I just started dating these girl like three months now. she says she doesn't like calls . Her reason being that she doesn't feel comfortable with calls, she rather prefers chatting. And it's making me feel distant from her, bscause of lack of communication. could it be she lost interest or just an introvert.

Someone like me i hate calls.

She might be an introvert

Still call her, just the same. Let her know that you like calls.

She may not reciprocate, though..
But of course, you won't mind for now.

BTW:
All ladies like calls. What some don't fancy is pestering.

same with me o

She doesn't want a situation where you'd call in when she's with the main guy......



If It's a distance relationship..... Sorry padi mi....


If it's not a distance relationship....Try and create much time to be spending with her and get to know her yourself.

unclemaths:
Still call her, just the same. Let her know that you like calls.

She may not reciprocate, though..
But of course, you won't mind for now.

BTW:
All ladies like calls. What some don't fancy is pestering.

i call her like once in two days.

Haba, she has a reason for saying that. Maybe her job. As for me, I prefer calls than texting

Isn't it weird for a lady to say she doesn't like calls? She is up to something. Abeg free her make she go her way before you regret it.
If I may ask, have u met her one on one. If not that person must be a gee guy

Davicjoe:
Isn't it weird for a lady to say she doesn't like calls? She is up to something. Abeg free her make she go her way before you regret it.
If I may ask, have u met her one on one. If not that person must be a gee guy

we have known each other for years, before we started dating. we know each other physically.

Bola146:
Haba, she has a reason for saying that. Maybe her job. As for me, I prefer calls than texting

she does not have a job.

Boomzaga:
she does not have a job.

Then she is hiding something from you

Boomzaga:
i call her like once in two days.

Once in two days and she's still complaining.? And she doesn't have a job too?

I'm sorry to inform you that for the past three months now, you have been dating yourself. Sorry for your time wasted.

Bola146:
Haba, she has a reason for saying that. Maybe her job. As for me, I prefer calls than texting

Same here. That texting ehn... Na wahala abeg!

Good to hear!!

It's the generation Z culture. I presume your friend is within that age range.

ReluctantAdult:
It's the generation Z culture. I presume your friend is within that age range.

yes she is.

Boomzaga:
I just started dating these girl like three months now. she says she doesn't like calls . Her reason being that she doesn't feel comfortable with calls, she rather prefers chatting. And it's making me feel distant from her, bscause of lack of communication. could it be she lost interest or just an introvert.

Introverts don't like calls....



You have met her so u should no better than us....



Stop asking us

Boomzaga:
I just started dating these girl like three months now. she says she doesn't like calls . Her reason being that she doesn't feel comfortable with calls, she rather prefers chatting. And it's making me feel distant from her, bscause of lack of communication. could it be she lost interest or just an introvert.

She doesn't have a burning desire for you.

Does she reply fast?

Bola146:


Then she is hiding something from you

I don't think she's hiding anything. I am a guy and I hate calls. I only call people once in months or weeks but I can chat with the person for 12 hours straight in a day.

There are people like that.

YoungCabal:
Most female friends are usually shocked when they call me and I don't pick. They are always complaining of being too tired to text when I tell them I prefer texting. Here you are complaining the reverse case. Your girl is an introvert just like me, I hate calls even though I'm a 90's kid.

Thank you!

And people here are saying she's hiding something. She's not hiding anything from the guy, that's just the way she is.

I hate calls also and I LOVE chatting. I prefer to text or chat up on Whatsapp than call. It's normal.

same thing with me I swr

Hate calls like mad... I don't call and don't you to call except if very necessary

I'm an introvert. I hate calls.
Maybe she hasn't lost interest

I am an introvert and I prefer calling to chatting. Buh if you call me it's by God's grace I will pick ... If I chat with you just know you are more than special to me...


On her own case it's a two way thing
1. Maybe that's how she is or
2. She might not want unwanted call when she is with za oza guy......

Try visit her unannounced at probably days you normally don't call buh I pray it doesn't end in tears......

Nice post man

NeeKlaus:

Thank you!

And people here are saying she's hiding something. She's not hiding anything from the guy, that's just the way she is.

I hate calls also and I LOVE chatting. I prefer to text or chat up on Whatsapp than call. It's normal.

I hate both calls and text I dey c dem as disturbance,I dey live phone 4 house self except on business days I only pick some business calls and u mst talk fast.

Guess is an introvert thing, I don't like calls, I prefer texting.

K