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Re: My Boyfriend Is On The Verge Of Leaving Me. Help! by wunaESQ(m): 6:09am On Aug 17, 2020 |
he should come and see ur parents now....snd start making necessary arrangements to formalise it 1 Like |
Re: My Boyfriend Is On The Verge Of Leaving Me. Help! by hustla(m): 6:09am On Aug 17, 2020 |
Heartheart: I pity you Lagos boys go use you do jazz your eye go clear Better stay ya house and listen to ya parents 2 Likes |
Re: My Boyfriend Is On The Verge Of Leaving Me. Help! by sixtus3606(m): 6:17am On Aug 17, 2020 |
dingbang: Blunt sh!t |
Re: My Boyfriend Is On The Verge Of Leaving Me. Help! by chat2deen(m): 6:22am On Aug 17, 2020 |
Heartheart: Tell him if he serious about been with he should kindly visit your parents and seek blessings for your union. 3 Likes |
Re: My Boyfriend Is On The Verge Of Leaving Me. Help! by hayzed1090: 6:25am On Aug 17, 2020 |
chat2deen: God bless you jare 1 Like |
Re: My Boyfriend Is On The Verge Of Leaving Me. Help! by freemi(m): 6:27am On Aug 17, 2020 |
Righteousness89:exactly. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Boyfriend Is On The Verge Of Leaving Me. Help! by yenereal(m): 6:27am On Aug 17, 2020 |
It's not really about love my sister. Na Konji dey worry am. As far as you are living under your parents, long distance relationship won't work for you. I love to be straightforward. Unless there's hope you both will get to meet each other without separating. If it seems he'll stay there for years, then accept this bitter truth that it MAY not work (I said May). Obey your parents. What if something bad happened to you on your way going or returning? At 22, you still have few years to enjoy. 2 Likes |
Re: My Boyfriend Is On The Verge Of Leaving Me. Help! by usecondom(m): 6:29am On Aug 17, 2020 |
Oh wow, so a girl child is only good for man to take to alter and then marry and that means all her dreams has been fulfilled? mutter: |
Re: My Boyfriend Is On The Verge Of Leaving Me. Help! by perdollar(m): 6:33am On Aug 17, 2020 |
d picture of d long distance relationship or I don't believe u. d content of ur guy's scrotum is boiling, so go n calm it down |
Re: My Boyfriend Is On The Verge Of Leaving Me. Help! by Donswatter(m): 6:38am On Aug 17, 2020 |
tripplephi:Nobody get business idea pass poor man �.. |
Re: My Boyfriend Is On The Verge Of Leaving Me. Help! by Openbusiness: 6:43am On Aug 17, 2020 |
dingbang:Conji don catch d idiot na he don c mumu gf he can remote anytime he wants. |
Re: My Boyfriend Is On The Verge Of Leaving Me. Help! by Openbusiness: 6:45am On Aug 17, 2020 |
Wen a girl at 22 yr old doesn't have sense, den mumu threads like this must surely be created. Rubbish! 1 Like |
Re: My Boyfriend Is On The Verge Of Leaving Me. Help! by uuzba(m): 6:47am On Aug 17, 2020 |
usecondom:She's a stupid girl. I've never heard of a girl running after a man Stupid youth. |
Re: My Boyfriend Is On The Verge Of Leaving Me. Help! by MrCaesar: 6:52am On Aug 17, 2020 |
He is very imperious. It won't be bad if you be the one to break up with him 1 Like |
Re: My Boyfriend Is On The Verge Of Leaving Me. Help! by XXII: 7:07am On Aug 17, 2020 |
Listen to all the better advice on this thread. I don't see why you should worry yourself over a relationship, at 22. Madam, you need to start planning how you'd make it in life, get a job if you don't have one and all. It's a good thing your parents didn't allow you too, who knows if you might have had accident on the way? Better chill.. I believe more guys better than this one go come. |
Re: My Boyfriend Is On The Verge Of Leaving Me. Help! by farady(m): 7:10am On Aug 17, 2020 |
OP, you haff read all the comments. Simply break up with him period. Don't allow any man to threaten you that way because of relationship. That guy simply want to sleep with you and doesn't care about your life and safety. If he was truly serious, he should have come meet with your parents. For now, just work on being economically independent. 2 Likes |
Re: My Boyfriend Is On The Verge Of Leaving Me. Help! by Spells(m): 7:19am On Aug 17, 2020 |
he should come and marry you period. |
Re: My Boyfriend Is On The Verge Of Leaving Me. Help! by themanderon: 7:19am On Aug 17, 2020 |
Poisoned chalice. That man simply wants to have his way with you. That thing you want to go and collect from him is what you will get till you are tired of getting if only you will wait for the right person. Stop wasting your time with him as he may block serious minded guys from coming to you and still end up dumping you and that will be a double tragedy.... Listen to your parents there is nothing to rush. The devil usually presents us with chaff when the real deal is around the corner. Don't fall for this chaff. If he is serious let him see your parents if not let him swerve. 2 Likes |
Re: My Boyfriend Is On The Verge Of Leaving Me. Help! by humilitypays(m): 7:20am On Aug 17, 2020 |
Juliearth:Not completely true, ask many married couple how they met and how they dated or courted and hear their crazy love stories. So long as a lady wants to get married in this present world of today, she must be ready to take some calculated risks for her relationship and she must be ready to be fvcked by one or two or three or even 10 different guys before she lands a hubby, that's the sad truth. Ladies that usually say: I can't do until I marry, even though they are doing the right thing, usually end up single for long or even forever sadly Some ladies after saying no I won't do until I marry sometimes end up with horrible men who are serial cheats, or horrible men who can't even take care of them or their needs cos most financially buoyant guys cannot date a girl without that thing, once u tell them no we cannot do it until we marry, they will smile and toss the girl one side because they have plenty options of ladies to pick from. Life no balance at all, those who do the right thing most times carry last in life while those who do the wrong thing end up reaping the best life can offer in this present world, maybe in the afterlife they will get their own reward, sadly Men are hypocrites sha, men want their daughters to be Virgin Mary The mother of Jesus but they spoilt their wife during dating and even turned their then girlfriend (now wifey) to a half LovePeddler but as soon as they have their own daughter, they want to protect her with shells around her waist forgetting how they fvcked and spoilt their current wife (another person daughter oh) when she was their own girlfriend back then. The same guys who want their girlfriends to risk it for them don't want their sisters to be fvcked by other men, kai, men una be hypocrites oh, see as all of them turn preachers and motivational preacher, i fear who no fear men of this world, all of una na hypocrites 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Boyfriend Is On The Verge Of Leaving Me. Help! by luluosas(m): 7:21am On Aug 17, 2020 |
I hear you sir. For your information, every sex out of legal matrimony is SIN CALLED FORNICATION. So, don't twist it. Remember, JESUS CHRIST is coming NOW. Only the saved in Christ shall escape the death in hell fire. Be warned and repent. emanobis: 1 Like |
Re: My Boyfriend Is On The Verge Of Leaving Me. Help! by debbydams(f): 7:23am On Aug 17, 2020 |
Tell him to come and meet your parents |
Re: My Boyfriend Is On The Verge Of Leaving Me. Help! by nicedaddy(m): 7:31am On Aug 17, 2020 |
Young lady, your parent might have be your saviour that day. Be thankful and let him breakup if he wants to break up, you might even meet with someone better than him again cos everything works for good. Heartheart: 1 Like |
Re: My Boyfriend Is On The Verge Of Leaving Me. Help! by Juliearth(f): 7:31am On Aug 17, 2020 |
humilitypays: While you may be right, my concern is why and how he is forcing her to do it regardless of her parents' disapproval. If a man loves you, he must honour your parents too. Women don't have to give in to sex to validate a relationship, what will be will be. Sex cannot keep a man that doesn't want to be kept... 1 Like |
Re: My Boyfriend Is On The Verge Of Leaving Me. Help! by kimjessey2019: 7:38am On Aug 17, 2020 |
All this grammar is just for sex ooh. Girl child shaa |
Re: My Boyfriend Is On The Verge Of Leaving Me. Help! by humilitypays(m): 7:39am On Aug 17, 2020 |
Juliearth:You are saying the right thing that ought to be done. But I still tell u sister, those who do the right thing in this world don't always get the best, most times those who do the wrong thing get the best, maybe this world is structured for those that will risk it all without fear. Check those who are usually quiet and reserved, they most times don't end up successful while the stubborn, arrogant ones usually end up super successful, observe this from today. Life no balance at all. Majority of married couples you see and envy, if they tell u how they met, or if the women tell u what their boyfriends who is now their husbands made them to do eh, u go shock. Don't just conclude that a man that wants to marry a lady wouldn't want her to take some risk, not true oh, some boyfriends will even tell their girlfriend to leave her parents and run away with him and at the end they will be happily married and its usually such men that restrict their own daughters because they know how bad they were as a single guy. Some guys that will respect you, respect your parents, respect even the ground u walk on as their girlfriend may still end up dumping you for another lady when they want to marry, so its just a game. Relationship is a game of luck, u may do all the right things and still end up dumped, and another lady may do all the bad bad things and still end up married to a wonderful man earlier than the good girls. I repeat, life no balance sister 2 Likes |
Re: My Boyfriend Is On The Verge Of Leaving Me. Help! by Juliearth(f): 7:42am On Aug 17, 2020 |
humilitypays: You are right, but we cant continue to sin so grace can abound. Regardless of how you want to tweak this coin,decency pays. 2 Likes |
Re: My Boyfriend Is On The Verge Of Leaving Me. Help! by themanderon: 7:45am On Aug 17, 2020 |
I know that despite all the warnings and advises an ear destined for destruction will still find a way to go. Just know that if anything happens to you, your blood Will be on your head. Remember that girl Cynthia, she went and never returned. We don't wanna see a sad story of a missing girl on nairaland. |
Re: My Boyfriend Is On The Verge Of Leaving Me. Help! by golddare: 7:45am On Aug 17, 2020 |
Heartheart: Naso we men dey so so relax he is using the playbook unless you are not unique and worth your onions. If you have defined your relationship tell him to visit you at home, tell your parents about him, tell him youb wan to introduce him after all you are not a baby. |
Re: My Boyfriend Is On The Verge Of Leaving Me. Help! by EncourageMe: 7:46am On Aug 17, 2020 |
Though i noticed some lies or misguided statement in your post but let me still comment,,, Firstly you said you passed out in June and that was the time you you guys met last, below you also said the Guy do come to Abeokuta to stay in the hotel and he said he is now tired of coming... We only have small interval between June and August... June, July, August.... Can you correct those things please? or is your write-up a fake one?.... Now for the advice you need, you have already seen many ones above me, The young man is lusting after you and not love... stop pre- marital sex now because it will only put you in regret... you do not need to tell us that sexual intercourse is already involved in the relationship, we already know. If the young man is matured enough to handle open relationship, let him visit your residential home and see you because you are already a graduate and you are now matured enough to be in open relationship not all the hide and seek game you have been doing. I love your parents, they must be educated and God fearing, kudos to them. |
Re: My Boyfriend Is On The Verge Of Leaving Me. Help! by Libakabosh: 7:46am On Aug 17, 2020 |
I am sure there is a part of brain of young people that get blocked while growing. So in your normal sense, you lie to your parents to allow you go see a stupid guy that sees spending money in a hotel as unnecessary yet has spent that much to prepare his bedroom for free sex. But when you get pregnant tomorrow and he abandons you, you will still run back to your parents. If you want sex, get married, live the idiot and don't even pick his calls until he apologises for putting you into such avoidable corner...he is just after your body, he does not love you at all. That your parents prevent you from being promiscuous is a sign that you have great parents and believe it or not, from the day you start disobeying them on immoral issues like this, that's the day your life becomes miserable. Heartheart: |
Re: My Boyfriend Is On The Verge Of Leaving Me. Help! by Agugbadin: 7:53am On Aug 17, 2020 |
Righteousness89: Very true, let him come and see your parents. They will gladly receive him. What if something happens to you while you away with him, no one pray for such but your parents will hold your girl friend responsible. You are matured enough to introduce your fiance to your parents. 1 Like |
Re: My Boyfriend Is On The Verge Of Leaving Me. Help! by Fucsheetup(f): 7:54am On Aug 17, 2020 |
frozen70:She is still under her parents because she’s lazy, what is a 22year old graduate still doing in her parents house? Nigerians are amusing, when does one become a full fledged adult in your country? At 30? 2 Likes |
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