RavagedHeart:
I knew about this red pill thing, but I never practiced it.
I lowered my standards trying to please my fiancee and it ended in a near suicide experience.

In my case. Everything that is said on this thread played out but I was still clinging to maintaining my Mr nice guy tag.

My story:
https://www.nairaland.com/6066737/how-escape-ravaging-after-blast-effect

Fvcknigga:
Also I'm in tears after experiencing a heartbreak early this year I've come to relate with most of the things you've said I wish to make them a part of my life and always remember them till I die I just hate I didn't learn these back in my collage days

GLYCOLYSISS:
These thread is cringe worthy , embarrassing and disgusting to say the least
!

GLYCOLYSISS:

Damnit !
These is just one of millions of experiences men witnesses when dealing with women on a daily basis.
I just had to go throw that post of yours ,read it over and over and over again.
Heart broken you had to go through those.

First,your idea of love in that relationship was typical of that of an average man out there; idealistic love.
Kinda, expecting a woman to reciprocate that emotions, sacrifices and idealistic loyalty you're willing to offer her.
These article below blew open the raw ,bitter truth about love in intergender relationships.

https://illimitablemen.com/2015/06/01/the-hierarchy-of-love/

Yea,it sounds scary,but then,the truth don't give a f*ck about our emotions.

The moment you decided to cohabit with her, did away with other girls that probably fancy you,was the moment she started questioning your masculinity and FRAME.

To test your masculinity further,she started establishing rules and withholding sex from you,since your finally gave her that power to weaponise sex.
That's was not even the issue here,the issue here was that you're cool with that and continued to invest in her.
Did you know the message you sent to her ?
You can do anything to fulfill her reality,even if it means sacrificing your own needs.
You officially entered HER FRAME with those decisions you made earlier on,primary reason she got bolder and more dominant in the relationship,and treated you like the doormat your personality portrayed.
Even the most feminine woman will become masculine when your start acting like a p*ssy.
And you know what ?
Her disgust for you grew the more those moments you decided to apology and "do the right thing" so that peace will be established once more.

Women are smart,she wants you to feel guilty for while she left .
She wants to absolved herself from the backlash she may get from you and friends when they get to hear she left the relationship.
You must be cunning yourself to beat women to their game.
Please,stop feeling guilty for why she left.
Like,the purpose she left you for other guys.
It's everything but certainly not because you were getting intimate with other girls.

And lastly, understand these now,women are not build to appreciate the sacrifices you make to facilitate her reality.
They assume and are conditioned to expect those from you, therefore no point appreciating you for your responsibility,so they thought.
Going forward,please stop making such sacrifices for women and most importantly,learn how women are build at the core, it's going to solve your problems when dealing with them.
Your focus right now should be on building your value,not wallowing in regrets.
You made the mistake of building her,while neglecting the most important person; YOU,and she finally left you for men that where busy building there value,and won't make a half of the sacrifices you made for her.
That's the game.

GLYCOLYSISS:
These thread is cringe worthy , embarrassing and disgusting to say the least
https://www.nairaland.com/6084601/man-rolling-owerri-mud-water

These is just not acceptable.
This is the level to which men can stoop when dealing with women.
I don't even know which is more deadly;feminism or feminized men ?
A man that don't understand these intergender relationship game is certainly going to regret it for the major part of his life and disgrace himself like that man.
A lady within the age range of 27-32 , you're disgracing your family lineage on
No single lady on Earth is worth disgracing yourself for !
Even when women are no longer at the peak of their smv,they still disgust weak men like these.
Funny enough,the very lady he disgraced his ancestor for is somewhere begging another guy for commitment .
Until men learn they're the gatekeepers of commitment,these is bound to continue to happen.
Until men start respecting themselves, especially when dealing with women,expect more distasteful senario as these.
Until men learn about women nature,they will continue to embarrass their family and friends.
And until men begin to value their time,resources and attention,grab your popcorn,relax and expect more naesuating scenario.
I'm disgusted !

GLYCOLYSISS:

No sir,WE did a great job.
Ubunja,pansophist,skepticus,caveAdullam and yourself are guys that kept these thread lively and going,you guys are actually the ones that made it grow to what it's now,but then you're pushing me to the front. Not cool man.
Even though I will admit ,in some pages back,we got misunderstanding,which is part of life,but then we moved on,without necessarily allowing it to get in between us and the purpose of these thread.
Ubunja,I know you might still not feel comfortable with these thread anymore,which is normal ,especially when you feel you're not wanted.
But trust me ,you're wanted in here.
Even though we might have different views in some issues in here,that should not be a reason to stay totally away from these thread.
I got absolutely nothing against MGTOW and GAME,though I got everything against PUA ,especially when they manipulate desperate men to part with their money on "tips" that's not going to solve your problems on women in the long run.

CaveAdullam:
Adding that young man to the rubrics of manginas, simps, beta males to an extent is an insult. At least, some simps deserves respect when juxtaposed with him.

A wise friend will quickly disassociate himself from such kind of man. This is the kind of man that can betray or sell out his dear ones for the sake of p¶u$$y.

GLYCOLYSISS:
--All past sacrifice is null and void if your continued association does not provide her with a tangible benefit. To simplify: if you cannot help her now, she does not care if you helped her before.[See Briffault’s Law]

RavagedHeart:
I knew about this red pill thing, but I never practiced it.
I lowered my standards trying to please my fiancee and it ended in a near suicide experience.

In my case. Everything that is said on this thread played out but I was still clinging to maintaining my Mr nice guy tag.

My story:
https://www.nairaland.com/6066737/how-escape-ravaging-after-blast-effect

GLYCOLYSISS:

Bro,an average man is scared to be selfish.
They see everything wrong with it but complain when others,especially women are ruthlessly selfish.
We don't live in an ideal world,you're certainly going to provoke people ,especially to secure your interest.
Niceness and putting others interest first is coming from a place of fear, the more confident and self assured you're, the less you put other interest above yours.
Personally,any time I act nice,especially when the better choice is to put my interest first,I always live to regret those moments. Those are feelings that actually fueled me to be very selfish with my resources,time and attention,especially when they got no financial benefits and my personal interest is not served when I give them out freely.
And I'm not ashamed of that.
Being outrightly nice never got me anywhere in life,being sparingly nice is okay for me.

luminouz:


Damn niggar!!


I read your story. That was a sad one. But you will be alright. Pick yourself up and focus on work,let time heal your wounds.

What a man call love is way different from a woman's. They despise weakness(I've said this countless times on NL) yet they all use emotional Manipulation, reverse psychology, blame game, Rope-a-dope, Act-bait and so many other tactics to get to you. A WOMAN IS NOTHING BUT 98% EMOTIONS AND 2% LOGIC. Dont act on what they say. Act on what they do. My 2 cents.

I'm looking forward to your success story. Just work on yourself and let time heal the rest.


One love

mrpaedo:

1.2pac----Money Over Bitches (M.O.B)
2.2pac---Starin' Through My Rearview
3.Nas---Life's a bitch
4.Dr Dre ft Snoop Dogg---Bitches ain't sh.it
4.Jay Z ft UGK---Big Pimpin'
5.J.Cole---No Role modelz

RavagedHeart:
I knew about this red pill thing, but I never practiced it.
I lowered my standards trying to please my fiancee and it ended in a near suicide experience.

In my case. Everything that is said on this thread played out but I was still clinging to maintaining my Mr nice guy tag.

My story:
https://www.nairaland.com/6066737/how-escape-ravaging-after-blast-effect

bobowaja:

Your own simpness is raised to power infinity in that post. The only woman who deserved your money is ur mother and she should not even feel too entitled about it. You trained another man's daughter in school. I won't curse you cos u re already going through something worst off a curse.

There was this girl I was seeing till late last year. She was still with her parents. But she decided to bill me to setup a business for her. I told her straight up that she is not my responsibility. There is a reason they call it self development not boyfriend development.

Bros, I will just advise you to get more friends both male and females.... Fuvk, read and have fun then start working to get ur life back on track. Or a better way is...... If you are really feeling the betrayer and anger, channel that energy to build something better that will develop ur life. If she meets you a better man again, her hypergamous nature will make her regrets her choices and I can guaranteed you that by then, you will no longer see her attractive.

Meanwhile, Mr Greatresearcher1 kindly come and add this man to ur nairaland diary of SIMPs hall of shame.

GLYCOLYSISS:

These very much unnecessary man,especially your first and last paragraph.
Don't you think you're going to include me in the "Simp hall of shame" if I tell you my own story ?
Trust me,you will.
We all got heart breaking stories in these mating game bro.
He accepted and realized his mistakes,which is the most important thing here.
Refrain from these,please.

bobowaja:

Your own simpness is raised to power infinity in that post. The only woman who deserved your money is ur mother and she should not even feel too entitled about it. You trained another man's daughter in school. I won't curse you cos u re already going through something worst off a curse.

Meanwhile
She left because
1. U lost ur masculinity.
2. You started behaving like a pussy.
3. You don't desire other girls
4. She has options.

Not because you cheated....

As for the message she saw on ur phone.
She is looking for way out after she has weighed her options. She needs to find one. That is why she went digging for a dirt that will likely nail you. She finds one and decided to hold on to it no matter your explanations cos she has already decided to leave before she went digging. She left not cos u cheated, she left because she has found a new sexual market value for herself and u dont fit in to that frame (sexual market u foolishly built from scratch for her). After all, she has nothing to lose cos u re still rewarding her bad attitudes by keeping the funding from you open. There is a reason for reward and punishment in psychology. What you did was reinforcing the bad attitudes u re trying to kill. Things dont work that way in real life. You failed!

You failed all tests bro.


There was this girl I was seeing till late last year. She was still with her parents. But she decided to bill me to setup a business for her. I told her straight up that she is not my responsibility. There is a reason they call it self development not boyfriend development.

Bros, I will just advise you to get more friends both male and females.... Fuvk, read and have fun then start working to get ur life back on track. Or a better way is...... If you are really feeling the betrayer and anger, channel that energy to build something better that will develop ur life. If she meets you a better man again, her hypergamous nature will make her regrets her choices and I can guaranteed you that by then, you will no longer see her attractive.

Meanwhile, Mr Greatresearcher1 kindly come and add this man to ur nairaland diary of SIMPs Hall of Shame.

ElasmoBranchii:
Who hasn't read this article by illimitablemen. It's very witty and deep.


https://illimitablemen.com/2014/09/16/the-art-of-fishing/

RavagedHeart:


There is nothing you wrote here that wasn't true. Then I was thinking it's called being nice. Now I know nice is the new dumb. I was just being stupid to build up someone from the dust, and not building myself.

pansophist:


And she is charging for it. I read the comments of that particular post, and people are telling her that it's expensive, but she no send. A support system by its very nature should be free because the people you're actually supporting in many cases than not are broke. They may be coming from domestic abuse, family breakup due to finance, and maybe I should remind her that this is Africa.

From domestic shelters to all organisations of women affairs do not charge women for helping them, but men get charged for being helped. But no, she wants her money from men that supposedly need help and it's not negotiable. How people just blindly follow all this so-called social media influencer baffles me. How someone can present themselves as a saviour, while simultaneously charging you in your tragic state is simply wrong.

bobowaja:

Now that you know ur mistakes. Kindly move on and build up urself. Many of us have gone through what u experienced and it made us a better men. The ladies pushed us to redpill and we are now drug addict

Martinez kindly give this man an overdose of some reddish pills. Thanks.

Starberg:
I know some guys after reading this thread, they will still increase their level of simpleton.

Anyway, this is just to fulfill the prophecy that women will start begging men to marry them just to answer 'his' name.

The world is gradually coming to an end and I love this mode of cascading where men reclaimed their power.

Let's even start with some of our mothers, how manipulative they are to our fathers as at the time value and discipline still rules the world. Now we are in the world of social media when women can do away with everything.

The media that gives them the power, will be the same to take it completely from them.

We should leave the whites to continue in their foolishness very soon sense will soon fall on them after women take over everything they have.

mattfeuter:


Your point is ??

mattfeuter:


What’s your problem actually ?

Are you trying to derail the thread?

Are you trying to ridicule the young man or you’re here to provide advice?

You should be ashamed of yourself, you’re even mentioning someone else to come add to the insult you gave the op already,

What exactly do you hope to gain if the person you mentioned writes crazy stuff to the op?

Judging from the advice you gave earlier, this Sort of behaviour should be beneath you.

RavagedHeart:


There is nothing you wrote here that wasn't true. Then I was thinking it's called being nice. Now I know nice is the new dumb. I was just being stupid to build up someone from the dust, and not building myself.

bobowaja:

Bros I want you to do several things for me.

1. Search for ubunja threads and start reading it like ur life depends on it.

2. Also search for Martinez thread and read. Follow both of them to track their posts.

3. Go back to the start of this thread and read from the beginning again. The op and a lot of people did justice to this thread. Read all the quotes all over again. Follow the op as well. Read the recommended books.

4. Personally, I want you to read "48 laws of power". Don't read it for reading sake. Read it because you are seeking power to put you back in charge of ur life and your world.

5. Lastly, if you need someone to talk to. Check my profile and pick up my number. Most of us have being in your shoes. Some might even hard it worst.

6. All the best.

mrpaedo:

1.2pac----Money Over Bitches (M.O.B)
2.2pac---Starin' Through My Rearview
3.Nas---Life's a bitch
4.Dr Dre ft Snoop Dogg---Bitches ain't sh.it
4.Jay Z ft UGK---Big Pimpin'
5.J.Cole---No Role modelz

Tickles001:


This will get him overdosed in no time