Nice points pastor funke adejumo those points are duly noted..

Juliearth:





Doing these things shouldn't be that hard, but remember that it takes two to tango. It would be hard to treat a man this way when he cannot act accordingly. A woman may find it hard doing these things to her husband when he is insultive, a womanizer...

People find responsibility hard they are only after what they can get or receive, when it comes to their turn they will fail to even deliver quarter of what they get

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T.O.Darling

Thank you. Ladies over to you

pocohantas:
Naija men after reading this be like;


“Pastor Funke...”

Don't derail this beautiful thread

"Don't marry a man you cannot respect"....

That's the real deal. True talk!

Respect your husband but first of all marry a respectable man!

pocohantas:


Ironically, some of the feminists I know are doing their men well. It is you guys with non-feminist gfs creating threads upandan.

“What I saw in my gf’s phone. I am fainting.”

“My gf is smelling of condom, what do I do?”

“I bought her phone, now she is no more picking my calls.”

I don’t know what is the problem. Maybe you guys have your definition of feminism muddled up or there is something you are not telling us.

Not that I am a feminist, but most "boys" here do not understand what true feminism entails.

DARLINGTON869:
Feminists reacting to this thread

T.O.Darling

I'm a core feminist and everything on this post is absolutely true!

Respect your husband. Every human being deserves to be respected.

sanpipita:


People find responsibility hard they are only after what they can get or receive, when it comes to their turn they will fail to even deliver quarter of what they get

Exactly sir. People are most times not interested in the process, but they want results. They don't want to put in the effort to make their marriages work, but they want a good home.

nah mi go call am idiot !!!

Haha good point madam.....if them lyk let them hear

I don't know why empty heads are going on about feminists in the comments. This is solid advise based on the 4 minute clip (I can't speak for the full sermon). It addresses the needs of both parties and most marriages can benefit from what she has said. So what has feminism got to do with respect?

Prostitutes are not idiots.

Pastor pastor, always preaching what they dont do. Dont be surprised she wakes her husband with hot slap

What if the man no get money? That one na separate case

Juliearth:





Not that I am a feminist, but most "boys" here do not understand what true feminism entails.

Most BOYS here are nothing but e-rats, gambling addicts with no sense of purpose in life, so anything to massage their ego such as bashing women is their point of call.

sexylassie2:
I agree ooh, mama preach.

I promise to support my man only if i see he has sense.

Didn't u no he didn't have sense before he became ur man?

The old societal model was:

A young woman would trade her youth and fertility
exclusively to only one man, and he in turn would be the workhorse and take
care of her when she gets past her prime. This was a great incentive for men to
work, become men, and get married. You got a prize, a young beautiful loyal
wife. In theory, as we know life isn't perfect. She does him a favor early on
by being a virgin/exclusive and later he does her a favor by staying and
supporting her instead of leaving her for a younger woman. They both get a prize.

The new societal model is:

Women LovePeddler around and waste their youth and fertility on Chad/Tyrone,
get walled out, get STDs, lose their ability to pair bond, rapidly accelerate
their aging process with excessive alcohol and fast food, and have no loyalty
to any man. What sensible man would pay top dollar for something 30 other men
got for free? The incentive for men is gone. You don't get a prize anymore. You
get a parasite with an entitlement mentality that’s looking to take your resources
and then some. Before you even say “I do” at the altar, she’s already plotting
how to financially rape your ass in family court when she divorces your sorry
ass in a few years. Why do you think she’s smiling as she’s walking down the aisle?
A woman’s main reason for getting married is to get a divorce.

You're expected to pay a premium price for a used up, beaten
up, soulless woman from the bargain basement bins of some store in the hood
with the morals of an alley cat, an in denial, freak of nature, pathologically
delusional, self-esteem deficient, morally bankrupt, bottom dwelling, blood
sucking, inhuman, creature of the night, bitch on wheels, spawned from the seed
of Satan, and a boil on the buttocks of the world.

When she dies, the last living reminder of hell will be gone
from the face of the earth.

She has kids from Chad/Tyrone or both, personal credit card
debt, no assets, school debt for a worthless degree in liberal arts or gender
studies, no cooking skills and no desire to learn any, no fiscal responsibility,
an overly banged vagina, and a pet you’ll be expected to take care of as well.

And you're supposed to be happy about this opportunity to
lick up the scraps from the floor.

The so-called good men she wants and can’t find are out
there. They just don’t want her at the table because she has nothing to bring
except financial and emotional pain. When women say, "Men are only after
one thing". Meaning sex. My question to them is, do you have anything else
to offer. Crickets is all I hear. Which means even they don't believe they have
anything else to offer.

In addition, she also has great expectations you’ll do
everything for her, make her feel better, and provide an unrealistic
unsustainable lifestyle she feels she deserves because she read about it some
feminazi magazine article that hates men.

All this while she cheats behind your back with the “bad
boys” she really wants while you’re at work paying all the bills to feed this
little parasite.

Women don’t “love men”, they love what men can do for them. Where
are all the great art works female artists have created, inspired by their love
of men?

Men are not afraid of commitment or marriage…. Men are
afraid of getting divorce raped in “family court.” It’s just a bad deal and
there’s nothing in it for men except the chance to be financially ruined for
the rest of your life.

If you were thinking of going skydiving and knew that three
out of four parachutes failed, and you had already watched your friends jump,
some successfully, others not so. Would you be willing to take the chance that
you're going to be the exception and get the one parachute out of the four that
is going to work?......... I mean they all look so pretty and smell so good and
feel so soft to the touch and they are offering you the thrill of a lifetime if
you would just let one of them wrap itself around you and make that commitment
to attach yourself to it and jump...... would you still take that chance?

But… but…. Look how pretty the parachutes are, smell their
lovely fragrance, touch and feel how soft they feel, they beckon you to try one
of them on, please try me on and let me wrap myself tightly around you and see
how good I feel to you, I’ll hold on tight and snug to you, I am not like the
others, honest I am different, I’ll work.

Well….. would you do it? Would you take that chance for the thrill of a lifetime?

Yea, that sounds like a good deal if I were a slowpoke, is this the line I stand in to lose half my sh!t?

Good luck with that.

Men are waking up and realizing this system is defective and
toxic. Women's sexual liberation, feminism and the birth control pill, have
ironically dis-empowered women. They are throwaway sexual objects now more than
ever.

"Feminism did NOT free women from the chains they
thought they had. It freed MEN from the chains they had no idea were
there."

~ Arch Stanton ~

abike12:
I don't know why empty heads are going on about feminists in the comments. This is solid advise based on the 4 minute clip (I can't speak for the full sermon). It addresses the needs of both parties and most marriages can benefit from what she has said. So what has feminism got to do with respect?

The shìthead e-rats need their ego massaged...

* You disrespected your husband in such a way that the man has forgotten his surname.
* Do not have African marriage. Don not have American marriage. Have bible marriage.
* Honour your husband. He may be short as a bottle. You saw him like that before you married him.
* Do not marry a man you cannot respect.
* The greatest need of a man is not sex. He can get it from any idiot called prostitute.
* The greatest need of a man is not food. He can get it from any restaurant.
* One of the greatest need of a man is respect (public respect).
* Wake your husband up with love songs.
* Stop disgracing your husband in the presence of the children.
* Stop repeating the mistakes that your mother made.
* Come down from your pinnacle.
* If you treat your husband like a king, he will treat you like a queen.
* If your Christianity does not work at home, don't export it.
* Bring some sanity into your marriage.
* Once in a while, pause. drop everything.

Good points though, but line five is not part of believers register. A child of God is not at liberty to call anyone an idiot, I do hope she wasn't too emotional to allow such disparaging insertion. Prostitutes can still repent and be saved even though many of them have come to settle for such a a life and may not repent, but if they do shall be forgiven and delivered.

sirjamesjnr:
Will definitely show it to my girl. Lol I expect a fight. She is still the best. Can't breathe without her.

I am here wondering what should cause a fight here. This is actually common sense... It doesn’t even need to come from a pasta, it is just the right thing to do.

Mutemenot:
Pastor pastor, always preaching what they dont do. Dont be surprised she wakes her husband with hot slap

At least she isn’t encouraging other women to do same. That should count for something.

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Juliearth:





Not that I am a feminist, but most "boys" here do not understand what true feminism entails.

Please what does true feminism entails?

YelloweWest:


Most BOYS here are nothing but e-rats, gambling addicts with no sense of purpose in life, so anything to massage their ego such as bashing women is their point of call.

I totally agree sir.

She get good physique

More anointing pon her head....she is so on point

Horlami247:
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respect is reciprocal

pocohantas:
Naija men after reading this be like;


“Pastor Funke...”

You're doing well.

Kazim88:


Please what does true feminism entails?

Feminism is defined as political, economic, personal, and social equality of the sexes. While this may sound fair and just, I am not in tune with it because equality is injustice. Equity is more like it. Equity entails allocating responsibilities to an individual or a gender (as in this case) based on strength. For instance if you give a five meter ladder (equality) to three men of different height to climb or stand on, the tallest of the three men would have more advantage than the shortest. But giving each men a ladder that corresponds with their height (equity)would make them have the same view.

Even God is not an advocate of equality, but equity and that was why he made man the head and the woman the neck; He made man the general overseer and the woman, the manager.

This woman wants to break all the haughty women around into their proper form.