Nuttella:
And full time being cheated on.

jornwhite:




In a bid to convince yourself you ended up confused, western learning brought self realization to women.
if we are to deduce from God"s curse to the woman i see no duties beyond what a full housewife does.

Hathor5:


Even if my husband was Dangote, I would feel like my talents and education are being wasted without something to do outside the home.

mariahAngel:


As long as they understand each other, I see no problem with it.

A woman who stays at home does not mean she's idle.
If you understand what it takes to keep the home going on a daily basis, you'll know that it is not easy.

saaphiere:
Watch the video first. She doesn't say there is something wrong in being a housewife. She said there's something wrong when a housewife becomes a liability.

Hathor5:


Really? It wasn't the abuse of power that men have exercised over their dependent wives?

Nuttella:
Housewife spotted. Find something doing before its too late, your husband might not be alive forever, God forbid he dies, how will you feed your kids?. Think!

Palema007:
I believe this woman here is trying to make Women see that they are Human beings with breath in them. However in order not to sound like woke Christians or Feminists she has to include the "being an asset to the Husband" phrase but her last two statements shows her intention "Don't die as a woman" "Die as an institution" .
Believe me, I see nothing wrong with her words, I understand what is like preaching self development/ Living a purposeful life amongst women in a church setting. It is something you will always try to balance not to come off as a Rebel. Lol.

Only the wise will get the message, which is true. Women should stop living their lives for marriage, there's more to life than that. But if anyone believe otherwise, well that's her choice.And no she isn't wrong for it.We can't all lead.

bukatyne:


I think you should think before quoting me next time.

Acidosis:

The things pastors say without biblical understanding. Where did you get the word "housewife"?

She and her likes need to shut the fck up and allow husbands and wives make whatever decisions they want regarding their finance.

So long as they don't come to you to beg for food or advice, you have no right over their decisions.

Zzor:
can you agree to being a full time housewife? anyways Men these days don't even want their wives to be full time housewife,they prefer the working class women so as to contribute financially in running the home affairs

pocohantas:


Then she has a point, though liability itself is relative. If we consider a housewife a liability because she isn’t working from home (business). Doesn’t that mean we have trivialized something as important as childcare? Something we outsource and pay for? I hope you get my point, sis.

Peace2love:
A full time housewife that devote her time to raise godly children is a Blessing PLC limited to the society than a career women (wife) that neglected her role as a mother all in the name of making more money for the family. Rapist, kidnappers, and the like are products of our mothers in responsibility.

mariahAngel:


As long as they understand each other, I see no problem with it.

A woman who stays at home does not mean she's idle.
If you understand what it takes to keep the home going on a daily basis, you'll know that it is not easy.

NoToPile:
The way people just lift a line is quite alarming, I just watched the video and that was just a statement that was made.

Other things like humility worshiping the lord not being proud, being an asset to your husband and destiny were mentioned infact they were mentioned in fact they were the main parts of the short video.

Nuttella:
And full time being cheated on.

BrainResetter:

prophetfire:
. Being a house wife, does it make a woman a slave? Though I would not want my wife to be house wife but it doesn't put women in any cage. I have seen very good and happy housewives. A friend who works in the oil industry and his wife is a lawyer, they decided the woman stay at home for the kids and she left her legal patnership and they are happy.

deliveryboy:

Good thought process.

Acidosis:


Well, I do not believe that taking up a job will solve marital issues that are related to disrespect, insults, and abuse of power.

The kind of men that insult women without a paid job will still insult you if you take up a job that takes all or most of your time.

If he insults you because you're jobless, he would still insult you for sleeping with your boss or spending little time with your kids.

You cannot help a bad man by taking up a job. If a man is bad, then he's bad. This is why I strongly condemn her message.

saaphiere:
I am seeing someone getting pained because women are about being emancipated from men cage.
Cry me a river

Nuttella:
Its only a lazy woman that will want to be a housewife.

Hathor5:


Nobody said a working woman can't be abused but she is more likely to have the financial power to walk out.

And if the husband decides that he wants a younger woman in his life she has something to fall back on.

Focusing all your energy on one aspect of your life is dangerous. It's like investing all your money in one stock. A smart investor will divide his investments and scatter shares.

Acidosis:


Well, I do not believe that taking up a job will solve marital issues that are related to disrespect, insults, and abuse of power.

The kind of men that insult women without a paid job will still insult you if you take up a job that takes all or most of your time.

If he insults you because you're jobless, he would still insult you for sleeping with your boss or spending little time with your kids.

You cannot help a bad man by taking up a job. If a man is bad, then he's bad. This is why I strongly condemn her message.

Acidosis:


Well, I do not believe that taking up a job will solve marital issues that are related to disrespect, insults, and abuse of power.

The kind of men that insult women without a paid job will still insult you if you take up a job that takes all or most of your time.

If he insults you because you're jobless, he would still insult you for sleeping with your boss or spending little time with your kids.


You cannot help a bad man. If a man is bad, then he's bad.

mariahAngel:


No, she's not a lazy woman.
Don't let society becloud your judgment.
Women, especially mothers are the most sacrificing being on earth. They give and don't ask to be rewarded, although they should.
The least that they deserve is acknowledgment for their sacrifice.
Women have been scammed into proving themselves that in the process, they overexert themselves at the detriment of themselves. They shouldn't have to.
I learnt a valuable lesson recently about the sacrifices mothers make that are taken for granted.
When you see a woman, who's willing to give herself for the progress of her home and raising of the children, praise her and don't undermine her effort. It is not easy.

Reference:


What is there? Details please.

Lexusgs430:



If your husband was dangote.......... Your talents and education, would be naturally wasted........

bukatyne:


Don't be too quick to quote someone.

Read, understand then quote if you want to discuss.

pocohantas:
People like her need to understand women are different and couples are different too. There is nothing wrong in being a housewife. It is the sacrifice some women pay for the smooth running of their homes.

As long as they are both okay with it and do not go begging for urgent 2k, you can only wish them well.