Re: I Want To Give My Daughter Up For Adoption by jagaban002(m): 7:05am On Aug 17, 2020 |
spiralwedge: Mizflo, Give her up for adoption. That's the right thing now.
It will be tough at first, but best you adjust and face your life squarely while she's in safe hands.
If you don't, you will suffer her for nothing and it will affect you getting the best out of the remaining years in your life.
Never be tired of this life, always make use of new opportunities even if it is not conventional or popular. In this case, your opportunity is to be able to make something out of your life while your daughter grows elsewhere to be an adult.
You will be fine, she will be fine too. Which state are you? I don’t know people this much intelligent are on nairaland , God bless you sir .
Modified: I just read other people's comments above mine. Please ignore them. They sit comfortably typing without empathy and with the typical Nigerian mindset.
Adoption is very good, your daughter will have people she can look up to as parents/guardians. She needs that foundation at least till when she is 18. You are merely 21 and this is your chance to restart your life. If you don't take this chance, you will suddenly reach 40, depressed, broke, miserable and suicidal. Please take this chance, especially for your daughter to have a home. |
Re: I Want To Give My Daughter Up For Adoption by mike272(m): 7:06am On Aug 17, 2020 |
unclemaths:
You are an embittered soul in serious need of help.
Whao, you needed help and you actually said the quoted?!
Maybe all those talks about you were true by the way.
Haven't you read about Biblical Job? Joseph? Hanna? Sarah?
Please, don't add blasphemy to your issues.
Nothing do your daughter.. You are the one in serious need of help. This response is pathetic and lacks empathy. Why are we Christian in a hurry to preach christ to someone that is dying physically and dire need of help? Save her from the present situation first, then preach Christ to her. This is like praying to an accident victim or asking him/her to give her life to christ before taking the person to the hospital. 2 Likes |
Re: I Want To Give My Daughter Up For Adoption by KennedicalEnergy(m): 7:07am On Aug 17, 2020 |
There are choices we make in life that are called the irreversible choices. That is what you have just made.
How I wish the younger ones can learn from your story in order not to toe that same path. |
Re: I Want To Give My Daughter Up For Adoption by Nobody: 7:10am On Aug 17, 2020 |
Saao: bro your solution wasnt complete. Before you led one to Christ if you see her naked, cloth her first so that u can preach to her. I read it with tears in my eyes. I saw a girl that has suffered and still suffering. So u don't just bring Jesus to her, first find her a shelter, what to do, then preaching follow. Honestly, I was shocked reading his nonsense. What if the girl is a Muslim or a traditionalist? That is how they lure people to their religion with false promises. What is wrong in him rendering help to the said lady and thereby bringing her to Christ through his good deeds? |
Re: I Want To Give My Daughter Up For Adoption by Monaco2(m): 7:11am On Aug 17, 2020 |
Mizflo: Please I need your advice. I had created this account because I am well known here with my main account because I am always active and I want to remain anonymously.
Am 21 a single mum with 1 girl age 5 , her dad rejected me when I was pregnant he left when I was 4 months pregnant with her .
I had a difficult time growing up , my mum died when I was 8 years and my dad denied me claiming my mum had cheated on him and there’s no way I could be his daughter.
My aunty who was supposed to care for me had never bothered about me , she was always out leaving me in the house all alone without food , whenever I complains she will beat me telling me to go to my mum graveyard to ask her for assistance.
I have suffered in the hand of my aunty she didn’t care about my education if I have managed to complete my primary school till jss2 was thanks to this aunty who was a teacher at my school and a good friend of my mum , she sponsored me , And when I was 14 my aunty landlord kicked her out of the house because of rent arrears she said I am the enemy of progress she cant take me to her boyfriend house because he won’t accept me to stay there that I should go and look for a place , I cried and pleaded with her to take me along with her but she refuse I beg her to show me where my dad is she said he will not accept me because he hated my mum but I beg her to take me to him .
She took me to him it was my first time seeing him I looked just like him with one eye big one small but he insulted the hell out of us saying he will never accept me because my mum was a cheater she had so many boyfriends that I should ask her who my real father is but my aunty insisted that my mum had told her before she passed on that he was my dad even taught I resembled him still he denied and kicked us out like we were dogs I cried and my aunty was angry because of the insult so she left me all alone in the street but later came to me . Since that day my life situation has worsened because I was forced to stay with different people where I was being abused , my baby dad came as a guardian angel to my life he took care of everything i needed by promising me heaven on Earth I taught he will get me out of my hard situations but I was wrong i find out he was married with kids I was heartbroken because I didn’t want to live the same lifestyle as my mum had lived but history has repeated itself just like my mother had me with a married man but she knew he was married but me I didn’t know , but it was too late for me to moved on because I was already pregnant for him and I didn’t want to abort my baby I have decide to continue the relationship but when I was 4 months pregnant he left me and blocked me from all his contacts , this is the man that has never bothered to asked about his child for 5 years now..
My little girl dont even know her dad the same way I did not know mine until I was 14 which break my heart anytime I think about it.
My daughter and I are staying with my madam the lady tat I serve her for now 3 years but things here hasn’t been easy for us because my madam children don’t like me they keep accusing of things I don’t do like I stole their money , clothes and many more before my madam was telling them to stop with their bad attitudes towards me but I have noticed that whenever they had accused me she start getting angry with me sometimes we can go days without her not talking to me which I think I have overstayed and I am not longer wanted here I want to leave this house and to go and hustle but I feared for my daughter because I don’t want her to end up like me.
If I leave this house we will be on the street for a long time till I will be able to get somewhere else to stay with her also I don’t think I can give her the best education because if she stay with me she will end up being a teen mother just like I did something I don’t want to happen to her and I came across someone who’s willing to help me by taking care of my daughter to give her the best life something that I have always wanted for her , she promised to take care of her till university and she will give me the money to rent a room and start up business she said she will take things to the right direction like adoption but I don’t know how she will do it because I have no idea that I will have to sign up papers for agreement i have agreed because I think is really a good opportunity for me even taught I have accepted but sometimes I am getting worried about giving her my daughter I am having sleepless nights and thinking all nights.
I am just tired of living this life I didn’t ask to be born my parents created me and now I am suffering from their mistakes something I didn’t consented and I don’t want my daughter to suffer because of my mistake I think giving her up for adoption is a good thing , but I don’t know if I am doing the right things.
please no insult what is your advice for me.
Thanks Which state Are u from?!? |
Re: I Want To Give My Daughter Up For Adoption by Okpogo2020: 7:13am On Aug 17, 2020 |
Mizflo:
Thanks for the advice. I have lost faith in Jesus because if he was there I wouldn’t have been suffering like this . I don’t want to look for him because he has never care about me and I don’t want to know him This exactly where your problem is. Jesus Cares 2 Likes |
Re: I Want To Give My Daughter Up For Adoption by Openbusiness: 7:16am On Aug 17, 2020 |
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Re: I Want To Give My Daughter Up For Adoption by sexyyoyo(m): 7:17am On Aug 17, 2020 |
Mizflo:
Thanks for the advice. I have lost faith in Jesus because if he was there I wouldn’t have been suffering like this . I don’t want to look for him because he has never care about me and I don’t want to know him This is very wrong of you. People have faced difficult situations more than this. Yet overcome. The very mistake of your life is to leave your child for adoption. Tough time never last but tough people do. If it's job you are looking for, I can provide you one while you also keep your daughter. Renting a year room isn't a big deal as well. This woman claiming to adopt your child might sell out your child once you sign all papers which you might not be privilege to read the full content of it and also understand it thereby giving you proceeds of the sale of your daughter to you and also rent a room for you. Whoever that wants to help you, will never separate a mother from her child. 1 Like |
Re: I Want To Give My Daughter Up For Adoption by Nobody: 7:17am On Aug 17, 2020 |
Righteousness89:
Thus Says the Lord,
You will Seek me and Find me when you Search for me with all your Heart..
JESUS is Waiting for you with open Arms..
When you are Ready to Meet Him, you will get Solution What's this got to do with religion and Jesus? |
Re: I Want To Give My Daughter Up For Adoption by Nobody: 7:19am On Aug 17, 2020 |
steve11215: [Tquote author=Mizflo post=92867426] Thanks for the advice. I have lost faith in Jesus because if he was there I wouldn’t have been suffering like this . I don’t want to look for him because he has never care about me and I don’t want to know him
And this is the reason he has not come ..... You really have not welcomed him
Babe nobody can help you here "only Jesus" forget the delay and look up to him So, Jesus will send her money to feed her family? Are you this daft? Why can't you allow Jesus to use you for her? In the end, people like you "might" end up hearing words like this, "depart from me ye sinners for I know you not". If you think the above words are for gentiles, you better read your Bible again. They are for hypocrite who knew what to do but are hiding behind religion. 1 Like |
Re: I Want To Give My Daughter Up For Adoption by Levels1(m): 7:21am On Aug 17, 2020 |
Heartheart: what's the guarantee that the child won't go through series of abuse even worse than the mother. This is not USA that there are laws binding adoption. This is Nigeria .the child will most likely be used as a maid. She was even promised money for rent. It's more like they're trading the daughter. If she signs those papers, she won't have any rights whatsoever over the child. She can even be denied contact with her. U see what happened to u OP when someone else raised u. U see what happened. And she was your aunt o. Life is gonna be hard but u have to pick yourself up and struggle. If it's to hawk, my dear hawk. I've met ppl that we're raised by single mothers and they told their stories of their struggles. But today, things are getting better. OP if you want to break that chain, raise your child the right way, put her in school. Public school is there. When she comes back, let her assists u. Ask about her studies, tell her to read and encourage her. Because if that girl becomes successful, you'll be the first to reap from it. There are several menial jobs u can do. Struggle, it will be worth it in the end I promise u. Give that child the love and care u never had, train her well. You will surely reap the fruit of your labor. Heartheart pls can we talk privately? |
Re: I Want To Give My Daughter Up For Adoption by Nobody: 7:22am On Aug 17, 2020 |
Righteousness89: I will be Very Frank with you!
Until the Root Cause of a Problem is Tackled, one might keep Going in Circles. And also using Basket to Fetch Water..
The Same Pattern of your Mum is Exactly what Happened to you.
Its time for you to treat that issue..
It does not look like what can be done by Power.
My Advice to you is to Seek For GENUIE Bible Believing Church. Go there, Surrender to JESUS Completely and Let HIM Work on you..
You need to be Soaked in God to Break Certain yokes and Patterns..
Once the Root Cause is Sorted, other things will Fall in Place..
You think she don't pray to a God?, you didn't she haven't waited for that breakthrough for long from any God that will answer her....this is what church should be doing, she doesn't need to be from that church, it's not religion, she's not suffering because she didn't know God or haven't prayed with tears looking up in heaven.... She just haven't found help.... Most times that help takes time.... Sometimes it takes so long. |
Re: I Want To Give My Daughter Up For Adoption by 15ssDRIVE(m): 7:22am On Aug 17, 2020 |
Mizflo: Please I need your advice. I had created this account because I am well known here with my main account because I am always active and I want to remain anonymously.
Am 21 a single mum with 1 girl age 5 , her dad rejected me when I was pregnant he left when I was 4 months pregnant with her .
I had a difficult time growing up , my mum died when I was 8 years and my dad denied me claiming my mum had cheated on him and there’s no way I could be his daughter.
My aunty who was supposed to care for me had never bothered about me , she was always out leaving me in the house all alone without food , whenever I complains she will beat me telling me to go to my mum graveyard to ask her for assistance.
I have suffered in the hand of my aunty she didn’t care about my education if I have managed to complete my primary school till jss2 was thanks to this aunty who was a teacher at my school and a good friend of my mum , she sponsored me , And when I was 14 my aunty landlord kicked her out of the house because of rent arrears she said I am the enemy of progress she cant take me to her boyfriend house because he won’t accept me to stay there that I should go and look for a place , I cried and pleaded with her to take me along with her but she refuse I beg her to show me where my dad is she said he will not accept me because he hated my mum but I beg her to take me to him .
She took me to him it was my first time seeing him I looked just like him with one eye big one small but he insulted the hell out of us saying he will never accept me because my mum was a cheater she had so many boyfriends that I should ask her who my real father is but my aunty insisted that my mum had told her before she passed on that he was my dad even taught I resembled him still he denied and kicked us out like we were dogs I cried and my aunty was angry because of the insult so she left me all alone in the street but later came to me . Since that day my life situation has worsened because I was forced to stay with different people where I was being abused , my baby dad came as a guardian angel to my life he took care of everything i needed by promising me heaven on Earth I taught he will get me out of my hard situations but I was wrong i find out he was married with kids I was heartbroken because I didn’t want to live the same lifestyle as my mum had lived but history has repeated itself just like my mother had me with a married man but she knew he was married but me I didn’t know , but it was too late for me to moved on because I was already pregnant for him and I didn’t want to abort my baby I have decide to continue the relationship but when I was 4 months pregnant he left me and blocked me from all his contacts , this is the man that has never bothered to asked about his child for 5 years now..
My little girl dont even know her dad the same way I did not know mine until I was 14 which break my heart anytime I think about it.
My daughter and I are staying with my madam the lady tat I serve her for now 3 years but things here hasn’t been easy for us because my madam children don’t like me they keep accusing of things I don’t do like I stole their money , clothes and many more before my madam was telling them to stop with their bad attitudes towards me but I have noticed that whenever they had accused me she start getting angry with me sometimes we can go days without her not talking to me which I think I have overstayed and I am not longer wanted here I want to leave this house and to go and hustle but I feared for my daughter because I don’t want her to end up like me.
If I leave this house we will be on the street for a long time till I will be able to get somewhere else to stay with her also I don’t think I can give her the best education because if she stay with me she will end up being a teen mother just like I did something I don’t want to happen to her and I came across someone who’s willing to help me by taking care of my daughter to give her the best life something that I have always wanted for her , she promised to take care of her till university and she will give me the money to rent a room and start up business she said she will take things to the right direction like adoption but I don’t know how she will do it because I have no idea that I will have to sign up papers for agreement i have agreed because I think is really a good opportunity for me even taught I have accepted but sometimes I am getting worried about giving her my daughter I am having sleepless nights and thinking all nights.
I am just tired of living this life I didn’t ask to be born my parents created me and now I am suffering from their mistakes something I didn’t consented and I don’t want my daughter to suffer because of my mistake I think giving her up for adoption is a good thing , but I don’t know if I am doing the right things.
please no insult what is your advice for me.
Thanks So sorry about all your predicaments. Olofo lon binu,Ologo...... They will never hate you,if you don’t have a bigger tomorrow. Don’t give up on your daughter,pls don’t. Think of her like your only sister,your mum God bless and forgive her shortcomings. Amennnn Tell NL more about you,your location and what you currently do ...... Your angel might be here. |
Re: I Want To Give My Daughter Up For Adoption by adebiyi1234: 7:23am On Aug 17, 2020 |
Pls don't give your daughter for adoption, 2 serious thing that you may not get able to sought out may happen,if u give her 4 adoption first, think what of if u did not have another baby till u left this world and the only one you have is given out for adoption , because u can't claim the child back again second,what of if the father of your daughter came back to reclaim his daughter by making a case with u and then u are unable to trace the child at that period, pls think very,the best advice had given unto u ,by either approach the matter legally or locate any RCCG church for help and give life to God,I pray that God will lead u in a right way . |
Re: I Want To Give My Daughter Up For Adoption by timocruzcmbb(m): 7:25am On Aug 17, 2020 |
loneprof:
My dear, I hope all you wrote is true and I genuinely feel bad for you. What the guy wrote about seeking God is true and I also understand that due to your situation, you feel abandoned and alone, but it doesn't negate the fact that what he said is true.
Since this your baby daddy denied the child, have you reported to the police? You can also contact human rights/welfare agency to take up the case with him cos he doesn't have a right to deny his child's paternity. Don't sit down and be looking, contact the nearest police station and explain your situation, they will drag the guy to welfare and force him to pay for the child's upkeep, after all, you didn't impregnate yourself. ![](/faces/huh.png) This is the only advice I can ask you to follow,you don’t need to go to a police station,go to any of your local government secretaries explain everything that happen between you and the man,they will invite him over,if he deny the child that he is not sure he is the father,he will be forced to do a dna � text Nd if he is the father he will be paying your monthly for the child warfare and you can look for other means to survive,if you are in Lagos there are so many things you can do and history will not repeat itself(kindly go and learn a hand work like tailor,it will help you a lot and your daughter)don’t ever give your daughter for adoption she might be abuse too.the only reason you were in this pains was because you where lose from the mistake of your parent,it affected you too,you can end it all be still,strong,fight and never give up,the lord will be your strength. |
Re: I Want To Give My Daughter Up For Adoption by JOSH54: 7:30am On Aug 17, 2020 |
LIFE IS A MISERY |
Re: I Want To Give My Daughter Up For Adoption by Johnsown1(m): 7:37am On Aug 17, 2020 |
You don't know what will become of her if you give her up for adoption and I know it won't be easy taken care of her too all alone. My advice to you is that you should go to a bible believing church tell the pastor or rev.father this ordeal without hiding anything and I know that will help out. Or you can visit some agency that's takes care of this affairs. They will invite the man and compel him to be paying for the upkeep. At the same time seek Gods face. |
Re: I Want To Give My Daughter Up For Adoption by Trendsoulmate(f): 7:39am On Aug 17, 2020 |
Please contact me and let us talk on phone if you are interested. I'm female and married with children so dont be afraid. Giving her up for adoption is not an option please, you will regret it. Please contact me or send me a message privately let's talk. |
Re: I Want To Give My Daughter Up For Adoption by michyjesus(f): 7:41am On Aug 17, 2020 |
I sympathize with you I also a close experience with yours though you're much younger than I was but I never gave up You can save money from whatever she pays you,get a small place even a batcher is not bad. But don't forget to inform her and thank ur madam immensely for her support before leaving. Don't ever give your 5 years old daughter for adoption You'll live to regret it all ur life... If you happen not to work for your madam again, you can start a food stuff business and then plan, everything will fall into place Never you forsake God Talk to him and have a personal relationship with him. It is well with you and your daughter |
Re: I Want To Give My Daughter Up For Adoption by richbox(m): 7:43am On Aug 17, 2020 |
spiralwedge: Mizflo, Give her up for adoption. That's the right thing now.
It will be tough at first, but best you adjust and face your life squarely while she's in safe hands.
If you don't, you will suffer her for nothing and it will affect you getting the best out of the remaining years in your life.
Never be tired of this life, always make use of new opportunities even if it is not conventional or popular. In this case, your opportunity is to be able to make something out of your life while your daughter grows elsewhere to be an adult.
You will be fine, she will be fine too. Which state are you?
Modified: I just read other people's comments above mine. Please ignore them. They sit comfortably typing without empathy and with the typical Nigerian mindset.
Adoption is very good, your daughter will have people she can look up to as parents/guardians. She needs that foundation at least till when she is 18. You are merely 21 and this is your chance to restart your life. If you don't take this chance, you will suddenly reach 40, depressed, broke, miserable and suicidal. Please take this chance, especially for your daughter to have a home. You spoke wisely, I adopt your response 100% . |
Re: I Want To Give My Daughter Up For Adoption by roqrules04(m): 7:46am On Aug 17, 2020 |
We seriously need "Child Support" Law in this country |
Re: I Want To Give My Daughter Up For Adoption by onyebuchibossV: 8:02am On Aug 17, 2020 |
There is no root cause, she was just born in the wrong circumstances, not everything you guys shoukd attribute to being spiritual. If she was here in tge UK, I would have adopted her myself. Righteousness89: I will be Very Frank with you!
Until the Root Cause of a Problem is Tackled, one might keep Going in Circles. And also using Basket to Fetch Water..
The Same Pattern of your Mum is Exactly what Happened to you.
Its time for you to treat that issue..
It does not look like what can be done by Power.
My Advice to you is to Seek For GENUIE Bible Believing Church. Go there, Surrender to JESUS Completely and Let HIM Work on you..
You need to be Soaked in God to Break Certain yokes and Patterns..
Once the Root Cause is Sorted, other things will Fall in Place..
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Re: I Want To Give My Daughter Up For Adoption by senchibi: 8:04am On Aug 17, 2020 |
Righteousness89:
Thus Says the Lord,
You will Seek me and Find me when you Search for me with all your Heart..
JESUS is Waiting for you with open Arms..
When you are Ready to Meet Him, you will get Solution Oga shut up and give her an advice that will help her get her life back on track. We all know Jesus is Lord and saves and delivers. Why can't you be vessel the Lord can use to change her physical and not just her spiritual life.? When you preach to a person. Then try and offer physical solution to her problems. That's how all You'all will still go to hell with Una over righteous life. Read Matt 25:42 ----45 This is what it says for I was hungry and you gave Me no food; I was thirsty and you gave Me no drink. Then shall he answer them, saying, Verily I say unto you, Inasmuch as ye did it not to one of the least of these, ye did it not to me.. |
Re: I Want To Give My Daughter Up For Adoption by nnakelechi1(m): 8:07am On Aug 17, 2020 |
08138708740 Call me i can be of help |
Re: I Want To Give My Daughter Up For Adoption by Mires: 8:08am On Aug 17, 2020 |
Mizflo: Please I need your advice. I had created this account because I am well known here with my main account because I am always active and I want to remain anonymously.
Am 21 a single mum with 1 girl age 5 , her dad rejected me when I was pregnant he left when I was 4 months pregnant with her .
I had a difficult time growing up , my mum died when I was 8 years and my dad denied me claiming my mum had cheated on him and there’s no way I could be his daughter.
My aunty who was supposed to care for me had never bothered about me , she was always out leaving me in the house all alone without food , whenever I complains she will beat me telling me to go to my mum graveyard to ask her for assistance.
I have suffered in the hand of my aunty she didn’t care about my education if I have managed to complete my primary school till jss2 was thanks to this aunty who was a teacher at my school and a good friend of my mum , she sponsored me , And when I was 14 my aunty landlord kicked her out of the house because of rent arrears she said I am the enemy of progress she cant take me to her boyfriend house because he won’t accept me to stay there that I should go and look for a place , I cried and pleaded with her to take me along with her but she refuse I beg her to show me where my dad is she said he will not accept me because he hated my mum but I beg her to take me to him .
She took me to him it was my first time seeing him I looked just like him with one eye big one small but he insulted the hell out of us saying he will never accept me because my mum was a cheater she had so many boyfriends that I should ask her who my real father is but my aunty insisted that my mum had told her before she passed on that he was my dad even taught I resembled him still he denied and kicked us out like we were dogs I cried and my aunty was angry because of the insult so she left me all alone in the street but later came to me . Since that day my life situation has worsened because I was forced to stay with different people where I was being abused , my baby dad came as a guardian angel to my life he took care of everything i needed by promising me heaven on Earth I taught he will get me out of my hard situations but I was wrong i find out he was married with kids I was heartbroken because I didn’t want to live the same lifestyle as my mum had lived but history has repeated itself just like my mother had me with a married man but she knew he was married but me I didn’t know , but it was too late for me to moved on because I was already pregnant for him and I didn’t want to abort my baby I have decide to continue the relationship but when I was 4 months pregnant he left me and blocked me from all his contacts , this is the man that has never bothered to asked about his child for 5 years now..
My little girl dont even know her dad the same way I did not know mine until I was 14 which break my heart anytime I think about it.
My daughter and I are staying with my madam the lady tat I serve her for now 3 years but things here hasn’t been easy for us because my madam children don’t like me they keep accusing of things I don’t do like I stole their money , clothes and many more before my madam was telling them to stop with their bad attitudes towards me but I have noticed that whenever they had accused me she start getting angry with me sometimes we can go days without her not talking to me which I think I have overstayed and I am not longer wanted here I want to leave this house and to go and hustle but I feared for my daughter because I don’t want her to end up like me.
If I leave this house we will be on the street for a long time till I will be able to get somewhere else to stay with her also I don’t think I can give her the best education because if she stay with me she will end up being a teen mother just like I did something I don’t want to happen to her and I came across someone who’s willing to help me by taking care of my daughter to give her the best life something that I have always wanted for her , she promised to take care of her till university and she will give me the money to rent a room and start up business she said she will take things to the right direction like adoption but I don’t know how she will do it because I have no idea that I will have to sign up papers for agreement i have agreed because I think is really a good opportunity for me even taught I have accepted but sometimes I am getting worried about giving her my daughter I am having sleepless nights and thinking all nights.
I am just tired of living this life I didn’t ask to be born my parents created me and now I am suffering from their mistakes something I didn’t consented and I don’t want my daughter to suffer because of my mistake I think giving her up for adoption is a good thing , but I don’t know if I am doing the right things.
please no insult what is your advice for me.
Thanks Having read your script, I choose to quote you so that you can see this. With your level of education, your written English reveals something good can still come out from you. The very first person to comment (Rigtheouness89) said a lot of what I would have said. In addition to what he said, I will give you a clearer step to re-write your story for good - spiritually, physically, materially and otherwise (3rd John 1 v 2). While reading your write up, I wanted to point out your mistakes until I saw, "Please, no insult". If the root problem is not addressed, given out your girl child for adoption will return her to where you find yourself. It is a matter of few years. I don't know the city you are. Wherever, you are, find your way to Port Harcourt. Preferably, arrive PH on Sunday morning alongside your girl child. Find your way to Rumuokoro Round About. From there, you will see taxi drivers shouting "OPM" "OPM" "OPM". Enter along side other worshippers. At the church gate or inside the premise, look for one of the protocols and relate your problems and what you have gone through in life. Tell him/her that someone you have never met, on reading your story, advised you to travel and see Apostle Chibuzor Chinyere (GO of OPM). That though he's not a member or worshipper of Omega Power Ministries (OPM), he's 100% confident that once you are allowed to see and meet with Apostle Chibuzor Chinyere, the man whom God is using to give life to the hopeless, to take people (criminals, prostitutes, down trodden, etc) out from the streets, and give them shelter, clothing, food, education, trade, crafts, etc, your life and that of your daughter will never remain the same in terms of deliverance, accommodation, care, education, and otherwis. I want to see you testify here and everywhere. OPM, Dr Jesus! Dr. Jesus in action!! God is here!!! I would have sent Apostle Chibuzor Chinyere phone number to you. But I don't want to display it here. You can reach out to me for that. If you are lucky to call him and he picks, he can send you transport to come if you tell him you don't have transport. Secondly, you get instant appointment that does not require protocols. Please if you are lucky for him to pick your call,, please on phone, he doesn't entertain stories. He has no patience for stories possibly because of his schedules. Straight to the point. And leave stories for when you meet him physically. |
Re: I Want To Give My Daughter Up For Adoption by membranus: 8:09am On Aug 17, 2020 |
Righteousness89:
I Have Given the Solution..
You can Keep touring up and down .. That's Human Nature! We are Naturally Stubborn.
When u are Through with touring the ends of the Earth, u will come back to JESUS . That is where your Solution lies.... Christ will not talk to her the way you speak up hère. It is when you have gone through what she is going through and found solution through your advice above that you can recommend such. What she needs is compassion and gentle persuasion by introducing her to various Biblical verses that will her open eyes to what Jesus can do for her to end her terrible situation. But here you are enforcing Christ on her like a Boko Haram warrior, the same way many hypocritical church members do forcing many out of Christ's compassionate way. Your preaching here doesn't prove that you have already made heaven, because it is written that we that think we stand should beware lest we fall. Preach Christ compassion and love to all sinners through his death on the Calvary cross and His willingness to help in carrying their yokes and burdens, but you are always preaching death and hell. CHANGE YOUR TACTICS!!!! |
Re: I Want To Give My Daughter Up For Adoption by xest(m): 8:10am On Aug 17, 2020 |
Righteousness89: I will be Very Frank with you!
Until the Root Cause of a Problem is Tackled, one might keep Going in Circles. And also using Basket to Fetch Water..
The Same Pattern of your Mum is Exactly what Happened to you.
Its time for you to treat that issue..
It does not look like what can be done by Power.
My Advice to you is to Seek For GENUIE Bible Believing Church. Go there, Surrender to JESUS Completely and Let HIM Work on you..
You need to be Soaked in God to Break Certain yokes and Patterns..
Once the Root Cause is Sorted, other things will Fall in Place..
Thats the worst advice you gave her. What do you mean by going to a Bible believeing church? |
Re: I Want To Give My Daughter Up For Adoption by Donbigi2(m): 8:13am On Aug 17, 2020 |
[quote author=JOSH54 post=92907037][/quote] I'm on her side chief. she was a minor, she didn't know better. The adult should be punished/scolded not her 1 Like |
Re: I Want To Give My Daughter Up For Adoption by vandykeoo7(m): 8:13am On Aug 17, 2020 |
sorry for what ever challenge u re currently facing, but the truth here is that u ar facing a generational curse which u cannot battle on ur own. Even if u adopt her out i bet u ur life and her's will still go same direction ur mum's have gone. SOLUTION= LOOK for a spiritual church or a strong and genuine man of God to separate you and ur daughter from whatever curse or bondage that follows ur family before any other move. |
Re: I Want To Give My Daughter Up For Adoption by UcLloyd: 8:14am On Aug 17, 2020 |
Nairaland is the worse place to seek advice. Imagine what so people are telling this young lady. If u force the father of the baby to take his child, will u be there to stop his resentment towards the baby? Will u be there to help this young lady if eventually she gets the court to force the father of the baby to contribute to the baby's welfare and the money is not enough to give that child an education? U guys are very selfish, thinking of the young lady's happiness over this poor child whose crime is being birthed by this young lady. OP if u love this baby, give her up for adoption to someone who can afford to offer her good education, do your research well on the person adopting her, possibly deal with the husband of any woman who's interested in adopting your baby. It will be painful at first, but always remember she's having a shot at a better life. Don't keep that child if u can't fed her well and give her a sound education, if u do, u will be worse than your own father |
Re: I Want To Give My Daughter Up For Adoption by FaithfulServant(m): 8:17am On Aug 17, 2020 |
Mizflo:
Thanks for the advice. I have lost faith in Jesus because if he was there I wouldn’t have been suffering like this . I don’t want to look for him because he has never care about me and I don’t want to know him Please don't give up your hope in Jesus. I personally saw the visible hand of God through Christ in my life. I suffered too but he came to the rescue. Don't give up the child for adoption. That child has a great role to play in your life. Join the Facebook group "Your Problem My Problem (YPMP)". Send a private message to the admin of the group saying you are the lady from nairaland. You will be added to the list of people under care and I will support anytime I can in catering for your child. Visit also www.simplebibleclass.com to strengthen your faith. |
Re: I Want To Give My Daughter Up For Adoption by kingvick09(m): 8:21am On Aug 17, 2020 |
Mizflo:
Thanks for the advice. I have lost faith in Jesus because if he was there I wouldn’t have been suffering like this . I don’t want to look for him because he has never care about me and I don’t want to know him You're wrong sister, the fact you,are still alive nd breathing is a sign of hope, jesus loves you very much ! !i think things might keep getting complicated if you choose to live avoiding making the kinda mistake you mum made rather than focusing more on how to be better by living your life how you want inorder to benefit your future..... everyone always have a story to tell!!! DONT GIVE UP YOUR LITTLE GIRL NO MATTER HOW HARD IT IS..... I WOULD LOVE TO BE OF HELP IN MY OWN LITTLE WAY IF ONLY I CAN PROVE YOUR STORIES ARE TRUE WITH PROOF ! ... 07057635533 PLEASE CONTACT ME ON WHATSAPP |