wonderkid619:



OP obembet let's be besties and we won't have sex �
Cross my heart

obembet:


It can't work dear. I have one already. And we never do anything.. We hug, Peck but we promise never to do anything

Aimerosa25:
Of course yes, it depends on what d friendship is built on.

Ejenavi18:
It's possible op.
Just like someone said up there, it depends on what the friendship is built on.
I have male friends whom I'm very close to, more like besties but we have boundaries.

Ejenavi18:
It's possible op.
Just like someone said up there, it depends on what the friendship is built on.
I have male friends whom I'm very close to, more like besties but we have boundaries.

lefulefu:
a girl can have a normal male friend butr when e don pass dat normal friend level to bestie level then guy they both sleeping with each other

Aguogba:
It is 100% possible. Just that 99.99 percent of "genuine male besties" are natural gays. While choir master, church brother, reading mate, etc are all included in the remaining 0.01 FsWB.

Ancient Egyptian, Roman and Persian empires all used Eunochs as male servants. Na to avoid stories that touch.

obembet:


It can't work dear. I have one already. And we never do anything.. We hug, Peck but we promise never to do anything

obembet:
Most Nigerian guys believe that it's total scam for a Lady to have a male friend as bestie when they in serious relationship.

But the truth there is that most ladies prefer a male Friend as bestie because ladies believe that men are more secretive than ladies and its more easier to get good advice from a guys than Ladies.

So can you allow your girlfriend to have male friend as bestie?

obembet:
Most Nigerian guys believe that it's total scam for a Lady to have a male friend as bestie when they in serious relationship.

But the truth there is that most ladies prefer a male Friend as bestie because ladies believe that men are more secretive than ladies and its more easier to get good advice from a guys than Ladies.

So can you allow your girlfriend to have male friend as bestie?

culf:



True!!

Mavrick2012:
why do ladies like playing with fire but come back crying when they get burnt?

Aimerosa25:
thanks for understanding

Daguccizgreat:
On the contrary I have a female bestie whom I have known for a long time but we have never initiated sex. It's all about principles I think

obembet:


It can't work dear. I have one already. And we never do anything.. We hug, Peck but we promise never to do anything

culf:



you're welcome.

Happy Sunday

Aimerosa25:
same to u bro

culf:



thanks.

bdchange:
I will use my case as an example. I have a very female close friend. We met during my last year in secondary school which is over 10 years now. We became very close that we spend time at each other's house. Our family knows each other, she lives third street from mine. Sometimes she stays late in my place and I also do the same. She later had a bf. She was having issues with the bf because of me but I never cared since we were just friends. We did a lot together and talked about many things. Later I started having feelings for her in which she knows. I later controlled myself because I decided to value the friendship than starting a relationship which may have grumbled later on. We went to university differently and still communicate. Right now we are both matured and still close. She later told me of recent what transpired between she and her guy because of me. She really loved the guy but he doesn't want to believe that she was just a friend with me. According to her, he always complained that why is she in my place all the times. Whenever he visit or calls, it is either she is with me or I am with her. I couldn't understand the guy's perspective by then but now I know better. I sat her down and explain some certain things to her in which we both got wrong. I told her now I would have acted otherwise and she was also insensitive towards the guy's emotions. I told her no friend should be closer to you than your bf or someone you claim to love. You must be able to balance your friendship with your relationship. She was in my place this year and spend two days in my house. I only allowed that because she was not in any relationship as of then. I told her I won't allow it if she is in a relationship for reasons I explained to her. We are still close till now and have never had sex or any romance for over 10 years now. So, yes you can but it must not be with everyone.

Aimerosa25:
your welcome

Aimerosa25:
depends on d lady bro