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Re: I Am Suspecting My Wife Is Cheating. Should I Confront Her? by delkuf(m): 2:03pm On Sep 04, 2020 |
Brachaa:Nice. it seems you know what you want. that's good. what church do you attend 1 Like |
Re: I Am Suspecting My Wife Is Cheating. Should I Confront Her? by Nobody: 2:07pm On Sep 04, 2020 |
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Re: I Am Suspecting My Wife Is Cheating. Should I Confront Her? by Nobody: 2:17pm On Sep 04, 2020 |
Don't Worry Or Kill Urself Over Women Issue, Dey Are Not Worth Dying For. Focus On Ur Kids. 3 Likes |
Re: I Am Suspecting My Wife Is Cheating. Should I Confront Her? by revolt(m): 2:31pm On Sep 04, 2020 |
Don't be a simp. If you know u can move.. catch her first. Once u do..... move. 2 Likes |
Re: I Am Suspecting My Wife Is Cheating. Should I Confront Her? by 3SDevLab: 2:59pm On Sep 04, 2020 |
Marriage in this age sha ![]() 3 Likes |
Re: I Am Suspecting My Wife Is Cheating. Should I Confront Her? by Eileene(f): 5:55pm On Sep 04, 2020 |
As a man learn how to be firm and stand your ground 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: I Am Suspecting My Wife Is Cheating. Should I Confront Her? by delkuf(m): 9:38pm On Sep 04, 2020 |
Brachaa:ok. which parish |
Re: I Am Suspecting My Wife Is Cheating. Should I Confront Her? by Nobody: 9:42pm On Sep 04, 2020 |
delkuf: Its one small Parish in Lagos. Was under Mega province at Gbagada before I joined this one now. Apapa family. 1 Like |
Re: I Am Suspecting My Wife Is Cheating. Should I Confront Her? by delkuf(m): 9:55pm On Sep 04, 2020 |
Brachaa:Ok. so you live gbagada 1 Like |
Re: I Am Suspecting My Wife Is Cheating. Should I Confront Her? by Malik1338(m): 10:03pm On Sep 04, 2020 |
Collins4u1:that shit doesn't work stop scamming people 3 Likes |
Re: I Am Suspecting My Wife Is Cheating. Should I Confront Her? by mrblessed(m): 11:42pm On Sep 04, 2020 |
Your predicament is akin to most financially dependent house wives, who are well aware of the flirtatious disposition of their husbands but are sacred to death to quit the union due to the financial difficulties that would naturally trail separation and divorce. Which man will learn of his wife's sexual escapade and refuse to following her to the venue to catch her right in the act? As someone who decides to play the ostrich, you resorted to "making faces" at her after she might have warmed the bed of another man, as a sign that you understood her games and got the right reward. If you were keen on shaming her, what stopped you from monitoring her movement to the rendezvous and raising alarm if possible? You can't stand idly by and pretend that what you know didn't exist simply because of the fear of the unknown. Do something fast. Since it is pretty clear that your unfavorable financial standing has rendered you impotent, why not concentrate on doing damage control, instead of asking strangers online what to do, when you are not willing to confront her with the irrefutable evidence at your disposal. 19 Likes |
Re: I Am Suspecting My Wife Is Cheating. Should I Confront Her? by Nobody: 12:55am On Sep 05, 2020 |
delkuf: Nope. 1 Like |
Re: I Am Suspecting My Wife Is Cheating. Should I Confront Her? by Collins4u1(m): 2:45am On Sep 05, 2020 |
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Re: I Am Suspecting My Wife Is Cheating. Should I Confront Her? by owo8184: 8:19am On Sep 05, 2020 |
mrblessed: Thanks for this. But may I inform you that I finance my home. At present, the covid19 effects on the economy has affected my finance, even at that we still still do the spending together. Thanks all the same 6 Likes |
Re: I Am Suspecting My Wife Is Cheating. Should I Confront Her? by owo8184: 8:23am On Sep 05, 2020 |
Thanks to everyone who has given advice. Your comments and suggestions are noted. 1 Like |
Re: I Am Suspecting My Wife Is Cheating. Should I Confront Her? by tonyson010(m): 9:48am On Sep 05, 2020 |
owo8184: Much have been said. You just have to stand and face Ur fears. Be on the attack, and be a man with free heart. Am still single, but depression from heart break has killed many men because, they couldn't confront their fears. A man's heart is fragile and weakens him mentally. 9 Likes |
Re: I Am Suspecting My Wife Is Cheating. Should I Confront Her? by ogawisdom(m): 9:56am On Sep 05, 2020 |
te author=owo8184 post=93547116]I am a young married man with 2 kids. The marriage is 6yrs now. Due to the situation of the country, we’ve not been staying together. I hustle in a University environment in one of the states in Southwest while she works as a freelance for some organizations in Lagos. I normally come home (Lagos) on monthly basis. But during this lockdown, I have been in Lagos with my family. Prior to our marriage, there is this guy she met when we had some misunderstanding. They started a date but later called it off when we settled. She didn’t give me the details but based on what I read on her phone back then, I knew they made out together. The said guy is now in Port Harcourt but I am aware he normally comes to Lagos. Just today, I heard my wife giving someone a description of where they will meet somewhere in Agege (where she uses as her office). I was curious to know the person. I didn’t ask her because she would find a story to cover up. I found a way to check her phone and saw that her ex - the said guy was the one who called. May I say that we have fought over this guy several times even before and after our marriage. She won’t let this guy be in her past. She’s either calling the guy or the guy is calling her. This time, I chose not to raise my voice but monitor her closely. She left home for work today. I may not be able to give details but every surrounding clue indicates that my wife has a date today. She returned home and I found a way to check her whatsapp but alas she has deleted her chats with the guy. Just this night again, she received a call from another man asking her when she would come to his office. She once told me that the man was asking her out. In all these, I want to believe my wife is up to something. Infidelity is the last I would accept in this marriage. Should I confront her with all these observations? Please, I am confused. [/quote] She is probably on many hook up sites with sexy pics to attract men. Act like u are not noticing anything and find a way to track her down n catch her completely. Suspicion will not stand u need concrete evidence. The rate of cheating among married women now is alarming, they can it women liberation. 6 Likes |
Re: I Am Suspecting My Wife Is Cheating. Should I Confront Her? by ogawisdom(m): 10:06am On Sep 05, 2020 |
BiggyB242: Yes for the most part But the main thing is to avoid an ungodly, insatiable and overly materialistic woman. Bc she will still sleep around for money even when working. 15 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: I Am Suspecting My Wife Is Cheating. Should I Confront Her? by antidisestablis: 10:07am On Sep 05, 2020 |
owo8184:Yes, she is up to sth, send a DM to me let's have a private chat |
Re: I Am Suspecting My Wife Is Cheating. Should I Confront Her? by 9gel(m): 11:10am On Sep 05, 2020 |
Lol Thinking it'll change anything, i mean weda red handed, there'll always be a reason, hahaha Baba, just forget and work more om yourself and kids.find happiness . KristaPretty: |
Re: I Am Suspecting My Wife Is Cheating. Should I Confront Her? by Oizee(f): 11:22am On Sep 05, 2020 |
Things I read here, so after dating someone else just bcuz of little misunderstanding that could still be resolved, u took her back and even married her. What kind of stupid love is that? 14 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: I Am Suspecting My Wife Is Cheating. Should I Confront Her? by KristaPretty(f): 12:25pm On Sep 05, 2020 |
9gel: Maybe get a side chick or fowl ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Anyway Use condom for madam o, before she put her side cock belle for your head, and to protect yourself from diseases or HIV. You see why I'm against this love matter ![]() ![]() ![]() 7 Likes |
Re: I Am Suspecting My Wife Is Cheating. Should I Confront Her? by Malik1338(m): 12:30pm On Sep 05, 2020 |
Collins4u1:The one your Father Breed from |
Re: I Am Suspecting My Wife Is Cheating. Should I Confront Her? by Nobody: 12:47pm On Sep 05, 2020 |
ogawisdom:True talk bro. |
Re: I Am Suspecting My Wife Is Cheating. Should I Confront Her? by 9gel(m): 2:37pm On Sep 05, 2020 |
Lol I keep quoting we should respect persons that choose to get married and stay in it in this our generation oh.. E no chice.... E go really hard oh... KristaPretty: |
Re: I Am Suspecting My Wife Is Cheating. Should I Confront Her? by IamYourNeighbor(m): 2:45pm On Sep 05, 2020 |
I suggest you look for more clues that would be undeniable when you finally confront her. |
Re: I Am Suspecting My Wife Is Cheating. Should I Confront Her? by KristaPretty(f): 5:02pm On Sep 05, 2020 |
9gel: Do you admit that a lot of people who are married are unhappy and facing challenges which most times seem permanent and emotionally damaging. Don't be deceived by what you see, now people stay even tho they are unhappy because they are afraid of what the society would say or being condemned. I know an ex-coursemate who found out her husband was gay after 7years of marriage and his so called bestfriend was his partner ![]() ![]() ![]() So my dear, If anyone chose to remain married or single there's no difference. We are masters of our own happiness. Sometimes some married persons are happier compared to some single persons and vice versa. In this our generation like you said, I give same level of respect to the singles and married. To each his own battles. Regards. 5 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: I Am Suspecting My Wife Is Cheating. Should I Confront Her? by Saintmary(f): 6:20pm On Sep 05, 2020 |
owo8184:You need to get evidence man, drop by unannounced at her office, copy her ex's phone number and monitor him somehow. Sorry man, dealing with a cheating spouse is just horrible. btw, are you faithful? 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: I Am Suspecting My Wife Is Cheating. Should I Confront Her? by 9gel(m): 7:08pm On Sep 05, 2020 |
Exactly true... Just choose happiness... Respect to you ma'am KristaPretty: 1 Like |
Re: I Am Suspecting My Wife Is Cheating. Should I Confront Her? by KristaPretty(f): 8:17pm On Sep 05, 2020 |
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Re: I Am Suspecting My Wife Is Cheating. Should I Confront Her? by Fastt: 9:05pm On Sep 05, 2020 |
owo8184: Maybe you are too boring. Let her cheat a little bit, it spices up the marriage. She will be more happier at home. Go get a job young man. Be like me. Be like fastt. We are all animals, a happier woman is a happier home. We all need side attraction. Go get yours too. We should all be charitable. 3 Likes |
Re: I Am Suspecting My Wife Is Cheating. Should I Confront Her? by Tajbol4splend(m): 10:05pm On Sep 05, 2020 |
Inside Life 1 Like |
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