and the Rich man will still find the woman's pussy dry and they have to lick on it for ages to get the juices flowing. Meanwhile, all it takes is for someone to give that lady just a call, and by his voice alone, make the woman's pussy cream and drip like a tap.

Then there's that guilty look that turns women on. It has been mentioned a lot online by women as something that turns them on. You know that look that a guy has when he knows he has done something bad. That look of shame. IT MAKES PUSSIES GUSH OUT WATER. men need to master it. But it's hard because most men were designed to mask and hide that look.

And then there's that sneaky look. Where you look at a woman by the side of your eye. It's another thing that makes women's juices flow. Here the look signifies to women that a man is a scumbag who likes to do socially unacceptable things hence he's used to checking out women secretly. Hence the side eye glance. Women like it a lot because they've been using it for ages to check out men they like.

The there's the dead eye look... Let me stop here. I can go on for ages.

This post by a girl explains everything I'm talking about...

https://www.nairaland.com/6077335/boyfriend-im-sexually-attracted-someone#93224247

ItsTerah:
I know I'm going to get alot of insults from you guys and that's why I didn't use my original Nairaland account for this, but please hear me out and give me good advice.

I'm the kind of girl that doesn't love easily. I don't think I've ever fallen in love before. I have dated just one guy and I broke up with him when he tried to rape me. I'm still a virgin and the reason is because I have trust issues. I know that if I have sex with a guy I'll become very attached and my heart can easily be broken. So I'm waiting for a guy I can trust.

I recently just started dating someone. I'm not in love with him but we've been very good friends and when he asked me out I just had to say yes so that I wouldn't lose him. I've still not had sex with him and I like that he respects my wishes. My boyfriend loves me and although I don't love him equally I've opened up to him about how difficult it is for me to reciprocate love.

Then there is this other guy I just became friends with. I won't lie, I'm sexually attracted to this guy. My sexual attraction to him intensified when he opened up to me about his kinks which are similar to mine. He told me he has feelings for me and likes me alot and can't get me out of his mind. I admitted I am sexually attracted to him but that I don't have feelings for him. I know he is sexually attracted to me and has made advances at me and even asked for nude pictures all of which I refused. But I still talk to him. He knows about my boyfriend and is aware of my situation. Occasionally he flirts with me but I try not to flirt back. I've tried to bury my sexual attraction to him but he is just so physically appealing. I've made it clear that I want to be just friends and he seems okay with it. I know I'm principled enough to not allow him have sex with me I'm wondering if it's safe being just friends with him. I enjoy talking to him and don't want to end our friendship.

liveyourlife007:
Duncan mighty ft wizkid_ Fake love

Alhaji(who's Your Daddy)- Ycee
Something Light-ycee
One Ticket- Kiss Daniel

Nyamuriflathead:


Alhaji(who's Your Daddy)- Ycee

Something Light-ycee

One Ticket- Kiss Daniel

In Jagaban Remix ft Olamide he said

Am the kind of Guy that nacks Oga madam
The Type that make your Baby(girlfriend) runaway with an Okada-man


He was justifying the saying
Money is just makeup to Guys without Game

GLYCOLYSISS:
-- A woman scarcely matures past 18. She simply becomes pickier and more entitled with age, mistaking self-aggrandisement for enlightenment, although such is the contrary. Likewise, women infinitely obsess over the maturity of individuals, using it as a point of contention to manipulate people. And so it is with profound deadpan irony that women shit test men on their maturity, deeming male behaviour they disagree with as boylike. Women mature faster than men, but they do not mature for as long as men. As such, they mature less.

I have known this from my teenage years

[i][/i]

GLYCOLYSISS:
--Women are perpetual adolescents. Women mistake confidence and preferences with maturity, but such things are neither. Assertiveness is not maturity. Maturity is measured by the level of responsibility one can assume, as well as the capacity to sufficiently cope with the pressure that said responsibility entails. Women perform poorly on both metrics in comparison to their male counterparts

GLYCOLYSISS:
-- If you’re not a man who is comfortably masculine, women will emotionally abuse you until you finally learn to be masculine. Their nature, although unintended, perversely serves in much the manner that tough love does. How she hurts you will give you the impetus necessary to become a better man. It is women who drive men to the red pill.

I have said this on this forum on many thread