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Re: Problems With Handsome Guys by dozymars(m): 4:29am On Aug 29, 2020
Obaawonuniversi:
It's a gift to be an attractive and handsome guy that girls can't resist. Less attractive guy's may think the grass is always greener on the other side. Being handsome sometimes has it's downsides too. I'm sure a lot of guys can relate to these things.

Your appearance is intimidating: imagine a girl has a crush on a guy, it's hard enough for her to have to make the first move. But even worse, you're the cute guy that makes her nervous whenever you're around. She's simply intimidated by your appearance, which really sucks for you, just because you're attractive.

Women presume they are players: All just you're a good looking stud, you are guilty without even being tried. Women believe most handsome guys are nothing but heartbreakers at the first glance. They believe you're probably hiding a devil beneath the surface.

You are a threat to other guys: Automatically, other guys might be aggressive and resentful towards you, because they know you might be giving their girl some looks she might not resist.

Presumptions that you're empty inside: Many people, especially women might assume you're nothing but a pretty face that's Intellectually shallow, and they probably don't need a good looking idiot as their man. Some people even believe that the smart and nerdy people aren't always the handsome type.

Your looks aren't enough: Though, you might be blessed with great genetics. Your looks just aren't enough. Women prefer men with status and financial stability to a guy that's just handsome. Nothing beats a handsome and successful man.

Women want you as a Prop: Some women just want you for your looks. Though, they might not be deeply emotionally attached, but hey!,You're good-looking, and who wouldn't want a handsome stud as theirs. They just don't want you for who you really are.

People think you take too much pride in yourself: A lot of people probably have lingering speculations that you take too much pride in your looks.You can't dress too well, because you look to good and people think you spend a lot of time and efforts in making yourself look good.

You might be seen as more of a boy than a man: Some women prefer men with more manly and mature looks that are a few years older. To them, It brings a sense of Alpha-male dominance and responsibility compared to boys who might play around with them and waste their time.Don't be too surprised when you see a young lady marrying an older man.


Speak for yourself and find something useful doing.
Only a sisi will write this nonsense.

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Re: Problems With Handsome Guys by Parisian: 4:50am On Aug 29, 2020
Like your mother ?
Obaawonuniversi:
That's Nigeria girls for us they have no intellectual sensibility they have low mentality
Re: Problems With Handsome Guys by lexy2014: 4:50am On Aug 29, 2020
Obaawonuniversi:
Baby girl trust me I have the attribute you just mentioned but one thing about me is that I don't want fake love. Look I am tired of Nigerian girls' mentality they can date monkey if money grew on tree

U are doing a lot of generalising with ur posts. And if what u say is true, then there's no basis to open this thread. I don't see anything special with d assumptions u made
Re: Problems With Handsome Guys by Avast(m): 4:53am On Aug 29, 2020
Zzor:
are you even handsome to start with,what is so special about a man being handsome?All a man need is money and discipline.Stop letting it intoxicate you

You are blessed

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Re: Problems With Handsome Guys by TOPCRUISE(m): 5:17am On Aug 29, 2020
Ladies take handsome men for cash cows
Re: Problems With Handsome Guys by Mac2016(m): 5:31am On Aug 29, 2020
Zzor:
are you even handsome to start with,what is so special about a man being handsome?All a man need is money and discipline.Stop letting it intoxicate you
Money, discipline and great bed skills you missed the last one out.. Why? grin

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Re: Problems With Handsome Guys by blakkydikky(m): 5:38am On Aug 29, 2020
Obaawonuniversi:
Really do you know how many girls that are fight just to have me ��
You see,your handsomeness can only attract "girls" not real women/ladies.
Re: Problems With Handsome Guys by uBuNiT: 6:01am On Aug 29, 2020
Obaawonuniversi:
Really do you know how many girls that are fight just to have me ��
Yor glama get k leg. Fine boi spik oyibo ogli

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Re: Problems With Handsome Guys by fyneboi79(m): 6:12am On Aug 29, 2020
Zzor:
are you even handsome to start with,what is so special about a man being handsome?All a man need is money and discipline.Stop letting it intoxicate you
He is talking about the misfortunes danmit!! And it's all so true and unfair!! I have personally broken up several relationships because I discovered my looks was the catch. I missed marrying the first lady I truly loved because she said she did not have the strength to fight women who would defy marriage to come around me. Its nothing to be ashamed of but it gets irritating to a point I joined the player train. But still i had to stop because it became too much...12 official girlfriends and unlimited pussies. Married women on my street want some action too. I basically avoid women and that was why I settled for online dating to prove my intelligence and worth before revealing my face which beclouds their judgement if seen first.

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Re: Problems With Handsome Guys by fyneboi79(m): 6:15am On Aug 29, 2020
blakkydikky:
You see,your handsomeness can only attract "girls" not real women/ladies.
says who? Female DPO has toasted me before for a relationship, married women and bank executives,nurses.
Re: Problems With Handsome Guys by Nobody: 6:16am On Aug 29, 2020
fyneboi79:
He is talking about the misfortunes danmit!! And it's all so true and unfair!! I have personally broken up several relationships because I discovered my looks was the catch. I missed marrying the first lady I truly loved because she said she did not have the strength to fight women who would defy marriage to come around me. Its nothing to be ashamed of but it gets irritating to a point I joined the player train. But still i had to stop because it became too much...12 official girlfriends and unlimited pussies. Married women on my street want some action too. I basically avoid women and that was why I settled for online dating to prove my intelligence and worth before revealing my face which beclouds their judgement if seen first.
all of you have become so cute online,anyways you shouldn't wait for people to hype you,hype yourself and enjoy your life.Good you have decided to practice discipline,dont forget to make money as a man,it is very important

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Re: Problems With Handsome Guys by Nobody: 6:16am On Aug 29, 2020
Handsome guys are entitled pricks. I love my men average looking so he can worship every sand I walk on.
Re: Problems With Handsome Guys by fyneboi79(m): 6:22am On Aug 29, 2020
Zzor:
all of you have become so cute online,anyways you shouldn't wait for people to hype you,hype yourself and enjoy your life.Good you have decided to practice discipline,dont forget to make money as a man,it is very important
I'm doing well financially, better than the average. I own two vehicles..I am contented even though I would have had more.my fiancee is not African, anyway will post our wedding pix soon. Cheers
Re: Problems With Handsome Guys by Nobody: 6:27am On Aug 29, 2020
fyneboi79:
I'm doing well financially, better than the average. I own two vehicles..I am contented even though I would have had more.my fiancee is not African, anyway will post our wedding pix soon. Cheers
Thats good,happy you are taking the bold decision,tag me when you post your wedding pix,may God be with you through it all.Also know that a man must be very patient in marriage,it takes some time for a woman to adjust in marriage,be her guide and helper,love her even at her worst,scold her lovingly when needed and don't cheat on her,just do your best and watch her love you for the rest of your life. God bless you
Re: Problems With Handsome Guys by fullonia(f): 6:42am On Aug 29, 2020
You are here arguing for handsomeness with other people picture, I suppose you just need a trend..........

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Re: Problems With Handsome Guys by Denique(f): 7:06am On Aug 29, 2020
NegroAcheiver:

grin Aunty just because you can't mugulate handsome guys doesn't mean it's not special.Im sure you yourself wont want your son to look like oshiomole abi you want? grin

Look it up on Google. Not popping up. A misspelling, perhaps?!

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Re: Problems With Handsome Guys by Codes151(m): 7:34am On Aug 29, 2020
This one is always posting thrash.

Make money n stop deceiving yourself

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Re: Problems With Handsome Guys by temi1290: 7:38am On Aug 29, 2020
Obaawonuniversi:
i am very attractive and extremely handsome


Lovely and ans bro ,chop knuckle

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Re: Problems With Handsome Guys by temi1290: 7:45am On Aug 29, 2020
BigJoe19:
Girls shooting their shot through insults, naija girls are just too weird grin grin

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Re: Problems With Handsome Guys by Nobody: 7:58am On Aug 29, 2020
kingbee90:
Speaking from experience, as a guy whether you are fine, average looking or ugly, JUST HUSTLE & MAKE SOME GOOD MONEY.
If you are cute & broke, ladies will only use you to catch cruise. They will only roll with u just to show u off to their friends but deep down, that respect is not there. Not to mention cheating on you with ugly rich dudes sef & u nor go fit exercise ur authority like an Alpha-male.
My point: As a handsome dude, do not rely only on your looks to get beautiful women chasing after u.
Hustle very hard to make some dope money & trust me, the sky will be your limit.

Alright we have heard you "Minister For Hustle Hard" grin grin grin

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Re: Problems With Handsome Guys by Slurity(m): 8:21am On Aug 29, 2020
Handsomeness is in the eyes of the beholder just like beauty. What make sense to you you is actually a trash to other.
Re: Problems With Handsome Guys by Lovelyn451(f): 8:36am On Aug 29, 2020
Zzor:
are you even handsome to start with,what is so special about a man being handsome?All a man need is money and discipline.Stop letting it intoxicate you
thanks for mentioning discipline, atleast to reduce the rate of rape in this country

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Re: Problems With Handsome Guys by pretteemee(f): 8:40am On Aug 29, 2020
Obaawonuniversi:
That's Nigeria girls for us they have no intellectual sensibility they have low mentality



You can't say all Nigerian girls have low mentality, except you don't want to be honest with yourself, we've got ladies who are extremely brilliant. Maybe you have always been meeting the wrong ones but please,it's very unfair to say this about Nigerian girls.
Good morning.

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Re: Problems With Handsome Guys by Olatara(f): 8:45am On Aug 29, 2020
Obaawonuniversi:
That's Nigeria girls for us they have no intellectual sensibility they have low mentality
Post your pictures, lemme see how handsome you are.

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Re: Problems With Handsome Guys by AgathaMoses(f): 8:48am On Aug 29, 2020
if u are nt fyn u are nt fyn ni. No any handsome in d eyes of any beholder. Who fyn don fyn
Slurity:
Handsomeness is in the eyes of the beholder just like beauty. What make sense to you you is actually a trash to other.

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Re: Problems With Handsome Guys by Olatara(f): 8:59am On Aug 29, 2020
Handsome is good too, just be comfortable (make money ), thats the beauty of being handsome.

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Re: Problems With Handsome Guys by BadBradley: 9:04am On Aug 29, 2020
Obaawonuniversi:
It's a gift to be an attractive and handsome guy that girls can't resist. Less attractive guy's may think the grass is always greener on the other side. Being handsome sometimes has it's downsides too. I'm sure a lot of guys can relate to these things.

Your appearance is intimidating: imagine a girl has a crush on a guy, it's hard enough for her to have to make the first move. But even worse, you're the cute guy that makes her nervous whenever you're around. She's simply intimidated by your appearance, which really sucks for you, just because you're attractive.

Women presume they are players: All just you're a good looking stud, you are guilty without even being tried. Women believe most handsome guys are nothing but heartbreakers at the first glance. They believe you're probably hiding a devil beneath the surface.

You are a threat to other guys: Automatically, other guys might be aggressive and resentful towards you, because they know you might be giving their girl some looks she might not resist.

Presumptions that you're empty inside: Many people, especially women might assume you're nothing but a pretty face that's Intellectually shallow, and they probably don't need a good looking idiot as their man. Some people even believe that the smart and nerdy people aren't always the handsome type.

Your looks aren't enough: Though, you might be blessed with great genetics. Your looks just aren't enough. Women prefer men with status and financial stability to a guy that's just handsome. Nothing beats a handsome and successful man.

Women want you as a Prop: Some women just want you for your looks. Though, they might not be deeply emotionally attached, but hey!,You're good-looking, and who wouldn't want a handsome stud as theirs. They just don't want you for who you really are.

People think you take too much pride in yourself: A lot of people probably have lingering speculations that you take too much pride in your looks.You can't dress too well, because you look to good and people think you spend a lot of time and efforts in making yourself look good.

You might be seen as more of a boy than a man: Some women prefer men with more manly and mature looks that are a few years older. To them, It brings a sense of Alpha-male dominance and responsibility compared to boys who might play around with them and waste their time.Don't be too surprised when you see a young lady marrying an older man.
same old immature recycled romance section thrash people with idle life of fantasy keeps churning out year after year.

Get your self a job and snap out of that movie fantasy that you think is reality. You don't even know women to begin with.

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Re: Problems With Handsome Guys by Moschino28(m): 9:05am On Aug 29, 2020
Obaawonuniversi:
Really do you know how many girls that are fight just to have me ��

Hmm, Mr. Nijaa
Re: Problems With Handsome Guys by KefeeBRIGHT91(m): 9:09am On Aug 29, 2020
Obaawonuniversi:
Really do you know how many girls that are fight just to have me ��

Hmmm, someone missed Brighter Grammar classes
Re: Problems With Handsome Guys by tydi(m): 9:10am On Aug 29, 2020
Everyone looks at you like they know you or you owe them, you get approached by gay fellows at all time(so annoying).

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Re: Problems With Handsome Guys by Nobody: 9:25am On Aug 29, 2020
Obaawonuniversi:
Really do you know how many girls that are fight just to have me ��
I laff like drunken master�
happy fighting to your crush o
Re: Problems With Handsome Guys by Nobody: 9:26am On Aug 29, 2020
NegroAcheiver:

grin Aunty just because you can't mugulate handsome guys doesn't mean it's not special.Im sure you yourself wont want your son to look like oshiomole abi you want? grin
or like Obasanjo������

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