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Re: My Fiance's Ex Is Fabricating Lies Against Me by yomi007k(m): 10:20pm On Aug 18, 2020
Cece592:


Why not help them bro pls help them instead of this write up because u made no point.

Prayer is all I can render as this is either psychiatric or spiritual.

What can u offer?

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Re: My Fiance's Ex Is Fabricating Lies Against Me by Bestcreamreview: 10:20pm On Aug 18, 2020
Jayrockk:
Why is he communicating with someone's wife like that? undecided . If u were the one communicating with ur ex like that how will he feel? Honestly its just a matter of time bfr they bang each other that's if they've not banged self. Sit your man down and talk to him, let him know how u feel, but if he's still stubborn, marriage no be by force o cus it ll probably spare u pain in the future.
true, back then I used to think that if a person still loves an ex, once one of them gets married, it's completely over and they'll both move on permanently. But nowadays, marriage doesn't stop some people from sleeping with their exes whom they're still in love with. That's how my friend was excited when her boyfriend's ex got married, she thought she'll have peace now that the girl was finally married but the girl continued to be a problem in the relationship until my friend had no choice but to call things off for the sake of her sanity and peace of mind. Personally, I hate ex-girlfriend/baby mama drama, if you're still close to any of your exes or you have a baby mama, I'll run far away from you. It's a huge turn off and a big red flag.

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Re: My Fiance's Ex Is Fabricating Lies Against Me by elmagnifico411(m): 10:21pm On Aug 18, 2020
Your boyfriend is being foolish. He keep listening to a lady that is married. Someone needs to tell him that no matter what, dat lady won't leave her husband for him.. he should better wake and face his life.

Secondly, how come d ex is telling him things about u, where she take know u before? and what is it about this 'past' people of this generation are always holding on to? My advise to u is; if u really believe in yourself and have a self worth irrespective of this 'past' that your man keeps wanting to know, I'd say u leave him and go elsewhere. Forget the fact that he's talking about marriage. He's not a serious fella.

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Re: My Fiance's Ex Is Fabricating Lies Against Me by Malawian(m): 10:22pm On Aug 18, 2020
Maintaining communication with an EX is not a big thing (Married or not). Some people date, separate but remained tight friends. Apart from my sister's, my mum and my one year old daughter, kiss the only girl out there I believe has my back forever is a certain EX of mine (and she is married btw).

There are other issues with what the OP is saying that required proper looking into, I just wanted to clarify the EX thing. It doesn't necessarily have to be bad maintaining communication with an EX.
Re: My Fiance's Ex Is Fabricating Lies Against Me by BarrElChapo(m): 10:22pm On Aug 18, 2020
totalhouse:


You are not nice at all...lol

Lolz but the truth sometimes needs to said bluntly.
Re: My Fiance's Ex Is Fabricating Lies Against Me by ume1000: 10:23pm On Aug 18, 2020
ednut1:
You want to marry this kind of man Is it that some people don use their brains or what
what the ex knows about the op should be our point of concern

I believe there is a very rotten corpse in the op cupboard that needs immediate attention

Perhaps the op no longer have a womb
Or she has an untreatable infection

@Op tell your man whatever his ex is using to blackmail you only then would peace reign cos no matter what you do ONE DAY A VERY HEAVY WIND WOULD BLOW AND THE BUTTOCK OF THE HEN WOULD OPEN
Re: My Fiance's Ex Is Fabricating Lies Against Me by Colonelswitz101(m): 10:24pm On Aug 18, 2020
hollarunji08:
You're just talking about your boyfriend ex
What is the relationship between u and dat ur boyfriend ex??

Because if she didn't kwn u before she left ur boyfriend, I don't think she supposed to kwn much about u

Maybe u ladies are into some secret something before

U are wise my brother...

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Re: My Fiance's Ex Is Fabricating Lies Against Me by Nobody: 10:24pm On Aug 18, 2020
BarrElChapo:
Get the number of her husband and tell him all the crap she's been telling your fiancee and then quit the relationship. They're not over themselves. The day they'll meet in person they must commit adultery. Good luck

Best comment, try to screen shot their Facebook messages forward it to the husband, since she wan spoil your own Las Las make everything spoil.

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Re: My Fiance's Ex Is Fabricating Lies Against Me by femi4: 10:25pm On Aug 18, 2020
juliabobly65:
Hello nairalanders, I need your opinions on this matter.

My boyfriend of 3 years who is now my fiancee (we are talking marriage already) is constantly talking to his ex girlfriend (who is now married).

They discuss all manner of things, ranging from how she misses him and wished she had waited for him.

Trouble started when he told her he was planning to settle down (I still wonder why he told her) ever since she's always coming up with pots of lies against me. She claims someone told her so many things about me.

She fabricating lies isn't my major concern because I know once something good is about to happen the devil comes in many ways than one to destroy it.

I've told my man all about my past life and everything in it, recently he accused me of withholding some information of my past. The ex girlfriend had a chat with and told him things I don't even know about.

Nairalanders this lady is married, why is she poke nosing into our affair?? If she loved him that much, why did she marry another man?? Why is my man giving her audience Is he still in love with her I know she's obsessed about me. Her constant chats with him, makes him accuse me of things I've never done in my entire life.

I told him we should suspend the marriage until he's done with his investigation since he doesn't believe me cos he said if he finds out something I did in my past in the future and I didn't tell him it will be a problem.

Admins pls push to front page.

You should be more concern about your husband to be immaturity and not his ex.

Its funny you didn't see any wrong with him still in contact with his ex. Your relationship lack trust, respect and believe.

Its better you put the marriage on hold and review the relationship

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Re: My Fiance's Ex Is Fabricating Lies Against Me by Lalami3232(m): 10:26pm On Aug 18, 2020
What's ur connection with this "ex"?
How come she knows u so much?
No smoke without fire ooooo. The bitter truth is that ur boyfriend sees a better wifey in ur ex than you. How I wish ur legs were closed in ur younger age, all this accusations no go dey. From ur writeup, I think he's accusing you of abortion and other scatterscatter matter. No man wan marry woman wey go dey make am fast and pray for pikin ooooo

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Re: My Fiance's Ex Is Fabricating Lies Against Me by antocreative: 10:26pm On Aug 18, 2020
Report the yeye ex to her husband....Do me I do you. Get evidence, screenshot or whatever and report her. She has more to lose!

Besides, why is your fiance still talking to his ex? That's very disrespectful. Nip that yeye friendship/relationship in the bud...

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Re: My Fiance's Ex Is Fabricating Lies Against Me by Nobody: 10:27pm On Aug 18, 2020
juliabobly65:
Hello nairalanders, I need your opinions on this matter.

My boyfriend of 3 years who is now my fiancee (we are talking marriage already) is constantly talking to his ex girlfriend (who is now married).

They discuss all manner of things, ranging from how she misses him and wished she had waited for him.

Trouble started when he told her he was planning to settle down (I still wonder why he told her) ever since she's always coming up with pots of lies against me. She claims someone told her so many things about me.

She fabricating lies isn't my major concern because I know once something good is about to happen the devil comes in many ways than one to destroy it.

I've told my man all about my past life and everything in it, recently he accused me of withholding some information of my past. The ex girlfriend had a chat with and told him things I don't even know about.

Nairalanders this lady is married, why is she poke nosing into our affair?? If she loved him that much, why did she marry another man?? Why is my man giving her audience Is he still in love with her I know she's obsessed about me. Her constant chats with him, makes him accuse me of things I've never done in my entire life.

I told him we should suspend the marriage until he's done with his investigation since he doesn't believe me cos he said if he finds out something I did in my past in the future and I didn't tell him it will be a problem.

Admins pls push to front page.


copy her phone number from ur guy...

Remove your wig....

call the b!tch via WhatsApp video call...

let her know .....iyàlàyà anybody...,

if she doesn’t stop lying about you......

give me her phone number .... u will thank me later..... which kind village people parole is she trying to run

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Re: My Fiance's Ex Is Fabricating Lies Against Me by Excallibur(m): 10:29pm On Aug 18, 2020
juliabobly65:
Hello nairalanders, I need your opinions on this matter.

My boyfriend of 3 years who is now my fiancee (we are talking marriage already) is constantly talking to his ex girlfriend (who is now married).

They discuss all manner of things, ranging from how she misses him and wished she had waited for him.

Trouble started when he told her he was planning to settle down (I still wonder why he told her) ever since she's always coming up with pots of lies against me. She claims someone told her so many things about me.

She fabricating lies isn't my major concern because I know once something good is about to happen the devil comes in many ways than one to destroy it.

I've told my man all about my past life and everything in it, recently he accused me of withholding some information of my past. The ex girlfriend had a chat with and told him things I don't even know about.

Nairalanders this lady is married, why is she poke nosing into our affair?? If she loved him that much, why did she marry another man?? Why is my man giving her audience Is he still in love with her I know she's obsessed about me. Her constant chats with him, makes him accuse me of things I've never done in my entire life.

I told him we should suspend the marriage until he's done with his investigation since he doesn't believe me cos he said if he finds out something I did in my past in the future and I didn't tell him it will be a problem.

Admins pls push to front page.

tell her husband to warn his wife

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Re: My Fiance's Ex Is Fabricating Lies Against Me by aikyg(m): 10:29pm On Aug 18, 2020
This is a tip of what your life could be like if you marry him, without getting him to end every relationship and communication with his ex. You need to put your feet down and make it clear to him that his reconnection with his ex is unacceptable. If he does not want to change, then you should call off the marriage and move on.

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Re: My Fiance's Ex Is Fabricating Lies Against Me by Nobody: 10:29pm On Aug 18, 2020
My past, my past.
Were you a criminal??

Just stand up on your feet if you don't any skeleton in your cupboard.

Get some self-esteem!!
Re: My Fiance's Ex Is Fabricating Lies Against Me by 99thEnemy(m): 10:30pm On Aug 18, 2020
juliabobly65:
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shebi the bitch that is your fiances' ex is 'married'?. It will be worse if you decide to act... In short, show her shege... Find a way to let her husband be aware of the whole thing if she doesn't mind her business. Keep evidence just incase for future use. eg. Screenshots or snapshots of the chats she has with your fiance especially the sensitive ones like when she said she misses him and wish she waited for him blah blah blah!. In short anything to prove she is unfaithful or prone to unfaithfulness. Trust me, that bitch will bang your man, thats if she has not been doing it already.

If she give you trouble, give her TRAGEDY.. If she scatter your relationship, scatter her marriage. God no go vex.

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Re: My Fiance's Ex Is Fabricating Lies Against Me by Joshmanuel10(m): 10:31pm On Aug 18, 2020
Imagine if this is happening after u are married shocked
Re: My Fiance's Ex Is Fabricating Lies Against Me by Joshmanuel10(m): 10:32pm On Aug 18, 2020
Excallibur:
tell her husband to warn his wife
Yh
Re: My Fiance's Ex Is Fabricating Lies Against Me by 99thEnemy(m): 10:35pm On Aug 18, 2020
aikyg:
This is a tip of what your life could be like if you marry him, without getting him to end every relationship and communication with his ex. You need to put your feet down and make it clear to him that his reconnection with his ex is unacceptable. If he does not want to change, then you should call off the marriage and move on.
EggZactly
Re: My Fiance's Ex Is Fabricating Lies Against Me by knowhowk: 10:36pm On Aug 18, 2020
Marriage is a Scam ,Crap ...
Re: My Fiance's Ex Is Fabricating Lies Against Me by 99thEnemy(m): 10:37pm On Aug 18, 2020
Joshmanuel10:
Imagine if this is happening after u are married shocked
and the boyfriends' ex's husband might not know he married a bitch oh!
Re: My Fiance's Ex Is Fabricating Lies Against Me by Nobody: 10:37pm On Aug 18, 2020
juliabobly65:
Hello nairalanders, I need your opinions on this matter.

My boyfriend of 3 years who is now my fiancee (we are talking marriage already) is constantly talking to his ex girlfriend (who is now married).

They discuss all manner of things, ranging from how she misses him and wished she had waited for him.

Trouble started when he told her he was planning to settle down (I still wonder why he told her) ever since she's always coming up with pots of lies against me. She claims someone told her so many things about me.

She fabricating lies isn't my major concern because I know once something good is about to happen the devil comes in many ways than one to destroy it.

I've told my man all about my past life and everything in it, recently he accused me of withholding some information of my past. The ex girlfriend had a chat with and told him things I don't even know about.

Nairalanders this lady is married, why is she poke nosing into our affair?? If she loved him that much, why did she marry another man?? Why is my man giving her audience Is he still in love with her I know she's obsessed about me. Her constant chats with him, makes him accuse me of things I've never done in my entire life.

I told him we should suspend the marriage until he's done with his investigation since he doesn't believe me cos he said if he finds out something I did in my past in the future and I didn't tell him it will be a problem.

Admins pls push to front page.

Your fiance is a wuss. Why should he still be in constant communication with his ex? If you look well, he still has feelings for her.
Are you sure you're ready to start dragging your home with another woman?
These kind of men and women who can't stay away from their exes are real problems.
Re: My Fiance's Ex Is Fabricating Lies Against Me by Taiwo20(m): 10:38pm On Aug 18, 2020
Email the chat and pictures to that ex's husband.

Give your boyfriend an ultimatum and also a

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Re: My Fiance's Ex Is Fabricating Lies Against Me by joyandfaith: 10:39pm On Aug 18, 2020
juliabobly65:
Hello nairalanders, I need your opinions on this matter.

My boyfriend of 3 years who is now my fiancee (we are talking marriage already) is constantly talking to his ex girlfriend (who is now married).

They discuss all manner of things, ranging from how she misses him and wished she had waited for him.

Trouble started when he told her he was planning to settle down (I still wonder why he told her) ever since she's always coming up with pots of lies against me. She claims someone told her so many things about me.

She fabricating lies isn't my major concern because I know once something good is about to happen the devil comes in many ways than one to destroy it.

I've told my man all about my past life and everything in it, recently he accused me of withholding some information of my past. The ex girlfriend had a chat with and told him things I don't even know about.

Nairalanders this lady is married, why is she poke nosing into our affair?? If she loved him that much, why did she marry another man?? Why is my man giving her audience Is he still in love with her I know she's obsessed about me. Her constant chats with him, makes him accuse me of things I've never done in my entire life.

I told him we should suspend the marriage until he's done with his investigation since he doesn't believe me cos he said if he finds out something I did in my past in the future and I didn't tell him it will be a problem.

Admins pls push to front page.


you never see husband. your man is cheating on you.
Re: My Fiance's Ex Is Fabricating Lies Against Me by plessis: 10:40pm On Aug 18, 2020
I suspect your fiancee's ex is just warning your fiancee because of what you did in the past. Yes, she's overdoing it, but I feel she's just being a friend because you didn't state if there's any sexual tension between the both of them. Your problem is her insistence on your past.


Some of us cannot keep quiet when we see someone we love or used to love, about to fall in a pit.

I maybe wrong though.

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Re: My Fiance's Ex Is Fabricating Lies Against Me by Akanoaaa(m): 10:40pm On Aug 18, 2020
Take the her number from your man's phone and threaten her that you will look for her husband's number and do the same thing she's doing to you.
Re: My Fiance's Ex Is Fabricating Lies Against Me by winkmart: 10:40pm On Aug 18, 2020
this one is strong oooo
Re: My Fiance's Ex Is Fabricating Lies Against Me by abimic(m): 10:41pm On Aug 18, 2020
I wonder how people chat up a married ex.. Like what are they trying to gain oginni? I had my ex that was married, I don't even feel comfortable returning her chat, knowing fully well I broke the relationship. I'm romantic with my females except from the alagidis, so why should I be chatting a married ex � at the detriment of my own partner... E b things
Re: My Fiance's Ex Is Fabricating Lies Against Me by Nobody: 10:42pm On Aug 18, 2020
First step, call her and record the calls. Have a long convo with her, increase tempo of your voice. Don't tone down or manipulate or plead, take lead and be superior to question her..

You can only do this if you are innocent.. Do it first.
Re: My Fiance's Ex Is Fabricating Lies Against Me by Enemyofpeace: 10:43pm On Aug 18, 2020
Rubbish! Don’t make yourself sheep. Tell the guy to either forget the girl and let her be in his past or face you and the future you have together. I ate girls making themselves sheep for men all becouse of marriage. Vickyrotex abi kini mo wi?
Re: My Fiance's Ex Is Fabricating Lies Against Me by Pearly255(f): 10:44pm On Aug 18, 2020
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Re: My Fiance's Ex Is Fabricating Lies Against Me by Enemyofpeace: 10:44pm On Aug 18, 2020
plessis:
I suspect your fiancee's ex is just warning your fiancee because of what you did in the past. Yes, she's overdoing it, but I feel she's just being a friend because you didn't state if there's any sexual tension between the both of them. Your problem is her insistence on your past.


Some of us cannot keep quiet when we see someone we love or used to love, about to fall in a pit.

I maybe wrong though.
what is her business with her past?

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