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Please Advice me on my Long Distance Relationship by Nobody: 5:40pm On Aug 27, 2020
My girlfriend lives and work in Lagos while i stay in Ibadan(currently serving in Oyo). I meet her while i was in 300 level and she was in 100 level then. We started dating in Feb 2018 and we liked eachother i wont lie, we talk almost everyday.

The problem arising now is I dont really feel the love again, i just like talking to her. If she is in need and i'm capable of providing, i do that without thinking twice. I dont think i have ever collected anything from her except for maybe airtime which i needed urgently.

Sometimes, i need to feel this thing now, the urge and even other stuff but my gf is nowhere to be found shocked. That will just die down itself (i dont do double dating or ashawo, i'm not a virgin as well lol).

I dont think she is ready to come and stay in Oyo and I dont think i'm ready to stay in Lagos for now. What should i do?

I hate to call me Simp!

Thanks!
Re: Please Advice me on my Long Distance Relationship by Kalatium(m): 5:42pm On Aug 27, 2020
Simp lol( just joking)

I wonder why People may life difficult for themselves. Both of you are comfortable where you are. Its time you know this relationship won't go anywhere. The best thing to do is to end it, the relationship has no bearing.

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Re: Please Advice me on my Long Distance Relationship by mardis: 5:48pm On Aug 27, 2020
Imagine ooo because of urge, you want to let go a good woman. Is ok! You don't know maybe the long distance relationship is a blessing to you both.

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Re: Please Advice me on my Long Distance Relationship by dingbang(m): 6:39pm On Aug 27, 2020
grin
Re: Please Advice me on my Long Distance Relationship by Nobody: 6:44pm On Aug 27, 2020
then break up with her but before u do pls and pls calculate the amount of airtime u collected from her and pay it back to her b4 one aggrieved babe go form one thread tommorow about one man dat dumped her after all she did for him

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Re: Please Advice me on my Long Distance Relationship by Nobody: 6:48pm On Aug 27, 2020
lefulefu:
then break up with her but before u do pls and pls calculate the amount of airtime u collected from her and pay it back to her b4 one aggrieved babe go form one thread tommorow about one man dat dumped her after all she did for him

Thank you sir
Re: Please Advice me on my Long Distance Relationship by Nobody: 8:26pm On Aug 27, 2020
Greenplank11:
My girlfriend lives and work in Lagos while i stay in Ibadan(currently serving in Oyo). I meet her while i was in 300 level and she was in 100 level then. We started dating in Feb 2018 and we liked eachother i wont lie, we talk almost everyday.

The problem arising now is I dont really feel the love again, i just like talking to her. If she is in need and i'm capable of providing, i do that without thinking twice. I dont think i have ever collected anything from her except for maybe airtime which i needed urgently.

Sometimes, i need to feel this thing now, the urge and even other stuff but my gf is nowhere to be found shocked. That will just die down itself (i dont do double dating or ashawo, i'm not a virgin as well lol).

I dont think she is ready to come and stay in Oyo and I dont think i'm ready to stay in Lagos for now. What should i do?

I hate to call me Simp!

Thanks!

I believe you need to go out more and experience more female companies. You stated you don't love her anymore so why are you stressing yourself. If the love is still there between both sides it would have being a different matter entirely. Let her go and let her know how you feel. You are not married yet so dont feel obligated or imprisoned.
Re: Please Advice me on my Long Distance Relationship by paulolee(m): 8:54pm On Aug 27, 2020
not a fan of long distance shh bcoz it hardly ends well except both are matured and av been together for long b4 separated by circumstances bt still am no fan of it..
Re: Please Advice me on my Long Distance Relationship by Nobody: 9:13pm On Aug 27, 2020
paulolee:
not a fan of long distance shh bcoz it hardly ends well except both are matured and av been together for long b4 separated by circumstances bt still am no fan of it..

That why i am seeking advice from experience people
Re: Please Advice me on my Long Distance Relationship by Nobody: 9:13pm On Aug 27, 2020
Ibadanboyy:


I believe you need to go out more and experience more female companies. You stated you don't love her anymore so why are you stressing yourself. If the love is still there between both sides it would have being a different matter entirely. Let her go and let her know how you feel. You are not married yet so dont feel obligated or imprisoned.

I will think deep on it
Re: Please Advice me on my Long Distance Relationship by 1beat(m): 9:29pm On Aug 27, 2020
make I know lie you both of you are just pretending to love each other she's waiting for you to tell her you are not interested again while you're here telling us ur mind

most times school relationship don't end well
what bind you together is the school by the time you leave school ( graduated) and see different girls while she also leave school and see different guys she might not be ur best option likewise you might not be her best option

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Re: Please Advice me on my Long Distance Relationship by stormborn28(m): 9:58pm On Aug 27, 2020
Na toto dey worry you... If you dey see the toto dey Fvck steadily you no go dey talk this rubbish... You want the girl to come stay with you so that you go dey bang her well well...

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Re: Please Advice me on my Long Distance Relationship by Auladimeji(m): 11:06pm On Aug 27, 2020
Greenplank11:
My girlfriend lives and work in Lagos while i stay in Ibadan(currently serving in Oyo). I meet her while i was in 300 level and she was in 100 level then. We started dating in Feb 2018 and we liked eachother i wont lie, we talk almost everyday.

The problem arising now is I dont really feel the love again, i just like talking to her. If she is in need and i'm capable of providing, i do that without thinking twice. I dont think i have ever collected anything from her except for maybe airtime which i needed urgently.

Sometimes, i need to feel this thing now, the urge and even other stuff but my gf is nowhere to be found shocked. That will just die down itself (i dont do double dating or ashawo, i'm not a virgin as well lol).

I dont think she is ready to come and stay in Oyo and I dont think i'm ready to stay in Lagos for now. What should i do?

I hate to call me Simp!

Thanks!
You know say you be simp abicheesy
Re: Please Advice me on my Long Distance Relationship by merieam16(f): 11:16pm On Aug 27, 2020
Auladimeji:
You know say you be simp abicheesy
wicked grin
Re: Please Advice me on my Long Distance Relationship by Nobody: 11:59pm On Aug 27, 2020
stormborn28:
Na toto dey worry you... If you dey see the toto dey Fvck steadily you no go dey talk this rubbish... You want the girl to come stay with you so that you go dey bang her well well...

Big No!
Re: Please Advice me on my Long Distance Relationship by Doitquickly: 5:31am On Aug 28, 2020
If you know sincerely that you have no feelings anymore for her, let her go. Don't waste her time any longer
Re: Please Advice me on my Long Distance Relationship by Nobody: 5:50am On Aug 28, 2020
"The problem arising now is I dont really feel the love again, i just like talking to her"




...then let the poor lady go. sad
Re: Please Advice me on my Long Distance Relationship by Nobody: 11:33am On Aug 28, 2020
Doitquickly:
If you know sincerely that you have no feelings anymore for her, let her go. Don't waste her time any longer

cry
Re: Please Advice me on my Long Distance Relationship by Nobody: 6:29pm On Aug 31, 2020
Lalasticlala
Re: Please Advice me on my Long Distance Relationship by Sage161(m): 6:33pm On Aug 31, 2020
Don't torture the poor girl. Just break up with her already but do it mildly. Don't let the impulse be excessive.
Re: Please Advice me on my Long Distance Relationship by Uniquisite: 9:13pm On Sep 07, 2020
Re: Please Advice me on my Long Distance Relationship by Nobody: 11:18pm On Sep 07, 2020


Thank you sir
Your moniker says nobody
Why

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