Hathor5:




You can be pro-choice and still have an opinion on which choice is better right?

Freedom of choice and freedom of speech/opinion can co-exist.

saaphiere:
A woman should be her husband's think tank.
If your financial life is totally dependent on your husband, you are a psychological disgrace.
Fingers are not equal. Must your own be the shortest?

Don't die as a woman. Die as an institution.
Think more than you pray.

You don't eat with ten fingers. You save!


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Fh8LCRblAbw


WATCH THE VIDEO TO THE END BEFORE YOU QUOTE ME OR COME HERE TO DISPLAY HOW ILL-THINK YOU ARE. SHE DIDN'T SAY BEING A HOUSEWIFE IS BAD. SHE SAID BE AN ASSET. BE AN INSTITUTION. BE YOUR HUSBAND THINK TANK. DON'T EAT WITH 10 FINGERS. DON'T BE THE SHORTEST FINGER.

Mgtowmonk:
This damaged "goods" wants to drag other women to her level
I can swear you're past 30 without marriage prospects.
Only foolish women will follow your advice.


Please watch this video
It aptly describes your kind.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8lAdgC6OZRM

Reference:


That is a new assignment for you. Start investigating in total objectivity.

angelfallz:


My God! what is the meaning of this "Housewife spotted"
Are you trying to degrade her or what? For your information housewives offer a lot more to the society, than career women or business women.

bukatyne:


You again.

Is there anywhere in the Bible that says wives should not work?

donmarshia:


You guys talk a lot about money as a result of poverty.

The feeling by a man that a woman needs to bring in money is a poor man's mindset.

Raising ethical, productive children is a far greater honour than any kind of work.

A woman should decide to work based on passion/vision for an activity and not based on the need for money and her passion or work should never take the place/role of raising great kids which she brought into the world.

Our men should be taught to provide all the needs of their family.

Poverty is first and foremost in the mind.

Once you truly know that your supply is endless, working or not working will never be an issue.

efosky1246:


Can you just shut up with the `what happens if the husband dies` question?

It's a possibility anyone could die anytime but does that mean each and every decision we make should revolve around the fear of death?

Proper planning can be put in place to mitigate unforseen occurrence regardless of how the incomes come in.

But what's worse is seeing your children become degenerates because both parents were relentlessly pursuing careers.

The first and foremost duty of the family unit is raising, healthy responsible children. And the role of the woman as a homemaker is very crucial to achieving that objective.

awnn
I struck a nerve didn't I?
How are your eggs doing by the way?
I hope they aren't all dried up

Nuttella:
Is it your 30? ode

Nellsworld:

Wat u said is false, My mum was the breadwinner, she was the man and the woman, her job was from 7 am till any time her boss leaves cos she was secretary to the MD of NAMA port harcourt branch, but she trained her 4 children well, 3 of us are graduates, so it depends on the woman, cos she ve stayed at home as a full-time house wife, i don't think any of her kids would ve finished skol, cos my dad was nothing to write abt cos he never stayed with us

Palema007:
There's more to Life than marriage.

Mgtowmonk:
awnn
I struck a nerve didn't I?
How are your eggs doing by the way?
I hope they aren't all dried up

Hathor5:


Life is not as simple as you people paint it on NL.

Your husband or wife can love you today but you don't know what the future holds.

I like to be prepared for the worst case scenario. I have seen women fall back on nothing after 20 years of marriage just because things went south in their marriage. And it's not only the money that they were missing but a sense of fulfillment too which they only sought in marriage.

I was watching Netflix this weekend, a mini series based on a real life scenario where a wife sacrificed everything for her family to end up with almost nothing. In her case, the husband was even willing to pay for her monthly upkeep but losing her family made her go insane. This is less likely to happen to a woman who has something going for herself. She killed her husband and his new wife at the end. She is still in jail serving a life sentence as we are conversing.

Some women become a nuisance in their kids home because they have nothing else than their family. Family is important but it is unfair to them, husband and kids, to place all your expectations for happiness and fulfillment on them.

oh!
is your uterus healthy enough to grow a baby in case you find a man though?

Or you plan on paying a surrogate?

Nuttella:
I frooze them, they are cooling somewhere.

bukatyne:


What assertion?

My first post was lifting some points from the OP.

Acidosis:

The things pastors say without biblical understanding. Where did you get the word "housewife"?

She and her likes need to shut the fck up and allow husbands and wives make whatever decisions they want regarding their finance.

So long as they don't come to you to beg for food or advice, you have no right over their decisions.

Nuttella:
So a female doctor who is a housewife offers more to the society than when she is at the hospital saving lives. Have sense na.

prophetfire:
. It's okay to have an opinion on which side is better but totally rubbishing the other option or condemning those that roll with it destroys your claim to being pro-choice. Makes you a dictator.

bukatyne:


She said and I quote paraphrased: 'if your husband says please give me N1m till tomorrow and you say 'where will I get it from', you are not an asset.'

Pastor Mrs.' reference to asset here is monetary.

I however agree that a non-earning wife can be an asset and an earning wife can be a liability.

Reference:
I cannot possibly have a so called house wife. If for anything I desire high quality children because I believe in legacy.

Housewives just donot deliver high quality children I'm afraid. This is just one singular, practical deficiency out of so many.

Mgtowmonk:
oh!
is your uterus healthy enough to grow a baby in case you find a man though?

Or you plan on paying a surrogate?

saaphiere:
I am seeing someone getting pained because women are about being emancipated from men cage.
Cry me a river

angelfallz:


Lol. i have sense, let me explain.
A full time housewife does more for the society than career women(even female doctors) and business women because:
1. she trains the next generation of children
2. she impacts good morals on the children
3. she is the children's first teacher and shapes their understanding of good and bad
4. she raises children that are less likely to give problems to the society.
5. she is 24/7 protective of the children therefore making it less likely that her children would be exposed to pedophiles, child abusers and the sick people in the society, that could mess up the children permanently.

Off the top of my head those are the ones i could come up with immediately.

I know what i am talking about. My mother was a housewife.

Below is a link to buttress my point. It is an answer to a question on qoura. The question was "What’s the best thing about being a stay at home parent?"
Stay at home parent is the same as housewife.

https://qr.ae/pNv9Pz

mariahAngel:


Most times, these so-called preachers get carried away with words, you begin to wonder...
They love to tell stories more than they love preaching the actual gospel.
Hardly would you hear " The bible says...", and the congregation swallow them hook, liner, and sinker.

Acidosis:

The things pastors say without biblical understanding. Where did you get the word "housewife"?

She and her likes need to shut the fck up and allow husbands and wives make whatever decisions they want regarding their finance.

So long as they don't come to you to beg for food or advice, you have no right over their decisions.

saaphiere:
A woman should be her husband's think tank.
If your financial life is totally dependent on your husband, you are a psychological disgrace.
Fingers are not equal. Must your own be the shortest?

Don't die as a woman. Die as an institution.
Think more than you pray.

You don't eat with ten fingers. You save!


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Fh8LCRblAbw


WATCH THE VIDEO TO THE END BEFORE YOU QUOTE ME OR COME HERE TO DISPLAY HOW ILL-THINK YOU ARE. SHE DIDN'T SAY BEING A HOUSEWIFE IS BAD. SHE SAID BE AN ASSET. BE AN INSTITUTION. BE YOUR HUSBAND THINK TANK. DON'T EAT WITH 10 FINGERS. DON'T BE THE SHORTEST FINGER.

Nuttella:
Stop being sentimental because your mother was a housewife, my mum was not a housewife and she raised graduates, well behaved ones at that, so spare me the talks. Have you met Okonji iweala children?

Zzor:
can you agree to being a full time housewife? anyways Men these days don't even want their wives to be full time housewife,they prefer the working class women so as to contribute financially in running the home affairs

Acidosis:

The things pastors say without biblical understanding. Where did you get the word "housewife"?

She and her likes need to shut the fck up and allow husbands and wives make whatever decisions they want regarding their finance.

So long as they don't come to you to beg for food or advice, you have no right over their decisions.