Nigerians your help is highly needed. Shaun, pls front page.

What kind of wife constantly denies of her husband full conjugal rights. Even during time a woman's body craves 4 sex, husband put condom on, she went into bathroom, urinated and fingered herself to satisfaction there only to come out sighing upnand down saying she is in a bad mood. That their business is not going well.

This case is serious. A man who rushes home once market closes. Rarely goes out. In fact fellow men always say he doesn't come out.

What on earth is the name of the devil manipulating my wife? For your info , I dont cheat on her and we never had any cheating case.
HELP ME PLS!!@

Truth be told,she isn't into you.or you don't know how to satisfy her.
Most Nigerian men only care about penetrating a woman to their satisfaction.they don't even bother to be romantic during the day.
Op,sex to a woman,starts from how you treat her during the day.

She is only trying to control you using sex don't fall for it. I believe u know what to do.

Two things are involved
If she is pregnant, she might not have craving for sexual intercourse and secondly if you cant satisfy her on bed each time you make love, it's just a total waste of time. Some men don't know their wife weak point sef.

Has she ever reach orgasm before? Maybe you should check the way you make love to her. Try new methods.

Baba if she no play her part, push am comot. They're too many single women in Nigeria who are always ready to perform and give their husband his rightful right. Why u wan die for one yeye woman mata. I hate nonsense

C try

Op guess U know sex is a mutual fulfilment and not automatic? According to Hebrew scriptures, it ll take one year for newly married couples to learn how to have mutual sexual satisfaction.
Answer this questions
Do you only focus on intercourse alone ?
Is ur relationship with ur wife has been fractured by harsh words or irresponsible behaviour??

Your Dick ain't sweeting her cunt. Seems her fingers gets d job done more than the Diick.

Do you know how nauseating it is being pumped, with sweat and everything dripping and you jot even enjoying it? Not even climaxing? @Op better go on Jiji or Jumia and Buy a Vibrator to complement your sex, use it with her and stop seeing your Dick as one Champion cos many atimes it doesn't just get us there.

Buy Vibrator, clit stimulant if you will. This advice people dey pay money for am oo.

✓What the hell are you guys saying up there?

✓So because the man isn't a Kamasutra expert she should deny him sex?

✓So if a woman can't cook well enough, the husband should just walk out, leaving the food on the dinning table and eat at a good restaurant down the street? Whatever it is, they are supposed to sit each other's asses down and talk about it, they are one now for heaven's sake.

✓There are some things that shouldn't be done in marriages, one of which is denying your partner sex, unless you're sick or exhausted from the day's activities.

✓Even when some wives are angry with their husbands, they still don't deny him sex, sometimes after the sex, all is settled.

✓we read everyday that sex is one of the leading causes of divorce these days, still most women choose to weaponize it and they turn around to blame witches and the society when their marriages fail.

✓OP, my advise for you is, sit your wife down and ask her what her problem is, if you've done this before and she has never given you a clear answer, then by all means ask her if she is tired of the marriage, in a very clear and manly tone, don't shout, let her know you mean what you're asking. From there used your head.

Are you a stud, boa constrictor or fowl in bed? Her response depends on which one you identify with.
Stud is the master - can be controlled and also be in control. Loyal to the owner's needs and travels great distance without getting tired.

Boa constrictor will constrict the heck out of your life and leave you for dead. Doesn't give a damn about your feelings.

Fowl----- yeah right. Will woo you to hell and back but end up lasting seconds, leaving the partner unsatisfied and panting for more.

Well, all I know is that nobody abhors good sex. Maybe your sexual prowess is grossly below average. So to avoid the past, present and future embarrassments of being left unsatisfied, she has opted to touch home base and watch for any improvement.

Olosho na just 1k for my area, sshe make I give you address ni ? ?

That would be a reason to end the marriage.
This marriage wouldn't lead anywhere.
But you need to find out her reasons...
Perhaps the body chemistry is not there, maybe she doesn't like men. Perhaps she has a physical or emotional condition.
If she can open up then maybe one can find a solution.
If not ...you are just going to end up being denied.
Sex is so important in a marriage. That is the simple truth.
Often one partner may not be in the mood or may be tired but the desire to please the other partner can allow them to give it a shot...once you start and the attraction is there it just flows.

Maybe, just maybe she gets satisfaction from someone else who knows how to play than you

Or she doesn't find you sexually appealing....

Have you both sat down to discuss these issues??

Was she like this from the onset??

I see that you you made a similar post some time ago. I also read your resolution about it the last time. I guess, the measures you deployed did not work. Was there any improvement after the last time?
Why not have a conversation with her and come to a mutual agreement? If you are both open enough, you should be able to identify the problem. Problem identification is a vital step in solving it.
I wish you luck.

You learnt absolutely nothing from your last thread obviously.

I hope the mods won't make the mistake of taking this to the front page.

Your previous thread on this issue had 64k views, about 15 pages. If you didn't learn anything there, then go and seek solution elsewhere.

Your wife's libido is not on Nairaland.

portune:
Nigerians your help is highly needed. Shaun, pls front page.

What kind of wife constantly denies of her husband full conjugal rights. Even during time a woman's body craves 4 sex, husband put condom on, she went into bathroom, urinated and fingered herself to satisfaction there only to come out sighing upnand down saying she is in a bad mood. That their business is not going well.

This case is serious. A man who rushes home once market closes. Rarely goes out. In fact fellow men always say he doesn't come out.

What on earth is the name of the devil manipulating my wife? For your info , I dont cheat on her and we never had any cheating case.
HELP ME PLS!!@

Your dick game must be really wack.

Ishilove:

Your dick game must be really wack.

Acidosis:

That's one of the explanations. Another is she has a very low libido. Yet another is she is circumcised.

Ishilove:

That's one of the explanations. Another is she has a very low libido. Yet another is she is circumsised.

You're right

portune:
Nigerians your help is highly needed. Shaun, pls front page.

What kind of wife constantly denies of her husband full conjugal rights. Even during time a woman's body craves 4 sex, husband put condom on, she went into bathroom, urinated and fingered herself to satisfaction there only to come out sighing upnand down saying she is in a bad mood. That their business is not going well.

This case is serious. A man who rushes home once market closes. Rarely goes out. In fact fellow men always say he doesn't come out.

What on earth is the name of the devil manipulating my wife? For your info , I dont cheat on her and we never had any cheating case.
HELP ME PLS!!@

You should have had a serious talk with her first and find out why before coming online now. Is there something she's trying to subtly pass across you've not been getting. Get to her heart. Of course, don't be manipulated to do what is stupid but also be diplomatic if you're turning her request down. Marriage requires understanding. Don't just shove your rights in each other's faces. Except your relationship has gone sour and egos are getting in the way. This shouldn't be some big problem to solve.

If she pleases herself, then she has at least good libido. If she's not attempting manipulation, It would then shift to a matter of your performance in the BR. How hard can it be to please your wife? I could be wrong but from the way you even write, you seem to not be calm and collected enough to understand a woman's needs in the BR.
If your wife enjoys you, she should not be pleasing herself. Check your approach. Maybe you're too selfish, only want to climax and leave, not knowing that she must also climax to balance the equation.
How about pre-intimacy, caress her sensitive parts and get her stimulated, tickle her. Treat her like sex is about her too. Also tease her with the right words during the day building up to the action. Look clean and desirable enough. If possible change all your underwear and what you wear in the room to something appealing. Take a bath with nice scenting soap and even brush your teeth before you guys begin. You could even bathe each other, c'mon.
These kind of matters are too petty to take up the forum's space.

portune:
Nigerians your help is highly needed. Shaun, pls front page.

What kind of wife constantly denies of her husband full conjugal rights. Even during time a woman's body craves 4 sex, husband put condom on, she went into bathroom, urinated and fingered herself to satisfaction there only to come out sighing upnand down saying she is in a bad mood. That their business is not going well.

This case is serious. A man who rushes home once market closes. Rarely goes out. In fact fellow men always say he doesn't come out.

What on earth is the name of the devil manipulating my wife? For your info , I dont cheat on her and we never had any cheating case.
HELP ME PLS!!@

End time wife!
The self-pleaser!

She'd rather defraud her husband and please herself by herself!
What is the use of such a wife?

The op is not serious... You are just craving for unwanted attention with wack story..

So far its your marriage, engage her (not nairaland) with discussion and fix the errors. What is our business?

Close this thread.

Ishilove:

That's one of the explanations. Another is she has a very low libido. Yet another is she is circumcised.

She should go back to her father's house if she's not ready to perform her wifely duties!

It is not a must to be a wife!
If you have low libido, stay put in your father's house!

No come frustrate manpikin life with your nonsense!

mariahAngel:


End time wife!
The self-pleasers!

She'd rather defraud her husband and please herself by herself!
What is the use of such a wife?

You said it perfectly well bro. When I make efforts for us to have union, she wakes up, goes to the bathroom, urinated, uses the opportunity to finger herself to her satisfaction only to start saying shez not in d mood. With my condom on oooo. During her ovulation period that a wife rarely regects her husband if he is wearing protection. Pals this case is above me. My action may be resolute and firm when the time is up. She is just a bitter woman . One with emotional issues and highly unnecessary unforgiving spirit even when no serious affront was made.

Ishilove:

Your dick game must be really wack.

You do know that this could lead him to depression right?

portune:


You said it perfectly well bro. When I make efforts for us to have union, she wakes up, goes to the bathroom, urinated, uses the opportunity to finger herself to her satisfaction only to start saying shez not in d mood. With my condom on oooo. During her ovulation period that a wife rarely regects her husband if he is wearing protection. Pals this case is above me. My action may be resolute and firm when the time is up. She is just a bitter woman . One with emotional issues and highly unnecessary unforgiving spirit even when no serious affront was made.

Did she respect you from the beginning?
Why did you marry her?

Wolgrace:
The op is not serious... You are just craving for unwanted attention with wack story..

So far its your marriage, engage her (not nairaland) with discussion and fix the errors. What is our business?

Close this thread.

He has every right to unburden his mind as much as he wants in an appropriate place like the family section on nairaland!

mutter:
That would be a reason to end the marriage.
This marriage wouldn't lead anywhere.
But you need to find out her reasons...
Perhaps the body chemistry is not there, maybe she doesn't like men. Perhaps she has a physical or emotional condition.
If she can open up then maybe one can find a solution.
If not ...you are just going to end up being denied.
Sex is so important in a marriage. That is the simple truth.
Often one partner may not be in the mood or may be tired but the desire to please the other partner can allow them to give it a shot...once you start and the attraction is there it just flows.

you are just looking for excuses for her as a fellow sentimental female..u have zero point

You don't have to be angry. It only calls for solution. Just ask her what the problem was.

1.. tell her that it's not time for her to remain in denial that all is well .. obviously she's not fine health wise...

2.. Try the clinic. They might have some solution that might work for both of u.. remember u, enjoying sex and your partner suffering to satisfy u is not the key.. and it's not what you are looking for.

3.. Let her know that she hasn't failed as a woman to fulfil her duties. That both of u were in it together. Oh!! by the way.. u are a good man for not cheating.. that would have been a licence for some randy gentlemen..

This is marriage both of u have to collaborate as one to get solution to whatever problem or issues u have. Oh!! by the way, If u go by those beer Parlour Jist going on up there, u will divorce her within 48hours.

Maybe she has a boyfriend who gives her better sex

mariahAngel:


He has every right to unburden his mind as much as he wants in an appropriate place like the family section on nairaland!

Maria, calm down... Cool your nerves a favour by checking his previous thread..