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Re: I Am Suspecting My Wife Is Cheating. Should I Confront Her? by frozen70(f): 8:48am On Sep 06, 2020 |
donnie: The men that killed thier wives, have they not ever cheated on their wives ? 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: I Am Suspecting My Wife Is Cheating. Should I Confront Her? by tiswell(m): 8:52am On Sep 06, 2020 |
Chydo63:Lies!!!! The sugar mummies that usually dole out wands of cash to young guys are married to rich husbands yet they cheat. WOMEN naturally are INSATIABLE |
Re: I Am Suspecting My Wife Is Cheating. Should I Confront Her? by delkuf(m): 8:52am On Sep 06, 2020 |
Brachaa:Ok. Happy Sunday. Are you in church already |
Re: I Am Suspecting My Wife Is Cheating. Should I Confront Her? by studentofTruth: 8:59am On Sep 06, 2020 |
the fact that you have kids is the only thing there if not ... I for advice you to free her ..so I would say focus on your kids and also remember NO HUMAN BEING is worth your happiness! This is why serious relationship and marriage seems very a tough one for me. I'm a straightforward guy with a thinking mind; I can't play such games. I don't have that time — I mean, instead of focusing my mind on bringing my y interesting ideas to fruition, I would be trying to figure out what she's up to and which act to put up. That'll be a total waste of my grey matter that should be used in creating value. I didn't come to this world to play women's game. I'm here to add value to the world. Women have made marriage a necessary evil because of the society we live in. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: I Am Suspecting My Wife Is Cheating. Should I Confront Her? by onome2013: 9:00am On Sep 06, 2020 |
Magun option is the best to put everything to rest. More so the next woman that will come to your life SHALL never repeat such an act . Go ahead and magun her. |
Re: I Am Suspecting My Wife Is Cheating. Should I Confront Her? by onatisi(m): 9:02am On Sep 06, 2020 |
lolz well on serious note , i am yet to see a very successful rich man who has enough time to be stalking and monitoring his wife . 1 Like |
Re: I Am Suspecting My Wife Is Cheating. Should I Confront Her? by Kriss216: 9:03am On Sep 06, 2020 |
Palema007:So, you can make valid point in this life? God be praised. 1 Like |
Re: I Am Suspecting My Wife Is Cheating. Should I Confront Her? by ceaser: 9:08am On Sep 06, 2020 |
Daughterboard: You mean a M-ake A-dulteress G-um U-nto N-icely |
Re: I Am Suspecting My Wife Is Cheating. Should I Confront Her? by studentofTruth: 9:14am On Sep 06, 2020 |
onatisi: I can't like your post enough. Like seriously? Making her the subject of my equation. Too much time. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: I Am Suspecting My Wife Is Cheating. Should I Confront Her? by Yeyenairaland(m): 9:16am On Sep 06, 2020 |
You and your wife had a problem as married couples and she started seeing another man? And you say the call it off after both of you resolved your issues? And you're here telling me that infidelity is what you can't tolerate ...when you have been tolerating INFIDELITY all these while. Hmm some guys d try oo |
Re: I Am Suspecting My Wife Is Cheating. Should I Confront Her? by Bimpe29: 9:19am On Sep 06, 2020 |
Hmmm! The root cause is to be tackled not the effects, that is to say you are to properly consider this in a larger perspective. If you do confront her or catch her red-handed, the root cause will still give her room to continue in the alleged extra marital affairs. However, if you can consider living together with her either in Lagos or your place of work, then the problem is 99% solved. Staying apart is the cause and being suspicious is the effect. You have less risky scenario when you live together as family. My humble advice. |
Re: I Am Suspecting My Wife Is Cheating. Should I Confront Her? by onatisi(m): 9:23am On Sep 06, 2020 |
boss, since i got married i have NEVER NEVER LOOKED THROUGH THE PHONE OF My WIFE OR EVEN BOTHERED ANSWERING HER PHONE ,if it rings from now till tomorrow i wont pick it . i am just too damm busy that even 24hours is not enough for me at times. that is why i always laugh when i hear or read about men crying or lamenting about their wives infidelity . what many men dont understand is , if man is rich ,successful and powerful ,it is the mans wife that will be monitoring him , stalking him and making sure that no other woman snatches away her husband , but when it the other way round then definitely such a man really does have serious problems, Get busy ,get rich , get successful and see how women will willingly submit themselves to you wholly and totally studentofTruth: 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: I Am Suspecting My Wife Is Cheating. Should I Confront Her? by josite: 9:23am On Sep 06, 2020 |
all humans cheat in one way or the other,even u.just do dna and stop sniffing around unless u dont want long and peaceful life |
Re: I Am Suspecting My Wife Is Cheating. Should I Confront Her? by mozele(m): 9:32am On Sep 06, 2020 |
KristaPretty: Krista you use style wicked in your own wayy o... That option 3 fit make her commit suicide because of the guilt nw |
Re: I Am Suspecting My Wife Is Cheating. Should I Confront Her? by Galadimabawa: 9:34am On Sep 06, 2020 |
give her enough nacks that she will be cripple please can you explain the meaning of this to me? |
Re: I Am Suspecting My Wife Is Cheating. Should I Confront Her? by DaddyGngeess(m): 9:37am On Sep 06, 2020 |
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Re: I Am Suspecting My Wife Is Cheating. Should I Confront Her? by lilyheaven: 9:39am On Sep 06, 2020 |
Re: I Am Suspecting My Wife Is Cheating. Should I Confront Her? by spiceadole: 9:41am On Sep 06, 2020 |
owo8184: See how this story is paining men on this forum. Same people who proudly and irresponsibly indulge in adultery with no remorse. They can't swallow a tiny pill of what they serve. Clowns! @OP... My advice to you 1.Find out what you do that makes your wife go out to meet other men. 2.Look into your character and change the bad parts.Be soft spoken,love her and talk to her calmly. 3. Wear clean clothes,change your underwear regularly. Wear good perfumes.Stop wearing Adieu Papa,APC/PDP T-Shirt.. 4.Stop checking your wife's phone. Stay away from her phone. What you don't know cannot kill you. 5.Use protection, if you must have sex with her. 6.Pray! Pray!! Pray!!! There is also power in a praying man. Fast and Pray against strange men that want to destroy your home. God hates divorce. 7.Hustle and improve your finances. And most importantly.. 8..Watch WAR ROOM(the male version). Hope this helps. PS: This is the same advice that women with adulterous husbands are given. What is good for the goose is good for the gander. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Am Suspecting My Wife Is Cheating. Should I Confront Her? by Akaneren(m): 9:42am On Sep 06, 2020 |
My brother.... a cheating woman is always a cheating woman, are sure the kids are even yours? Alright, to justify your curiosity, look for a way and catch her in the act. After that, if you really love her, talk things out with her, she may change but she don't, sent her away to continue with her infidelity. |
Re: I Am Suspecting My Wife Is Cheating. Should I Confront Her? by onatisi(m): 9:43am On Sep 06, 2020 |
abi ooo, both male and female we all cheat at one time or the other , i doubt if we can find 5% couples who have not cheated on one. But one thing i have noticed is that when a man cheats on his wife and he is not scared nor afraid of his wife knowing then such woman needs to know she is a total failure , no man will ever want his rich successful wife to know about his extra marital affairs because he wont want to lose her. the same too goes for a woman too, when a woman is not afraid and is careless to let her husband know about her affairs , then such a man should know that he is a failure in one aspect or the other . Women are the most discreet when it comes to concealing things and if a woman gives a slip up, it isnt carelessness , she intentionally did it . it is obvious from the op story that the woman isnt interested or happy in the marriage , she wants out, if she wants out , just let her go , if you dont want her to go then accept her behavior and move on josite: |
Re: I Am Suspecting My Wife Is Cheating. Should I Confront Her? by RPG2020(m): 9:43am On Sep 06, 2020 |
lilyheaven: You need d!ck not Christ |
Re: I Am Suspecting My Wife Is Cheating. Should I Confront Her? by lilyheaven: 9:48am On Sep 06, 2020 |
RPG2020:You de sell d!ck? |
Re: I Am Suspecting My Wife Is Cheating. Should I Confront Her? by studentofTruth: 9:50am On Sep 06, 2020 |
onatisi: Yeah bro. That's what some people don't understand. |
Re: I Am Suspecting My Wife Is Cheating. Should I Confront Her? by okikiosibodu(m): 9:59am On Sep 06, 2020 |
owo8184:Kindly reply your pm |
Re: I Am Suspecting My Wife Is Cheating. Should I Confront Her? by Alamuro1(m): 10:06am On Sep 06, 2020 |
Get enough and clear evidences first. Then, inform her parents |
Re: I Am Suspecting My Wife Is Cheating. Should I Confront Her? by Prosdan: 10:18am On Sep 06, 2020 |
Don't fight over woman but let her know that u know all she is doing and be a man to move on with ur life |
Re: I Am Suspecting My Wife Is Cheating. Should I Confront Her? by Miliano00(m): 10:18am On Sep 06, 2020 |
Have I seen Anybody more Senseless than You Today ?.....No......Bring Your Wife Make I lash......Mr Open Relationship JerryLekki: |
Re: I Am Suspecting My Wife Is Cheating. Should I Confront Her? by OOLUSEG(m): 10:26am On Sep 06, 2020 |
owo8184: You are very funny! You came to a site full of secondary students and unmarried seeking for advice about your marital life. I think you better look elsewhere. More so, you are working yourself up on your own suspicion and unfounded evidence, is she also motoring you while your are far away? I will advice you to stop checking your wife phone. Your responsibility is to love your wife and provide for the family, leave the rest for God. |
Re: I Am Suspecting My Wife Is Cheating. Should I Confront Her? by Santsal: 10:34am On Sep 06, 2020 |
Op, call and tell her ( not ask) that you know what she's been up to and any more suspicious moves, you'll call a family meeting and take a decision before she infects you with a disease. Be blunt and stop shaking like a jelly fish. I support the above 100%. Be decisive before you become a victim [/quote] |
Re: I Am Suspecting My Wife Is Cheating. Should I Confront Her? by royalamour(m): 10:35am On Sep 06, 2020 |
KristaPretty: Deep conversation huh? This is the very irritating nonsense I hate most. As a married lady, she knows the dos and don'ts. What deep conversation? As if the lady did not know that she is committing a sacrilege. Oga, I advise you to calmly divorce, take custody of your kids and move on. Let her go and marry those men. |
Re: I Am Suspecting My Wife Is Cheating. Should I Confront Her? by Rawhumper(m): 10:37am On Sep 06, 2020 |
[ You gave wonderful options but magun is an evil even though what she is doing is not right. Plz dont encourage the use of magun for people, it is witchcraft too. Even i, myself wont do such to a cheating wife. I rather divorce her simple and go my way. quote author=KristaPretty post=93547334]Find a way to catch her red handed, let her know that she has been caught in the act. Secondly this needs a deep conversation between you both. During your discussion questions like what you are not doing right should be asked from you to her or what you are lacking that she needs you to work on in order to be better. Remember women are easily fooled by words they are told, try to complement her often give her enough nacks that she will be cripple. In general just converse with her heart to heart when there is a good mood in the house or at night. Finally, please use magun on her so that she and any man she straffs will gum together This is not a joking matter and infidelity should never be tolerated in Marriage. This is to save you from unnecessary heartaches and diseases! If she is tired it's better for her to leave so she can do whatever ahe wants without hiding or giving you emotional torture. she cannot eat her cake and have it! I gave you options, chose one. Option 3 is fastest. no time. You better act fast before she is brainwashed like baby fish and conive with her lover to kill you or take your money and render you useless.[/quote] |
Re: I Am Suspecting My Wife Is Cheating. Should I Confront Her? by ensamy(m): 10:37am On Sep 06, 2020 |
You should also start cheating so the game will balance up. If she cheat again , you bring your own into the house and lay her on your matrimonial bed and keep knacking. She will then stop. |
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