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How Do I Convince My Boyfriend That I Was Only Trying To Protect Him? by Rabbi4real: 7:56pm On Aug 24, 2020 |
Good day ma, My boyfriend lives in a compound like face me I face you type. I don’t have a problem with that cos I visit him like every weekend. I notice him and his neighbors are very friendly and I am not used to that type of lifestyle and that really bothers me. My boyfriend is a Teacher and likes to help people alot. I work in an office as HR. When we met, I was attracted to his nature of kindness. I did not mind his status,I just fell in love with how he genuinely care for people including myself. When the relationship became serious, I started feeling that some people may want to take advantage of his kindness. For example,he coaches students for free,even though I know he should get paid for his services. People come to lie to him that they have no money and he says no problem. This is always making him broke as he has to depend on his meager salary. But in a month,apart from his job,he coaches more than 15 students. In his compound, they share common amenities and somehow,also share assets like borrowing of cooking stove or fan or go to each other’s room for a meal. I am not used to that type of lifestyle but I love my boyfriend so I adjust for him. Until .... https://livelystones.ng/2020/08/24/how-do-i-convince-my-boyfriend-that-i-was-only-trying-to-protect-him/
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Re: How Do I Convince My Boyfriend That I Was Only Trying To Protect Him? by Nobody: 8:04pm On Aug 24, 2020 |
why are you stressing the young man's life in the name of dating in the first place ,please leave him so he can improve his hustling.Hes kindness will bring him success sooner,he knows what he's doing. 3 Likes |
Re: How Do I Convince My Boyfriend That I Was Only Trying To Protect Him? by paulolee(m): 8:09pm On Aug 24, 2020 |
abeg leave dt young man to focus and keep helping people, his reward is in heaven.. |
Re: How Do I Convince My Boyfriend That I Was Only Trying To Protect Him? by Nobody: 8:50pm On Aug 24, 2020 |
Talk 2 Him & Open His Blind Eyes Abt Dis. Dat Could Be His Weakness. |
Re: How Do I Convince My Boyfriend That I Was Only Trying To Protect Him? by Rabbi4real: 8:57pm On Aug 24, 2020 |
paulolee: |
Re: How Do I Convince My Boyfriend That I Was Only Trying To Protect Him? by jidamsel43(m): 9:04pm On Aug 24, 2020 |
I won't give my comment unless you complete this story 4 Likes |
Re: How Do I Convince My Boyfriend That I Was Only Trying To Protect Him? by Samakus(m): 9:51pm On Aug 24, 2020 |
First of all, this kind of fictional girl who works as a HR in a company and dating a teacher living in a face me I slap you single room where stove and even bathing soap is exchanged doesn't exist. If you want to do fiction, do a believable fiction inugo biko 8 Likes |
Re: How Do I Convince My Boyfriend That I Was Only Trying To Protect Him? by rawpadgin(m): 10:10pm On Aug 24, 2020 |
Samakus:u obviously haven't traveled out of ur comfort zone in ur entire life. That was the kinda neighborhood i was staying. Drop ur soap outside, someone will use it to bath or wash clothes U forget to lock ur cupboard, ur gas/kerosene go finish b4 u return. Talk about street life 2 Likes |
Re: How Do I Convince My Boyfriend That I Was Only Trying To Protect Him? by rawpadgin(m): 10:11pm On Aug 24, 2020 |
Zzor:seriously dude/babe? That guy is not yet ready to be a man. U see this life, nothing is free even in Freetown |
Re: How Do I Convince My Boyfriend That I Was Only Trying To Protect Him? by PrinceofAgoAre(m): 10:12pm On Aug 24, 2020 |
Zzor:. Sister rozz doesn't speak ill of d male gender 4 d 1st time. If u cn just remain lyk dz, i might just come pay ur bride price 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Convince My Boyfriend That I Was Only Trying To Protect Him? by cooooooks(m): 11:31pm On Aug 24, 2020 |
Flee from this lady Zzor. How is she stressing his life? The idea that that kindness always works out financially is not true. Blind kindness will not work to magically provide you Mula. Be kind but be wise! However, not everybody is ruled by money and if he is happy to make ends meet and save some without necessarily stressing for all that dough, allow him. Zzor: |
Re: How Do I Convince My Boyfriend That I Was Only Trying To Protect Him? by Nobody: 11:46pm On Aug 24, 2020 |
cooooooks:I've seen firsthand how destructive kindness without wisdom is. It's the surest way to poverty. 2 Likes |
Re: How Do I Convince My Boyfriend That I Was Only Trying To Protect Him? by Austeeenxx: 12:13am On Aug 25, 2020 |
Zzor: So when will you create your OnlyFans page?
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Re: How Do I Convince My Boyfriend That I Was Only Trying To Protect Him? by macho44(m): 12:34am On Aug 25, 2020 |
Rabbi4real:Nne, ya boyfriend isn't ya PROPERTY na. It's his nature, free the bobo, give am breathing space. He's free spirited, and it's going to open a lot of doors for him in future. Take for instance, na person wey give me, na Im i dey give. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vb87XSmmW1E |
Re: How Do I Convince My Boyfriend That I Was Only Trying To Protect Him? by Nobody: 7:44am On Aug 25, 2020 |
Zzor:She Is Not Stressing His Life. She Is Only Trying 2 Help Him Out Of His Ignorance. |
Re: How Do I Convince My Boyfriend That I Was Only Trying To Protect Him? by Samakus(m): 9:34am On Aug 25, 2020 |
rawpadgin: Read my comment again. This time, very slowly. You will get the point I was making. It's extremely hard to find a Nigerian girl with a good job managing such a guy 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Convince My Boyfriend That I Was Only Trying To Protect Him? by Rabbi4real: 10:08am On Aug 25, 2020 |
Do you want to be given full details of op? pls think again. We do everything to protect senders of stories especially when the sender request such. Samakus: |
Re: How Do I Convince My Boyfriend That I Was Only Trying To Protect Him? by AmnotMe: 12:39pm On Aug 25, 2020 |
with the way i am positioned; there is no way am goin to be able to afford an android phone. Am earning o, but not enough. Its just to put food on the table. Am Currently using nokie5 symbian phone, one kind man gifted me that last yr after i sold my phone to raise money for stuffs. With the trend of new smartphone looks now; some of you will hv old android phone u r not using cos of the outdated look and all. Brother, sister, i will gladly accept anyone u throw at me as long it can do whatsapp. and i will go on to say a heart deep prayer for you(i know u r blessed already) just to appreciate. Yes; am begging i know. |
Re: How Do I Convince My Boyfriend That I Was Only Trying To Protect Him? by dederocs(m): 12:49pm On Aug 25, 2020 |
Zzor:maybe via karma, but ghetto go suck you dry ooh 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Convince My Boyfriend That I Was Only Trying To Protect Him? by rawpadgin(m): 3:10pm On Aug 25, 2020 |
Samakus:rare but not impossible Thought u were saying it's a fictional story |
Re: How Do I Convince My Boyfriend That I Was Only Trying To Protect Him? by OscarJaden(m): 3:30pm On Aug 25, 2020 |
Zzor:miss.Rubbish |
Re: How Do I Convince My Boyfriend That I Was Only Trying To Protect Him? by Nobody: 3:50pm On Aug 25, 2020 |
OscarJaden:where is your rubbish friend,hes hiding |
Re: How Do I Convince My Boyfriend That I Was Only Trying To Protect Him? by OscarJaden(m): 3:55pm On Aug 25, 2020 |
Zzor:lol..you won't die if u express likeness to mi nigga ZiniBank than attacking him on every post |
Re: How Do I Convince My Boyfriend That I Was Only Trying To Protect Him? by Nobody: 4:08pm On Aug 25, 2020 |
OscarJaden:likeness?i will slap him if I ever get the chance,he just came to insult me for a comment on a particular topic and I decided to use him to learn trolling.I have forgiven him,let him go and sin no more |
Re: How Do I Convince My Boyfriend That I Was Only Trying To Protect Him? by chocboi78(m): 4:30pm On Aug 25, 2020 |
mayb if u finish up the story here,u will get a decent advice |
Re: How Do I Convince My Boyfriend That I Was Only Trying To Protect Him? by Oluwaice1(m): 4:47pm On Aug 25, 2020 |
First, i feel you've been in a relationship with yourself. Second that guy is not even ready for you cuz the street life is still fully in him. Just let him go and be open you'll find the kind of man you want and that is ready. When you choose to remain in a relationship with someone who's not fully with you will be a waste of time cuz he'll still leave you at last. Don't even feel he'll change one day cuz he'll not change for you. |
Re: How Do I Convince My Boyfriend That I Was Only Trying To Protect Him? by IamPlato(m): 5:11pm On Aug 25, 2020 |
undeniably that ass caught my attention |
Re: How Do I Convince My Boyfriend That I Was Only Trying To Protect Him? by OscarJaden(m): 7:52pm On Aug 25, 2020 |
Zzor:say no more Zzor 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Convince My Boyfriend That I Was Only Trying To Protect Him? by placeofallure(f): 9:58pm On Aug 25, 2020 |
Samakus: They may not be plenty, but believe me, they exist. There's nothing I want that my husband cannot give me now. He over Pampers me. There's a reason why it is so. I used to be the provider 100 percent. In this case, if the lady has tried to make him see reason and he's not seeing it, she should leave him alone. It means they don't share the same ideology about life. That in itself is a pointer towards incompatibility. She should let go. He has prospects to be financially independent and he's chosen to be blind to it even when someone is pointing it out. He is 'ambitionless' she should move on. He'll find his mate. 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Convince My Boyfriend That I Was Only Trying To Protect Him? by Samakus(m): 10:22pm On Aug 25, 2020 |
placeofallure: I couldn't agree less with the bolded 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Convince My Boyfriend That I Was Only Trying To Protect Him? by Rabbi4real: 7:05pm On Aug 26, 2020 |
On point my dear placeofallure: |
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