Shugavee:
Very important

Zzor:
yes ooo, all this Penis people that we have around these days sef LMAO

Shugavee:
Very important

yanabasee1:
Stingy how?




Women and their fishbrain....


You asked a man for something and he says he doesn't have it or he won't give you. You asked again the second and probably the third time and he gives the same answer and booom....He's stingy....


A woman told me that, if she's working and her man isn't giving her money for her upkeep and she is using her money then she's not in a relationship and will end such relationship. What nonsense...!!


If a woman go out and hustle and make her little money. shell begin to see men as trash and sees herself as a goddess.... If she manage buy car with her money, she'll ensure that social media will capture her to stupor.


Golddiggers everywhere....

MJBOLT:

it takes a serial begger to know a stingy person

lightangel65i:
Go and work

Shugavee:
Very important

UDUJ:


Last time I checked you always identified yourself as a proud feminist. The feminists I know are proud independent women and not women with an entitlement mentality. I expected better from you as a longtime nairalander. You just paved the way for these newbies and teens to attack and demean your personality.

Your post reeks of acute entitlement mentality and suggests your own type of feminism is the Nigerian poverty centric type of feminism. Sad.

MJBOLT:

it takes a serial begger to know a stingy person

Zzor:
yes ooo, all this Penis people that we have around these days sef LMAO

Rgade:

God bless all men out there that won't let themselves be fleeced of their hard earned money by these creatures with nothing but vagina and a huge sense of entitlement.
Those creatures aren't even qualified to be described with the adjective "stingy".

Shugavee:
Very important

cooooooks:
"Penis people"?

cooooooks:
Do NOT go for women who offer little to nothing.

Go for women who want to be partners. You yourself should want a real partnership.

Don't say you want independent women who want equality and then try and take all the space in the relationship.

Like the confused guy who wanted his wife to leave the oil job paying 3 times his own salary in Lagos to come and join him in PH.

Chii59:

The problem I have with some young adults is that they don't know what they want.
For every choice you make there are Pros and Cons.
For example, the advantage of dating an independent woman is that she's bringing something to the table.
On the flip side, that independent side of her will never allow her to be fully submissive. She has seen life, probably gone through different men, and is most likely around late 20s and above.

On the other hand, a young, docile 19 year old is younger, maybe prettier but most likely jobless.
You're going to have to spend on her.
She may or may not question your moves, but then she hasn't really experienced life. She might even be childish.

The problem is that a lot of young men (in this case) want to HAVE IT ALL.
An independent yet submissive, woman who pays her fair share of the bills and has no problem obeying whatever he says.
You can't have it all.

Chii59:

The problem I have with some young adults is that they don't know what they want.
For every choice you make there are Pros and Cons.
For example, the advantage of dating an independent woman is that she's bringing something to the table.
On the flip side, that independent side of her will never allow her to be fully submissive. She has seen life, probably gone through different men, and is most likely around late 20s and above.

On the other hand, a young, docile 19 year old is younger, maybe prettier but most likely jobless.
You're going to have to spend on her.
She may or may not question your moves, but then she hasn't really experienced life. She might even be childish.

The problem is that a lot of young men (in this case) want to HAVE IT ALL.
An independent yet submissive, woman who pays her fair share of the bills and has no problem obeying whatever he says.
You can't have it all.

cooooooks:
Till date, I don't know what the bolded means. This submission term is thrown around willy nilly without a clear definition of what it means. Abi are people talking about BDSM?

I think sometimes people are not truthful. They say what they think they should desire. What they have heard other people say is 'normal'.

UDUJ:


You are a smart woman. Points well laid out.

Chii59:

Bdsm . More like dom-sub right?
I don't even know why someone should be demanding submission from a supposed "partner".
I mean if we're partners, why should one person be expected to submit to the other.
Simple!
Marriage in Nigeria in many cases is not a partnership. But at best a leader-follower relationship. Some are even master-slave kind of situationship.

cooooooks:
A lot of people seem to want the leader-follower relationship. Even in churches.

Very strange for me because that's not how ANY of the marriages in my paternal extended family is. It's like a culture shock in my own country.

At least if it is the real BDSM, it is understandable

Trex4:
What exactly happened to being a feminist and having your own money? Isn't it Degrading to women to think that any man coming into your life must have monetary and financial value? Like a beggar and a giver sort of dichotomy?