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Re: I Look Too Young And I Find It Hard To Relate With People by Xpol: 8:20pm On Aug 22, 2020 |
Oldpikin:must you have friends and mingle with people? I have a normal stature,height and body is normal but I don't make friends, I'm mostly on my own and relate with my family members cos I do regret each time I make friend. so stay in your lane if you can't take insult from your younger ones or learn how to cope with those who appear physically as your mates. What you need is a matured Sense not weed or beard cos that's what will make you mingle and blend with friends who are bigger than you. shalom it's Xpol |
Re: I Look Too Young And I Find It Hard To Relate With People by payloader(m): 8:22pm On Aug 22, 2020 |
Go to the gym and build some muscles. You can experiment with anabolic steroids. You'll be fine. |
Re: I Look Too Young And I Find It Hard To Relate With People by HomerTimpson: 8:28pm On Aug 22, 2020 |
Prechgold1180:the lord is your strengt dear |
Re: I Look Too Young And I Find It Hard To Relate With People by natsuflame: 8:32pm On Aug 22, 2020 |
Eat beans everyday in excess at least twice a day for the next 3 months and watch how your body changes from a boy to man. Thank me later |
Re: I Look Too Young And I Find It Hard To Relate With People by annyz: 8:45pm On Aug 22, 2020 |
Where is ur picture please so we can be more factual. |
Re: I Look Too Young And I Find It Hard To Relate With People by Coolgent(m): 8:46pm On Aug 22, 2020 |
Oldpikin: Your physical appearance doesn't matter hustle hustle and hustle! About 70% of my colleagues are between fifties and sixties. |
Re: I Look Too Young And I Find It Hard To Relate With People by jamex93(m): 8:58pm On Aug 22, 2020 |
treziMcCarthy: Chai... Ur way far |
Re: I Look Too Young And I Find It Hard To Relate With People by eterisan(m): 9:13pm On Aug 22, 2020 |
Oldpikin:Go and make money. The rest will take care of itself. |
Re: I Look Too Young And I Find It Hard To Relate With People by Toneyo(m): 9:16pm On Aug 22, 2020 |
You will appreciate your looks when you turn 35 or 40. My mates looks 45 now. For me, I still look like I'm in my late 20s or early 30s. I tell you! You will love it more in your old age. My dad is 71 but looks 60. 2 Likes |
Re: I Look Too Young And I Find It Hard To Relate With People by SUGARCyprian247: 9:54pm On Aug 22, 2020 |
Bro Do You Have Money? If yes, U have nothing to worry .. Money is everything |
Re: I Look Too Young And I Find It Hard To Relate With People by 41lady(m): 9:59pm On Aug 22, 2020 |
Op.. Same, I am 40 but look like 26, I don't have bears, my siblings look older than me, to the extend when their friends (who don't know my position in the family) comes to check on them and they see me around the house while my brothers are inside their rooms, they do ask me to go and call my elder brothers but I will just smile and call, later my brothers will tell their friends I am the big bro in the house and I command bigger guys with my sense and wisdom because in the norther east respect comes before money. Op. . don't be intimidated, work hard and get knowledge and money, you will have power and people will respect you no matter your stature. |
Re: I Look Too Young And I Find It Hard To Relate With People by ChengHun(m): 10:30pm On Aug 22, 2020 |
It depends on how you carry yourself, use one person as a scape goat among those that disrespect you,. There are people who look 16 and they're managing big companies,. Ur dress can save you , mind what you wear, don't dress like 16. By my stature and voice, I look like 18 but I'm a teacher and no students dare disrespect me. When they see me outside they prostrate to greet me. Ur achievement also matters. |
Re: I Look Too Young And I Find It Hard To Relate With People by ShawtCake(f): 10:41pm On Aug 22, 2020 |
See ehn, this thing is all about your personality. I have a small body and I'm 28. I even bully people who are Obviously taller and Bigger than I am. Lol.. I am strongly opinionated and I don't allow anyone shush me. Lai lai! Me that I am always fighting for people's rights sef gan. I am acting team lead at work currently.. I ensure everyone does their jobs and if you try nonsense, I will tell you off! 1 Like |
Re: I Look Too Young And I Find It Hard To Relate With People by Xoned(m): 12:46am On Aug 23, 2020 |
Oldpikin: I'm 18 almost 19 and people think I'm 22-25�.... mostly due to the fact i carry myself with the confidence of an older person and partly because I have facial hairs (@14) |
Re: I Look Too Young And I Find It Hard To Relate With People by Nobody: 3:50am On Aug 23, 2020 |
Oldpikin: Brother, you don't need to go looking for substances or methods to make your voice thicker. All you need is confidence. You are perfectly okay, believe in yourself and improve your self image |
Re: I Look Too Young And I Find It Hard To Relate With People by shiffynaani(m): 6:37am On Aug 23, 2020 |
Oldpikin:do you know why everyone disrespects you? Because you disrespect YOURSELF in the first place! You've already told them even before you get there that "no be my kind dem dey find here" through your actions and inactions. YOU are why people disregard, and look you with utter disdain. For you to earn others' respect, RESPECT YOURSELF FIRST bro. Fight that inner monster; that believe that always whisper to you that you're small, you've a baby face, and blah blah, FIGHT AND DEFEAT IT first bro. That's your inner self. It's who you are. From now on always look yourself in the mirror and say it very loud that you're an ADULT, you can face and talk to anybody. And if anyone dares to underestimate you in anyway, you WILL make him pay for it. Go out there,roll with people you age and even older. You will see your confidence skyrocket bro. As for me, I don't always like to roll with my agemate except some because most of them are not always mature to my own standard. I do like to roll with with adults, family men. That's the spirit bro. |
Re: I Look Too Young And I Find It Hard To Relate With People by KenModi(m): 7:08am On Aug 23, 2020 |
Zabiboy: You couldn’t have said it better! Skills and brains rule the world not beards and thick voice. For example if he is a software programmer with the right skillset and experience (especially abroad), dude would be earning fine and living nice, driving a nice ride and probably living in his own house. He wouldn’t need beards and a think voice to get attention. Whenever he steps out, na dem go dey rush am. |
Re: I Look Too Young And I Find It Hard To Relate With People by treziMcCarthy: 9:07am On Aug 23, 2020 |
jamex93:U nko? |
Re: I Look Too Young And I Find It Hard To Relate With People by Sirpc(m): 10:30am On Aug 23, 2020 |
Ur picture or we don't believe it.... |
Re: I Look Too Young And I Find It Hard To Relate With People by Aliii(m): 10:41am On Aug 23, 2020 |
Oldpikin:your nature shouldn't worry you, you should worry more on how to get better, how to make money, if you have money all the respect in this world will be yours, who no get money na boy, talking of beards, oga be careful of what you wish, we weh get am don tire, shaving everyday and fighting bumps, and the thicker voice you are looking for will definitely not guarantee you anything.. My brother stop thinking like a child.. They are only disrespecting you because you are acting like a child. |
Re: I Look Too Young And I Find It Hard To Relate With People by jamex93(m): 4:39pm On Aug 23, 2020 |
treziMcCarthy: Kaduna kaduna |
Re: I Look Too Young And I Find It Hard To Relate With People by colizee(m): 6:30pm On Aug 23, 2020 |
I bet you are a Wizkid fan |
Re: I Look Too Young And I Find It Hard To Relate With People by Legendguy(m): 10:12pm On Aug 24, 2020 |
I'm 30 but if I tell people to guess my age they will be telling me 24,25,23. Most of my friends we finished sch together are all looking big and they have increased morphologically. I'm tall lik5ft,9 and I have beards with thick voice but I still look smallish in body figure |
Re: I Look Too Young And I Find It Hard To Relate With People by henrixx(m): 5:05am On Aug 25, 2020 |
Oldpikin:go and gym bro. chop iron when I used to gym our trainer get tiny voice and plenty muscle. but we dey respect am. babes sef like the guy. so go and gym |
Re: I Look Too Young And I Find It Hard To Relate With People by Alabaintprice(m): 2:26pm On Aug 25, 2020 |
Don't stress ..... I'm actually 29 but I look 20. Had to keep dreads so I can be a bit older but yet nothing has changed. The best thing is that I have accepted who I am and I'm happy because even at my old age I still look very young. Not everyone has that privilege you know...... Be happy, don't feel ashamed You didn't create yourself 1 Like |
Re: I Look Too Young And I Find It Hard To Relate With People by AbuchiTech: 2:26pm On Sep 11, 2020 |
sixsgod: Greetings bro. Please do you know where I can get that minoxidil? |
Re: I Look Too Young And I Find It Hard To Relate With People by sixsgod: 4:57pm On Sep 11, 2020 |
AbuchiTech:jumia |
Re: I Look Too Young And I Find It Hard To Relate With People by babtoundey(m): 5:13pm On Sep 11, 2020 |
It's not a matter of your look. What matters is how you carry yourself and how you relate with people. Some people have adult shape but toddlers brain while some others have baby face but are intellectually sounds d and mature. You can with your own effort gain in thinking and maturity what nature has enied you in hight. I equally babe babby face with small body frame and I never for once thought of boosting my courage or asserting my position with deep voice (which I obviously don't have) or any other posture. In fact, people tend to respect me and my opinion. So it's no about your hight it's about you. |
Re: I Look Too Young And I Find It Hard To Relate With People by nams77: 3:21pm On Nov 11, 2020 |
Oldpikin:I wish I had your gift. I look way much older than my age. I cut the image of a CEO/Boss If I enter a place, all eyes rivet to me and I used to get a lot of consideration because people see me as much more matured than my age. Pls I am not bragging. My colleagues used to joke that no security man dare turn us down in any organization we visit due to my look Years to come and you will enjoy this gift |
Re: I Look Too Young And I Find It Hard To Relate With People by ymstar(m): 11:13am On Nov 19, 2020 |
Sorry for that |
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