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Re: Can A Girl Have A Bestie Without Them Having Sex? by Farki: 3:20pm On Sep 05, 2020 |
A "best friend" is just a girl's side piece who does all the romantic stuff boyfriends do and also gives her gifts without having to commit. Most even prefer it to relationships because they don't have to sleep with the guy. 1 Like |
Re: Can A Girl Have A Bestie Without Them Having Sex? by dododawa1: 3:20pm On Sep 05, 2020 |
Ofadaman:BUHARI colleague 1 Like |
Re: Can A Girl Have A Bestie Without Them Having Sex? by dasparrow: 3:20pm On Sep 05, 2020 |
Some people here reason like they have goat brains. First of all, not everyone is a fan of sexual intercourse. Secondly, not everyone will be automatically sexually attracted to a person just because that person is a member of the opposite sex/gender. Thirdly, not every person lacks self control. We are human beings after all and just because you are friends with someone of the opposite gender does not mean you will desire the person's private part. I don't know how some of you reason. This is why in the western world, some women have gay men as besties. That way, no one will have to worry about a platonic relationship turning sexual. 2 Likes |
Re: Can A Girl Have A Bestie Without Them Having Sex? by KaptainAfrika: 3:21pm On Sep 05, 2020 |
Of course. Shey giving head is not sex, then yes, sure.... 1 Like |
Re: Can A Girl Have A Bestie Without Them Having Sex? by Aguogba(m): 3:21pm On Sep 05, 2020 |
It is 100% possible. Just that 99.99 percent of "genuine male besties" are natural gays. While choir master, church brother, reading mate, etc are all included in the remaining 0.01 FsWB. Ancient Egyptian, Roman and Persian empires all used Eunochs as male servants. Na to avoid stories that touch. 2 Likes |
Re: Can A Girl Have A Bestie Without Them Having Sex? by Intrepid01(m): 3:21pm On Sep 05, 2020 |
You see the issue of bestie has come to expose us Nigerians that our understanding of what a boyfriend and girlfriend isn’t right. Most people have misinterpreted boyfriend/girlfriend relationship to a sexual relationship, meanwhile it used to be a relationship between 2 opposite gender who share similar traits, views, opinions and even upbringing. They are naturally attracted to each other and comfortable with each other’s personality. But heck no, most Nigerians think boyfriend/girlfriend is about shifting pant, hence the reason why a girl after having someone that regularly shifts her pant will still be looking for another opposite male friend to be her buddy. Because she doesn’t see many similarities between herself and her pant shifter and most times not even comfortable sharing all her mind with him. As in what is even the basis of dating or marrying in the first place if that person is not your bestie? Your bestie is supposed to be your boyfriend/girlfriend or wife/husband. Someone you both naturally click, when such a person is your sexual partner, then you guys become each others soul mate. I.e Bestie + Sexual partner = Soulmate @obembet 5 Likes |
Re: Can A Girl Have A Bestie Without Them Having Sex? by adanny01(m): 3:21pm On Sep 05, 2020 |
obembet: Yes to the question. I must warn you, not every guy wants to be a bestie. To find that one guy is like looking for a needle in a hay stack. I had a bestie one time before we fell out right around my marriage. Her friend was my girlfriend but when I broke up with her friend, she was the only girl around me. We spent time so much and she told me things I didn't need to know. I wrestled myself to not make her my girlfriend. I felt she was gonna be game but the risk of losing my only female bestie did not let me bring emotions into the picture. I particularly didn't want anything because I know how hard it was breaking up with a girl I loved but not sure of the future. So this bestie should not be a fling. So a bestie will not be immune to feeling for you. Its like fucking your boss's daughter, if you know you can't get away, don't start. What actually ended the bestie thing was that, men are men, women are women. I had friends, so she couldn't fit with my other friends. When guys hang out late, drink to stupor, a sober person in that moment will have stories to tell and girls will be girls. When guys gist, they are not comfortable with a bestie. She literally has to be a tom boy to belong. Technically, i was just a part-time bestie. Also being a bestie means you have to have things in common and spend time together. So if you don't drink, bestie shouldn't either. If you love movies, bestie should be into it. In fact my major disagreement with my bestie was about booze, things just got cold after that. She also wanted to wear the suit on my wedding but i didn't let her (I regret not letting her). I miss the fact that we are not so close anymore. 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Can A Girl Have A Bestie Without Them Having Sex? by Biancalious: 3:22pm On Sep 05, 2020 |
Only if the guy is not attractive � 1 Like |
Re: Can A Girl Have A Bestie Without Them Having Sex? by chocboi78(m): 3:26pm On Sep 05, 2020 |
luminouz:of course she never gree because I haven't really made serious advances, I don't engage in parasitic relationships with em Ladies, considering how close we became in a short time, I'm basically her boyfriend only without the title and the crown(kitten)..believe me it's only a matter of time b4 we hit it.. 1 Like |
Re: Can A Girl Have A Bestie Without Them Having Sex? by jeph19(m): 3:27pm On Sep 05, 2020 |
I had sex with my bestie at the long run. its a no women are moved by and with words and with a bestie knowing ur up and down, cold and hot moment, safe and unsafe periods, likes and dislikes... Common, its very logical for feelings to creep in and develope. Flings do occur. 1 Like |
Re: Can A Girl Have A Bestie Without Them Having Sex? by Sarita01(f): 3:29pm On Sep 05, 2020 |
Daguccizgreat:Or she's not your type,she have some xtics you don't want in your woman or youre both born again,any of this reasons are more plausible than your principle theory.besties might not have had sex but at some point they might have gotten the first base of romance 2 Likes |
Re: Can A Girl Have A Bestie Without Them Having Sex? by Bahamas95(m): 3:29pm On Sep 05, 2020 |
I don't think it's possible, I have slept with almost all my female besties both in the past and present. The once I didn't or haven't touched are those I ain't attracted to physically or in a serious relationship. I am a real niggarr that got conscience. Can't mess with someone's girlfriend/wife. 1 Like |
Re: Can A Girl Have A Bestie Without Them Having Sex? by Yoighaman(m): 3:33pm On Sep 05, 2020 |
obembet: I've had female besties, never crossed my mind to get dirty with any of them, I'm so close to one that I and her husband do business often, very correct guy, it doesn't even bother him, after all, if I had wanted to sleep with his wife, I would have done so before they got married, this is someone I'd known and had been friends with for about 9 years, so why separate two good friends all in the name of marriage, I was even instrumental in them sealing off the union....bottom line is trust on the husband's part and fear of God on the male bestie's side. 5 Likes |
Re: Can A Girl Have A Bestie Without Them Having Sex? by HolyTitus(m): 3:33pm On Sep 05, 2020 |
obembet:You're in serious relationship and you're having a male bestie - how does that even sound?? naso dem dey start their 'owo agbere' when Una start dey get feelings for each other. Take it anywhere, a girl in a serious relationship and at the same time having a male bestie is toxic to any promising relationship. There's nothing on this earth that her boyfriend would do to please her; she'll never be satisfied - always wanting more. |
Re: Can A Girl Have A Bestie Without Them Having Sex? by InvertedHammer: 3:35pm On Sep 05, 2020 |
obembet:/ They are no longer called besties. They are called gay. / |
Re: Can A Girl Have A Bestie Without Them Having Sex? by Patosky4U: 3:36pm On Sep 05, 2020 |
wisest10: Oga the shy type bad pass Am talking from experience |
Re: Can A Girl Have A Bestie Without Them Having Sex? by luminouz(m): 3:36pm On Sep 05, 2020 |
chocboi78: I still dont get you. Why go through all this stress just to fuq her? 1 Like |
Re: Can A Girl Have A Bestie Without Them Having Sex? by darediamond(m): 3:37pm On Sep 05, 2020 |
confydoedowaye:You Talk from Experience!! 1 Like |
Re: Can A Girl Have A Bestie Without Them Having Sex? by Diamondniyi(m): 3:37pm On Sep 05, 2020 |
This will be the outcome 2 Likes
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Re: Can A Girl Have A Bestie Without Them Having Sex? by chocboi78(m): 3:39pm On Sep 05, 2020 |
luminouz:I don't consider it stress Coz I didn't do anything out of the ordinary for her though I could still choose not to...and she is attractive nd hot to me hence the urge to bang her.. it's simple stuffs |
Re: Can A Girl Have A Bestie Without Them Having Sex? by TruthHurts100: 3:39pm On Sep 05, 2020 |
obembet: LOL! Besties between the opposite sex is the greatest scam of all time. 2 Likes |
Re: Can A Girl Have A Bestie Without Them Having Sex? by Donbeebright(m): 3:39pm On Sep 05, 2020 |
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Re: Can A Girl Have A Bestie Without Them Having Sex? by Jerewise332(m): 3:40pm On Sep 05, 2020 |
It's very possible, at first, it depend on the understanding between both of you, there are decent girls out there who are in serious relationship but still have a male friend as her bestie nothing else attached. For instance, I've three female best friends like very close to an extend that we shared our life secrets to one another but never in my life have I try any nonsense with them or either have they done it too... One of them is married now.. So what I'm saying in essence is that just because you're exposed to some crazy girls maybe you think every other girls are like that, you're absolutely wrong. |
Re: Can A Girl Have A Bestie Without Them Having Sex? by donMIG(m): 3:42pm On Sep 05, 2020 |
Yessss But anything can happen oo... BESTIE NA SCAM... If them too dei stay inside room alone... |
Re: Can A Girl Have A Bestie Without Them Having Sex? by humilitypays(m): 3:42pm On Sep 05, 2020 |
luminouz:why should I entrust my family with any man or woman, are they God I can only ask God to watch over them and also provide them adequate security and money, that's all |
Re: Can A Girl Have A Bestie Without Them Having Sex? by luminouz(m): 3:44pm On Sep 05, 2020 |
chocboi78: Lol... Maybe its cuz I'm real and raw sha,that was why I didn't get you earlier. I'd have told the girl point blank what I wanted,not waiting and watching to pounce. If she wants to cheat on her bf, she will or she won't. At least,I won't waste my time trying to be her friend. I hadly make friends with girls who are my specs but have boyfriends. 1 Like |
Re: Can A Girl Have A Bestie Without Them Having Sex? by faithfull18(f): 3:45pm On Sep 05, 2020 |
Why not |
Re: Can A Girl Have A Bestie Without Them Having Sex? by luminouz(m): 3:47pm On Sep 05, 2020 |
humilitypays: You already answered my question. Thank you |
Re: Can A Girl Have A Bestie Without Them Having Sex? by jaxxy(m): 3:49pm On Sep 05, 2020 |
obembet: I can have a female bestie without having sex so i believe my gal can cos I pick a gal like me in attitude or close or better not worse. |
Re: Can A Girl Have A Bestie Without Them Having Sex? by chocboi78(m): 3:51pm On Sep 05, 2020 |
luminouz:I will tell her point blank what I want on the deal day, even though she knows already cause she keeps hanging around. like I said it's not a waste of my time as I didn't have to alter my normal life routines... am in college and most peeps there re for fuqs.. so one day must be one day |
Re: Can A Girl Have A Bestie Without Them Having Sex? by SeekHim: 3:51pm On Sep 05, 2020 |
A-Acknowledge the fact that you are a sinner and that you cannot save yourself. Psalms 51: 5 B- Believe that it is only Jesus that can save you. Romans 10:10, Acts 4: 12 C- Confess your sins, repent from them and be converted (Never go back to them). Romans 10: 9. Call upon Jesus to forgive you and be saved today (Romans 10:13). Follow these steps now please! Tomorrow may be too late! Death may come, Rapture may take place before you act! Don't delay!!! |
Re: Can A Girl Have A Bestie Without Them Having Sex? by Diamondniyi(m): 3:53pm On Sep 05, 2020 |
humilitypays:Lol |
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