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Re: Help My Drunk Dad Before He Kills Himself..!!! by Freddo99(m): 10:01am On Sep 03, 2020 |
drunkdad:dont give up on him. Just pray and fast for him and u will be surprised. Tell him d implications of his addiction on his health. |
Re: Help My Drunk Dad Before He Kills Himself..!!! by Nobody: 10:01am On Sep 03, 2020 |
SegFault: So how would that work now? If he needs to be bundled there, let them do na. Before things get out of hand. |
Re: Help My Drunk Dad Before He Kills Himself..!!! by ojaysam25(m): 10:01am On Sep 03, 2020 |
show him love...pray for him...you made mention of these being the trend in his family....then the problem is more spiritual than physical....prayer is the only key to remedy such...I hope he changes very soon |
Re: Help My Drunk Dad Before He Kills Himself..!!! by bluestone2015: 10:02am On Sep 03, 2020 |
Your mom is an angel. I can't pray for a drunkard for more that one month. I'll just abandon him and run away. You have to stop being sentimental. He is your father cos he donated a sperm which is very cheap though. It's no big deal. Men are everywhere sharing same. Don't stress yourself on his matter. It's not just worth it. If he can't keep a job, then what is his contribution to your financial needs. Please, put yourself together and move on. You have to try learn a skill that will pay your fees. My cousin used to barb fellow students hair to support himself and his siblings at school. Encourage your younger ones to do same if possible. He has chosen his destiny. Don't let that dampen your bright future. 2 Likes |
Re: Help My Drunk Dad Before He Kills Himself..!!! by kiddkash(m): 10:03am On Sep 03, 2020 |
drunkdad:find out the reason why he stopped drinking 2 years ago and remind him of that and let him try getting himself back from that 1 Like |
Re: Help My Drunk Dad Before He Kills Himself..!!! by adecz: 10:03am On Sep 03, 2020 |
How does he finance the habit? Alcoholism is a serious psychological disease that affects the whole family.. He needs social, family & spiritual counseling.. |
Re: Help My Drunk Dad Before He Kills Himself..!!! by TheCork(m): 10:03am On Sep 03, 2020 |
drunkdad: Slap. Slap his face (no oofense) |
Re: Help My Drunk Dad Before He Kills Himself..!!! by Edna33: 10:04am On Sep 03, 2020 |
find a way to take him to the hospital...let the doctor knw wats on ground...let him run tests and see the level of damage he has done on his body....some of them take doctors advice seriously...especialy if his result doesnt turn out well....also change environment...to disengage him from his friends....God will help your family...he will overcome 2 Likes |
Re: Help My Drunk Dad Before He Kills Himself..!!! by Toscarel: 10:05am On Sep 03, 2020 |
Now heres what you do, clear up a room get a padlock lure him in and lock it permanently. Make a compartment in the door and pass food and toiletries to him. Keep him for a few months and make out an hour each day to talk things with him. |
Re: Help My Drunk Dad Before He Kills Himself..!!! by ArticleBeast: 10:06am On Sep 03, 2020 |
Tie him up and flog the living daylight out of him. Them Osaro my nebor then do this to their papa, the man no near drink till today 1 Like |
Re: Help My Drunk Dad Before He Kills Himself..!!! by Iykenuwa(m): 10:06am On Sep 03, 2020 |
drunkdad: All of you should take out three days to fast and pray for him, rebuke that spirit of drunkenness. God will deliver him 2 Likes |
Re: Help My Drunk Dad Before He Kills Himself..!!! by dking123: 10:06am On Sep 03, 2020 |
drunkdad:OP, let me advice you. You must be careful not to fall into the temptation of disrespecting your dad. Women can be curning and deceitful.the alcohol that your dad takes didn't stop him from training you.if your mom shoulders some responsibility heaven will not fall. If the man really needs help you may get the services of professionals. 4 Likes |
Re: Help My Drunk Dad Before He Kills Himself..!!! by ModestGal(f): 10:07am On Sep 03, 2020 |
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Re: Help My Drunk Dad Before He Kills Himself..!!! by ogwuche4u(m): 10:07am On Sep 03, 2020 |
Chain him to His bed. Give him only water. He will forget the taste of alcohol drunkdad: |
Re: Help My Drunk Dad Before He Kills Himself..!!! by KristaPretty(f): 10:08am On Sep 03, 2020 |
I am guessing he has nothing tangible doing, his wife or children are probably footing his bills. If it's a shop or a job that keeps him steady 247, please find a way to fix him there. After work, if you can get someone committed to pick and drop him off immediately, that would be nice - tho I do not know your financial capability. Secondly, drunkards hate embarrassment. Tho it's not a nice scenerio but someone above suggested that which I have seen work for Papa Mmeso in my previous location. His wife would embarass him at the beer palor in front of his friends and everyone over his habit. With time he stopped because it was a shame to him. Finally, Jibola, his mum and siblings would always flog his dad whenever he returns home drunk . He was left with two options; Drink and come home to be flogged mercilessly or leave the house permanently to enjoy your drinking journey. Oga has no other home to go to and he stopped drinking because he was tired of being flogged seriously Different methods for different people. This is my own physical experience and observation from families who battled with this. Apply all of them It is well with you. 2 Likes |
Re: Help My Drunk Dad Before He Kills Himself..!!! by Abfinest007(m): 10:08am On Sep 03, 2020 |
it might be spiritual problem take him to the church for deliverance |
Re: Help My Drunk Dad Before He Kills Himself..!!! by frozen70(f): 10:08am On Sep 03, 2020 |
SegFault:Honestly |
Re: Help My Drunk Dad Before He Kills Himself..!!! by Toscarel: 10:09am On Sep 03, 2020 |
drunkdad: Now heres what you do, clear up a room get a padlock lure him in and lock it permanently. Make a compartment in the door and pass food and toiletries to him. Keep him for a few months and make out an hour each day to talk things with him. His final test would be you passing in a bottle of his favorite poison, if he stays with it for two weeks with out touching it then he has been cleansed. Be strong No one would blame you for such actions, it's called tough love. |
Re: Help My Drunk Dad Before He Kills Himself..!!! by ModestGal(f): 10:09am On Sep 03, 2020 |
drunkdad:Was he like that when your mum married him? |
Re: Help My Drunk Dad Before He Kills Himself..!!! by SweetCunt97(f): 10:09am On Sep 03, 2020 |
drunkdad:Well, abroad they'd take him to therapy, he's an addict. Then he'll attend AA meetings. Talking and talking helps no body bro. |
Re: Help My Drunk Dad Before He Kills Himself..!!! by Edna33: 10:09am On Sep 03, 2020 |
dking123:wow....really! |
Re: Help My Drunk Dad Before He Kills Himself..!!! by Nobody: 10:09am On Sep 03, 2020 |
ArcSEMPECJ:Brother he knows what he is doing. Simple. |
Re: Help My Drunk Dad Before He Kills Himself..!!! by Farki: 10:09am On Sep 03, 2020 |
Drinking is what some people do to escape their problems. Maybe ask if he is depressed or if there is something that has been bothering him all these years. In the absence of such he needs serious medical intervention, he either doesn't know that he's destroying his body or doesn't care. |
Re: Help My Drunk Dad Before He Kills Himself..!!! by Ebi3(m): 10:09am On Sep 03, 2020 |
If him and all his brothers are drunkards then it might be spiritual.seek a spiritually strong clergy and break the yolk.nothing physical can change the situation.my humble advise. |
Re: Help My Drunk Dad Before He Kills Himself..!!! by Nobody: 10:10am On Sep 03, 2020 |
Brachaa:It's his choice, if he doesn't want to stop then leave him. Life is too short and full of suffering to be killing yourself because of someone else. 1 Like |
Re: Help My Drunk Dad Before He Kills Himself..!!! by Nobody: 10:11am On Sep 03, 2020 |
Ebi3:Spiritual ke? Or they just learned from their father. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Help My Drunk Dad Before He Kills Himself..!!! by Gmajor(m): 10:11am On Sep 03, 2020 |
Your father is an addict. At this point he need more than advice. I don't know if Nigeria has rehab facility but he really need to be checked into on. |
Re: Help My Drunk Dad Before He Kills Himself..!!! by aspiring44: 10:11am On Sep 03, 2020 |
duduade: The OP should scare him by driving him down to luth dialysis and see the damage alcohol has done to people kidney and liver . He will surely have a rethink of his bad social behavior. 1 Like |
Re: Help My Drunk Dad Before He Kills Himself..!!! by chinchonglee(m): 10:12am On Sep 03, 2020 |
drunkdad:Haa!!! Forget it! Alcohol addiction is the most powerful addiction. Even masturbation no reach am. At this point i can only say ur dad is finished. Pardon me sha. My dad was a victim. Alcohol almost ruined hiim but thanks to the wealth he gathered wen he was still normal. 1 Like |
Re: Help My Drunk Dad Before He Kills Himself..!!! by MosayA: 10:12am On Sep 03, 2020 |
It's a personal thing. He is the one who needs to make the decision to change. If he sees nothing wrong in what he's doing, forget it, you can't help him. Just keep praying for him to see the harm he's causing himself, and God will open his eyes. Peace to you. |
Re: Help My Drunk Dad Before He Kills Himself..!!! by CorleonOfSicily: 10:15am On Sep 03, 2020 |
My mom and I have called him and talked to him on several occasions about it but he still always goes back to drink after he leaves home. I'm totally fed up, even my mum is very sad about the situation. How can I deal with this situation.. [/quote] My guy look for koboko |
Re: Help My Drunk Dad Before He Kills Himself..!!! by Thomthom(m): 10:15am On Sep 03, 2020 |
MrOjay1:Bros I support this... I even told my family if they see me misbehaving, they should correct me immediately with anything that will make me leave that bad habbit before it enters my blood |
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