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Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by HealthWealthy(m): 1:17pm On Aug 20, 2020 |
Hi guys, I got in touch with one of my colleagues sometime during December, the next day I saw her, I told her I liked her (so she won't friend zone me like my other colleagues) but I noticed that ever since I told her I liked she has been really playing hard to get. For more than 8months she doesn't reply my chats or pick my calls...the reason I still stick around is because she gives me ds vibe that she likes me too but she's just pretending Now she replies my chats once in a while. my plan is to keep in touch with her during this lockdown (even tho she still ignores me)...but immediately school reopens, I'll rapport with everyone in the staff room except her. I'm contemplating doing that tho cos I told I loved her and ignoring her in real life may make it seem like I was deceiving her all along. I don't know what to do. help me out guys thanks cc: Harddon and other gurus in the house. |
Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by Camelot65: 1:39pm On Aug 20, 2020 |
HealthWealthy: @1bold : You don't ask ladies out, you just flow with them, asking them out (telling her you love her) is a mistake you made , it pushes you to the friend zone @2bold : bold 1 is the reason why she's playing hard to get @3bold : Lol... you kept calling her for 8 months?? whatever happened to "sending her less" ? You're acting all needy and clingy joor, you should have sent her less my advice : Send her less and meet other ladies....chaii but you sef, you allowed her to have an edge over you Try your best to read the thread from the beginning, it'll help against future occurrences My two cents though, 6 Likes |
Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by HealthWealthy(m): 1:43pm On Aug 20, 2020 |
Camelot65: Not that her I asked her out per se. I just wanted her to know that I wasn't up for her friend zoning. calling her for 8 months didn't mean I did it every day, I call her like twice a month for the past 8 months...that's what I mean. I also send her less. I don't know whether to continue doing so. |
Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by Camelot65: 1:53pm On Aug 20, 2020 |
HealthWealthy:Lol.... if you've read from the beginning, Harddon made a statement about telling a lady "you like her", Stop telling ladies that, it'll only piss them off and push you to friend zone (like other guys) Lol, I understood what you mean, OK, did she in any way reciprocate all the calls you made to her?? |
Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by HealthWealthy(m): 2:00pm On Aug 20, 2020 |
Camelot65: Lol. nope! never did she. What do you suggest I do? give up? wouldn't it make her see me as one not worthy of her love? |
Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by Camelot65: 2:04pm On Aug 20, 2020 |
HealthWealthy:Lol...... Man, are you serious?? Advice yourself at this juncture Harddon would really be pissed Choi |
Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by HealthWealthy(m): 2:08pm On Aug 20, 2020 |
Camelot65: I also need your advice boss |
Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by Camelot65: 2:15pm On Aug 20, 2020 |
HealthWealthy: Send her less, stop calling or texting her, you're acting needy for a man meet other ladies, interact, be free with them and be happy Try not to get into any relationship talk with her when you eventually get to meet (not talking to her would show that you're really pissed .... ) And Don't let ladies use you to catch cruise next time 2 Likes |
Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by HealthWealthy(m): 2:17pm On Aug 20, 2020 |
Camelot65: Thank you boss. I'm very grateful. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by HARDDON: 4:56pm On Aug 21, 2020 |
Emodeee: This is not a game. It's a statement of fact.... She is very lucky. Btw, who gave her out when a stakeholder like me is not aware? #Notfornaughtswerewebornwithballs |
Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by HARDDON: 5:05pm On Aug 21, 2020 |
lakesidepapa: It is only a tortoise with a full belly that challenges his chi to a duel. and you know, as they say, a dog destined for the unfortunate does not hear its master's whistle. 2 Likes |
Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by HARDDON: 5:18pm On Aug 21, 2020 |
MickeyJB: @ emphasized, pro move. deflate her pseudo ego, shoot up your price and watch her strive to please you which she has been trying to do but you've been a very witless and planless somebody. How can you tell someone to call and have nothing to say? Or if you ain't confident with calls( because as I stated in some pages earlier, calling compared to chatting demands alot of wits , sendless, wisdom, mastery of words and deft confidence.) , why didn't you tell her to chat you up rather? You had all options opened to you but you witlessly decided to choose the one you ain't comfy with. I don't know your response to her complaint about meeting. The boss response I would have given is ; "ofcos not, I just realised you don't seem comfortable on calls, you tend to lose your breath when u hear my voice, so I decided to make it easy for you...." BUT the BIG QUESTION IS, WHAT DO YOU WANT WITH HER? WHAT IS YOUR PLAN? I would suggest you create attraction with chats first b4 anything else. right now, u losing it. Your chats should be all about making fun of her, answering her questions in witty ways and playing up your price the more. Nothing else. 3 Likes |
Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by HARDDON: 5:24pm On Aug 21, 2020 |
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Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by HARDDON: 5:46pm On Aug 21, 2020 |
Spikesman: did you just refer to me as Hardin? You liked her and ASKED her out. Yea? Ofcos you did. And she used one of their default mode responses when they kinda like you but aint attracted to you yet or when they ain't sure if you are for real or just want to shunt between meeting and getting down. From her follow up response about getting upset when you flirt with others, it is obvious she just needed a lil assurance from you, guess you didn't make joke of such airs, ramp up your attractive revs and you just left her in a state of limbo. The lil light you sparked in her heart died the moment you were out of sight and she found someone more interesting during the lockdown. Most gurls are bored now and spend alot of time with guys that brings fun. not hello ha guys. if she is ignoring you at this time in history, I must say you are really boring. If I were you, immediately I ignored her for a month, I'm never going back there until she reaches out(which I would usually ignore at first) or until we meet again in school and she hellos. Why would you tell her you would call and didn't till a week after? That is totally wrong. always be a man of your words. Or better still, you should have told her to call by 7am in the morning. Bliv u me, she would have. Going forward, DONT call her again. Let her return your call. Read up the thread to know how to spin an engaging convo but first, what do you really want with her? that would dictate your choice of words and how the convo wud flow. NB: a guy who hasn't signed his signatures all over a gurl's heart nor replaced her red blood cells with his blue ones have no business ghosting her. it is to his disservice. Rich Regards, Don. 3 Likes |
Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by HARDDON: 5:56pm On Aug 21, 2020 |
Highbeepeeh: I do hope this is not the way you chat with anybody let alone gurls? Now, I want you to write in normal English and spell out all your words. You can't be wearing flip flops coupled with denim jeans and still garnish all that with bad abbreviations. Mbanu 9 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by HARDDON: 6:03pm On Aug 21, 2020 |
Thazard: You seem to be very good at narration. There is nothing to access from the situation bro. You think she hasn't sensed you? from a mile out, she has. Read the thread and learn how to make fun of gurls you fancy and pelt them with attractive pebbles before u stop her one day and start professing road side love. 2 Likes |
Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by Holumhidey(m): 6:39pm On Aug 21, 2020 |
Pls there is this girl i like, i wanna go meet her and have a conversation with her but she's so pretty and looks like those girls that can fool or look down on a guy without much effort. We are going to see again on tuesday and i wanna talk to her; i dont know where to start from or what to say |
Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by HealthWealthy(m): 8:02pm On Aug 21, 2020 |
I don't know what to do.Harddon help me out please! |
Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by Mandela27: 8:11pm On Aug 21, 2020 |
Special greetings to the bosses in the house. There is this girl with a very heavy backside in the neighbourhood,I really want to go into her pants,I know she is damn into me but I am playing the bad boy game on her,good thing is she has already fallen,I can tell through her body languages,but this evening I fvcked up big time,I saw her coming and she was smilling at me,and I just told her hey you SHIRT is very long o,damn! I wanted to say SKIRT,meanwhile she was wearing short skirt..I didn't stop to talk to her and I never looked back..I knew those lines were poor and i'm still feeling fvcked. Help me out bros,I really want to go down with this girl.thanks in anticipation. |
Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by Highbeepeeh(m): 1:24am On Aug 22, 2020 |
HARDDON:Thanks boss. i will do the needful ASAP |
Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by liljboy(m): 6:49am On Aug 22, 2020 |
Spikesman:Bro, if you're going to be successful with women, you need to forget every limiting belief you were programmed to believe. Such limiting beliefs: 1. Get lucky 2. Win her heart 3. Deserving of her affection 1. Get lucky: it implies that a man isn't capable of seducing a woman, that it all depends on luck, which is wrong. Listen up, you don't need luck, you need masculinity to attract a feminine woman. Be direct & straight forward, don't be sneaky & passive 2. Win her heart: it implies that women are some prize that men must compete for. That as a man you must jump through hoops to get her heart, which is wrong. Desire must be given by her own volition, never negotiated, appealed for, forced or earned 3. Deserving of her affection: it implies that as a man you must 1st achieve a certain standard of success approved by the gynocentric society, before you get permission to attract & seduce women. Bro, you never have to "prove" yourself to a woman, that's beta behavior These are but just some of the limiting abilities. They're wrong & limiting in nature. You don't need to COMPETE for a woman, LUCK to be with a woman & GIVE yourself permission to attract & seduce women. 2 Likes |
Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by liljboy(m): 6:58am On Aug 22, 2020 |
Highbeepeeh: Women would rather fight over or share a high value man than be saddled by a loser. You are proud to come and tell us you like walking around in slippers, Dude! Work on yourself. Dress better. You want a working class lady to stop for someone who's dressing shabby.... Na wa o you sef. 3 Likes |
Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by liljboy(m): 7:04am On Aug 22, 2020 |
Thazard:I guess you're waiting for her to come and approach you. You're funny o. Go back to page 1-20 of the thread. At worst, get her number from that your friend, if you can't talk face to face, we'll go you with chatting her up. Cos from what you said, the signs are there, grab it while you can or someone else will. |
Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by liljboy(m): 7:11am On Aug 22, 2020 |
HealthWealthy: Don't negotiate desire - it saves you from being used for both your time, attention & resources. You can't negotiate or "nice" your way to intimacy. She either wants you or she doesn't gents. We've all been there and had to learn it the hard way� Unfortunately, some don’t learn. Take away your attention from any woman who isn't interested or acting uninterested in you. From the book "The 48 Laws Of Power" by Robert Green, law 36: Disdain things you can't have. Ignoring is the best option. She can be interested in you but still play games (shit tests) A typical example of a shit test from a chick that is interested in you. She will delay text to see if you will dig yourself into a hole of neediness. You must always maintain composure. Know this women will constantly put you through shit tests Women prey on weakness & will respect a man that isn't afraid to ignore her. Your strength as a man lies in your ability to remain indifferent to a woman's behavior. Show weakness she'll destroy you. Ignore her she'll adore you. The more she's an afterthought to you, the more you're her focus. Put a premium on your attention, it must be continuously earned!!! Join the friendzone today! Act too meek, too available, too clingy, too disinterested, too nonsexual or too indecisive. *Drops mic 5 Likes |
Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by liljboy(m): 7:19am On Aug 22, 2020 |
Holumhidey:Gentlemen, learn to treat 'beautiful' women the same way you treat everyone else. If she's a 10 & your actions towards her validates it, she'll treat you like a 5 or less. Women are disgusted by men that pedestalize them, they find them unworthy of attraction or respect. Be able to look past a woman's appearance. Ask yourself what else does she offer. If you can't master that, you'll be used. Beautiful women know their appearance is confusing to an average man, hence they've weaponized it, to extract resources & get validation. Forget her appearance, you'll find out she has no power. Whatever power you think she has, it's all derived from her appearance. She's not above you in any way, there's no need for you to pedestalize her. And remember women age like milk, that appearance is for a short period!!! 3 Likes |
Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by Highbeepeeh(m): 7:21am On Aug 22, 2020 |
liljboy:Thanks man work in progress 1 Like |
Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by liljboy(m): 7:22am On Aug 22, 2020 |
Mandela27:your situation is redeemable na. Try again next time. "Oh, was that a skirt you were wearing the other day?... Damn! I'm losing my mind this period.. I guess I really need to be taken care of by someone like you" 2 Likes |
Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by Daddyspikes: 7:55am On Aug 22, 2020 |
HARDDON: Thanks harddon..sorry for misspelling your name the other time ..this is a new account(same guy). during the lockdown we were still cool for like a month and half or so ..The thing is I have this soft spot for girls I like ...I do all those things you teach to other girls I don't really like. ie, making fun of them in a witty way and stuff and I don't always have problem with that but once I start developing one mumu feeling for a girl like this ...I start acting nice.... before your response I commented on her status and she replied ..got me confused like see who is not picking my calls .....please harddon, what do I do when we resume or when she calls...I won't really say am boring tho I just get tired of long talks and damn she is always bored .. how do I keep up with that?lol. And yea I want her to be my girlfriend. |
Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by Daddyspikes: 8:00am On Aug 22, 2020 |
liljboy: Thanks man I appreciate. |
Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by Daddyspikes: 8:02am On Aug 22, 2020 |
stanliwise: Thanks man .....this is a new account (same guy) |
Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by Highbeepeeh(m): 9:42am On Aug 22, 2020 |
stanliwise:Yeah, this is true. The way i do mine is, i would use my line or trick on someone that knows nothing can comes in btw us, e.g mum, sister or friend. |
Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by Highbeepeeh(m): 10:11am On Aug 22, 2020 |
I raised my hands(TUALE) To the KINGS at the TOP, that are taking their time to help drill we the nice guys. HARDDON STANLIWISE LILJBOY TO MY FELLOW LEARNERS PLS LET MAKE SURE WE READ THE DRILLS RULES FROM THE BEGINING TO THIS STAGE AND ALSO LISTEN TO FOLLOW MY LEAD BY 50 CENT AND U CHECK THE LYRICS TO GET D MESSAGE. 1 Like 1 Share |
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