Mcleo007:
Losing one's partner especially at a young age is one of the biggest emotional trauma that can happen to anyone.

I lost my wife 3 weeks ago due to complications from childbirth. Our son didn't make it too. The saddest part is that I walked her into the theatre myself as she was to undergo an emergency c-section due to foetal distress as they said. She was full of life, gisted and pranked all the way. My world came down shattered when I saw the nurses running helter-skelter a few minutes after I left her off at the theatre room.

It's mysterious really how your life can be going so well, and in one blink, it comes down to pieces. We were first friends for a few years before becoming lovers, then decided to tie the knot this year in between her getting pregnant.

She was my best friend and we shared a close bond. We got married just May this year, which meant the marriage lasted just 4 months.

Family and friends would expect you to brace up and move on, but trust me the grief never go away. The grief hit harder in the mornings when I wake up; thoughts of the life we had, what we would have had had she not died, the many plans we made and so on.

I know I will survive, at least I know she would want me to.

Mcleo007:
Losing one's partner especially at a young age is one of the biggest emotional trauma that can happen to anyone.

I lost my wife 3 weeks ago due to complications from childbirth. Our son didn't make it too. The saddest part is that I walked her into the theatre myself as she was to undergo an emergency c-section due to foetal distress as they said. She was full of life, gisted and pranked all the way. My world came down shattered when I saw the nurses running helter-skelter a few minutes after I left her off at the theatre room.

It's mysterious really how your life can be going so well, and in one blink, it comes down to pieces. We were first friends for a few years before becoming lovers, then decided to tie the knot this year in between her getting pregnant.

She was my best friend and we shared a close bond. We got married just May this year, which meant the marriage lasted just 4 months.

Family and friends would expect you to brace up and move on, but trust me the grief never go away. The grief hit harder in the mornings when I wake up; thoughts of the life we had, what we would have had had she not died, the many plans we made and so on.

I know I will survive, at least I know she would want me to.

Mcleo007:
Losing one's partner especially at a young age is one of the biggest emotional trauma that can happen to anyone.

I lost my wife 3 weeks ago due to complications from childbirth. Our son didn't make it too. The saddest part is that I walked her into the theatre myself as she was to undergo an emergency c-section due to foetal distress as they said. She was full of life, gisted and pranked all the way. My world came down shattered when I saw the nurses running helter-skelter a few minutes after I left her off at the theatre room.

It's mysterious really how your life can be going so well, and in one blink, it comes down to pieces. We were first friends for a few years before becoming lovers, then decided to tie the knot this year in between her getting pregnant.

She was my best friend and we shared a close bond. We got married just May this year, which meant the marriage lasted just 4 months.

Family and friends would expect you to brace up and move on, but trust me the grief never go away. The grief hit harder in the mornings when I wake up; thoughts of the life we had, what we would have had had she not died, the many plans we made and so on.

I know I will survive, at least I know she would want me to.

morireoluwagba:
I just lost my husband on Sunday..
The News was all over Nairaland and Blogs!

Am so devastated,So Directionless and So Hopeless

morireoluwagba:
I just lost my husband on Sunday..
The News was all over Nairaland and Blogs!

Am so devastated,So Directionless and So Hopeless

morireoluwagba:
I just lost my husband on Sunday..
The News was all over Nairaland and Blogs!

Am so devastated,So Directionless and So Hopeless

morireoluwagba:
I just lost my husband on Sunday..
The News was all over Nairaland and Blogs!

Am so devastated,So Directionless and So Hopeless

serubawon:
We celebrated our 4th Anniversary last week. With God, all things are possible and that's the truth. Everyone stay safe out there in this new normal.

Wow! Let me be the first person to wish you a big congratulations sir. May the Lord continue to bless and uphold your home. Thank you so much for starting this thread. Your posts on this thread and life story really made an impact in my life and also gave me the strength to carry on. More blessings for you and your family sir.

serubawon:
We celebrated our 4th Anniversary last week. With God, all things are possible and that's the truth. Everyone stay safe out there in this new normal.

DivineGrace123:


Wow! Let me be the first person to wish you a big congratulations sir. May the Lord continue to bless and uphold your home. Thank you so much for starting this thread. Your posts on this thread and life story really made an impact in my life and also gave me the strength to carry on. More blessings for you and your family sir.

bukatyne:


Congratulations! God bless your home.

serubawon:
We celebrated our 4th Anniversary last week. With God, all things are possible and that's the truth. Everyone stay safe out there in this new normal.

Charisec:
Whao...What a man @serubawon.

I stumbled on this thread today and I wasn't able to stop reading until I finished the thread Thank God so much for you...the sacrifices, patient and your resolute faith in God. I thank God things are going great with you and olori.

I was a fanatical follower of Pst Bim and her teachings. I cried my eyes out on the day she passed on. The way I grieved for days shocked my wife back then. what a blessing she was!

When God heals us, He gives us the capacity to heal others with the healing we have received. Your story has done that to countless

You are an amazing writer/Storyteller. How I wish I have 20% of you abilities.

Multipled Blessings bro and much love to Olori

Afromentalist:
This is a very inspiring thread. I read all the pages in a few hours.

@Serubawon,

Be encouraged you and your family and may the work of your hand continue to flourish and prosper. Greetings to yours.

NoToPile:
This oga serubawon and his wife are just shining and glowing year in year out.



Countinue shining in his glory, many more years to you and olori.

DivineGrace123:


Wow! Let me be the first person to wish you a big congratulations sir. May the Lord continue to bless and uphold your home. Thank you so much for starting this thread. Your posts on this thread and life story really made an impact in my life and also gave me the strength to carry on. More blessings for you and your family sir.

serubawon:
We celebrated our 4th Anniversary last week. With God, all things are possible and that's the truth. Everyone stay safe out there in this new normal.

hothuntee:
What a wonderful timeline. I tap anyone who is in your former shoes into the grace of your new shoes. Amen.
Don't mind my shoe prayers. Lol.
More wins. I should be approximately two decades younger but with what I have read here, I feel wiser than I am.
2006, hmmm... Nairaland in her days of glory....* Sighs again*

serubawon:
We celebrated our 4th Anniversary last week. With God, all things are possible and that's the truth. Everyone stay safe out there in this new normal.

Kemmy210:

Congratulations to you and your lovely wife sir. More joyful years together in Jesus name, amen

Amopeekun:
Keep smiling sir...
Congratulations on your anniversary

serubawon:


Thank you so much sir.

serubawon:
One more picture for the road.

TheCongo2:


Wow...what a thread! Started in 2006.
That is the best on Nairaland.

How old are your kids now?