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Please my fellow nairalanders I need advice on this age of a thing. It has been bothering me.
I'm 29 years old and currently dating a lady older than me by 3 years. Our relationship is still in its early stage ( 4 months plus) but I need to here people's opinion about our age differences.
This lady is a lady after my heart, she's very understanding, pretty, hardworking and above all a virgin (a proof that she's not promiscuous even at 32). I really want to settle down with her but whenever I remember the age discrepancy I usually ve a second thought. Recently, she just told me she dreamt of when I left her for another girl and according to her most of her dreams come to pass. I have bn troubled since then cos I don't want to shatter her heart. I am kind of the only son of my family (my younger brother is a senior seminarian) and my family has bn putting pressure on me to get married. I'm planning on getting married late next yr or early next two years and I wish to have like four to five children with good spacing and each time I remember my girlfriend's age it gives me a concern besides there is this saying that ladies age faster than men and I wouldn't like that. Apart from the age barrier she's really my spec but I ve bn trying so hard to overlook that n I can't still get over it.
Please, help me out with the pros and cons of a man getting married to someone older than him by 3 years. Is it advisable?

Lets wait for the elders first

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Pegi23:
My boo is 31 ND I'm 19. Age is just a number.

That's really commendable but I think it becomes more intriguing when the man is younger.

Lai lai... I can't marry someone older than me... During s*x, it whould look as if am doing it with grandmama

Age is not a problem at all

Many guys hv gotten married to woman that are older than them and they live happily.

Just don't marry out of pity because any decisions you make now you will live with it forever

But, personally I can't marry any lady that is older than me not that is bad but is against my destiny

Pegi23:
My boo is 31 ND I'm 19. Age is just a number.

Nigalatians 2:16
You will later leave him for another nigga when he's getting old
And you is still looking young and fresh

Juliusmomoh:
Lai lai... I can't marry someone older than me... During s*x, it whould look as if am doing it with grandmama

Wayray

OP if you think your own bad
Remember the president of France
But make we talk true that Macron don craze O
I see one picture wey him and that woman dey kiss kai there are some things I can't just do no matter what

Pamfresh:
I had to create a new account because of this topic.
Mod please help me push this to front page as it would help mould or mar my relationship. Thanks!!!
Please my fellow nairalanders I need advice on this age of a thing. It has been bothering me.
I'm 29 years old and currently dating a lady older than me by 3 years. Our relationship is still in its early stage ( 4 months plus) but I need to here people's opinion about our age differences.
This lady is a lady after my heart, she's very understanding, pretty, hardworking and above all a virgin (a proof that she's not promiscuous even at 32). I really want to settle down with her but whenever I remember the age discrepancy I usually ve a second thought. Recently, she just told me she dreamt of when I left her for another girl and according to her most of her dreams come to pass. I have bn troubled since then cos I don't want to shatter her heart. I am kind of the only son of my family (my younger brother is a senior seminarian) and my family has bn putting pressure on me to get married. I'm planning on getting married late next yr or early next two years and I wish to have like four to five children with good spacing and each time I remember my girlfriend's age it gives me a concern besides there is this saying that ladies age faster than men and I wouldn't like that. Apart from the age barrier she's really my spec but I ve bn trying so hard to overlook that n I can't still get over it.
Please, help me out with the pros and cons of a man getting married to someone older than him by 3 years. Is it advisable?

Oga let it be only relationship, don't marry her I repeat don't marry her

As long as she got what you need in a wife,and is very much submissive(which is very vital) then why bother

All of these things that has to do with a man not getting married to someone older than him and stuffs like that are just generally what people think or a societal thing and you don't always have to go by it

Though from the way you sound,there 55% possibility that you'll still leave this girl.But if she will make a good wife,home maker,your pillar of support and a good mother to your kids then why are you hesitating.And as for the spacing, it's not as if you want each of your children to have a five-year gap in between,it can still be done.

My aunt is older than her husband with 3years and believe me when I say that she's one if the best woman any man can ever have as a wife. It's not even as if you'll go on telling people that your wife is older than you.

The ball is in your court bro,but if you know that you can't go ahead with her just tell her soon rather than raise her hopes high and then end up shattering her heart

Juliusmomoh:
Lai lai... I can't marry someone older than me... During s*x, it whould look as if am doing it with grandmama

u no wise oga

nuelsam:
u no wise oga

I've been in some sort of relationship with a lady quite older than I was.....I tell u, that was one of the best relationship I ever had....mature, pretty,intelligent and quite reserved......it never felt awkward that I was dating a lady older than me....we just had to break up when she moved to another country...ive never been a fan of LDR .....we still talk tho.

nuelsam:
u no wise oga

Leave me like dat oga

Pegi23:
My boo is 31 ND I'm 19. Age is just a number.

Awwww.

ZINIBANKS:
Wayray

Meaning ?

It's like you want to generate a problem.

Leave her. Marry someone younger. Suit yourself.
Virgin @32, her hymen for don turn to kpomo.
just kidding

SavageBoy:
As long as she got what you need in a wife,and is very much submissive(which is very vital) then why bother

All of these things that has to do with a man not getting married to someone older than him and stuffs like that are just generally what people think or a societal thing and you don't always have to go by it

Though from the way you sound,there 55% possibility that you'll still leave this girl.But if she will make a good wife,home maker,your pillar of support and a good mother to your kids then why are you hesitating.And as for the spacing, it's not as if you want each of your children to have a five-year gap in between,it can still be done.

My aunt is older than her husband with 3years and believe me when I say that she's one if the best woman any man can ever have as a wife. It's not even as if you'll go on telling people that your wife is older than you.

The ball is in your court bro,but if you know that you can't go ahead with her just tell her soon rather than raise her hopes high and then end up shattering her heart

This is encouraging. Thanks!!!

nuelsam:
I've been in some sort of relationship with a lady quite older than I was.....I tell u, that was one of the best relationship I ever had....mature, pretty,intelligent and quite reserved......it never felt awkward that I was dating a lady older than me....we just had to break up when she moved to another country...ive never been a fan of LDR .....we still talk tho.

What was the age difference? Were u willing to settle down with her if it had come to that?

Bennysam:

Oga let it be only relationship, don't marry her I repeat don't marry her

Thanks. I need more opinions

Juliusmomoh:
Lai lai... I can't marry someone older than me... During s*x, it whould look as if am doing it with grandmama

She actually has a baby fine face. U can only tell her age by her hand (has kind of Christian mother hand).

Pamfresh:
I had to create a new account because of this topic.
Mod please help me push this to front page as it would help mould or mar my relationship. Thanks!!!
Please my fellow nairalanders I need advice on this age of a thing. It has been bothering me.
I'm 29 years old and currently dating a lady older than me by 3 years. Our relationship is still in its early stage ( 4 months plus) but I need to here people's opinion about our age differences.
This lady is a lady after my heart, she's very understanding, pretty, hardworking and above all a virgin (a proof that she's not promiscuous even at 32). I really want to settle down with her but whenever I remember the age discrepancy I usually ve a second thought. Recently, she just told me she dreamt of when I left her for another girl and according to her most of her dreams come to pass. I have bn troubled since then cos I don't want to shatter her heart. I am kind of the only son of my family (my younger brother is a senior seminarian) and my family has bn putting pressure on me to get married. I'm planning on getting married late next yr or early next two years and I wish to have like four to five children with good spacing and each time I remember my girlfriend's age it gives me a concern besides there is this saying that ladies age faster than men and I wouldn't like that. Apart from the age barrier she's really my spec but I ve bn trying so hard to overlook that n I can't still get over it.
Please, help me out with the pros and cons of a man getting married to someone older than him by 3 years. Is it advisable?

End of story!

She gets a pass. Wife her up bro

Juliusmomoh:

Meaning ?

Meaning you're sick bro

Bennysam:

Oga let it be only relationship, don't marry her I repeat don't marry her

Can you state your reasons for saying this

Chii59:
Leave her. Marry someone younger. Suit yourself.
Virgin @32, her hymen for don turn to kpomo.
just kidding

Don't worry leave the fresh punanii for me am coming tryna gather maself
But why did you filter your picture that much in profile
Remove it your husband don't like too much filter

ZINIBANKS:

Don't worry leave the fresh punanii for me am coming tryna gather maself
But why did you filter your picture that much in profile
Remove it your husband don't like too much filter

Boring

Chii59:

Boring

Yeah you heard me
Remove it now
Unless I'm not interested again

oga no reason marriage with her,e get why

Pamfresh:

What was the age difference? Were u willing to settle down with her if it had come to that?

4yrs....yes I was willing to settle down......she was a virgin.

SmellySperm:
oga no reason marriage with her,e get why

Please I would be grateful to know ur reasons. That's y I created this thread

if you love her and you think she is the right one for you then marry her because good women are hard to find
dont listen to what people are saying because it is your life and any decision you make u are going to bear the consequences..choose wisely.