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Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by antiApc(m): 8:31pm On Sep 04, 2020 |
stanliwise: Oh alright bro....thanks a lot This will go a long way |
Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by Nobody: 4:55am On Sep 05, 2020 |
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Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by sonyc00(m): 11:39am On Sep 05, 2020 |
Bros help me out. There is a girl i usually see around my street, and i normally just look at her then go my way. Our eyes jam most of the time, but we dont talk. So i took the initiative to approach her early this week. But when i was talking to her she was giving me monosyllabic answers, and acting like she had some where to be. So i just told her that its like you are busy, and she said yes. So i just told her to go, and have a nice day. But the next day, when she saw me, she took the initiative to wave. When i told her to wait, it was like she was in a hurry, so she was just laughing as she left. But the day after that, she was walking along with her kid brother, and just acted like she didn't know me. Please am i reading too much into this, or am i being taken for a ride here. |
Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by Uzomacharles: 12:05pm On Sep 05, 2020 |
sonyc00: You have to play hard to get cos she thinks you need her by all means and looks like you told her "she's beautiful? 1 Like |
Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by sonyc00(m): 12:26pm On Sep 05, 2020 |
Uzomacharles:No i did nothing of the sort. Our first conversation was me saying i wanted to talk to her, and get to know her. |
Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by Saig: 12:32pm On Sep 05, 2020 |
HARDDON:How about one always claiming to be busy, she come back from work late and replies after some days |
Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by stanliwise(m): 1:39pm On Sep 05, 2020 |
sonyc00: Next time if a girl reply you such be the first to take a graceful leave and don’t ask the naughty question “Seem you are busy” Only God knows the questions you were asking her. Please next time don’t go asking questions? Are you a professor. When next you wanna speak with the a girl, you discuss. If you have nothing to say just greet and let her go, if you notice something you want to comment about then do. You can whine a girl to start a conversation e.g “I saw you the other day and you pretend like you didn’t see me”?. ”It seem like you travelled I haven’t seen you for sometime”(this should be true tho) Speak and do narration of event and observation/happening that she and you can relate to. It is difficult for people to response to event/observation based conversation with one line and flow with the conversation. Reverse psychology and guessing is part of the game. Disclaimer: Some people hate discussion 4 Likes |
Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by stanliwise(m): 1:55pm On Sep 05, 2020 |
Uzomacharles:Play hard to get when you are the one chasing?? He need to stop giving the wrong impression that’s all. From “I need you in my life” to “I think you’re cool” 1 Like |
Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by Nobody: 2:35pm On Sep 05, 2020 |
sonyc00:Don't show eagerness and desperation, she may prey on that, just be patient and act normal |
Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by Uzomacharles: 5:05pm On Sep 05, 2020 |
stanliwise: Check your email bro |
Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by sonyc00(m): 6:13pm On Sep 05, 2020 |
stanliwise:Okay bro, i will do as you have suggested. |
Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by sonyc00(m): 6:14pm On Sep 05, 2020 |
Macsjebs:Okay, i will do so. |
Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by stanliwise(m): 8:15pm On Sep 05, 2020 |
Uzomacharles:I have replied. |
Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by stanliwise(m): 8:18pm On Sep 05, 2020 |
Uzomacharles:I have responded 1 Like |
Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by mygee2(m): 12:30pm On Sep 06, 2020 |
LeiderJa:I've tried these she is trying to get intimate but I'm shunning it for now |
Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by Mrmayy: 7:28pm On Sep 06, 2020 |
[quote author=stanliwise post=93598753] Brothers with great work here, pls I need your help... There is this girl in my department, she always acted as if she liked me but I didn't used to give her face, I can recall like three occasions where I have neglected her in sch because I wasn't ready to start anything with her though I like her( found out that I had unconsciously played hard to get with her when going through Hardron's posts). Then after we finished a semester and then I started talking to her and giving her face, but I wasn't much available ( she wasn't much around as well) because of academic works until we finished the session and then we were on holiday and then developed the gut to ask her out on WhatsApp using voice note( we were then at home and our states are far from each other).. I asked her out that night, telling her I like her and the type of person she is and that I understand how she has been behaving to me. Immediately she replied with VN back that, it is nice to be friendly and been hospitable to people around you but she wasn't ready for a relationship and that she wanted to focus on her studies more.. I tried to convince her that we can focus more together and achieve good things together but she insisted she is not ready for a 'boyfriend-girlfriend relationship' as she said. Guys help how do I go about it to win her to my side, I realize now that I shouldn't have asked her out.. pls help.. I have been trying to be friendly, jovial and cool with her while chatting on WhatsApp during this lockdown, but she isn't the social media type ( even when we were in sch), she might not login to her WhatsApp for like 5days or a week, thereby delay replying me on time plus her conversation is a monosyllabic type ( she has been like this even when she was drooling over me). Sometimes I decide to call her and we talk for a while (mostly about sch stuffs or things happening) but I can't feel her drooling again at all.. I really like this girl, Hardron and other real Nigazz here please help a brother. |
Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by stanliwise(m): 8:31pm On Sep 06, 2020 |
Mrmayy:To start with, how did you know she is crazy over you?? Are you in her mind? Please right now just say you think she likes you somehow, or she likes your company. Don’t carry the she likes me mentality, you go chop heartbreak o. Meanwhile from the way you sound it seem like you are giving her a lot of your time and I like to know exactly why? As a friend or so that you can win her heart?? The only reason you should stay with someone you are attracted to is to build more bonding. Bonding means talking about your experience and things share your moment, and then get a little bit physical. It must create Romantic vibes and energy 70% of the time and friendliness/comfort 30% of the time Now you confessed your feelings, answer this? - Did she give you an interest of being a girlfriend? - Did she make some commitment that warrant such proposal? You just look like a man who went on random to propose to a neighbor you know for sometime but barely know intimately. This is wrong etiquette. People propose when they see value, quality and commitment. From now on you have to punish her behavior, for the next one month focus on yourself and if she greet you then respond objectively to her response(Be careful don’t show anger or frustration), reply cool calm and collected and make every discussion brief. after this one month text her and check on her, make little play and talk then disappear. Next check up should be at unpredictable intervals and you can use event to do so too. If you see her, do normal greetings, lite jokes and move ahead. The more she start dropping her guard the more friendly and romantic you become, don’t ever be ahead of her. Sync it On your part, have an open mind and if you’re chanced to date other girls, please do, don’t ever place your heart in the hand of any girl. And lastly don’t be her friend. YOU CAN ONLY BE HER LOVER FIRST AND THEN A FRIEND. IT BARELY EVER WORKS THE OTHER WAY ROUND. 1 Like |
Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by Uzomacharles: 8:49pm On Sep 06, 2020 |
HOW DO I AVOID RUNNING OUT OF WORDS/SHY WHILE TALKING TO A GIRL Need Help |
Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by Mrmayy: 1:34am On Sep 07, 2020 |
stanliwise: [b][/b] Thanks bro, I wasn't expecting a quick response.. pls guide me through with the answers I provided up there |
Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by mrsteel: 7:24am On Sep 07, 2020 |
Mrmayy:Why don't u young boys of this generation know when to draw d line & stop chasing after a girl? You don't need any guide, simply ignore her & stop making baseless assumption of she drooling over u, when in d actual sense u are the one drooling over her! Let her be & move onto the next one! 7 Likes |
Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by louisobire7: 9:41am On Sep 07, 2020 |
[color=#006600][/color]Good morning house.. please there's this issue that has been on my mind for some days now.. my ex girlfriend (of over a year now) just texted me on WhatsApp with a new number. Saying her name was faith, clearly it was not.. so I just chatted with the person ( I never knew it was her) for about a day.. she requested for a video call the next day, that was when I saw her.. but I turned off my camera, so she was unable to see me ( I haven't seen or talked to her for over 8 months because I was really heartbroken lol! But at some point she would text me on WhatsApp or give me a beep on my phone, but I never replied any of her number or tried to contact her in anyway for that period) until last week. And that day I was high(On weed). When I saw her on the video call, she then sent a voice note if I was scared to see her, and why is my voice like someone who has smoked, What is wrong with me, she basically wanted to start a conversation with me like old times. I got angry sent a voice that she can not just start texting me and saying rubbish. That if she wants to have a conversation that's not the way to start talking to someone and also told her if she can actually know someone who has smoked through voice note. I even asked why she messaged me. She did not even apologize, she just asked me if it's a bad thing to message me. I just told her basically that She does not know how to apologize when she's wrong and that's her problem and i don't have anything against her o. That I don't think she is someone I want to have a conversation with at all. So I am really confused. I don't think I did the right thing. please I need advice.. 2 Likes |
Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by DeusMagnus: 10:07am On Sep 07, 2020 |
louisobire7:what are you coming confused about? |
Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by stanliwise(m): 10:32am On Sep 07, 2020 |
Mrmayy:From what you said I don’t know if she likes you romantically or maybe she she does but she is afraid of being committed. If she is afraid of commitment then all you need to do is to sweet talk her into everything, although I hate when people make promises, but you can sweet talk the future and customize the reality of you both if she agrees to make commitment. On the other hand I think you shouldn’t let your emotion over the place for this kind of girls. Like always have at the back of your mind that this kind of girls act naively based on peer advise and many things. They are unreliable. She could either be the materialistic type of girl or the decent type. Those two kind of girls are afraid of commitment. One needs the material/rich boyfriends, the other needs a responsible partner. I don’t know who she is. But one way to know if a girl likes you is how much of attention and time she dedicates when you are around her, forget the comment and silly “I like you“ joke, does she concentrate and invest time when it comes to you? 5 Likes |
Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by Mrmayy: 3:15pm On Sep 07, 2020 |
stanliwise: Hmm, I get you.. Thanks bro, at least if I don't get her I learned a lesson already. I have decided to leave her and focus on other girls till we resume and then call her one day. |
Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by Mrmayy: 3:27pm On Sep 07, 2020 |
stanliwise: You are right on the part of commitment, I think she is afraid of being committed cos of her studies.. She told me that she does not want a relationship presently and she wants to focus more on her studies. I was even thinking that if I am of help to her and she improves academically (consider myself brilliant than she is, she also knows), may be she might give me a chance. But I will not talk with her now till we resume and we see each other. Thanks |
Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by luckyisrael: 11:57pm On Sep 08, 2020 |
Hello @ harddon I'm in a relationship or I'd rather call it a situationship . Earlier this year a girl tried to woo me into a relationship which I finally fell for because I eventually liked her and the vibe she brings to the table, we had our moments and things where going pretty smoothly. Then all of a sudden I noticed 2 months ago she stopped calling, stopped replying my text, even whatsapp messages she doesn't send,she only calls back when she sees my miss call and we talk pretty well. I've tried to talk to her about the whole thing about she acting up, if she doesn't want me anymore she should state it and I'll walk away, but she keeps this positive attitude that we are cool and the same time we haven't seen each other for a while now, and I've been trying to hook us up, but she seems not interested in meeting me @ the moment and keeps telling me we'll meet soon blah blah....what should I do, cus I really like her,.. I think we've lost our mojo� |
Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by Adekunlegold9ja: 9:04pm On Sep 09, 2020 |
Boss Hardon and other gurus here Unfortunately I have fallen into the dreadiest zones in relationship. I have been friendzoned. The lady keep on calling though. I need an advice on what to do. I have been thinking of ignoring her but I feel it's gonna look like I am desperate or probably a bad person. Because the girl in question is actually good and she had done a lot good things for me I won't ever forget. |
Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by LeiderJa: 12:16am On Sep 11, 2020 |
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Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by Otisker(m): 1:37am On Sep 11, 2020 |
I met this girl in school. She is this type of girl with sort of arrogant behavior. I began to like her so I got close to her. Just when I thought everything was flowing well, she responds well to our discussion, She can actually be nice, I told her that I like her. This girl began to whine me she pretend not to know what am talking about always replying thank u when ever I say I like her. This has continued for days and am now frustrated. Advice please |
Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by Alphaman007: 2:21am On Sep 11, 2020 |
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Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by lograr(m): 10:22am On Sep 11, 2020 |
Otisker:Take a very cold water and calm your nerves. Pretend like you never told her you like her. If you keep crushing on her, she will start using you. Go for another girl 4 Likes |
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