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Re: I Am Suspecting My Wife Is Cheating. Should I Confront Her? by davidpokopikin(m): 5:55am On Sep 06, 2020 |
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Re: I Am Suspecting My Wife Is Cheating. Should I Confront Her? by FGonline: 6:01am On Sep 06, 2020 |
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Re: I Am Suspecting My Wife Is Cheating. Should I Confront Her? by abbeynism(m): 6:04am On Sep 06, 2020 |
If you can find a way to install secret app to record her calls and track her messages. It is better to have strong evidences before confronting her. |
Re: I Am Suspecting My Wife Is Cheating. Should I Confront Her? by Phrankin(m): 6:06am On Sep 06, 2020 |
nobone:They will never detach. They will forever become a national monument. |
Re: I Am Suspecting My Wife Is Cheating. Should I Confront Her? by skywalker240(m): 6:06am On Sep 06, 2020 |
Prof0fficial:100% more cute? tell that to Will smith 1 Like |
Re: I Am Suspecting My Wife Is Cheating. Should I Confront Her? by pk2me: 6:10am On Sep 06, 2020 |
That's why I will never stay in a different city with my partner. The distance is what lead to this though am not protecting your wife coz she's unfaithful. My wife once asked my to traveled out of the country in search of a greener pastures when things were very hard for me, I told her that I can only do that if both of us can do it together. My reason is that once I travels out the marriage will lose its taste as it concerns fidelity bcus she must cheat and I will do same. My wife has some bad attitude which am enduring but what I will never endure is infidelity, once she tries that the next thing is divorce,.I use to tell her that bcus I can never share my wife with another man. I will advice the Op to find an evidence and use it to confront her and the family., pls don't use magun or anything like that, those advice are coming from unmarried ones who doesn't know what marriage is all about. 2 Likes |
Re: I Am Suspecting My Wife Is Cheating. Should I Confront Her? by izubext007: 6:16am On Sep 06, 2020 |
I would advice you to insert spiritual super glue on her ............ (magun) |
Re: I Am Suspecting My Wife Is Cheating. Should I Confront Her? by MarthaGlobal: 6:17am On Sep 06, 2020 |
Association of weak men. They are always confused! This is suspect no big deal in confronting her for clarification, of course not in violence. I am tired of all this children mind set questions on NL. Be in charge of your home. Stop tuning to public for this kind matter. U are confused to rule a small family. Be a Man bro... owo8184: 1 Like |
Re: I Am Suspecting My Wife Is Cheating. Should I Confront Her? by psalmylee(m): 6:19am On Sep 06, 2020 |
DonBenny77:no be lie guy..marriage matter don tire me self..wahala everywhere.. Make I relax ,enjoy my life ..na baby mama sure pass oo 2 Likes |
Re: I Am Suspecting My Wife Is Cheating. Should I Confront Her? by Kelly2713(m): 6:23am On Sep 06, 2020 |
One hot slap will reset her brains � Me self, wetin i knw |
Re: I Am Suspecting My Wife Is Cheating. Should I Confront Her? by GuyWise101(m): 6:26am On Sep 06, 2020 |
Brachaa:Madam you are blessed. 1 Like |
Re: I Am Suspecting My Wife Is Cheating. Should I Confront Her? by nobone(f): 6:26am On Sep 06, 2020 |
Re: I Am Suspecting My Wife Is Cheating. Should I Confront Her? by ceaser: 6:26am On Sep 06, 2020 |
She'll deny if you confront her with your "assumptions". The only way to be sure to have the floor in case you confront her or in case of arbitration is to have incontrovertible evidences handy. It's certain that you need closure cos as it is you're only at the level of assumption which can be very distressing. Hard evidence will help you to negotiate to the next stage of acceptance and seeking out a solution which could be either your wife accepting her errors, apologising and you both reconciling or outrightly seeking redress in court. Either way, you find closure which helps you to move forward in life without being held back by "I'm not so sure but I'm not happy and so angry right now" thoughts. There are apps that you can install on her phone that gets your info for you. You must be willing to spend small money which would be cheaper than hiring a private investigator. Monthly subscription varies from 9k to 14k depending on the app. It gets SMS, WhatsApp messages, call records, location, pictures and videos in real time from her phone and keeps 'em stored for you until the time you log in on your computer or your mobile device to access the info. This is a link to just one of about four different types of popular apps. https://www.hoverwatch.com/ If you want the non-payment option to track only phone calls, there's a free app in the play store for that. But you will need access to her phone each time you wanna transfer (via Bluetooth) the recorded calls and call records to your own device for listening at your secluded time and place. Search for "call recorder" in the Android play store. These interventions I mentioned are basically for monitoring minors (children and wards) which was my reason for researching 'em but I guess they can work in your scenario. The only downside is you are liable to prosecution for breach of privacy and unsolicited electronic monitoring (in the case of adults like your wife) and as such they may not be admissible evidence in court. I'm not sure how it works with Nigerian legal system though. All being said, I pray your have an amicable settlement to this matrimonial wàhálà that will see your kids growing up to see their parents smile, joke and play with each other under the same roof. Even thought there is no relationship without their down moments as we are all human and not infallible but It's always a happy thing to grow up in stable families. Infidelity is one of the painful betrayals to learn about spouses, even something as little as some unknown person or suspect saying "I love you" to your spouse, can create chaos but I guess we all can use some crisis management. 2 Likes |
Re: I Am Suspecting My Wife Is Cheating. Should I Confront Her? by bekpo(m): 6:28am On Sep 06, 2020 |
shortgun: Don't use force on ur wife for whatever reason! Be diplomatic and show her u care, she will tell u d truth. |
Re: I Am Suspecting My Wife Is Cheating. Should I Confront Her? by alphaNomega: 6:30am On Sep 06, 2020 |
owo8184:you definitely chose wrongly. E dey pain pass when the person cheating on you is not even up to your standard. 1 Like |
Re: I Am Suspecting My Wife Is Cheating. Should I Confront Her? by IMASTEX: 6:31am On Sep 06, 2020 |
DonBenny77:When with the very wrong woman especially when your sole attraction was her looks & ignoring some unacceptable traits during courtship. I must tell you, a marriage automatically starts dieing when trust is absent. What has just started with the lady or the imagination of the man would take the grace of God to keep the marriage together. |
Re: I Am Suspecting My Wife Is Cheating. Should I Confront Her? by alphaNomega: 6:33am On Sep 06, 2020 |
owo8184:see free meat! Omo, this ex-guy don enjoy him weekend already. Lucky man. |
Re: I Am Suspecting My Wife Is Cheating. Should I Confront Her? by deltateam: 6:35am On Sep 06, 2020 |
owo8184: Maybe na see finish matter. |
Re: I Am Suspecting My Wife Is Cheating. Should I Confront Her? by alphaNomega: 6:35am On Sep 06, 2020 |
Palema007:Your statement "Cheats don't change" is very true and invalidates what you wrote after it. Which one be give your life to Christ? "Church girl" neva handle before na why... The type wey go fuçk-pray-fuçk × 3 in one night 1 Like |
Re: I Am Suspecting My Wife Is Cheating. Should I Confront Her? by Mavrick2012: 6:37am On Sep 06, 2020 |
JerryLekki:it's so obvious, you are sleeping with people's wife. All you are trying to do is justify your immoral actions. Just continue,one day, you will really regret your actions 1 Like |
Re: I Am Suspecting My Wife Is Cheating. Should I Confront Her? by LexzyBillz(m): 6:39am On Sep 06, 2020 |
[quote author=owo8184 post=93548028] My present financial situation also doesn't help. I believe you really need to do that bro. Cause I can categorically tell you that was what saved my marriage of 7 years. As I got married to my wife on Dubai and we were there for 5 years and we were pretty comfortable not until we relocated back home and things wasn't as smooth as predicted. She changed drastically but as God will want it I got a job on the Island with an hospitality industry which even the tips dey pay bills and I don't have to even touch my salary and boom everything became normal in a twinkle of an eye. So my brother I ll advice you work on your financial stand cause without that even if you confront her she might Def have no regret as the other guy might be financially stable. God bless you Bro. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: I Am Suspecting My Wife Is Cheating. Should I Confront Her? by alaska4life: 6:42am On Sep 06, 2020 |
Bro, sorry for this! U don't need to confront her.but u can act has a dictator.for you to get to the bottom of the this matter! |
Re: I Am Suspecting My Wife Is Cheating. Should I Confront Her? by deltateam: 6:43am On Sep 06, 2020 |
shortgun: Are you married? |
Re: I Am Suspecting My Wife Is Cheating. Should I Confront Her? by ajimotoke(m): 6:44am On Sep 06, 2020 |
Re: I Am Suspecting My Wife Is Cheating. Should I Confront Her? by Roseey0(f): 6:51am On Sep 06, 2020 |
That she is seeing or saw her ex doesn't mean she is cheating on you. Do your investigation and find out if you want to confront her . If you feel threatened, or do not trust her enough, just sit her down and make things clear to her that you don't want her to be in contact with him in anyway. But I have to ask . If she is not cheating on you, Will this ex help you in any way? That he was her ex shouldn't make him an enemy of the family. There is this story of a popular now ex governor, whose family didn't allow him marry his university girlfriend due to political affiliation. He had to marry a daughter of the cabal. The ex girlfriend later married a random guy who the governor eventually offered political appointment to help the ex, their friendship and loyalty got so intense that the governor eventually handed over the state to him. People know the story. Stop seeing your wife or husband's ex as a problem. Except you married a dog. That's the only animal that goes back to his shit. Make meaningful relationships out of them. Walk away if you feel insecure. Stop putting unnecessary pressure on yourselves 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Am Suspecting My Wife Is Cheating. Should I Confront Her? by Chigold101(m): 6:51am On Sep 06, 2020 |
owo8184:Ol boy, you want to die for nothing oh. You are just a little insecure. Let me tell you, if you allow high BP to kill you, she would be alive to live her life. My advice is that you leave monitoring your wife and focus on making your home a great one. I can't tell my wife not to talk to her ex or even hang out with him unless they are going into a hotel room or his house. Once it's in an open or public place, I don't care. Get busy and enjoy your wife. If she cheats she will stop you from eating her work. Be wise man |
Re: I Am Suspecting My Wife Is Cheating. Should I Confront Her? by Amumaigwe: 6:53am On Sep 06, 2020 |
frozen70: Going by this belief system, every wife is already adulterous and this includes the wifes of the equally adulterous men. This would mean that even the man that an adulterous woman looked upon as her more ideal & complete man (than her own husband) could not also satisfy his own wife who is also cheating. No man can satisfy a particular woman always. But different men can easily satisfy a woman at different times depending on the need of the moment. Will the woman then start jumping from one man to another because she desires to have all her needs met all the time? That will be a terrible life to live. God himself could not satisfy the woman, He created, how much less man. 1 Like |
Re: I Am Suspecting My Wife Is Cheating. Should I Confront Her? by Ategberoson(m): 6:53am On Sep 06, 2020 |
bro clone her WhatsApp and try to get her Facebook password. so that you can run check anytime you befit on your own phone checking her phone will make you lose your self esteem and she might capitalize on this if she get to know you've been checking her phone hence she will be smart to hide many things don't let her know or even have feelings you're investigating her, just cloned her WhatsApp and have her Facebook password brother you might not be the owner of all your kids perhaps that's what she and the ex is ironing out, DNA test is imminent |
Re: I Am Suspecting My Wife Is Cheating. Should I Confront Her? by NwaIgboBoy(m): 6:54am On Sep 06, 2020 |
send me her number let confront her my self.....winkzz |
Re: I Am Suspecting My Wife Is Cheating. Should I Confront Her? by Roseey0(f): 6:54am On Sep 06, 2020 |
alphaNomega:Church girl no mean say you encountered Christ. The difference is in the encounter |
Re: I Am Suspecting My Wife Is Cheating. Should I Confront Her? by Dminister(m): 6:54am On Sep 06, 2020 |
Why are you loose guarding yourself na? Haba! Stop being a weak man. When you don't confront her that makes her feel you are not smart. Learn when to protect your wife against external forces. You have to be in charge and not letting her be in charge. You can't be a slowpoke by not confronting her. You want her to get too attach with the guy before you act? Just act on time before the guy rubbishes your nacking skills totally. Remember the more chance you give them to meet, the more they get attached. Man up and take charge before it is too late. 1 Like |
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