olaboy1:


The problem is Nigerian women have so tied their sexuality and horniness to money that it’s become a Herculean task to unlock their primal desires.

Nigerian women may be slightly different culturally from other women in other countries but they are still basically women.Female nature is universal.The financial transactional nature of the relationships between nigerian men and women was caused primarily by the men.Which is easier,spending months or even years studying and applying the tenets of game and improving yourself with women or buying a woman's attention in 3 days?The majority of Nigerian men chose the easier way.Unfortunately,shortcuts do not lead to long term benefits/stability/dividends

honestly women especially the ones av encountered are highly emotional being,, sometimes I wonder whether they have common sense or nature decided to make them that way. ,,they always bring emotions to everything including buissnes . is now that I understand the difficulties in putting women in place of power, they always makes poor decisions Everytime , put there self on advantage and still play the victim card. what the Bleep is wrong with women

ubunja:
I've never been to Nigeria but the Nigerians I meet here in SA, the way they're so quick to open their wallets wherever a woman is involved is rather worrying Your culture has tied money and love together so tightly only a deep deep understanding of female nature can enable a man to succeed with women without leading with money. Even girls this side consider Nigerians as an ATM of sorts or people to deal with when they need quick cash. And it's such a shame because Nigerian men have so much to offer besides money.

@Emboldened
It is a pathetic situation.Young men growing up and being conditioned to believe without money,they are nothing in every facet of life.No confidence,no self esteem,no personality

ubunja:
that Cardi B song WAP with Megan thee Stallion is a strong case in point. Pornography in a music video. Smh. And all the respected mainstream media outlets are defending it. The future is bleak.

I think the publicists of those female rappers really worked hard to push that song.There have been more songs in the past by female artiste with more explicit lyrics
Kh.ia==my neck,my back
Tweet==Oh my
Missy Elliott==One minute man
Lil Kim==How many licks
Ice Cube & Ms Toi==You can do it

reigncalif1:
honestly women especially the ones av encountered are highly emotional being,, sometimes I wonder whether they have common sense or nature decided to make them that way. ,,they always bring emotions to everything including buissnes . is now that I understand the difficulties in putting women in place of power, they always makes poor decisions Everytime , put there self on advantage and still play the victim card. what the Bleep is wrong with women

It’s because problematic situations and drama make them happy. Do you also know women get h$rny by seeing two men fight dirty and bloody.
They watch crime tv dramas and eventually fall in love with the gruesome asshole lead actor and the adrenaline rush to their pussies.
How about your Naija girl friend throwing tantrums and trying to push you to the wall to physically assault her just to get her panties wet. Don’t worry too much about their flippant emotions, putting them in their place works wonders.

I'm finally caught up, read through the entire thread and I must say this is the first time I am dedicating this much time to Red Pill content on NL.

Although these are principles I have put into practise for many years, it wasn't until a few years ago I realized there was even a name for it - Red Pill, they term it.

And for the first time, I can actually say 100% that the author of this content shared here benevolently by Glycolysis, is in fact a true nigga. His OT is on point!

Good job guys.

IHate9jerianss:
I think the publicists of those female rappers really worked hard to push that song.There have been more songs in the past by female artiste with more explicit lyrics
Kh.ia==my neck,my back
Tweet==Oh my
Missy Elliott==One minute man
Lil Kim==How many licks
Ice Cube & Ms Toi==You can do it

lyrics I hear. But did you see the WAP video? Hence I said "pornography". Plus kh.ia,missy and ice cube were not as big as Cardi B and Megan combined. The views on that video on YouTube are staggering.

Even Celo Green voiced his disapproval but had to apologise when they came after him. The west is done at this point. Feminists themselves are complaining about that video. How it sets back female empowerment decades.

olaboy1:


First I read here on nairaland how much SA women love sex, and now Ubunja is confirming to us that the “affirmative action” is leaving them with too much disposable income, guess it’s time for them to pay us back in cash and kind for our contribution to the end of apartheid..lol

the only thing holding you guys back when it comes to SA women is stereotypes. Since you guys believe every second girl has AIDS.

Still, many women here like naija guys although they also have to deal with their own stereotyping Nigerian men as drug dealers. Stereotypes are such a barrier.

So yah, for relationships stereotypes are a problem with SA women. But for pure sex, there's really a subset of SA women that favour naija men over Local SA men. And some are even willing to pay for that experience.

ubunja:
lyrics I hear. But did you see the WAP video? Hence I said "pornography". Plus kh.ia,missy and ice cube were not as big as Cardi B and Megan combined. The views on that video on YouTube are staggering.

Even Celo Green voiced his disapproval but had to apologise when they came after him. The west is done at this point. Feminists themselves are complaining about that video. How it sets back female empowerment decades.

I have watched the video and listened to the uncensored lyrics.I must admit it didn't surprise, neither did it shock me like Nick Minaj==Anaconda music video and lyrics.Madonna did hers too with the Justify My Love video in the early 1990s.Very explicit stuff.
The west has been done for the past 25years

ubunja:
lyrics I hear. But did you see the WAP video? Hence I said "pornography". Plus kh.ia,missy and ice cube were not as big as Cardi B and Megan combined. The views on that video on YouTube are staggering.

Even Celo Green voiced his disapproval but had to apologise when they came after him. The west is done at this point. Feminists themselves are complaining about that video. How it sets back female empowerment decades.

Please take the bolded back so you don’t stain your record of truth telling.

First off, cardi b and Megan are not even bigger than Nicki Minaj and yet, you cannot compare a Nicki with a Missy.

Those older artists were popular organically as against this new age where popularity can be manipulated and bought. While growing up, i never had dstv or internet. We only had radio cassete and yet i know who all these people are. Do you know how popular you would have to be for someone without internet in the slums of Benue state in Nigeria to know you?

As for Ice cube, i suggest you really apologise on this one. You do know Ice cube was the Jay Z of an Era right? Ice cube at his prime was Drake of this era. Common bruh

I’d have agreed with you if you had said that the media machineries available in this era has the potential to make the song bigger.

A big song does not necessarily mean a big artist.

ubunja:
the only thing holding you guys back when it comes to SA women is stereotypes. Since you guys believe every second girl has AIDS.

Still, many women here like naija guys although they also have to deal with their own stereotyping Nigerian men as drug dealers. Stereotypes are such a barrier.

So yah, for relationships stereotypes are a problem with SA women. But for pure sex, there's really a subset of SA women that favour naija men over Local SA men. And some are even willing to pay for that experience.

I
When i cageria, naija ladies looked soo ugly in my eyes.

Naija women are not soo easy on the eyes compared to ladies from other African countries but yet they are the worst behaved.

Inspireddd:


Please take the bolded back so you don’t stain your record of truth telling.

First off, cardi b and Megan are not even bigger than Nicki Minaj and yet, you cannot compare a Nicki with a Missy.

Those older artists were popular organically as against this new age where popularity can be manipulated and bought. While growing up, i never had dstv or internet. We only had radio cassete and yet i know who all these people are. Do you know how popular you would have to be for someone without internet in the slums of Benue state in Nigeria to know you?

As for Ice cube, i suggest you really apologise on this one. You do know Ice cube was the Jay Z of an Era right? Ice cube at his prime was Drake of this era. Common bruh

I’d have agreed with you if you had said that the media machineries available in this era has the potential to make the song bigger.

A big song does not necessarily mean a big artist.

you have said it yourself. Today popularity can be manipulated. There's your answer. Didn't missy release a song recently? How many views did it get? Go compare the views of the two songs.

Dude views are the popularity. This is the new world.

Chii59:

And men don't manipulate?
Let me tell you something. Just as redpoll focus so much on manipulative women, that is how feminism focuses so much on manipulative men.
What does it solve? Nothing. Only to create a cult of a few hateful folks channeling their anger in the wrong direction.
Like an adage says "man, know thyself"
It behoves each and every one of us to do an introspection from time to time, weed out those bad behaviours, prune the good ones so that we become better today than we were yesterday.
Assembling together to pick and point out all the faults of womanhood changes absolutely nothing if you don't understand that neither gender is perfect. Men and women are both equal halves of an imperfect humanity.

PS: I know some small boys with weed in their hands will mention my comment to abuse their ancestors.
But if you ask respectfully, I'll answer respectfully too.

There's Red Pill for the female folk also - http://reddit.com/r/redpillwomen

ubunja:
you have said it yourself. Today popularity can be manipulated. There's your answer. Didn't missy release a song recently? How many views did it get? Go compare the views of the two songs.

Dude views are the popularity. This is the new world.

You have said it well. Also remember that music is for the young. No artist from Missy’s era can currently outsell a “Young thug” or a “Dababy”. That’s how bad it is lol. The only exception may be a Jay Z

Argument lord

Inspireddd:


Please take the bolded back so you don’t stain your record of truth telling.

First off, cardi b and Megan are not even bigger than Nicki Minaj and yet, you cannot compare a Nicki with a Missy.

Those older artists were popular organically as against this new age where popularity can be manipulated and bought. While growing up, i never had dstv or internet. We only had radio cassete and yet i know who all these people are. Do you know how popular you would have to be for someone without internet in the slums of Benue state in Nigeria to know you?

As for Ice cube, i suggest you really apologise on this one. You do know Ice cube was the Jay Z of an Era right? Ice cube at his prime was Drake of this era. Common bruh

I’d have agreed with you if you had said that the media machineries available in this era has the potential to make the song bigger.

A big song does not necessarily mean a big artist.

ubunja:
you have said it yourself. Today popularity can be manipulated. There's your answer. Didn't missy release a song recently? How many views did it get? Go compare the views of the two songs.

Dude views are the popularity. This is the new world.

Views can be bought

Jimmy17:

Views can be bought

yep. And manufactured. But still those views are the official measure of popularity. What are you gonna do? Investigate YouTube? Lmfao.

Inspireddd:


You have said it well. Also remember that music is for the young. No artist from Missy’s era can currently outsell a “Young thug” or a “Dababy”. That’s how bad it is lol. The only exception may be a Jay Z

agreed. The trashier the more popular.

GLYCOLYSISS:
-- Women are obsessed with claiming they/their gender has a mastery over qualities that they scarcely possess. Eg: logic, maturity, thoughtfulness, introspective self-awareness

LMFAOOO

Chii59:

And men don't manipulate?
Let me tell you something. Just as redpoll focus so much on manipulative women, that is how feminism focuses so much on manipulative men.
What does it solve? Nothing. Only to create a cult of a few hateful folks channeling their anger in the wrong direction.
Like an adage says "man, know thyself"
It behoves each and every one of us to do an introspection from time to time, weed out those bad behaviours, prune the good ones so that we become better today than we were yesterday.
Assembling together to pick and point out all the faults of womanhood changes absolutely nothing if you don't understand that neither gender is perfect. Men and women are both equal halves of an imperfect humanity.

PS: I know some small boys with weed in their hands will mention my comment to abuse their ancestors.
But if you ask respectfully, I'll answer respectfully too.

I agree with you.
But why do you think it solves nothing.
If faults aren't pointed out, with what will you do introspection?

ubunja:
that Cardi B song WAP with Megan thee Stallion is a strong case in point. Pornography in a music video. Smh. And all the respected mainstream media outlets are defending it. The future is bleak.

What if I told you the sexual explicitness of the song lyrics and video are thoughts that reside in the deep recesses of every woman but they are too scared to say or act out because of the fear of being labelled sluts or ashawo or hoes

mrpaedo:

What if I told you the sexual explicitness of the song lyrics and video are thoughts that reside in the deep recesses of every woman but they are too scared to say or act out because of the fear of being labelled sluts or ashawo or hoes

I will believe you.

mrpaedo:

What if I told you the sexual explicitness of the song lyrics and video are thoughts that reside in the deep recesses of every woman but they are too scared to say or act out because of the fear of being labelled sluts or ashawo or hoes

You don't preach to the choir.

GhostderGeist:


You don't preach to the choir.

I understand.I was somewhat surprised at how his post was slightly critical of what is a natural state of womanliness

chinedumo:


I agree with you.
But why do you think it solves nothing.
If faults aren't pointed out, with what will you do introspection?

The faults you're pointing out isn't yours!
Go through this thread, you'll see nuggets highlighting women's problems.
Problem solving begins when you realise that you're not perfect.
Introspection requires you to look inward to see your own faults.
The truth is you can't solve anything if you don't realise where you erred.
For any relationship to fail, it takes two to tango.
But most times we don't recognise our contribution to it's failure, only that of the other person!
It may be a lapse in judgement, an error of omission or commission, an attitudinal problem etc.
Introspection helps you see these things. Helps you take responsibility for your mistakes, if any.
Introspection is proactive, blaming the other person is reactive.
And if you must move on, like I did, you must understand that you had a part to play in every failed relationship you have been through. If you don't learn from your mistakes, you will make them again.

GLYCOLYSISS:
-- Single mothers [ baby mamas], Social media attention seekers ,"liberated women","strong, matured and independent woman", gentlemen,stay the f*ck away !
Most cases,they come with lots of baggages you certainly can't deal with.

I have dated two Single moms...very beautiful and endowed. I nearly killed the first one cos of the headache she was giving me, nagging, mood swings etc...we separated. The second one came promising me heaven and Earth. I lowered my guards. This lady nearly killed me. I escaped by the whiskers. Thanks to Ugo Diabia(one native doctor for my Villa), who gave me one jazz a week earlier. This lady stabbed me 3 times with kitchen knife and the thing no penetrate. They for don plant mango tree for my grave by now This is not my first time of telling this story on Nairaland

Though single moms can bleep like 2morr no dey...pls stay away from them especially the beautiful ones.

Don't deprive your first born child of his/her birthright. Is it not insane when your child says; I'm firstborn from my father's side and second or third born from my mother's side? Arrant nonsense!

As a man, never marry a single mother. Don't spend your resources on a DNA that didn't come from your loins.

If you have love for kids not yours, go spend your time and resources on them in charity organisation. Never do it via marriage!

You can't handle an alpha widow with her histrionics because you don't have the key to what titillates her.

Avoid single mothers; Avoid BP issues and untimely death.

I warned you.

ubunja:
why do you think some of us never pay for pussy. Lol. Just search for the ones who feel you. They'll give it to you free.

A woman you sufficiently turn on will even book the hotel and buy the snacks herself. Lust, it's a beast of a feeling.

Thing is women don't Lust every man. So when tohey're in lust they'll go harder than men do because they (the women) are not used to this feeling.

My nigga

True from personal experience.