Good evening, I stay in a different state from my girlfriend and we see like once in 3 months. She has a tight work schedule and I also do. We also try to make 3 weeks out of December our mini-honeymoon each year. Everything was good because we communicate and tell each other everything. Even if I hang out with female friends or go out on dates due to boredom I do tell her. The one time I kissed a girl due to the fact that I was drunk I told her and I apologized. We had a long fight but we settled. She also tells me everything even when she go on dates. Because I used to tell her who she can go out with and when she should come back, I encourage her to do this because I always feel she might be bored sometimes and male company is okay as long as they are reasonable fellows. So lastweek she went out with this fellow she mentioned briefly to me about, and when I called her in the night I noticed she was acting somehow. Usually we talk for two hours every night and she never declines video call? That day she called me earlier than usual, we start our call by 10pm and she called me by 8pm and she told me she will call back. She called again by 11:00 and we did not talk for more than 7 min. When I requested for video call she declined. That was when I knew she was not home. So I texted her that I knew she is not home. She called me back the second day that she just saw my text that she is sorry and that it was because of curfew that she stayed at the guy's place and all. That she does not know how to tell me blah blah blah. So I broke up with her. And she has been crying and saying sorry since. I still love her, and I actually believe her story a bit, but I'm still angry. Am I overreacting should I take her back or leave her to enjoy her life.

This thing no be fiction na something wey dey vex and pain me. If you talk rubbish I go use the vex curse you.

Binhamid:
Good evening, I stay in a different state from my girlfriend and we see like once in 3 months. She has a tight work schedule and I also do. We also try to make 3 weeks out of December our mini-honeymoon each year. Everything was good because we communicate and tell each other everything. Even if I hang out with female friends or go out on dates due to boredom I do tell her. The one time I kissed a girl due to the fact that I was drunk I told her and I apologized. We had a long fight but we settled. She also tells me everything even when she go on dates. Because I used to tell her who she can go out with and when she should come back, I encourage her to do this because I always feel she might be bored sometimes and male company is okay as long as they are reasonable fellows. So lastweek she went out with this fellow she mentioned briefly to me about, and when I called her in the night I noticed she was acting somehow. Usually we talk for two hours every night and she never declines video call? That day she called me earlier than usual, we start our call by 10pm and she called me by 8pm and she told me she will call back. She called again by 11:00 and we did not talk for more than 7 min. When I requested for video call she declined. That was when I knew she was not home. So I texted her that I knew she is not home. She called me back the second day that she just saw my text that she is sorry and that it was because of curfew that she stayed at the guy's place and all. That she does not know how to tell me blah blah blah. So I broke up with her. And she has been crying and saying sorry since. I still love her, and I actually believe her story a bit, but I'm still angry. Am I overreacting should I take her back or leave her to enjoy her life.

This thing no be fiction na something wey dey vex and pain me. If you talk rubbish I go use the vex curse you.

are you that dumb!

the way you simps keep popping out one after another is just amazing

I no really understand, una de date and u can see go on dates with ppl u like. This one na open relationship then..No commitment watsover

Hmmm

The babe collect well and her only regret is that she gave room for you to suspect.

She'll only get smarter and adjust her timing to avoid your monitoring spirit.

Shine your eye...

I thought I was been open-minded actually. And I go out with other girls just for fun and I tell them I'm in a relationship. So, I feel it should be the same with her.

So you are saying I should just let her go right?

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Binhamid:
I thought I was been open-minded actually. And I go out with other girls just for fun and I tell them I'm in a relationship. So, I feel it should be the same with her.

gals are not like guys, they are moved by emotions. To u it can be fun, to her she is using that means to seek for options

@Binhamid
You are the architect of your failure in the relationship. You didn’t overreact and as you were so transparent so also you should be so tough.
At your own peril believe this is her first time.

If you need to think, Block every method she can reach you and think things through for yourself. If you can then forgive.

But your action of over transparency and over trust will kill you someday becareful.

Artiiclebeast:
Hmmm

The babe collect well and her only regret is that she gave room for you to suspect.

She'll only get smarter and adjust her timing to avoid your monitoring spirit.

Shine your eye...

Are you saying I should dump her and move on?

Aabheaven:
gals are not like guys, they are moved by emotions. To u it can be fun, to her she is using that means to seek for options

Chaii

Simps everywhere ... That's how I keep beeping a girl in my Estate yet she claims to have a guy who can take a bullet for her

Binhamid:
Good evening, I stay in a different state from my girlfriend and we see like once in 3 months. She has a tight work schedule and I also do. We also try to make 3 weeks out of December our mini-honeymoon each year. Everything was good because we communicate and tell each other everything. Even if I hang out with female friends or go out on dates due to boredom I do tell her. The one time I kissed a girl due to the fact that I was drunk I told her and I apologized. We had a long fight but we settled. She also tells me everything even when she go on dates. Because I used to tell her who she can go out with and when she should come back, I encourage her to do this because I always feel she might be bored sometimes and male company is okay as long as they are reasonable fellows. So lastweek she went out with this fellow she mentioned briefly to me about, and when I called her in the night I noticed she was acting somehow. Usually we talk for two hours every night and she never declines video call? That day she called me earlier than usual, we start our call by 10pm and she called me by 8pm and she told me she will call back. She called again by 11:00 and we did not talk for more than 7 min. When I requested for video call she declined. That was when I knew she was not home. So I texted her that I knew she is not home. She called me back the second day that she just saw my text that she is sorry and that it was because of curfew that she stayed at the guy's place and all. That she does not know how to tell me blah blah blah. So I broke up with her. And she has been crying and saying sorry since. I still love her, and I actually believe her story a bit, but I'm still angry. Am I overreacting should I take her back or leave her to enjoy her life.

This thing no be fiction na something wey dey vex and pain me. If you talk rubbish I go use the vex curse you.

Binhamid:


Are you saying I should dump her and move on?

Move on......

stanliwise:
@Binhamid
You are the architect of your failure in the relationship. You didn’t overreact and as you were so transparent so also you should be so tough.
At your own peril believe this is her first time.

If you need to think, Block every method she can reach you and think things through for yourself. If you can then forgive.

But your action of over transparency and over trust will kill you someday becareful.

u got it...u didn't set some rules man. Take ur lessons and move on. I have a feeling she might have cheated on u. U don't give ladies that privilege in a relationship, de over utilize it

Aabheaven:
u got it...u didn't set some rules man. Take ur lessons and move on. I have a feeling she might have cheated on u. U don't give ladies that privilege in a relationship, de over utilize it

Should I block her or something. Because she keeps calling me crying and begging. But I feel blocking her will be petty. And I'm scared she might hurt herself or have problem concentrating at work.

Binhamid:


Should I block her or something. Because she keeps calling me crying and begging. But I feel blocking her will be petty. And I'm scared she might hurt herself or have problem concentrating at work.

You need to grow some balls like real men

Alot of redflags from you bro

If she did her calculations right you won't even suspect anything rest assured next time she will use Almighty formula

She is not yours fam
She is for the world

Do you want to be enlightened?
Check this thread out
https://www.nairaland.com/6048178/reality-every-guy-need-know

Thank me later

#ILMOVON
#Attitude
#Bliv

Continue simping Kid..
When Dem tell una to read ubunjas thread una go say No..
Now una dn dey cry come disturb us..

Swallow the redpill , you lots will not hear you think redpillers are bitter, okay....you have no idea how naive you sound to a redpiller or to any guy with common sense for that matter.

women are backwards bro, learn their nature and save your future.

2dice01:
You need to grow some balls like real men

Alot of redflags from you bro

If she did her calculations right you won't even suspect anything rest assured next time she will use Almighty formula

She is not yours fam
She is for the world

Do you want to be enlightened?
Check this thread out
https://www.nairaland.com/6048178/reality-every-guy-need-know

Thank me later

God bless, I dey enjoy the link. I just hope I don't forget the instructions

Binhamid:


God bless, I dey enjoy the link. I just hope I don't forget the instructions

@the Bolded

With 1000naira you will be able to Print 10-15pages
Paste them on your favorite spot at home after morning prayers read one of the quote and assimilate it
Then you continue your daily routine till it sink and becomes part of you

Your girlfriend is just full of drama.
She is enjoying her life with some other guy, yet she wants to keep you.

Spare yourself the heartache...

Binhamid:
Good evening, I stay in a different state from my girlfriend and we see like once in 3 months. She has a tight work schedule and I also do. We also try to make 3 weeks out of December our mini-honeymoon each year. Everything was good because we communicate and tell each other everything. Even if I hang out with female friends or go out on dates due to boredom I do tell her. The one time I kissed a girl due to the fact that I was drunk I told her and I apologized. We had a long fight but we settled. She also tells me everything even when she go on dates. Because I used to tell her who she can go out with and when she should come back, I encourage her to do this because I always feel she might be bored sometimes and male company is okay as long as they are reasonable fellows. So lastweek she went out with this fellow she mentioned briefly to me about, and when I called her in the night I noticed she was acting somehow. Usually we talk for two hours every night and she never declines video call? That day she called me earlier than usual, we start our call by 10pm and she called me by 8pm and she told me she will call back. She called again by 11:00 and we did not talk for more than 7 min. When I requested for video call she declined. That was when I knew she was not home. So I texted her that I knew she is not home. She called me back the second day that she just saw my text that she is sorry and that it was because of curfew that she stayed at the guy's place and all. That she does not know how to tell me blah blah blah. So I broke up with her. And she has been crying and saying sorry since. I still love her, and I actually believe her story a bit, but I'm still angry. Am I overreacting should I take her back or leave her to enjoy her life.

This thing no be fiction na something wey dey vex and pain me. If you talk rubbish I go use the vex curse you.

Did I overreact?

Next!

Binhamid:


Should I block her or something. Because she keeps calling me crying and begging. But I feel blocking her will be petty. And I'm scared she might hurt herself or have problem concentrating at work.

You are just behaving like the Simp these boys here are calling you, a lot of them calling you a simp, will easily forgive their girlfriend if she's caught pants down with a guy. Take control and define your relationship oga, the idea of going on dates and what not, makes the relationship look open. You know your woman, only you know what she is capable of doing or not, fact is, there is a chance that the guy didn't straff her.

SIMP CHAIRMAN... Who wouldn't wen she had planned it from the beginning.. or perhaps you didn't read the full story...

She called him earlier than usual...

Who does that...


ANOTHER SIMP IN THE BUILDING

MARKone:


You are just behaving like the Simp these boys here are calling you, a lot of them calling you a simp, will easily forgive their girlfriend if she's caught pants down with a guy. Take control and define your relationship oga, the idea of going on dates and what not, makes the relationship look open. You know your woman, only you know what she is capable of doing or not, fact is, there is a chance that the guy didn't straff her.

Binhamid:
Good evening, I stay in a different state from my girlfriend and we see like once in 3 months. She has a tight work schedule and I also do. We also try to make 3 weeks out of December our mini-honeymoon each year. Everything was good because we communicate and tell each other everything. Even if I hang out with female friends or go out on dates due to boredom I do tell her. The one time I kissed a girl due to the fact that I was drunk I told her and I apologized. We had a long fight but we settled. She also tells me everything even when she go on dates. Because I used to tell her who she can go out with and when she should come back, I encourage her to do this because I always feel she might be bored sometimes and male company is okay as long as they are reasonable fellows. So lastweek she went out with this fellow she mentioned briefly to me about, and when I called her in the night I noticed she was acting somehow. Usually we talk for two hours every night and she never declines video call? That day she called me earlier than usual, we start our call by 10pm and she called me by 8pm and she told me she will call back. She called again by 11:00 and we did not talk for more than 7 min. When I requested for video call she declined. That was when I knew she was not home. So I texted her that I knew she is not home. She called me back the second day that she just saw my text that she is sorry and that it was because of curfew that she stayed at the guy's place and all. That she does not know how to tell me blah blah blah. So I broke up with her. And she has been crying and saying sorry since. I still love her, and I actually believe her story a bit, but I'm still angry. Am I overreacting should I take her back or leave her to enjoy her life.

This thing no be fiction na something wey dey vex and pain me. If you talk rubbish I go use the vex curse you.

most times it's bad to over react especially when you are wrong.
now this is what you should do, get to know the guy name through one means or the other, then ask her to link you to the guy to have a heart to heart. from there you decipher what to do. thanks

The guy don knack am. He will knack again whether you break up or remain with her.

MajesticKris:
SIMP CHAIRMAN... Who wouldn't wen she had planned it from the beginning.. or perhaps you didn't read the full story...

She called him earlier than usual...

Who does that...


ANOTHER SIMP IN THE BUILDING

Lol, I've had my fair share of women and once married, truth is, we might not fully understand women, and assumptions kills a relationship faster than the deed itself. OP take control of your relationship don't let anyone here confuse you, I'm telling you from experience.

Binhamid:
Good evening, I stay in a different state from my girlfriend and we see like once in 3 months. She has a tight work schedule and I also do. We also try to make 3 weeks out of December our mini-honeymoon each year. Everything was good because we communicate and tell each other everything. Even if I hang out with female friends or go out on dates due to boredom I do tell her. The one time I kissed a girl due to the fact that I was drunk I told her and I apologized. We had a long fight but we settled. She also tells me everything even when she go on dates. Because I used to tell her who she can go out with and when she should come back, I encourage her to do this because I always feel she might be bored sometimes and male company is okay as long as they are reasonable fellows. So lastweek she went out with this fellow she mentioned briefly to me about, and when I called her in the night I noticed she was acting somehow. Usually we talk for two hours every night and she never declines video call? That day she called me earlier than usual, we start our call by 10pm and she called me by 8pm and she told me she will call back. She called again by 11:00 and we did not talk for more than 7 min. When I requested for video call she declined. That was when I knew she was not home. So I texted her that I knew she is not home. She called me back the second day that she just saw my text that she is sorry and that it was because of curfew that she stayed at the guy's place and all. That she does not know how to tell me blah blah blah. So I broke up with her. And she has been crying and saying sorry since. I still love her, and I actually believe her story a bit, but I'm still angry. Am I overreacting should I take her back or leave her to enjoy her life.

This thing no be fiction na something wey dey vex and pain me. If you talk rubbish I go use the vex curse you.

We've been treating simp cases for long now.

As secretary of Redpills group, Nairaland branch, I am mandated to give you your reference number.

It is S457484269. Keep it safe for future purposes.

Must everything be on Nl? My girlfriend this, my girlfriend that. May I not meet babies in guys bodies in Jesus mighty name! Ah!

Eagba:
most times it's bad to over react especially when you are wrong.
now this is what you should do, get to know the guy name through one means or the other, then ask her to link you to the guy to have a heart to heart. from there you decipher what to do. thanks

Another simp identified.

Who does that?

Jeez! It's morning, wash ur eyes very well...and look at yourself thru a mirror...you will agree with the redpillers here on their submission about you