Acidosis:

The things pastors say without biblical understanding. Where did you get the word "housewife"?

She and her likes need to shut the fck up and allow husbands and wives make whatever decisions they want regarding their finance.

So long as they don't come to you to beg for food or advice, you have no right over their decisions.

POINT OF CORRECTION.
These are not PASTORS but MOTIVATIONAL SPEAKERS and BUSINESSMEN in the ?Lord.
They can motivate you to become a YAHOO YAHOO representative.
NIGERIA in itself does not have Pastors.
However, The REAL PASTORS in NIGERIA occupy just 1% of the entire people parading themselves as pastors.

Nuttella:
I thought it through, your comments on this thread irks me. Find something doing before its too late. My friend's mother spent 15years suffering immediately her husband died, she didnt have any job to fall back to or anything doing, she was just a miserable housewife. It was difficult finding something to do to feed her kids, the economy is hard, if you are a housewife, give yourself brain, or else your husband will keep controlling you and cheat on you cause you deserve it for being lazy.

mariahAngel:


Are you married with kids? If you are, switch roles with your wife in organizing the home for just one week, then we can have that discussion

Who no go, no know!

EVILFOREST:

POINT OF CORRECTION.
These are not PASTORS but MOTIVATIONAL SPEAKERS and BUSINESSMEN in the ?Lord.
They can motivate you to become a YAHOO YAHOO representative.
NIGERIA in itself does not have Pastors.
However, The REAL PASTORS in NIGERIA occupy just 1% of the entire people parading themselves as pastors.

Nuttella:
Nobody is undermining the effort women make, mothers make lots of effort but here we are talking about the long run effect, if the man should die, what will happen to the kids? Where will the money come from, its too risky to be a housewife, not to forget the insults, the disregard, the humiliation of asking for every penny from your husband, I have pride o, I can't let a man take it away from me.

Primusinterpares:
So the woman should be working like earning salary or making profit from her business. While this is good we should not make it seams like the ones not earning salaries or doing business are failures.

A woman is to support the husband as per help meet. It's doesn't revolve around financial assistance only.
In keeping the home, raising the kids, encouraging the man, managing the home etc. See some "housewives" do more as house wives than being salary earners/ business people.

Las Las couple should stick to what works for them.

let no person (irrespective of who they are) come up with an idea that's working for them to impose on others. Having a salary earning wife / Business owner might work for some while having a full time house wife might work for others.

Just stick to what works for you as a couple and always make the Bible your manual for the family. Not what someone says. #my2kobo

Have you FORGOTTEN how NIGERIAN PASTORS talk..?
They talk as if they have the KEYS to the GATE OF HELL and HEAVEN .
IF you give NIGERIAN PASTORS opportunity they would want to dethrone GOD.

They are annoying and preposterous.
I pity people attending such Churches.
Education has nothing to do with WISDOM.

.... a WHITE MAN brought a RELIGION and gave it to you, now you use it to turn against your people, insulting and denigrating our men and women.
So all JOBLESS LADIES should just go and die

Hathor5:


I really wish they did.

bukatyne:


Dear,

That is the problem.

When all you have is a hammer, you see every problem as a nail.

I sympathize with your friend however don't project their issues and your insecurities on me.

Read my posts, understand them and ask intelligent questions if you need to.

Stop reading my posts through your biased lenses.

jornwhite:




i felt your assertions were wrong hence the correction, buh if you know you can justify your point go ahead ... afterall we learn everyday

jornwhite:




So what should women live there lives for if not marriage, i'm just curious

EVILFOREST:

Have you FORGOTTEN how NIGERIAN PASTORS talk..?
They talk as if they have the KEYS to the GATE OF HELL and HEAVEN .
IF you give NIGERIAN PASTORS opportunity they would want to dethrone GOD.
.... a WHITE MAN brought a RELIGION and gave it to you, now you use it to turn against your people, insulting and denigrating our men and women.
So all JOBLESS LADIES should just go and die
They are annoying and preposterous

mariahAngel:


I swear, I wish.

I think we all should go through that process to better understand and appreciate women who sacrifice a lot for their families, instead of looking down on them for choosing to "work" for the family.

Nuttella:
A word is enough for the wise, don't say nuttela did not tell you. Just find a job doing, sha be going out everyday, respect go dey, your husband will not talk to you anyhow, do you even know the joy a man feels when his wife contributes in paying the bills? when gas finish, she fill it with her own money, when the man is not financially buoyant, she helps out, it gives respect, but when you are just there, your whole life is at a halt cause you are married, no sense of fulfilment, just a married woman with kids, I dont know about others o but I personally will feel ashamed of myself. Men come on NL complaining about their wives not doing anything, not contributing to the financial affairs of the family.

Primusinterpares:
I tire for some of them o. The thing is most Nigerians Christians don't study the scriptures. so anything coming from their pastors is correct.


Joseph was a carpenter what was Mary's Job??

Hahahahahahahahahahaahahahaha

PEOPLE sit down and swallow THRASH from these people, only to get home and panel beat their WIVES all in the name of "MOMMY" said this and that in church.

Thank GOD my WIFE is Unique and Wonderfully made.
She frowns at USELESS doctrines immediately.
She thinks and acts like a MAN.

Palema007:
There's more to Life than marriage.

Acidosis:

The things pastors say without biblical understanding. Where did you get the word "housewife"?

She and her likes need to shut the fck up and allow husbands and wives make whatever decisions they want regarding their finance.

So long as they don't come to you to beg for food or advice, you have no right over their decisions.

Nuttella:
Ladies, never you agree to be a housewife to avoid see finish, not only will he control you, he will chase after women that are working or doing something with their lives, if your husband is working, work also, if he wants to do masters, also do your masters, that's if you enjoy being respected in marriage, na small thing dey make person lose respect for marriage.

Hathor5:


I know my dear.

On a normal job you are done after 8 hours or even 10 if you have to do extra hours. You get to have holidays and free weekends but as a wife and mother with little children you are never done and you don't get to have free days even when you are sick.

They will depreciate the effort these women put in for the family's well-being and later complain that women are no longer willing to put themselves in this position because when times get rough they will remind her that they can send her out of the house.

bukatyne:


If as a working wife, your income cannot pay for your transportation, upkeep, childcare and maintaining the home, it is negative.

This is because you have to use your husband's income to supplement whatever you should have done and have outsourced.

It is just like the pseudo-businesswomen that their husbands keep pumping money into their businesses, paying rent, paying salaries and other expenses to keep the business afloat.

mariahAngel:

It's sad.

Palema007:
Why do you and some others refer to her as a third? What happened?

saaphiere:
I am seeing someone getting pained because women are about being emancipated from men cage.
Cry me a river

EVILFOREST:

Hahahahahahahahahahaahahahaha

PEOPLE sit down and swallow THRASH from these people, only to get home and panel beat their WIVES all in the name of "MOMMY" said this and that in church.

Thank GOD my WIFE is Unique and Wonderfully made.
She frowns at USELESS doctrines immediately.
She thinks and acts like a MAN.

Hathor5:


It is what it is. Just be smart about it.

Hathor5:


You clearly don't know what you are talking about. If my husband was Dangote and I developed a vaccine against Covid, would my education and talent be wasted for the simple reason that we got married?

mariahAngel:


It's sad.

Hathor5:


Wise decision.

Some years into marriage he would threaten you to send you back to your daddy's house because you would not have contributed any money to building the house you two were living in.