IKBARUTEN11:
Yes bro
Go and marry

PrinceOfEast:
This op should be disbanded from the league of sane under g's

religion will make a 30yr old think and reason like a 13yr old teen
i can't fathom hw u gain admission into that uni with ur myopic way of reasoning....ur types keep disgracing and embarassing men.

emancipate urself from mental slavery

Durentt:
why are you so angry? Did he snatch your wife

sirzee1660:
Don't break up bro,I understand how you feel but just give it a try the only problem is that it might not end well especially when that babe start receiving advice from a third party..... Ebidonsi ona to
Darling darling
Ebidonsi ona to
Sweetie sweetie
Ebidonsi ona fio
I love you, I love you
Ebidonsi ona da
I miss you, I miss you

paulolee:
jus focus on ur studies till you are done with school, get a joba and look for a girlfriend to build marriage plans with since you are into no sex relationship..
dnt see the need why you are looking for a bea now in ur finals, >mayba na village people don de send you signal. .

TechExpertise:
Mods please don't take this to frontpage biko.

So guys I created a new account so as to air this issue and solicit for you guys advice.

So I'm a 30 year old student currently in my final year in one of the universities in the North (Ahmadu Bello University) studying an Engineering course with a 4.0 grade.

So after I couldn't graduate due to a health challenge I had back then, I finally got healed, took jamb again and got admitted at 25. I was about to round up my studies before the COVID-19 pandemic disrupted us.
So I've never had it in mind to date any lady as my priority was channeled towards graduating successfully with good grades and culminate to the zenith of success in my career endeavors before I look for a successful lady to settle with.
So during this pandemic I got a job with one establishment, while on my way back home from work i came across this beautiful and gorgeous Lady, I was tempted to initiate a conversation with her, observed she's smart and educated and also a finalist in the university, so we exchanged numbers and communicated on phone via calls and WhatsApp, we met about twice and before you know it we got attracted to each other and boomed she confessed her love for me after I told her I love her, so now we've started a relationship.

Now my worries is that I'm 30, whenever I realize my contemporaries are married while most of 'em have settled careers but I'm still in school at this age, it gets me worried that a girlfriend shouldn't be on my agenda.
My Christian brothers are also asking me to withdraw and break off the relationship cos its a sin (I'm against premarital sex so our relationship is devoid of sex) but at this age I'm i not supposed to start a relationship with a lady and build a career and relationship with her so when God blesses us I can get married to her and not some random stranger.
Nairalanders what's your own opinion?
Should I break up with her cos my church members sees it as a sin or should I continue the relationship?

Cholls:
My brother I think what you're passing through is part of the modern day struggle.


What I will tell you is; If a man isn’t ready, he shouldn’t get married. If you have children, it will be even worse, and will damage the children.

Don't do it unless you are ready for all of the
responsibility it comes with.

gaius01:


Sir, if am to advice you is, tell the Bea your mind. Tell her at your age you can't be playing that you are serious to get marry since you are due for that. If she's serious she will give in if not she will waste your precious time. Bless God you are working sef and your job is very commerciable added with good grades. You can start a home even it's little Sir. That's my own unless you ain't ready to marry but doing play boy at your age is not recommendable Sir.

rowland545:
It is wrong for a 30yrs old man not to have a gf ...intact it is wrong and very disturbing...


We suppose day talk of wife no b gf self

Durentt:
You say it's a non sexual stuff, I see no reason to break it off.
30 plus is emotional mature to handle all that.

Myself I'm for getting a job and source of income before dating but 30 is an exception I think

spamb0t:
una just wan kill OP with depression.
See as u just dey call am Sir like he's too old.
30 years no be just 1990?

spamb0t:
there's this guy in my area at 35 he's still dating and hanging out with his girlfriend and also brags among his friends how endowed his girlfriend is.
Me I'm just like at this man age when his mates are fathers providing for their kids, this Agbaya still dey mumu

TechExpertise:
Mods please don't take this to frontpage biko.

So guys I created a new account so as to air this issue and solicit for you guys advice.

So I'm a 30 year old student currently in my final year in one of the universities in the North (Ahmadu Bello University) studying an Engineering course with a 4.0 grade.

So after I couldn't graduate due to a health challenge I had back then, I finally got healed, took jamb again and got admitted at 25. I was about to round up my studies before the COVID-19 pandemic disrupted us.
So I've never had it in mind to date any lady as my priority was channeled towards graduating successfully with good grades and culminate to the zenith of success in my career endeavors before I look for a successful lady to settle with.
So during this pandemic I got a job with one establishment, while on my way back home from work i came across this beautiful and gorgeous Lady, I was tempted to initiate a conversation with her, observed she's smart and educated and also a finalist in the university, so we exchanged numbers and communicated on phone via calls and WhatsApp, we met about twice and before you know it we got attracted to each other and boomed she confessed her love for me after I told her I love her, so now we've started a relationship.

Now my worries is that I'm 30, whenever I realize my contemporaries are married while most of 'em have settled careers but I'm still in school at this age, it gets me worried that a girlfriend shouldn't be on my agenda.
My Christian brothers are also asking me to withdraw and break off the relationship cos its a sin (I'm against premarital sex so our relationship is devoid of sex) but at this age I'm i not supposed to start a relationship with a lady and build a career and relationship with her so when God blesses us I can get married to her and not some random stranger.
Nairalanders what's your own opinion?
Should I break up with her cos my church members sees it as a sin or should I continue the relationship?

Sage161:

You don't need a girlfriend. You need a lover. Girlfriends are parasites. You are at your prime now. You wouldn't be much longer. It doesn't matter that you're still a student. You would surely need to get married sooner or later. You have to start from somewhere at least having a lady to consider. From estimation, if you were to marry later than 35, you might be walking your children to school as an overly aged man. Given your situation currently, youu gotta come up with a good plan for your future especially financially. You just have to.