MJBOLT:

you should have ignored that foolish girl

Zzor:
we are still on the same page,you just went the long way,he can be giving the money as gifts and other expensive valuables.The Op knew I was joking but your hate for women didn't allow you see that,welldone Mr redpill chairman

MJBOLT:

shameless thing,it's now she's looking for a husband after seeing a millionaire

Zzor:
why are you vexing over nothing,where is the millionaire?You think everyone is broke like you mtcheww

MrBrownJay1:


we are not on the same page, not even on the same book. you foolishly automatically thought that the OP SHOULD/MUST give away some of this money away to a woman, as if it is a requirement for dating, while i am telling him that he doesnt have to give anything to a woman, and even if he wants to do so, thats should be HIS choice, and nobody else's.

we all know all your broke broken liabilities that will start to date a dude today, and next day you will start begging for Brazilian hair, transport fee, recharge card, school fees etc, as if the dude is your father and/or you suddenly realize you had to pay for these when you met that dude.

as for redpillers, they are as deluded as you are on this issue!

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Albertone:
Many people don't seem to like you here.

Albertone:
Many people don't seem to like you here.

Zzor:
why are you vexing over nothing,where is the millionaire?You think everyone is broke like you mtcheww

Zzor:
pack out and start facing your life like a man should,make use of the money wisely ,remember to spend on your fiancee too and don't be a stingy boyfriend lol. God bless you with more money,be a good boy and don't follow all this yeye Nairaland redpillers

iLegendd:
I have the best advice for you, but let me allow others speak while I listen.

Zzor:
Not everyone is as broke as you,no vex run along

Zzor:
Isnt it a good thing to be a virgin as a man? i wonder why you guys think it's falling of hands for a guy to be virgin,be a good boy and remain decent.I have been searching for a virgin husband to marry within the age bracket of 30-35,it seems to be in total extinction but I'm still hoping,so you should be proud of your virginity as man,its a pride for men also

Zzor:
pack out and start facing your life like a man should,make use of the money wisely ,remember to spend on your fiancee too and don't be a stingy boyfriend lol. God bless you with more money,be a good boy and don't follow all this yeye Nairaland redpillers

lefulefu:
am i missing something
i didnt read any part he said he had a fiancee

lefulefu:
just purchase land .land is one of the highest security asset u can get.it improves in price overtime.today u might be dat land for 500k..in two yrs time u might be selling it by ten million
on the issue of weda to remain with ur parents or stay alone that decision lies with u.
PS
Dont spend the money on ashawo and alchohol ooo
cos thats the normal thing an average nigerian youth does once he gets money
small money just enter a youth hand and the next thing na pussy im don dey tink about
u spend dat money anyhow within a month everything go finish cos if u like am 1 million naira is not that much huge if u compare our naira currency to other global currencies.
so spend d money wisely

Zzor:
Isnt it a good thing to be a virgin as a man? i wonder why you guys think it's falling of hands for a guy to be virgin,be a good boy and remain decent.I have been searching for a virgin husband to marry within the age bracket of 30-35,it seems to be in total extinction but I'm still hoping,so you should be proud of your virginity as man,its a pride for men also

lefulefu:
am i missing something
i didnt read any part he said he had a fiancee

MrBrownJay1:


brotha Lefulefu, as much as "proper" land is an asset, not everyone is ready/willing to buy land nor all land is an asset (go ask the people who bought waterlogged land in Lekki). there is a time for everything, and right now the dude wants to be independent... why buy land and be stuck with his parents any longer?

UDUJ:


I don't want to say much but try and pay attention. Your 1.2 million naira is not much in this present day Nigeria. If you go rent a place just because you want to get freedom I am assuring you that you will get dead broke in less than 4 months if you don't have a steady source of income.

If your parents are not complaining and still supporting you dude stay in your parents house. There is no shame there. Buy the land your parents advised you to and secure it immediately with a small fence and pay what ever community dues. Trust me it will appreciate.

Don't listen to some posters here telling you to move out. Your parents know what's best for you. I started buying landed properties while I was in Uniben many years ago and I assure you that's a very good investment.

I see you are not jobless, good for you. Stay in your parents house and plan your life from there. 25 is not too old neither is it too young.

If you are thinking of freedom I don't think your parents will object if they see you with one girl unless you want to live a wayward life and keep changing girls. Guy stay your parents house for now and continue your hustle.

UDUJ:
MrBrownJay1 if the land his parents want him to get is in a choice location then he should not think twice. I bought a plot of land at Greenville Estate Ajah just close to co-operative villa for 1.6 m in 2012. That very plot of land now goes for nothing less than 10 to 12m. The dude is still young and industrious to be able to save that amount. And he can save more while still living with his parents. There is no shame there

lefulefu:
some guys are always anxious about freedom.Just imagine u got a job in the same town as ur parents and in ur mind you know thats not a permanent job for u and u making plans for something big but in the meantime u just have to do this job..does it make sense packing out of ur parents house? money u would be paying for rent and for food u would be saving that one in the bank and the salary u get paid u will be stashing half of it in ur account also.Until u make plans to move ahead and make use of the money u just saved.the only time u wouldnt be able to save money is if u are a gambler,womaniser and an alcoholic.if u prudent d money u would safe at the time u were staying with ur parents would be enormous.except maybe the small job u got u plan to make it ur parmanent job then u can pack out of ur parents house.

Zzor:
i was just teasing him and he understands,thats all.

lefulefu:
if op na ibo guy fiancee or sidechicks no go even dey the wiser dat their man don hammer .d same old three quater wey im dey wear before he get d money he will still be wearing the same three quater even after im don hammer .dats why i respect igbo guys .very intelligent anf smart folks .

Ishilove:
Invest the money abeg. Nobody is pursuing you from your parent's house.

MrBrownJay1:


you know these women na... quick to think on how to get their hands on a man's money!

MrBrownJay1:






brotha Lefulefu, as much as "proper" land is an asset, not everyone is ready/willing to buy land nor all land is an asset (go ask the people who bought waterlogged land in Lekki). there is a time for everything, and right now the dude wants to be independent... why buy land and be stuck with his parents any longer?