* You disrespected your husband in such a way that the man has forgotten his surname.
* Do not have African marriage. Don not have American marriage. Have bible marriage.
* Honour your husband. He may be short as a bottle. You saw him like that before you married him.
* Do not marry a man you cannot respect.
* The greatest need of a man is not sex. He can get it from any idiot called prostitute.
* The greatest need of a man is not food. He can get it from any restaurant.
* One of the greatest need of a man is respect (public respect).
* Wake your husband up with love songs.
* Stop disgracing your husband in the presence of the children.
* Stop repeating the mistakes that your mother made.
* Come down from your pinnacle.
* If you treat your husband like a king, he will treat you like a queen.
* If your Christianity does not work at home, don't export it.
* Bring some sanity into your marriage.
* Once in a while, pause. drop everything.

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* When last did you take your wife out?
* Don't tell me to respect you if you cannot even take care of your wife and children.
* You are so lost in your business that you don't have time for your wife.
* You can't admire your wife.



https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HnaQ-lp56Mc

Good points.

Naija men after reading this be like;


“Pastor Funke...”

Ride on pastor. Our ladies need to learn how to build a home.
lalasticlala I think this is fp worthy.

pocohantas:
Naija men after reading this be like;


“Pastor Funke...”

Feminists be like

mimimiles93:
Feminists be like

Ironically, some of the feminists I know are doing their men well. It is you guys with non-feminist gfs creating threads upandan.

“What I saw in my gf’s phone. I am fainting.”

“My gf is smelling of condom, what do I do?”

“I bought her phone, now she is no more picking my calls.”

I don’t know what is the problem. Maybe you guys have your definition of feminism muddled up or there is something you are not telling us.

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pocohantas:
Naija men after reading this be like;


“Pastor Funke...”

I am telling you sis. Food for men.

Klass99:
This poster above me has issues I swear

@ Original Post/Poster, I hope you didn't take out of context this lady's message and misrepresented it again, like you did the previous one.

I don't waste my data watching videos posted on NL so I wouldn't know if you did or not

Everything I wrote up there is from the video.
The video is about having a God fearing marriage. women respecting their husbands and husbands taking care of their wives.

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Klass99:


Okay, sorry o! No vex na your other thread cause my talk

It is well.

She sings for her husband in the morning shouldn't be taken literally, It's just unrealistic.
Who has time to be singing for husband after many years

Feminists going through this thread like...

For once, someone is talking about women with respect a pastor for that matter, not all these idiots that will be spewing rubbish about slavish marriages.

Lmao, Pastor Funke on tha beat again

But please, she should not refer to prostitutes as idïots. Those are hardworking women who provide a very important service.

Prostitution is a job just like any other job and those engaged in it should not be looked down on or discriminated against.
I learnt this from Feminists.

But she's right though, if a man is really intent on it and has no reservations, sex and food can be gotten outside the home quite as easily as you can get a new toy.

Treat your man like a King
And he will treat you like a Queen.
That's just it.
So simple!

plus what I'm sure of is even if you're forming rubbish outside u can't come into my house and start giving me attitude because you want to prove feminism when no be you help me carry sacrifice wey i take get the money to build the house.

SHE IS A WOMAN



SHE IS A WOMAN

God bless you madam. May you continue to grow spiritually..

I agree ooh, mama preach.

I promise to support my man only if i see he has sense.

Hmmm

mimimiles93:
Ride on pastor. Our ladies need to learn how to build a home.
lalasticlala I think this is fp worthy.

Doing these things shouldn't be that hard, but remember that it takes two to tango. It would be hard to treat a man this way when he cannot act accordingly. A woman may find it hard doing these things to her husband when he is insultive, a womanizer... The men may find it hard treating their wives right too when she is anything but a virtuous woman.


So, couples should learn to give off the same love, respect and energy that they expect from their spouses.

Marry a virgin, I repeat marry a virgin and have at least 90% guaranteed happy home if you aren't an idiot

Many today want to eat their cakes and have it. marriage is rules based. if both parties cant stick to the rules why marry. parents and society should stop forcing or blackmailing people to marry too

No matter the amount of do's and don't you preach a heart that has not been renewed can not work out this things that is why what you are 'preaching' is not the gospel but a cosmetic man centered teaching. Please ma, step down from the pulpit you are not supposed to be there and not just you but also all women who call themselves pastors and all preachers of 'prosperity gospel' . The Bible you teach from does not permit it but you ignore its teaching for the sake of your pride and introduce psychology and motivation. Giving men hope in their sins and proclaiming men to be safe when they are close to eternal damnation. This is part of the reason men make gest of the gospel of Christ.

pocohantas:
Naija men after reading this be like;


“Pastor Funke...”

Will definitely show it to my girl. Lol I expect a fight. She is still the best. Can't breathe without her.

Better.. Now let her stick to marriage counseling as her core niche. It's only in Nigeria and America that motivational speakers and counselors are called pastors

I quite agree

Very much essential.