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Re: Pastor Funke Adejumo: Full Time Housewife Is Full Time Suffering PLC Limited by Nobody: 7:11pm On Aug 16, 2020 |
Acidosis:POINT OF CORRECTION. These are not PASTORS but MOTIVATIONAL SPEAKERS and BUSINESSMEN in the ?Lord. ![]() ![]() ![]() They can motivate you to become a YAHOO YAHOO representative. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() NIGERIA in itself does not have Pastors. However, The REAL PASTORS in NIGERIA occupy just 1% of the entire people parading themselves as pastors. 2 Likes |
Re: Pastor Funke Adejumo: Full Time Housewife Is Full Time Suffering PLC Limited by Primusinterpares(m): 7:12pm On Aug 16, 2020 |
So the woman should be working like earning salary or making profit from her business. While this is good we should not make it seams like the ones not earning salaries or doing business are failures. A woman is to support the husband as per help meet. It's doesn't revolve around financial assistance only. In keeping the home, raising the kids, encouraging the man, managing the home etc. See some "housewives" do more as house wives than being salary earners/ business people. Las Las couple should stick to what works for them. let no person (irrespective of who they are) come up with an idea that's working for them to impose on others. Having a salary earning wife / Business owner might work for some while having a full time house wife might work for others. Just stick to what works for you as a couple and always make the Bible your manual for the family. Not what someone says. #my2kobo 4 Likes |
Re: Pastor Funke Adejumo: Full Time Housewife Is Full Time Suffering PLC Limited by bukatyne(f): 7:12pm On Aug 16, 2020 |
Nuttella: Dear, That is the problem. When all you have is a hammer, you see every problem as a nail. I sympathize with your friend however don't project their issues and your insecurities on me. Read my posts, understand them and ask intelligent questions if you need to. Stop reading my posts through your biased lenses. 4 Likes |
Re: Pastor Funke Adejumo: Full Time Housewife Is Full Time Suffering PLC Limited by Hathor5(f): 7:12pm On Aug 16, 2020 |
mariahAngel: I really wish they did. 2 Likes |
Re: Pastor Funke Adejumo: Full Time Housewife Is Full Time Suffering PLC Limited by Sterope(f): 7:13pm On Aug 16, 2020 |
That is quite harsh and frankly unreasonable. If it is a sustainable and independent choice, why not? Is the either party complaining? 2 Likes |
Re: Pastor Funke Adejumo: Full Time Housewife Is Full Time Suffering PLC Limited by Primusinterpares(m): 7:13pm On Aug 16, 2020 |
EVILFOREST:Your last sentence is the fact. Many motivational speakers parading as pastors. 1 Like |
Re: Pastor Funke Adejumo: Full Time Housewife Is Full Time Suffering PLC Limited by mariahAngel(f): 7:13pm On Aug 16, 2020 |
Nuttella: You undermined by calling her lazy. |
Re: Pastor Funke Adejumo: Full Time Housewife Is Full Time Suffering PLC Limited by Nobody: 7:14pm On Aug 16, 2020 |
Primusinterpares:Have you FORGOTTEN how NIGERIAN PASTORS talk..? They talk as if they have the KEYS to the GATE OF HELL and HEAVEN ![]() ![]() IF you give NIGERIAN PASTORS opportunity they would want to dethrone GOD. They are annoying and preposterous. I pity people attending such Churches. Education has nothing to do with WISDOM. .... a WHITE MAN brought a RELIGION and gave it to you, now you use it to turn against your people, insulting and denigrating our men and women. So all JOBLESS LADIES should just go and die 1 Like |
Re: Pastor Funke Adejumo: Full Time Housewife Is Full Time Suffering PLC Limited by mariahAngel(f): 7:16pm On Aug 16, 2020 |
Hathor5: I swear, I wish. I think we all should go through that process to better understand and appreciate women who sacrifice a lot for their families, instead of looking down on them for choosing to "work" for the family. 1 Like |
Re: Pastor Funke Adejumo: Full Time Housewife Is Full Time Suffering PLC Limited by Nobody: 7:16pm On Aug 16, 2020 |
bukatyne:A word is enough for the wise, don't say nuttela did not tell you. Just find a job doing, sha be going out everyday, respect go dey, your husband will not talk to you anyhow, do you even know the joy a man feels when his wife contributes in paying the bills? when gas finish, she fill it with her own money, when the man is not financially buoyant, she helps out, it gives respect, but when you are just there, your whole life is at a halt cause you are married, no sense of fulfilment, just a married woman with kids, I dont know about others o but I personally will feel ashamed of myself. Men come on NL complaining about their wives not doing anything, not contributing to the financial affairs of the family. 1 Like |
Re: Pastor Funke Adejumo: Full Time Housewife Is Full Time Suffering PLC Limited by Reference(m): 7:18pm On Aug 16, 2020 |
I cannot possibly have a so called house wife. If for anything I desire high quality children because I believe in legacy. Housewives just donot deliver high quality children I'm afraid. This is just one singular, practical deficiency out of so many. 3 Likes |
Re: Pastor Funke Adejumo: Full Time Housewife Is Full Time Suffering PLC Limited by bukatyne(f): 7:18pm On Aug 16, 2020 |
jornwhite: What assertion? My first post was lifting some points from the OP. |
Re: Pastor Funke Adejumo: Full Time Housewife Is Full Time Suffering PLC Limited by ikorodureporta: 7:18pm On Aug 16, 2020 |
Who listens to this Illuminati princess |
Re: Pastor Funke Adejumo: Full Time Housewife Is Full Time Suffering PLC Limited by Nobody: 7:19pm On Aug 16, 2020 |
jornwhite:There's more to Life than marriage. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Pastor Funke Adejumo: Full Time Housewife Is Full Time Suffering PLC Limited by Primusinterpares(m): 7:19pm On Aug 16, 2020 |
EVILFOREST:I tire for some of them o. The thing is most Nigerians Christians don't study the scriptures. so anything coming from their pastors is correct. Joseph was a carpenter what was Mary's Job ![]() |
Re: Pastor Funke Adejumo: Full Time Housewife Is Full Time Suffering PLC Limited by Hathor5(f): 7:21pm On Aug 16, 2020 |
mariahAngel: I know my dear. On a normal job you are done after 8 hours or even 10 if you have to do extra hours. You get to have holidays and free weekends but as a wife and mother with little children you are never done and you don't get to have free days even when you are sick. They will depreciate the effort these women put in for the family's well-being and later complain that women are no longer willing to put themselves in this position because when times get rough they will remind her that they can send her out of the house. ![]() 1 Like |
Re: Pastor Funke Adejumo: Full Time Housewife Is Full Time Suffering PLC Limited by bukatyne(f): 7:21pm On Aug 16, 2020 |
Nuttella: To think you have based about five posts from facts you pulled out of your head. Save your admonishment for women who really need them. Again, I tell you that if all a woman's husband has to respect is the fact that she is 'working', it is a pity. 5 Likes |
Re: Pastor Funke Adejumo: Full Time Housewife Is Full Time Suffering PLC Limited by Nobody: 7:23pm On Aug 16, 2020 |
Primusinterpares:Hahahahahahahahahahaahahahaha ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() PEOPLE sit down and swallow THRASH from these people, only to get home and panel beat their WIVES all in the name of "MOMMY" said this and that in church. Thank GOD my WIFE is Unique and Wonderfully made. She frowns at USELESS doctrines immediately. She thinks and acts like a MAN. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() |
Re: Pastor Funke Adejumo: Full Time Housewife Is Full Time Suffering PLC Limited by Nobody: 7:24pm On Aug 16, 2020 |
Palema007:Exactly, its so painful that women live their whole life for marriage, like they were created just for the purpose of marriage and to please men. That is why after few years they become a shadow of themselves, looking older than the husband. Come, let's hang out=My husband will not allow me Wear this cloth=my husband will not allow me Your husband is cheating on you=its not his fault, it's my fault, I will fight the sidechick. I cringe, I cringe really. 4 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Pastor Funke Adejumo: Full Time Housewife Is Full Time Suffering PLC Limited by tunize(m): 7:26pm On Aug 16, 2020 |
Acidosis:On point bro. God forgive me but the misconceptions of biblical teachings is even doing more harm than good. |
Re: Pastor Funke Adejumo: Full Time Housewife Is Full Time Suffering PLC Limited by donmarshia(m): 7:26pm On Aug 16, 2020 |
Nuttella: Follow this advice at your own peril. Marriage ain't no competition! People spew a lot of wrong suggestions based on their own failed experiences. Husband and wife should agree on what they want to do based on their preferences. Both parties should love, submit, be willing to compromise while respecting each other. Respect and love is a decision not based on actions or achievements of one another. For a successful marriage, kindly refer to the Holy Books. 4 Likes |
Re: Pastor Funke Adejumo: Full Time Housewife Is Full Time Suffering PLC Limited by mariahAngel(f): 7:30pm On Aug 16, 2020 |
Hathor5: It's sad. |
Re: Pastor Funke Adejumo: Full Time Housewife Is Full Time Suffering PLC Limited by Nobody: 7:30pm On Aug 16, 2020 |
bukatyne: Your view on this is very true, but if you ask me, I would rather prefer my wife to work and bring in money, even though it falls into negative. It would help her financial reasoning, and sense of responsibility that she has her financial part to play, I believe if she does that job/work long enough it would start falling into positive one day. It would also give her self worth and a kind of fulfillment. It also helps my mentality as well, because it makes it easy for me to be completely open about my finances to her. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Pastor Funke Adejumo: Full Time Housewife Is Full Time Suffering PLC Limited by Hathor5(f): 7:30pm On Aug 16, 2020 |
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Re: Pastor Funke Adejumo: Full Time Housewife Is Full Time Suffering PLC Limited by AerialMapper: 7:30pm On Aug 16, 2020 |
Palema007: She loves to ask for seeds from her congregation as if she is a farmer! $1000 virginity seed 1 million naira stupendous wealth seed 1 Like |
Re: Pastor Funke Adejumo: Full Time Housewife Is Full Time Suffering PLC Limited by fykes(m): 7:31pm On Aug 16, 2020 |
saaphiere:Emancipated?? What are we? Slave masters or husbands?? Mehnn ur mentality is .... 1 Like |
Re: Pastor Funke Adejumo: Full Time Housewife Is Full Time Suffering PLC Limited by Primusinterpares(m): 7:31pm On Aug 16, 2020 |
EVILFOREST:Walahi... some of them have ended up causing more harms in some homes |
Re: Pastor Funke Adejumo: Full Time Housewife Is Full Time Suffering PLC Limited by mariahAngel(f): 7:32pm On Aug 16, 2020 |
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Re: Pastor Funke Adejumo: Full Time Housewife Is Full Time Suffering PLC Limited by Reference(m): 7:32pm On Aug 16, 2020 |
Hathor5: I asked for details not innuendos. My private life is not up for discussion here but I will say this, there is no single woman in my life before and after, immediate and extended family who understands what the term housewife means. It is just a ridiculous waste of humanity, human capacity and human resources. I will not bring up a girl child towards that at all. It is better she forgets about marraige completely than engage in that. She either gets a man with such a humongous vision that will require her assistance or pursue one of her own. The efforts of any parent towards the girl child must not be wasted on any useless sentiment. We want to see our daughters, not just sons become something. Something God created them to be. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Pastor Funke Adejumo: Full Time Housewife Is Full Time Suffering PLC Limited by afesco: 7:34pm On Aug 16, 2020 |
Only a fool will think otherwise. |
Re: Pastor Funke Adejumo: Full Time Housewife Is Full Time Suffering PLC Limited by Nobody: 7:34pm On Aug 16, 2020 |
mariahAngel: True, a house wife is a full time unpaid labour. If I was a woman, there is so many things I won't tolerate and house wife is one of them. No matter how people tend to romance it, once you don't bring in money, you are a liability. Sad but true. 6 Likes |
Re: Pastor Funke Adejumo: Full Time Housewife Is Full Time Suffering PLC Limited by spiceadole: 7:34pm On Aug 16, 2020 |
Hathor5: Wisest decision I ever took. I was just imagining..Not been able to take care of my financial needs without "begging" ..Having to wait for my husband to give me money before I could send funds to my parents and siblings, buy stuff for myself,etc. Who goes to medical school for 8 years to become a full time housewife with no source of income except "husband gives me"? Definitely,not me. I didnt even argue with him or try to negotiate. I played dumb..Got home ,texted him I was no longer interested and we stopped seeing. 4 Likes |
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