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Re: Why Are Nigerian Ladies So Insecure? by Aboks(m): 11:00am On Aug 17, 2020 |
Which wan be penis man , vagina man na wa o |
Re: Why Are Nigerian Ladies So Insecure? by Lazycyndy(f): 11:08am On Aug 17, 2020 |
Zzor: It should be blokos people. |
Re: Why Are Nigerian Ladies So Insecure? by Powerfly(f): 11:11am On Aug 17, 2020 |
How i wish i could screenshot my convos on fb. The kind of men sending me friend request eh.. Jeez.. After accepting, you'll be getting the usual 'hello, hi, have u eaten?,where are you chatting frm? Are you married? I love your pics..can we meet? Are you on whatsapp?.. And that's how how the chat circle continues with 'hello-hi' till i eventually get bored and abandon the chats.. Sometimes going to my inbox is a boring task i just can't deal with.. You ask them abt their zodiac? They go blank... Like most men knows nothing about horoscope & Astrology,.operas,oscars,space travels, world politics and so on. Some even go to the extent of snapping their irritating dicks, while telling you how prolific & terrific they are on bed. Some will tell me, they heard 'Calabar girls are good in bed'. If you refuse to exchange contacts or aggree to meet them- they block you with few, throwing random insults. Seriously OP.. If you wanna be honest, you'll aggree with me that this issue here swings on both genders . 3 Likes |
Re: Why Are Nigerian Ladies So Insecure? by jericco1(m): 1:04pm On Aug 17, 2020 |
Modupeoluwa123: Challenger |
Re: Why Are Nigerian Ladies So Insecure? by Modupeoluwa123(f): 2:31pm On Aug 17, 2020 |
jericco1:What’s the matter my dear? 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Why Are Nigerian Ladies So Insecure? by Modupeoluwa123(f): 2:32pm On Aug 17, 2020 |
prince3009:I don’t wanna engage in E-challenge. Anyways, you know where to find me.� 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Why Are Nigerian Ladies So Insecure? by Nobody: 3:09pm On Aug 17, 2020 |
Lazycyndy:lol |
Re: Why Are Nigerian Ladies So Insecure? by Nobody: 3:12pm On Aug 17, 2020 |
PrinceofAgoAre:theres nothing innocent about redpillers and you know that |
Re: Why Are Nigerian Ladies So Insecure? by PrinceofAgoAre(m): 3:36pm On Aug 17, 2020 |
Zzor:. What's not innocent about not wanting to fall for regular gimmicks of the feminine gender 2 Likes |
Re: Why Are Nigerian Ladies So Insecure? by Sixfeetbelle: 4:35pm On Aug 17, 2020 |
prince3009: Tbh, your screenshots shows that you're a boring person to converse with. I have guys like you on my Facebook messenger and they greet me every single day accompanied with the popular "Hi". Generally, I get tired of boring people and then lock up. Not come online to create threads to validate my ego like you're doing. But based on your claim of wanting to be challenged intellectually, I'd say you're as boring as they are. I can't imagine someone saying "Hi" to me, I reply with a "hello" and then fold hands and wait when I want to be "intellectually challenged". If the person doesn't pick up the conversation, I pick it up. That's what differentiates you from the rest of the pack. So until you tow that part, you're just as "insecure" as they are. |
Re: Why Are Nigerian Ladies So Insecure? by Sixfeetbelle: 4:40pm On Aug 17, 2020 |
Powerfly: At least you asked leading questions. Op isn't doing that and somehow magically expects the conversation to flow. Is it a soliloquy? |
Re: Why Are Nigerian Ladies So Insecure? by Camelot65: 4:49pm On Aug 17, 2020 |
LMFAO..... And you kept replying her chats?? You'll send some "conversation starters" and they'll still be clueless on what to reply next Chat more with intellectual people and leave these ones for teenagers/ boring people like themselves |
Re: Why Are Nigerian Ladies So Insecure? by Deicide: 5:00pm On Aug 17, 2020 |
@op we are the same, I am tired of carrying conversation....if person no chat e no go dye, no be say them day pay me to chat self |
Re: Why Are Nigerian Ladies So Insecure? by Powerfly(f): 7:40pm On Aug 17, 2020 |
Sixfeetbelle: I have few friends per say - who still engage me in frequent intellecual and entertaining conversations.. I always look forward to having chit-chats with them. And not the hello-hi, how are you, have you eaten kind of people. |
Re: Why Are Nigerian Ladies So Insecure? by Nobody: 10:46pm On Aug 17, 2020 |
Sixfeetbelle: I am a very good conversationist! When a lady tries to strike up a convo on any chat app, i deliberately hibernate to know if she is well oiled to strike an interesting convo. So i tend to get into that shell and if you are intelligent with your chats, i quickly come out of that shell and flow with you and it becomes blissful all the way! A dumb-headed lady is dumb no matter how you try to sound intelligent and interesting to her and that is the spec of 95% of Nigerian ladies today. All they know is Shawarma, Zee-World, Big Brother, Hair extensions, iPhones etc. 2 Likes |
Re: Why Are Nigerian Ladies So Insecure? by Nobody: 10:51pm On Aug 17, 2020 |
Modupeoluwa123: Where to find you? Like seriously?? Let's start it via the e-channel so it would paint the picture of what it would look like face-to-face |
Re: Why Are Nigerian Ladies So Insecure? by Sixfeetbelle: 10:57pm On Aug 17, 2020 |
prince3009: Take the initiative this time and kick off the conversation when a "Hi" drops and get back to me. We can't agree unanimously that you're a good conversationalist until you do this as well. The idea of waiting for them to continue before you speak @ the bold, is a giveaway sign attributed to an equally boring person. You can take it to the moon. Don't have the "zeal" to dispute your fallacious statement in the second paragraph. |
Re: Why Are Nigerian Ladies So Insecure? by Modupeoluwa123(f): 11:17pm On Aug 17, 2020 |
prince3009:Interesting, I like that. BTW, you are a writer? That’s quite interesting. I write a lot as well but majorly movie scripts. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Why Are Nigerian Ladies So Insecure? by Nobody: 12:28pm On Aug 18, 2020 |
[quote author=Sixfeetbelle post=92937640] Take the initiative this time and kick off the conversation when a "Hi" drops and get back to me. We can't agree unanimously that you're a good conversationalist until you do this as well. The idea of waiting for them to continue before you speak @ the bold, is a giveaway sign attributed to an equally boring person. You can take it to the moon. Must i be the one to take the initiative? They are the ones who either sent me a friend request or slid into my DM so they should state their intentions! I am never a boring person and that is what i can take to the moon! I am a multi-personality person and i tend to relate with you in reciprocity of how you first relate with me (i do this more with the opposite sex). Don't have the "zeal" to dispute your fallacious statement in the second paragraph. Lol...it ain't about having the "zeal" but lack of pointers to counter the fact in that comment. 1 Like |
Re: Why Are Nigerian Ladies So Insecure? by Sixfeetbelle: 12:30pm On Aug 18, 2020 |
[quote author=prince3009 post=92952439][/quote] I was wrong. You're not boring. You're worse. You never take suggestions or corrections. |
Re: Why Are Nigerian Ladies So Insecure? by Nobody: 12:33pm On Aug 18, 2020 |
Modupeoluwa123: I write but not as an interest but more of where there is something to gain...sort of like for profit. I once took time to write a movie script which i presented to a Nollywood producer with the intent of starring as the lead role to make a debut into the movie industry. He read the script and told me he wasn't interested but little did i know that he made copies of my script and shot the movie behind my back with a different title. That was way back in 2005 during my university days. |
Re: Why Are Nigerian Ladies So Insecure? by Nobody: 12:37pm On Aug 18, 2020 |
Sixfeetbelle: Here we go again! I am conversing with someone (most probably a female) who doesn't know the difference between being boring and being rigid! I am stoic in nature. This comes to play especially when i know i am 100% right. That's very different from being boring. Tankio!! 1 Like |
Re: Why Are Nigerian Ladies So Insecure? by Modupeoluwa123(f): 12:40pm On Aug 18, 2020 |
prince3009:Wow!!!! That’s bullshit. You didn’t copyright your work?you could have sued him honestly. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Why Are Nigerian Ladies So Insecure? by Nobody: 12:42pm On Aug 18, 2020 |
Modupeoluwa123: I didn't have a lawyer and i was mostly engrossed with school work at the time so i just let it go. |
Re: Why Are Nigerian Ladies So Insecure? by Sixfeetbelle: 12:48pm On Aug 18, 2020 |
prince3009: Did I not just agree with you that you aren't boring? 1 Like |
Re: Why Are Nigerian Ladies So Insecure? by Nobody: 12:52pm On Aug 18, 2020 |
Sixfeetbelle: Oops! Sorry...my bad!! I read the phrases quite fast and didn't spot where you typed that out. My eyes deceived me like what i saw was "I was wrong. You are not just boring. You're worse." My apologies Lols |
Re: Why Are Nigerian Ladies So Insecure? by Sixfeetbelle: 12:59pm On Aug 18, 2020 |
prince3009: So you won't take my suggestions or what? Next one that says "Hi" take it up from there and see where it will go. Bear in mind that I hate difficult people who don't take corrections |
Re: Why Are Nigerian Ladies So Insecure? by Nobody: 1:39pm On Aug 18, 2020 |
Sixfeetbelle: I already presume where most of them would go! Lemme break it down for you... ------------------------------------------------------------------- Her: Hi Me: Hello (her name from her profile)...how are you doing today? Her: Fyn n u? Me: I am doing very well. Glad you asked. Her: k Me: So can you tell me a little about yourself? Her: k. My name is (name on profile). i am schooling Me: Is that all? Her: Yap Me: Don't you have hobbies? You know...like what you enjoy doing? ***Possible silence for almost 20mins*** Her: reading and making friends Me: That's nice. So where are you schooling and what discipline? Her: UNI**** Me: Nice...so what discipline? Her: I don't understand. Me: I meant your area of study or the course you are studying in school ***Possible silence for the rest of the day.*** ***Following day*** Her: Good pm Me: Afternoon Her: kk Me: You left my question unanswered yesterday Her: which one Me: I asked about what you study in school Her: kk My sub finished. Me: Oh...that's unfortunate Her: yea Me: But glad you are here now Her: I hav not done sub. am using my gf fone to chat Me: Oops...why not subscribe for yourself? Her: I don't have money Me: Oh...sorry about that ------------------------------------------------------------- So SixfeetBelle, your guess is as good as mine about where the convo would likely tilt to after her last response 4 Likes |
Re: Why Are Nigerian Ladies So Insecure? by proclinician: 1:46pm On Aug 18, 2020 |
SIMPs give these ladies so much validation and accolades that they actually think it's like that always. |
Re: Why Are Nigerian Ladies So Insecure? by Nobody: 1:52pm On Aug 18, 2020 |
lol op any of dem dat send u friend request and dms if u like any of dem even if she no too send u messages but the hi hi messages still talk with her .majority of nigerian girls are shy with strangers.she may like what she is seeing in ur pics and dat is wat spurred her or them to send u messages..normal tinzs.If u equally like what u see then connect with hr even if she is sending u monosyllable messages.wit time she will open up as she gets to know u.but if she is starting to feeling entitled and bringing up those mumu typ :De of behaviour then u can just codedly cut off from her.its nothin serious |
Re: Why Are Nigerian Ladies So Insecure? by Nobody: 1:54pm On Aug 18, 2020 |
prince3009:hahahahaha u sabi d jerk..some actually do this 3 Likes |
Re: Why Are Nigerian Ladies So Insecure? by Sixfeetbelle: 1:55pm On Aug 18, 2020 |
prince3009: You make too much assumptions that is bad for your mental wellbeing. Please untag me from this post. I don't want to be receiving unnecessary mentions because of a mere assumption. 2 Likes |
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