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Re: Why Do Your Friends Ignore You When They Finally Travel Out Of The Country? by Nobody: 6:40am On Sep 03, 2020 |
soleexx: Amen ooo. |
Re: Why Do Your Friends Ignore You When They Finally Travel Out Of The Country? by kellycute(m): 6:45am On Sep 03, 2020 |
soleexx:haha. I notice guys not dey even bother to ask for money, na mostly the babes. The moment you drop "hi, how are you". The next thing na complain and billings. The money isn't the issue at all, but their attitudes. 14 Likes |
Re: Why Do Your Friends Ignore You When They Finally Travel Out Of The Country? by YoungDaNaval(m): 7:01am On Sep 03, 2020 |
Sweetness4:That guy deserve a bottle of whatever brand he takes from me. He's a real man 2 Likes |
Re: Why Do Your Friends Ignore You When They Finally Travel Out Of The Country? by YoungDaNaval(m): 7:07am On Sep 03, 2020 |
Una dey try sha. All my guys wey dey abroad na when they chat me up I dey reply them. Even my uncle sef wey be diplomat na only WhatsApp status we dey view. Funny enough na them wey dey abroad dey complain say I no dey get their time.... I go just apologize and lock up 49 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Why Do Your Friends Ignore You When They Finally Travel Out Of The Country? by Nobody: 7:20am On Sep 03, 2020 |
YoungDaNaval: Real man how Because he snubs people he is a real man?? What a real man would have done is reply politely and end it there. My other friends both male and female that have travelled out, we still talk till date and we are very cool. 15 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Do Your Friends Ignore You When They Finally Travel Out Of The Country? by Gerrard59(m): 7:46am On Sep 03, 2020 |
SoccerUSA: Well, your so-called friend is a fraudulently dishonest individual. That in my book isn't a friend. 17 Likes |
Re: Why Do Your Friends Ignore You When They Finally Travel Out Of The Country? by slimanyd: 8:17am On Sep 03, 2020 |
DICKstractor: Those two countries no be abroad jare. Those are 2nd grade okrika abroad . 36 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Why Do Your Friends Ignore You When They Finally Travel Out Of The Country? by DICKstractor: 9:29am On Sep 03, 2020 |
slimanyd:Ok 5 Likes |
Re: Why Do Your Friends Ignore You When They Finally Travel Out Of The Country? by annex1: 5:26pm On Sep 03, 2020 |
SoccerUSA: Post of the year! LooooooooooooooL |
Re: Why Do Your Friends Ignore You When They Finally Travel Out Of The Country? by Nobody: 6:48pm On Sep 03, 2020 |
Sweetness4:my own seat mate(female) in jss3 and ss1 said she doesn't remember me like 5 years later wey we connect for Facebook. She dey 9ja. So its not by abroad. Babe wey teachers dey call us husband and wife. Another one lived next street we went to same secondary school, our parents know each other and the kids. Another friend of ours had a wedding so the bro asked me to help drive the bridesmaids to the venue with my mums car as it was bigger. We were gisting in the car with others about old times in school. Babe said she no sabi me. I was weak 18 Likes |
Re: Why Do Your Friends Ignore You When They Finally Travel Out Of The Country? by dasparrow: 7:59pm On Sep 03, 2020 |
SoccerUSA: Anyone who is genuinely your friend will make an effort to stay in touch. There used to be a time I used to work 10 hours a day 5 days a week and sometimes still go in to work on Saturdays in the United States. Despite my hectic schedule, I still made time for family and friends and stayed in touch so what are we saying? That friend of yours is not a real friend. He is the kind of friend that is only available when things are not going too well for him. When things change for the better for him, he changes gear and starts to ignore those that were there for him when things were difficult for him. Is that a friend? People who are proud will soon be humbled because pride comes before a fall. With the way things are going right now in the United States, many Americans both white and black who can afford it are even looking to migrate to other sane countries around the world. It is only Nigerians and those nationals who already come from highly dysfunctional countries where there are high levels of insecurity and rising levels of poverty that will see the United States as some heaven on earth despite their GMO laden, cancer-causing foods and lack of universal healthcare like we have in Western Europe. White citizens from Germany, Netherlands, Scandinavian countries, Australia, New Zealand and Canada see the United States as a third world country with a Gucci belt. I have heard citizens of these advanced nations call United States a "third world country with the Gucci belt" several times before. Ignore that "friend" of yours because he was never truly a friend to begin with. SHIKENA! 54 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: Why Do Your Friends Ignore You When They Finally Travel Out Of The Country? by samtol4(m): 10:45pm On Sep 03, 2020 |
SoccerUSA:You have a good heart . May the right people locate you 9 Likes |
Re: Why Do Your Friends Ignore You When They Finally Travel Out Of The Country? by GboyegaD(m): 11:05pm On Sep 03, 2020 |
Many atimes, the time difference is a big issue. Many will chat you on their way home forgetting that it is during the day and they think you are proud for not picking up calls at such times. Here, you are measured by your efficiency and you cannot be attending to phone during office hours. Also, some people do multiple jobs that barely leave them with time for socializing and before they know it, they have drifted from friends and family. Another thing is everything here is do it yourself so imagine someone who works and have kids. The challenges are real unlike in Nigeria where people have help from different sides and reduces the stress. I belong to a group and most of the men were complaining when they first moved because now they had to learn to babysit the kids. Something they would never do. Gradually, their weekends have been taken away from their individuality to family life etc. While these seem valid, it takes conscious efforts on both ends to remain friends. One thing I have noticed from responses on here though is that the entitlement mentality is very real. 21 Likes |
Re: Why Do Your Friends Ignore You When They Finally Travel Out Of The Country? by Beautyaddy: 11:09pm On Sep 03, 2020 |
dasparrow: lol!...I have never heard that though Or is it because the US is Immigrant friendly to people from most Third World Countries? I guess Trump was right when he was lamenting that the US has been overused by Immigrants from most Shithole Countries especially from Africa...and that it's about time the US makes their Immigration System to be more Merit Base than low class of family chain migration. As for the Healthcare system not being universal in the US that might be changing soon hopeful if the Democrats get power in majority to make that happen. Those Europeans Countries you listed you claim have Universal Healthcare...is it free? Or aren't they paying for all those free social services with very high taxes. But on a more Serious Note unless all those people who came up with that foolish name against the US ARE ALL HIGH CLASS IGNORANT AND JEALOUS FOOLS. All those Countries you listed up there are all Obsolutely Nothing Without the US. They Should all go read about the Post 2nd World War Treaties and what each of those Countries Especially Germany had to sign before they became what they are today. 13 Likes |
Re: Why Do Your Friends Ignore You When They Finally Travel Out Of The Country? by Nobody: 11:22pm On Sep 03, 2020 |
Kekereekun123: Na waa for those people oooo. I was really hurt. The world doesn't revolve around them jare.. We move.. I don't want those kind of people in my life. 3 Likes |
Re: Why Do Your Friends Ignore You When They Finally Travel Out Of The Country? by Saintsquare(m): 1:19am On Sep 04, 2020 |
Studying and hustling abroad no be beans, the little quality time you have for yourself is limited, should you wanna chat with friends then it must be something worthwhile. Before you say jack, some people will be hyping and describing how you enjoying not knowing you already stressed out. Sometimes when you receive a msg from some certain people, you already know na billing straight up. 21 Likes |
Re: Why Do Your Friends Ignore You When They Finally Travel Out Of The Country? by Makawhizzy: 3:41am On Sep 04, 2020 |
One thing wey sure be say u go need my connect and time one day and I’ll always return the favor and tell it to your face. My best friend in university that his younger brother in SA ghosted me one time will never use his name to ask for help cox I’ll tell him baba I no fit help your brother make him go meet people him dey help. Naso I dey ghost those in Canada or USA or anywhere. U no dey useless I delete you. You dey feel proud like you don make money pass we wey dey hustle for here, I cut you off. No time for BS especially from those that feel those staying in naija no get anything to burst their brains with. 25 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Do Your Friends Ignore You When They Finally Travel Out Of The Country? by oluwaseunamos33(m): 1:08pm On Sep 04, 2020 |
BECOS LEVELS DON CHANGE 2 Likes |
Re: Why Do Your Friends Ignore You When They Finally Travel Out Of The Country? by ForeThinker: 1:09pm On Sep 04, 2020 |
Re: Why Do Your Friends Ignore You When They Finally Travel Out Of The Country? by tamdun: 1:09pm On Sep 04, 2020 |
Maybe u too dey beg 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Your Friends Ignore You When They Finally Travel Out Of The Country? by Sabicleaners: 1:09pm On Sep 04, 2020 |
They are still trying to adjust into the system of life over there. 2 Likes |
Re: Why Do Your Friends Ignore You When They Finally Travel Out Of The Country? by ofiko123(m): 1:10pm On Sep 04, 2020 |
I guess that they are very busy... |
Re: Why Do Your Friends Ignore You When They Finally Travel Out Of The Country? by ikorodureporta: 1:10pm On Sep 04, 2020 |
They ain't your true friends 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Your Friends Ignore You When They Finally Travel Out Of The Country? by Edyice: 1:11pm On Sep 04, 2020 |
You were never friends... Only those who understand will understand 3 Likes |
Re: Why Do Your Friends Ignore You When They Finally Travel Out Of The Country? by DaddyGngeess(m): 1:12pm On Sep 04, 2020 |
Is a state of mind, I moved alot guys from Madrid Spain to Vienna Austria 2001 because then Spain was very difficult to make it, non of them remember me till today even when I had a serious problem 2004, abeg leave people alone and do your thing.. 20 Likes |
Re: Why Do Your Friends Ignore You When They Finally Travel Out Of The Country? by nandyz(m): 1:12pm On Sep 04, 2020 |
They snub u so that u will not ask them for help .. You get the point now ?? 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Do Your Friends Ignore You When They Finally Travel Out Of The Country? by Nobody: 1:14pm On Sep 04, 2020 |
Make I reach there first but till then, let me reserve my comment 2 Likes |
Re: Why Do Your Friends Ignore You When They Finally Travel Out Of The Country? by luminouz(m): 1:14pm On Sep 04, 2020 |
Its called life 1 Like |
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