Ejenavi18:
It's possible op.
Just like someone said up there, it depends on what the friendship is built on.
I have male friends whom I'm very close to, more like besties but we have boundaries.

story for the gods.

I dey watch. But fu*ck bestie with a female.

bestie na scam....Bestie are womb shakers.... Beware of bestie

bestie kor, pant shifter ni!

It's just like asking a goat to watch over a piece of yam for you

obembet:
Most Nigerians guys believe that its total scam for a Lady to have a male friend as bestie when they in serious relationship.

But the truth there is that most ladies prefer a male Friend as bestie because ladies believe that men are more secretive than ladies and its more easier to get good advice from a guys than Ladies.

So can you allow your girlfriend to have male friend as bestie?



Cc Lalasticlala
MissyB3
Fynestboi
Dominique
mynd44

You can only have male bestie when you are not in a relationship. It will be wrong to have male bestie when have a boyfriend. If you believe that male friend keep secrets and you trust your male bestie more than your boyfriend then you might not make a good home with any man at all in the future. You must change that mindset about this.

Why is it that a boy is separated from his sister at a certain age, if the shared the same bedroom.


I think answering this would give you an insight.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lZzWyLiQhCA

Male and female bestie can happen only with a good girl and a good boy.Allthough the guy wants the cookie,he will keep hiding under the guise of a nice guy..
Btw,the girl is never gonna give him cus puna is not for good boys no matter how bad they want it because they must definately want it.

Having a male bestie or whatever you call it and having a boyfriend simulteneously, sounds more like spirit of flirting. You can socialize, but male bestie(s), nawa oh... Do you even know the meaning of bestie?

Lmfao,I cant even be friends with any girl except we're also coded fvckmates.
And my brain is wired in a way that if I gist too often,walk too often,laugh all the time with women,I would just be seeing myself like a talkative aproko.I just leave the women thing for the women,and am good.

Bestie na scam..as bestie both of you are emotionally attached, and if you dint have sex it shows the guy is a novice...or he is keeping his cool
But back to your question it's possible only if the guy is a shy type or a novice...

I can only become your bestie if am not sexually attracted to you

Difficult but possible...

Ningen:
If I'm not my girlfriend's bestie, I'm wasting my time. Yes, I'm so possessive. It's me or not me.

The position of a best friend is very different from that of a lover. Their roles are different. A girl who met you and decided to date you can never replace her longtime best friend with you. Best friends are people you fall back to. It's cool if your partner never had one but if she did and you attempt to take the bestie's position, you'd simply be begging to be lied to so you'd be happy.

Me personally can't have MALE bestie when I have bf ooo.
Hell I can't even have a male bestie sef

I trust my self control but I don't trust these penis people and their testosterone

if am dating you and am not your besty i will alter the relationship immediately to FWB when you wont see reasons, do my own and go....

my best friend is a female....
even her elder sisters address us as besties.....n there's nothing more than our friendship

Women like having male friends because of the benefits and the attention they get and the guys want to remain friends/bestie hoping to smash in the nearest future.

Alexaonfleek:

I trust my self control but I don't trust these penis people and their testosterone

What is this one saying like this

obembet:
Most Nigerians guys believe that its total scam for a Lady to have a male friend as bestie when they in serious relationship.

But the truth there is that most ladies prefer a male Friend as bestie because ladies believe that men are more secretive than ladies and its more easier to get good advice from a guys than Ladies.

So can you allow your girlfriend to have male friend as bestie?



Cc Lalast.iclala
Miss.yB3
Fynestboi
Dom.inique
my.nd44

you're not just a hoe, but also could be suffering gender identity issues!

Deborah98:
Keeping a sugar cube thinking it won't attract ant, that's what your statements imply,it is very wrong for me to have a male bestie when I already have a boyfriend,if he isn't my bestie,I wonder what he is then.

On the contrary I have a female bestie whom I have known for a long time but we have never initiated sex. It's all about principles I think

Alexaonfleek:
Me personally can't have MALE bestie when I have bf ooo.
Hell I can't even have a male bestie sef

I trust my self control but I don't trust these penis people and their testosterone

Funny you. There are still a few men with principles who have self control.

Babanla scam, besides you will face wahala from the guy's wife and your own husband.

obembet:


So are u saying u can now allow ur wife/girlfriend to have a male friend as bestie. Or u thinks something will happen?

So for your mind you be girl abi

It is risky, I normally ask potential date if they keep male bestie and if it turns out they do, that ends it.

Na wetin make me break up with my ex, she fuvk her bestie

No dt bestie of a tin folo break my heart, women ar scum

i have awesome girls like that i take em out when they are in town and we look for trouble and have fun but no strings attached i dont find them sexually attractive either,see them like my sisters,i just flaunt them same way they do me to their friends make em feel jealous, here is one,as for my girl friend its best i dont know if she have a male bestie she should keep that to herself

Leezah:
A real man must be able to control his mouth. Don't ever expose what you had with a lady in secret, sleeping with you doesn't mean she is cheap. Every woman is expensive and has a secret admirer that wants to settle with her at all cost.

Treat a lady right.
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What is the meaning of this?

How does this relate to the thread?

The answer is NO!!! How can a girl or wife have a boyfriend or husband and then another man is your "bestie", does that sound good in your ears? That "bestie" thingy is just another FWB arrangement, been there done that. The only bestie a girl should have is her boyfriend and the only bestie a wife should have is her husband. Anything outside of this is just normal f**k buddy levels. All these girls with fish brain that wanna be eating their cake and having it. Mtchwwwwwww

SamuelLoch:
Its possible! I mean there are how many girls in this world?
There are decent girls who have their closest friend to be a guy and both of them would never commit to having sex together...

If you still think its impossible or was not the case for you and your bestie in the past, then the problem is you and your bestie...

Very true

Alexaonfleek:
Me personally can't have MALE bestie when I have bf ooo.
Hell I can't even have a male bestie sef

I trust my self control but I don't trust these penis people and their testosterone

We know all these lies end here. So it's pointless arguing unnecessary. Biko it is not my fault, but your diary...