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Re: Is It Really Difficult To Find A Life Partner In US Or Canada? by Davidonkonsults: 5:06pm On Sep 08, 2020 |
Nooil:Happy grandma's day. 3 Likes |
Re: Is It Really Difficult To Find A Life Partner In US Or Canada? by Amumaigwe: 5:06pm On Sep 08, 2020 |
Petyprincess: Those living abroad are telling you what obtaines in their clime, but a local girl like you whose fate has been sealed with Nigeria forever but has a disproportionate larger-than- life ego will still argue. This same trait you are displaying is what abroad based bachelors loathe in our ladies. Haba! 39 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Is It Really Difficult To Find A Life Partner In US Or Canada? by AristocraticMe: 5:07pm On Sep 08, 2020 |
Davidonkonsults:You are correct Nigerian women have WAHALA plenty..... we as Nigerians are use to them....... but when you find a good Nigerian girl, then you found one.... same as well to other nationality as well.... if you find a good one, then you found one. 5 Likes |
Re: Is It Really Difficult To Find A Life Partner In US Or Canada? by Nobody: 5:07pm On Sep 08, 2020 |
flyca:Adorable. Thanks for sharing 3 Likes |
Re: Is It Really Difficult To Find A Life Partner In US Or Canada? by Nobody: 5:07pm On Sep 08, 2020 |
Re: Is It Really Difficult To Find A Life Partner In US Or Canada? by Princedapace(m): 5:08pm On Sep 08, 2020 |
Kekereekun123:It is not important to u but important to her na. Allow her enjoy her importance. Some humans want to get married, make babies and raise families. That is their choice. That is important to them. Why are some of u trying to sound woke? Marriage is not important to u, that is fine. It is important to her, that is fine too. My dear lady op, pls ur questions are valid. May God grant u ur heart desire. 17 Likes |
Re: Is It Really Difficult To Find A Life Partner In US Or Canada? by Davidonkonsults: 5:11pm On Sep 08, 2020 |
AristocraticMe:True. It's however akin to a needle in haysack search. One is crying in my mentions for highlighting the fact that for marriage, Nigerian men outside see them as non-viable options. They on the other hand know other nationalities can't tolerate their toxic nature. We marry them here out of lack of options and children. 5 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Is It Really Difficult To Find A Life Partner In US Or Canada? by Davidonkonsults: 5:11pm On Sep 08, 2020 |
Nooil:Happy grandma's day. |
Re: Is It Really Difficult To Find A Life Partner In US Or Canada? by Davidonkonsults: 5:12pm On Sep 08, 2020 |
Nooil:*boy's. Get an education. Maybe someone will marry your menopausal ass. 2 Likes |
Re: Is It Really Difficult To Find A Life Partner In US Or Canada? by Nobody: 5:13pm On Sep 08, 2020 |
whodeyhere:Beautiful |
Re: Is It Really Difficult To Find A Life Partner In US Or Canada? by Dybala11(m): 5:15pm On Sep 08, 2020 |
deji17:What's wrong with Carribean men or women?? My aunt in the U.S seems happily married to a Carribean man bro, so I'm confused cos of your statement concerning Carribean men and women. 1 Like |
Re: Is It Really Difficult To Find A Life Partner In US Or Canada? by Luper123(m): 5:15pm On Sep 08, 2020 |
sherylbakky:Heavy overload. 1 Like |
Re: Is It Really Difficult To Find A Life Partner In US Or Canada? by Nobody: 5:15pm On Sep 08, 2020 |
Kennydoc:wao. Pricesless 1 Like |
Re: Is It Really Difficult To Find A Life Partner In US Or Canada? by Nobody: 5:18pm On Sep 08, 2020 |
Davidonkonsults: Happy boys day |
Re: Is It Really Difficult To Find A Life Partner In US Or Canada? by yahmohy27: 5:18pm On Sep 08, 2020 |
Mbdovey:Don't mind them jare Better still marry to a man and fly out together. My advice though |
Re: Is It Really Difficult To Find A Life Partner In US Or Canada? by Nobody: 5:19pm On Sep 08, 2020 |
Tatashi:But I thought it's not allowed to beat up your spouse? You mean there's domestic violence there? |
Re: Is It Really Difficult To Find A Life Partner In US Or Canada? by Kennydoc(m): 5:21pm On Sep 08, 2020 |
Mbdovey:Yeah, the woman was diagnosed with Multiple Sclerosis few years into their marriage around 1982 or so. They were told she wouldn't live for very long. Just about then, he resigned his job to care for her. It's been over 35 years since then. There are very many Westerners who care for their spouses full time and many of them do it with all sense of responsibility. They feel proud being the primary carers of their spouses. This is one of the reasons why I believe marriage is still very necessary even in the West. 10 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Is It Really Difficult To Find A Life Partner In US Or Canada? by yahmohy27: 5:22pm On Sep 08, 2020 |
From all the comments above ,it is better you get someone (good man) ,then travel out together if possible 1 Like |
Re: Is It Really Difficult To Find A Life Partner In US Or Canada? by antocreative: 5:22pm On Sep 08, 2020 |
All ye men here that I bashing Nigerian women make me laugh! I know must of you are washing pant of the so-called white women. Brothers, pls don't pay heed to them! It is far better to marry your fellow Nigerian, except you are not a real man who wants his posterity to live on forever. Checkout men on their old age who married whites back then, do they look happy to you? As for me, I will go back home and marry and I will commit it to the hands of GOD. I wnt my posterity to live on and I dont want to have children who might have identity crises. Most of you talking rubbish about the Nigerian women have never been outside the country before. You also suffer from serious inferiority complex! If you are a true son of the soil, marry from your heritage, it pays in the long run! Forget the flashy white women of the west! 5 Likes |
Re: Is It Really Difficult To Find A Life Partner In US Or Canada? by frozen70(f): 5:23pm On Sep 08, 2020 |
Mbdovey: I think when you get there, there are chances of getting a life partner But you have to be humble to get whatever you want to get because most of them there are already established in one way or the other and you are not expected to lord him or her 2 Likes |
Re: Is It Really Difficult To Find A Life Partner In US Or Canada? by madjune(m): 5:23pm On Sep 08, 2020 |
Adex2442: President ke? There's nothing like "arrogancy" It's simply put as arrogance. And, pride and arrogance are way the same thing. One is enough in that sentence. |
Re: Is It Really Difficult To Find A Life Partner In US Or Canada? by Nobody: 5:24pm On Sep 08, 2020 |
Dybala11:Story story. |
Re: Is It Really Difficult To Find A Life Partner In US Or Canada? by AristocraticMe: 5:25pm On Sep 08, 2020 |
Davidonkonsults:Lol........... truth be told ......... You are correct. ..... 100%...... though there are good Nigerian women but it is not too many... i think their over entitlement attitude is their problem. 9 Likes |
Re: Is It Really Difficult To Find A Life Partner In US Or Canada? by PerseDew(f): 5:25pm On Sep 08, 2020 |
I think Nigerians (esp ladies) abroad have a phobia for other races. I am not judging their fears especially when it's legit like not bathing, quitting marriage without notice, kids from such union may suffer from identity issues or you are just not attracted to other races but the ones that think they will disappoint their family or fear to be gossiped about in their circle abroad and be tagged as someone that is just chasing papers should think well if they meet someone that likes them and they like the person back plus he seems to be well grounded, takes his bath daily and it seems both of you can work on having children that embrace their biracial identities. I say this because I think it looks some type of way when you keep looking for a Nigerian (some even travel to Nigeria/village) to marry without any good reason when the possiblity of your kids (that you will still raise in the abroad esp in countries with few africans) to marry someone they love from another race is really high and then you probably settled for someone that is not so into you or you don't really like but still married because he/she is Nigerian. 9 Likes |
Re: Is It Really Difficult To Find A Life Partner In US Or Canada? by antocreative: 5:26pm On Sep 08, 2020 |
Davidonkonsults: Obviously, you have never experienced other women! Honestly, you reek of inferiority complex! Hope you realise, most of the things we average Nigerian men get away with, with Nigerian girls and African girls, most white ladies and akatas will NEVER tolerate them. Things you can do to a Nigerian girl and she'll overlook, a white or akata woman will never tolerate, except you are ready to be a doormat, which most of my Nigerian friend that married whites are. Over here, it is not as easy as you think! 8 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Is It Really Difficult To Find A Life Partner In US Or Canada? by Leopantro: 5:26pm On Sep 08, 2020 |
eejo: This right here. I have been dodging some people because right in Nigeria they were ready to send me their numbers so I will start chatting with women i have no clue about. Wait first, let me lick snow before i start dating 2 Likes |
Re: Is It Really Difficult To Find A Life Partner In US Or Canada? by frozen70(f): 5:27pm On Sep 08, 2020 |
dingbang: Getting married to someone from your nationality can't be measured with getting married to another nationality It's always cheaper to keep them as a wife but most times more beneficial to women who married foreigners |
Re: Is It Really Difficult To Find A Life Partner In US Or Canada? by Davidonkonsults: 5:28pm On Sep 08, 2020 |
antocreative:I have experienced other African women. A lot. However you have been noticed. Now crawl out. I didn't cause your frustration. 5 Likes |
Re: Is It Really Difficult To Find A Life Partner In US Or Canada? by Nobody: 5:28pm On Sep 08, 2020 |
Kekereekun123:This got me laughing ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() As funny as it is, you are very right |
Re: Is It Really Difficult To Find A Life Partner In US Or Canada? by ashawopikin(m): 5:29pm On Sep 08, 2020 |
Mbdovey:sex partner easy but life partner, very difficult |
Re: Is It Really Difficult To Find A Life Partner In US Or Canada? by 360command: 5:32pm On Sep 08, 2020 |
Before I start let me just say we are all different, one might have it easy, the other might get it by luck and another might be hard to get it.. It is not easy marrying in America. Then, people go like ,white women love the black .... well, it might be true but a few do and even though they like the black skin or d**k, it does not necessarily mean they would marry you except there are circumstances involve in it. In America, not everyone values marriage and as Africans, we are quick to say "marry me". When you keep it that way , you scare your partner making it look like there is something wrong. The Africans who already have their citizenship or green-card are not willing to marry you perhaps he/she wants you to suffer like how they suffered. Or they feel, you only trying to marry them because of papers. I would say Africans do marry Africans, it just depends on the individuals. 5 Likes |
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