A very good male friend recently moved to live in Ibadan where I live with my husband. I told my husband I wanted to visit this my friend and he said no. so can't I visit my male friend all because I am married? This friend is just a friend. My hubby is coercing me to visit this guy secretly; I like the guy and just wanna see him

hmmm this one big ooh!
which kind like?
if you must go.... make sure you guys meet at any open place.
set =feelings
set = boundaries
set = time
set = the type of discussion
and pls let ur husband know,if he still against it then drop visit aside .

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Hubby doesn't want a visitation to a guy. Many men cannot stomach it. Try and be understanding, you are his wife not a girlfriend.

so can't I visit my male friend all because I am married?

This friend is just a friend.

My hubby is coercing me to visit this guy secretly;

I like the guy and just wanna see him.

You're very right, your husband is being unreasonable.
With the way you sounded all through, like a cheerful giver who could be laid cheaply, it really takes a man who's unreasonable to end up with you as his wife in the first place.

Then going through your previous posts, portrayed traits similar to that of a bored, bipolar mind which is further sandwiched between layers of erratic clownish displays. At first, i thought it was one of those numerous, new monikers, from teenagers who use their mums' phones in accessing Nairaland, but when i saw the date registered, i thought otherwise.
Except your kids browse NL with your moniker, but if it's really a grown ass wife behind the moniker, then your husband must be unreasonable like you've rightly said. Like minds flock together.

You already had your mind made up and would do what pleases you irrespective of hubby's admonition or opinion.

My question now is, why did you seek his consent or tell him about it in the first place?

You are clearly a very stubborn and disrespectful wife who would do whatever she pleases respective of hubby's opinion and hand dey always meet women like you.

If I could advise your hubby right now, I would tell him to flee from a woman like you before you bring curse and reproach upon him from your philandering ways.

What a woman.

Lol Your friend must be lucky to have you.

Prevention is better than cure

how is that my problem? truly marriage is not for everybody

light099:
You're very right, your husband is being unreasonable.
It really takes a man who's unreasonable to end up with you as his wife in the first place.

Going through your previous posts, portrayed traits similar to that of a bored, bipolar mind which is further sandwiched by layers of erratic clownish displays. At first, i thought it was one of those numerous, new monikers, from teenagers who use their mums' phones in accessing Nairaland, but when i saw the date registered, i thought otherwise.
Except your kids browse NL with your moniker, but if it's really a grown ass wife behind the moniker, then your husband must be unreasonable like you said. Like minds flock together.

I'm sorry Sir, but you made NO sense on this.

Are you sure that you don't have ulterior motive for your insistence on visiting your boyfriend?

Heed to your husband directive if you don't want to destabilize your happy home

Nonsense!!

"Normal friend, normal friend" na so e dey take start!

Women like you don't deserve to live amongst humans. shioooorrrrrr!

I like the guy, just wanna see him...
But I dont know your relationship with your husband,but if your husband is a jealous type,I will beg you not to go or go if you have the guts to challenge your husband when casala burst

SaAyomikun:
Nonsense!!

"Normal friend, normal friend" na so e dey take start!

Women like you don't deserve to live amongst humans. shioooorrrrrr!

I don't agree with you.at all. That a woman is married should not make her forget her friends.even if they dated yes!
Just ensure the right boundaries are kept.such as 1.Meet in a public place.2dont hug excessively or show much emotions. The world we live in today needs networking and contacts.

daddytime:
You already had your mind made up and would do what pleases you irrespective of hubby's admonition or opinion.

My question now is, why did you seek his consent or tell him about it in the first place?

You are clearly a very stubborn and disrespectful wife who would do whatever she pleases respective of hubby's opinion and hand dey always meet women like you.

If I could advise your hubby right now, I would tell him to flee from a woman like you before you bring curse and reproach upon him from your philandering ways.

What a woman.

You don't own a bird by caging it ! what if she did not even mention it to the husband n she went nko.... i don't chase guyz around my babe, she as lots of male friends when i met her, if am in her apartment n another guy visit ... i beg to take my leave with time naa she know how she take discard dem, even calls i do tell her pick it ... if she gonna be loyal to me it should be from her not me enforcing it & policing her. for how long sef

Attention seeker oshi I just pity your life and the innocent husband, Oniranu

madam i dnt know what to say o bt let me ask...what would be ur reaction if he says he wants to visit his girlfriend in another state ?? hope it wont cause problem?

Which kind pikin are you girl Don't be unfortunate now Stay with your husband

Sorry about that, we can't make your husband say yes. Some men can't stand other guys around their wife.

IT WILL SURELY END IN TEARS

We all know what you have in mind. Go n do it nd stop disturbing us

Preciousgirl:
A very good male friend recently moved to live in Ibadan where I live with my husband. I told my husband I wanted to visit this my friend and he said no. so can't I visit my male friend all because I am married? This friend is just a friend. My hubby is coercing me to visit this guy secretly; I like the guy and just wanna see him

Every married woman will be ashame to type this nonsense. A married woman, wants to visit a guy she likes,what nonsense like is that?Do you even imagine what will be playing in your husband head while you're with the guy,even if nothing happen? Maybe you're not ripe for marriage because you clearly don't knw what marriage is all about. If I may ask, will you allow your husband to visit a girl he likes?

Aunty respect urself for once..u ar marry n ur hubby can't stand seeing u together wit a guy u like so much..get dat into ur head.

Preciousgirl:
A very good male friend recently moved to live in Ibadan where I live with my husband. I told my husband I wanted to visit this my friend and he said no. so can't I visit my male friend all because I am married? This friend is just a friend. My hubby is coercing me to visit this guy secretly; I like the guy and just wanna see him

You are a happily married woman and you come here to say trash? what good is this to us now..pls tell ur husband you like him and see what follows..Nonsense!

Notatribalist:
Every married woman will be ashame to type this nonsense. A married woman, wants to visit a guy she likes,what nonsense like is that?Do you even imagine what will be playing in your husband head while you're with the guy,even if nothing happen? Maybe you're not ripe for marriage because you clearly don't knw what marriage is all about. If I may ask, will you allow your husband to visit a girl she likes?

Hypocrite!

What is shameful about visiting your friend? Tell me if you don't have a female friend

And for your information, I am not a cheat, ediot

Notatribalist:
Every married woman will be ashame to type this nonsense. A married woman, wants to visit a guy she likes,what nonsense like is that?Do you even imagine what will be playing in your husband head while you're with the guy,even if nothing happen? Maybe you're not ripe for marriage because you clearly don't knw what marriage is all about. If I may ask, will you allow your husband to visit a girl she likes?

Biko ask her for us o

Preciousgirl:


Hypocrite!

What is shameful about visiting your friend? Tell me if you don't have a female friend

And for your information, I am not a cheat, ediot

The real idiot here is the man that got married to a prostitute like you..You want to visit a man you like,what's your mission by the way?visit kee u there.Go now,nan your smelling pussy go suffer.

FACT

Your husband has straffed someone he once tagged JUST A FRIEND.

So alaye is talking from experience.

So b4 u tag him unreasonable, dont hold anything out, be open with him, converse more with him, express ursef and he will trust u, but mind u, he wont trust the guy.

He is your husband. He is expected to be scared. Some JUST A FRIEND go just drug u collect 3points like Bayern Munich, win trophy join, come begin send u 300 pages of I AM SORRY TEXT MESSAGES.

Madam relax and follow d flow of patience. D guy fit come greet u for house, make he meet ur husband, more respect 4u. Gbaaabe

Hoe is a farm tool anyone can handle, in fact it is very loyal to whoever is handling it, it doesn't count usage either.

Your husband just understands this concept, that's why he is very conscious of who uses the hoe.

Op, you see if you give a hoe to a mad man the madman knows how to use it to his advantage. Your husband loves you ni, don't mis-interprete his good intentions.

Wife of unreasonable husband, don't mind your husband. Follow your heart desires.

Go and see the man. You can even cook for him or sleep overnight. Why should your husband be bothering you?

Enjoy your life. Be free to disobey your hubby.

Short live your marriage if you continue to disobey your man.

Shalom!

Notatribalist:
The real idiot here is the man that got married to a prostitute like you..You want to visit a man you like,what's your mission by the way?visit kee u there.Go now,nan your smelling pussy go suffer.

Very useless guy, I weep for your family, fooool

Preciousgirl:


Very useless guy, I weep for your family, fooool

Weep for yourself, loose woman.