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Re: Honesty and Contentment: My Experience In Zimbabwe. by EgunMogaji2: 3:33am On Aug 19, 2020
Anyone born after 1980 in Nigeria needs to work very hard to convince me of their good character.

Something happened to this country after 1980.
Re: Honesty and Contentment: My Experience In Zimbabwe. by MondayOsunbor(m): 3:55am On Aug 19, 2020
Haywhymido:
Most Nigerians voted Jonathan out not because of tribe but because he failed woefully. He is a good man but a lot of atrocities was commited under his watch. so stop being bitter cos that is the true.

this is 2020 and una Yorubas is still singing this una reggea music

after all we be through in the hand of una saviour sai baba
Re: Honesty and Contentment: My Experience In Zimbabwe. by Kingspin(m): 4:41am On Aug 19, 2020
duro4chang:
Here people will blame the government for everything. The Zimbabwe government is as bad as ours but people are still doing the right things there. Thanks so much for this post.
You guys will always miss a point


There is a relationship between what Nigerian politicians do and Public attitude. It is a learning curve downward.
That is why the Nigerian main problem is bad leadership.
These leaders influence the people through every means possible tribalism, religion, regional or political, money etc.

This has happened over time.

It takes self-discovery and discipline not to fall, the victim or trapped.
Re: Honesty and Contentment: My Experience In Zimbabwe. by ecolime(m): 6:14am On Aug 19, 2020
EgunMogaji2:
Anyone born after 1980 in Nigeria needs to work very hard to convince me of their good character.

Something happened to this country after 1980.
Most of the thieves stealing Nigeria to death till date were all born before 1980 so that's not a valid point.

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Re: Honesty and Contentment: My Experience In Zimbabwe. by Maxxim: 7:24am On Aug 19, 2020
There are few contented people here too in Nigeria, I was listening to a program yesterday where a school teacher returned 14m which was mistakenly sent to her account admist her condition during this lockdown it was so convincing we still have those who could still be trusted here in the country tho the bad eggs seems to be the majority.
Re: Honesty and Contentment: My Experience In Zimbabwe. by Tecno66: 7:28am On Aug 19, 2020
robinso01:
Like I do always say, government is not the problem of Nigeria, but individuals. There's no excuse to be a thief, a thief is a thief. I've seen a lot of situations where Nigerians scam each others, is the government also responsible for that also. Nigerians just have bad mentality, all we could think of is getting joy by making others cry.
That's why Nigerian governments are very corrupt. A government is as good or bad as the constituent's of the country.
Re: Honesty and Contentment: My Experience In Zimbabwe. by ayanbaba2(m): 7:31am On Aug 19, 2020
Warlord2014:
How can a government be bad....and the people are good. Waiting you drink uncle?
you're right! once everyone believe that change begins with them... the country will change

Re: Honesty and Contentment: My Experience In Zimbabwe. by Psoul(m): 7:51am On Aug 19, 2020
Vixlot:


https://www.toldnetwork.com/2020/08/13/my-experience-in-zimbabwe/



You were fortunate to meet one of the good ones there. There are still thousands that will disappoint that your trust over there.
There are also many Nigerians that will still do what that Zimbabwean did for you. We still have good people here irrespective of how bad things have turned out. If you think you cannot trust yourself to do the same, me, I can do it for anyone a million times without betraying any single trust expected fro me.

We should stop helping to paint Nigerians black generally. In Zimbabwe, many bad things are also happening there, even the ones that we cannot even imagine. There are good and bad ppl there as well as here.

Compare their population with that of Nigeria and the rate of crime there. Zimbabwe has a population of around 14million ppl.
So the ratio is about 1:15 when compared Zimb vs Nig. So one crime there is seen like 15 crimes in Nigeria.

We have our bad side and also our good side. Don't just write off the country.

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Re: Honesty and Contentment: My Experience In Zimbabwe. by jayp92: 8:03am On Aug 19, 2020
The truth is as a Nigerian, I will even be scared of collecting the car from u in the first place....
what if the car was stolen?
So its not just a one sided matter.

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Re: Honesty and Contentment: My Experience In Zimbabwe. by jcross19: 8:08am On Aug 19, 2020
duro4chang:
Our government at all levels do not come from another continent. Not from hell not from other countries. Are they not part and parcel of us. We elect them,we select them,we praise them,we insult people because of them. We kill and main because of them.Come to think of it, those who are in power today we're not there yesterday,this is how they were also saying about those who were in power yesterday. Now that they are in power are they doing things differently? If you also continue like this ,you will also behave like them when you get into position of authority. Stop blaming government and do your own part.
I just laugh you!! This is country of over 200 millions population and you want them to change over night? no job,no good amenities for their citizens, no security and more! don't you know when there is increases in population crime must multiply be it anywhere in the world? now there is increases in population, business are folding up, unemployment is increasing terribly because of folding up of companies because of bad policies, inhuman taxes are impose on a through calls,banking all these have negative effects on the citizens. now as far back 1987 we have more than 867 textile companies own by government and these companies employed people but now they were dead! are we improving? and the government are looting all the money ? until the head is regulated we are wasting our time.
Re: Honesty and Contentment: My Experience In Zimbabwe. by eodavids(m): 8:09am On Aug 19, 2020
We still have more well behaved Nigerians, than the bad ones.

Be rest assured, we could have done the same, and even better.
Nigerians are still good people. The bad eggs are yet in a small minority.
Re: Honesty and Contentment: My Experience In Zimbabwe. by jcross19: 8:22am On Aug 19, 2020
GraGra247:
GOVT IS 100% TO BLAME FOR NIGERIA'S PROBLEMS.

NOBODY CAN CONVINCE ME OTHERWISE.
you are blessed this morning!!!.
Re: Honesty and Contentment: My Experience In Zimbabwe. by DaBillionnaire: 8:33am On Aug 19, 2020
Opexzy:
I have met honest people in Nigeria too, with even a more convincing test.

I was in computer village, ikeja Lagos state to fix my phone's screen that broke. It was on a Thursday and all shops were meant to be closed due to lockdown restrictions.
Just like you know, some of them will surely still be by the roadside to hustle for customers. I was there explaining to the technician that want to fix my phone, when a car pulled over and the driver stretched out his hand and handed over his phone, (an iPhone for that matter) to the same guy to help add screen protector and a silicone case.
He paid right there and told the guy he is in a hurry to pick up someone at the airport that he would collect it when he his returning. He dropped his contact card and didn't even bother to collect the guys contact before he drove off.

Everyone was surprised including the guy, because he has never met the man before and there was no traceable location because everywhere was locked.

I think it's better you thank your star that you met a good Zimbabwean.
Just like I use to pray to always encounter good Nigerians

Bad people are everywhere likewise good people.

MODIFIED:
To those asking me if the guy ever returned his phone.
When the guy was done, he called the man and he left us in his shop to wait for him by the road side.
I would not have narrated the story if I didn't know how it ended.

I am sure at one point in time we have all met at least one good and honest Nigerian.

Reading through people's comments and some of my mentions makes it look like I am the only Nigerian on this forum. Ask yourself what would you have done if you were the Zimbabwean, it is that simple. If you are not sure, then na your body the mess dey smell.

I can boldly say this, If I were the the Zimbabwean in the OP's story I would not have done it differently.

Respect Bro
Re: Honesty and Contentment: My Experience In Zimbabwe. by dederocs(m): 8:38am On Aug 19, 2020
duro4chang:
Here people will blame the government for everything. The Zimbabwe government is as bad as ours but people are still doing the right things there. Thanks so much for this post.
Our government is worse, in terms of corruption and stealing, the people here learn from the government, the stealing of public funds in Zimbabwe is child's play compared to Nigeria, Zimbabwe is a poor country.
Re: Honesty and Contentment: My Experience In Zimbabwe. by gbengaeed(m): 8:57am On Aug 19, 2020
...Nigerians we always trying to massage our ego, well done.
Opexzy:
I have met honest people in Nigeria too, with even a more convincing test.

I was in computer village, ikeja Lagos state to fix my phone's screen that broke. It was on a Thursday and all shops were meant to be closed due to lockdown restrictions.
Just like you know, some of them will surely still be by the roadside to hustle for customers. I was there explaining to the technician that want to fix my phone, when a car pulled over and the driver stretched out his hand and handed over his phone, (an iPhone for that matter) to the same guy to help add screen protector and a silicone case.
He paid right there and told the guy he is in a hurry to pick up someone at the airport that he would collect it when he his returning. He dropped his contact card and didn't even bother to collect the guys contact before he drove off.

Everyone was surprised including the guy, because he has never met the man before and there was no traceable location because everywhere was locked.

I think it's better you thank your star that you met a good Zimbabwean.
Just like I use to pray to always encounter good Nigerians

Bad people are everywhere likewise good people.

MODIFIED:
To those asking me if the guy ever returned his phone.
When the guy was done, he called the man and he left us in his shop to wait for him by the road side.
I would not have narrated the story if I didn't know how it ended.

I am sure at one point in time we have all met at least one good and honest Nigerian.

Reading through people's comments and some of my mentions makes it look like I am the only Nigerian on this forum. Ask yourself what would you have done if you were the Zimbabwean, it is that simple. If you are not sure, then na your body the mess dey smell.

I can boldly say this, If I were the the Zimbabwean in the OP's story I would not have done it differently.
Re: Honesty and Contentment: My Experience In Zimbabwe. by goldmatrix(m): 9:11am On Aug 19, 2020
robinso01:
Like I do always say, government is not the problem of Nigeria, but individuals. There's no excuse to be a thief, a thief is a thief. I've seen a lot of situations where Nigerians scam each others, is the government also responsible for that also. Nigerians just have bad mentality, all we could think of is getting joy by making others cry.

But that is what apc is doing to us naa �
Re: Honesty and Contentment: My Experience In Zimbabwe. by EgunMogaji2: 9:24am On Aug 19, 2020
ecolime:

Most of the thieves stealing Nigeria to death till date were all born before 1980 so that's not a valid point.


It is for me. Apparently stealing is the character issue that you judge by.
Re: Honesty and Contentment: My Experience In Zimbabwe. by Haywhymido(m): 9:28am On Aug 19, 2020
MondayOsunbor:


this is 2020 and una Yorubas is still singing this una reggea music

after all we be through in the hand of una saviour sai baba

Mine is to tell you the truth, you could understand it whichever way you like that is your problem to deal with
Re: Honesty and Contentment: My Experience In Zimbabwe. by Codes151(m): 9:31am On Aug 19, 2020
Thats your business.
Re: Honesty and Contentment: My Experience In Zimbabwe. by hayzed1090: 9:32am On Aug 19, 2020
Opexzy:
I have met honest people in Nigeria too, with even a more convincing test.

I was in computer village, ikeja Lagos state to fix my phone's screen that broke. It was on a Thursday and all shops were meant to be closed due to lockdown restrictions.
Just like you know, some of them will surely still be by the roadside to hustle for customers. I was there explaining to the technician that want to fix my phone, when a car pulled over and the driver stretched out his hand and handed over his phone, (an iPhone for that matter) to the same guy to help add screen protector and a silicone case.
He paid right there and told the guy he is in a hurry to pick up someone at the airport that he would collect it when he his returning. He dropped his contact card and didn't even bother to collect the guys contact before he drove off.

Everyone was surprised including the guy, because he has never met the man before and there was no traceable location because everywhere was locked.

I think it's better you thank your star that you met a good Zimbabwean.
Just like I use to pray to always encounter good Nigerians

Bad people are everywhere likewise good people.

MODIFIED:
To those asking me if the guy ever returned his phone.
When the guy was done, he called the man and he left us in his shop to wait for him by the road side.
I would not have narrated the story if I didn't know how it ended.

I am sure at one point in time we have all met at least one good and honest Nigerian.

Reading through people's comments and some of my mentions makes it look like I am the only Nigerian on this forum. Ask yourself what would you have done if you were the Zimbabwean, it is that simple. If you are not sure, then na your body the mess dey smell.

I can boldly say this, If I were the the Zimbabwean in the OP's story I would not have done it differently.

Thank you. Let those calling all Nigerians criminals ask themselves what they would have done if they where in the Zim's shoe. If you and your lineage are criminals, pls dont generalize cos am not a criminal

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Re: Honesty and Contentment: My Experience In Zimbabwe. by duro4chang(m): 9:42am On Aug 19, 2020
dederocs:

Our government is worse, in terms of corruption and stealing, the people here learn from the government, the stealing of public funds in Zimbabwe is child's play compared to Nigeria, Zimbabwe is a poor country.
Leave the government alone and do the right thing. This is exactly those who are in power now complained when they were trying to get to power. If you continue like this even when you too get to power you will do the same.
Re: Honesty and Contentment: My Experience In Zimbabwe. by duro4chang(m): 9:47am On Aug 19, 2020
jcross19:
I just laugh you!! This is country of over 200 millions population and you want them to change over night? no job,no good amenities for their citizens, no security and more! don't you know when there is increases in population crime must multiply be it anywhere in the world? now there is increases in population, business are folding up, unemployment is increasing terribly because of folding up of companies because of bad policies, inhuman taxes are impose on a through calls,banking all these have negative effects on the citizens. now as far back 1987 we have more than 867 textile companies own by government and these companies employed people but now they were dead! are we improving? and the government are looting all the money ? until the head is regulated we are wasting our time.
Continue to laugh. If you continue to laugh at me and support illegalities. Afterall it will be on record that some people are trying to make things right. People like you will only complain, criticise and murmur by the time you get to power it will still be the same because you don't have the will to do anything right.
Re: Honesty and Contentment: My Experience In Zimbabwe. by duro4chang(m): 9:50am On Aug 19, 2020
Kingspin:

You guys will always miss a point


There is a relationship between what Nigerian politicians do and Public attitude. It is a learning curve downward.
That is why the Nigerian main problem is bad leadership.
These leaders influence the people through every means possible tribalism, religion, regional or political, money etc.

This has happened over time.

It takes self-discovery and discipline not to fall, the victim or forget the government and do the right things. You will come here and murmur and complain but what you and I are doing in our domains are nothing to write home about. Until you and I change nothing will change.

Re: Honesty and Contentment: My Experience In Zimbabwe. by duro4chang(m): 9:56am On Aug 19, 2020
Warlord2014:

How can a government be bad....and the people are good.
Waiting you drink uncle?
You are absolutely wrong. Who put those people in power. It is not you and I? People care bad and that is why they elect bad people. You will come here and be praising one politician or the other. At times you praise a political party and abuse another. Who among all these people is worth fighting for. Come to think of it, do you think our government came from another continent it hell are they not Nigerians? Are they not the one criticising the past government. If you and I do not change, nothing we change.
Re: Honesty and Contentment: My Experience In Zimbabwe. by dederocs(m): 10:00am On Aug 19, 2020
duro4chang:
Leave the government alone and do the right thing. This is exactly those who are in power now complained when they were trying to get to power. If you continue like this even when you too get to power you will do the same.
The Op post has nothing to do with leaving the government, you must focus on the government to hold them accountable, focus on the government like they do in civilised nations that are moving forward.
Re: Honesty and Contentment: My Experience In Zimbabwe. by hollah123: 10:02am On Aug 19, 2020
April4th:


If you turn a blind eye to an issue you could have wade in and resolve, then you have no right to complain about the Nigerian mentality and attitude. Simple
please how can I resolve that kind of case?
let me learn from u
Re: Honesty and Contentment: My Experience In Zimbabwe. by duro4chang(m): 10:14am On Aug 19, 2020
dederocs:

The Op post has nothing to do with leaving the government, you must focus on the government to hold them accountable, focus on the government like they do in civilised nations that are moving forward.
Hold them accountable but do your own part.Are we even better than those who are governing us? We like to talk and murmur but we are as bad as our government.
Re: Honesty and Contentment: My Experience In Zimbabwe. by favinvest: 10:35am On Aug 19, 2020
its more of the Value system..

we place more value on money, we respect and praise people with money (whether they got it legally or illegally) than people with integrity & good character

most especially Southern Nigeria (SE,SW,SS) our culture especially those of South-East, place too much importance on people with money than people with integrity. thats why when we want to do anything even marriage, money is the most important thing.. from Aseobi to very expensive bride price to spraying money in party etc

i have seen very poor countries & communities in the world that are having better standard of living than in most nigerian cities. why?

because communities/cities with better standard of living are not built on 100% money but on 30-40% money and 60-70% integrity and good character.
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Human_Development_Index

any society that is built on 100% money mind-set, there will always b greed that leads to crimes, corruption etc.

we need to change our value system from MONEY CENTERED TO INTERGRITY & GOOD CHARACTER CENTERED from our homes to religious places to our communities etc.

have u noticed that we have changed the definitions of some words..
like HONOURABLE .

Honourable means someone that brings honor, trust, integrity..

today we call politicians honorable.. including the ones that are looting the nation dry,..

so are we now saying that based on Nigerian definition of HONOURABLE,
looting & embazzment of public fund make one a honorable person in Nigeria?

all these and more, are what happens to any society that is MONEY not intergrity/charactered centered.

lastly... its not 100% caused by the government but the people or the system, because today`s government leaders were yesterday`s people and today`s people will become some of tomorrow`s government leaders.

u cant give want u don't have..

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Re: Honesty and Contentment: My Experience In Zimbabwe. by dederocs(m): 10:38am On Aug 19, 2020
duro4chang:
Hold them accountable but do your own part.Are we even better than those who are governing us? We like to talk and murmur but we are as bad as our government.
stop talking like a zombie, online agitation, street protests, constructive criticism is better than nothing,.government is like your staff,do you employ staff and leave them alone?
The Op post is reffering to the honest nature of Zimbabweans, it says nothing of leaving the government alone, focus on the government, not your neighbour, neglecting politicians you employ to serve you is foolishness.
Re: Honesty and Contentment: My Experience In Zimbabwe. by duro4chang(m): 10:58am On Aug 19, 2020
dederocs:

stop talking like a zombie, online agitation, street protests, constructive criticism is better than nothing,.government is like your staff,do you employ staff and leave them alone?
The Op post is reffering to the honest nature of Zimbabweans, it says nothing of leaving the government alone, focus on the government, not your neighbour, neglecting politicians you employ to serve you is foolishness.
Thank you very much. Until you and I change nothing will change. Your protests and criticisms amount to nothing if the life you live does not portray honesty, selflessness and modesty. How do you get your certificates, how do you do in your neighbourhood and where you work? Do you value dignity of labour? What about your value system? This present government also criticised and protested between 2014 and 2015 here we are today.
Re: Honesty and Contentment: My Experience In Zimbabwe. by imolile: 11:01am On Aug 19, 2020
You are absolutely correct. I work in the same office with a Zimbabwean and He told me, they are not comfortable having any dealing with Nigeria, that they have Diamond in their country and many mineral resources But they cannot do business with Nigerian because of their corrupt tendencies and the Bad image in the whole world. I felt ashamed because i know he is right about his opinion on majority of Nigerians who are damaged by the culture of corruption and desperation to acquire wealth by all means even if it means murder

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