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Re: Is It Really Difficult To Find A Life Partner In US Or Canada? by Olibboy: 8:12pm On Sep 08, 2020 |
Mbdovey:Are you from Canada? |
Re: Is It Really Difficult To Find A Life Partner In US Or Canada? by vhuqnl(m): 8:12pm On Sep 08, 2020 |
Cousin9999:You from Texas? |
Re: Is It Really Difficult To Find A Life Partner In US Or Canada? by bigfrancis21: 8:12pm On Sep 08, 2020 |
Mbdovey: Lol women need marriage more than men do. Even here in America, the feminist West with liberated sisters, women here still stress over getting married like crazy despite no cultural or pressing societal expectations to do so. Men here barely stress over getting married but women do. Let me say this, feminism did liberate women as they wanted but they did not realize that the feminism movement by and large liberated western men as well. Women are no longer expected to do certain things, so are the men. 21 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Is It Really Difficult To Find A Life Partner In US Or Canada? by bizhop01: 8:13pm On Sep 08, 2020 |
I find difficult to date Nigerian when i was abroad, i don't know if others feel the same. 4 Likes |
Re: Is It Really Difficult To Find A Life Partner In US Or Canada? by gbazgbos: 8:17pm On Sep 08, 2020 |
Mbdovey:I like your name |
Re: Is It Really Difficult To Find A Life Partner In US Or Canada? by Nobody: 8:19pm On Sep 08, 2020 |
Mbdovey:Never dated a Nigerian out here so cant say...tried to date one and after all the my papa need this , my mama need that, my brother need this...I just closed the chapter straight away 18 Likes |
Re: Is It Really Difficult To Find A Life Partner In US Or Canada? by vhuqnl(m): 8:21pm On Sep 08, 2020 |
flyca:Good for you. Team foreigners. Naija girls no be am 7 Likes |
Re: Is It Really Difficult To Find A Life Partner In US Or Canada? by vhuqnl(m): 8:26pm On Sep 08, 2020 |
Tatashi:Who wants to marry Nigerian leeches before?? 10 Likes |
Re: Is It Really Difficult To Find A Life Partner In US Or Canada? by vhuqnl(m): 8:27pm On Sep 08, 2020 |
Nooil:Getting married for aesthetics (half caste kid) is disgusting and low. And selfish too 12 Likes |
Re: Is It Really Difficult To Find A Life Partner In US Or Canada? by Nobody: 8:28pm On Sep 08, 2020 |
vhuqnl: Happy boys day |
Re: Is It Really Difficult To Find A Life Partner In US Or Canada? by 4FACEADELEKE(m): 8:34pm On Sep 08, 2020 |
Petyprincess: The old white grannies have something to offer them,what do you or can you offer them?Abeg sleep 13 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Is It Really Difficult To Find A Life Partner In US Or Canada? by vhuqnl(m): 8:34pm On Sep 08, 2020 |
Nooil:Get a job 3 Likes |
Re: Is It Really Difficult To Find A Life Partner In US Or Canada? by vhuqnl(m): 8:36pm On Sep 08, 2020 |
antocreative:Time will tell. You will soon have sense 4 Likes |
Re: Is It Really Difficult To Find A Life Partner In US Or Canada? by vhuqnl(m): 8:41pm On Sep 08, 2020 |
God1stson:Look at this one 5 Likes |
Re: Is It Really Difficult To Find A Life Partner In US Or Canada? by toprealman: 8:47pm On Sep 08, 2020 |
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Re: Is It Really Difficult To Find A Life Partner In US Or Canada? by lionlee216(m): 9:00pm On Sep 08, 2020 |
20 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Is It Really Difficult To Find A Life Partner In US Or Canada? by Nobody: 9:06pm On Sep 08, 2020 |
lefulefu2:I am not a resident now. |
Re: Is It Really Difficult To Find A Life Partner In US Or Canada? by Nobody: 9:10pm On Sep 08, 2020 |
bizhop01:..at abroad...broken English is allowed, guys! 1 Like |
Re: Is It Really Difficult To Find A Life Partner In US Or Canada? by Nobody: 9:10pm On Sep 08, 2020 |
Gamesmart:I don't know. What is my business who's single or not. You guys should just leave Nigerian women alone. Una no dey tire? |
Re: Is It Really Difficult To Find A Life Partner In US Or Canada? by ykalhaji(m): 9:13pm On Sep 08, 2020 |
Must you marry in that country ![]() The best bet for all Nigerians na to come abroad, get their citizenship/palli for Travel purposes, build your credit for credit facilities purposes, save money and then go back to Nigeria to invest like the Chinese are doing in Nigeria, meaning face the reality that you are in a third world country with 3rd world problems but also comes with 3rd world advantages(i.e. basically come back to Nigeria as a foreign investor). 5 Likes |
Re: Is It Really Difficult To Find A Life Partner In US Or Canada? by Crispels(m): 9:14pm On Sep 08, 2020 |
Mbdovey: As a Nigerian in the US, I’ve always preferred ending up with a fellow Nigerian because I just love that Naija aura; spirit and energy but most of the Nigerian girls I met when I first arrived here were so cocky, condescending and unapproachable. However, I think age plays a big factor. If you were born here(a Nigerian - American) or you came here at a relatively young age(below 23), it's somewhat easier to find a life partner. Maybe if you came here for college or grad school - you can easily find a partner while in school. Nevertheless, many Nigerian girls in America tend to waste their chances by being unrealistic when they are still below the age of 25. Many of them easily look down on people and they play themselves later on. Let me tell you a story. I have this friend of mine who lives in New York - he was born and raised in Naija. He came here for his Master’s and when he first arrived - he wanted a Nigerian girl by all means but most of the Nigerian girls around him then looked down on him. They saw him as a ”fresher” who had a thick accent, weird dressing, and all those kinds of stuff. I had a similar experience with some Nigerian girls too but his own experience was worse. When the guy was struggling in the US - none of these girls offered any friendship/support because they all felt he was not within their illusionary standard. The only people that supported him were the foreigners in his graduate school. But the guy who was talented. He worked hard at Columbia University and he eventually got a top investment job with JP Morgan. This my guy earns ridiculous six figures amount almost every month now. But do you know most of the Naija girls who looked down on him all tried to be friends with him after he was featured by Bloomberg business report? Can you imagine such nonsense! Why did they suddenly find him attractive now? Well, the guy is currently dating the white girl that stood by him when he first arrived in New York but he still told me last month that he had always preferred a Nigerian babe but life happens. What if those Naija girls had even given him a chance of being their friend? What if they had tried to know him and not just judge him based on his looks as a struggling freshly arrived immigrant? Nigerian girls in North America keep looking for finished products when they themselves are not in any way ready-made. They want guys that are 6-4 tall, beards, cars, houses, and all of those fleeting things at the same time. It's a wrong mentality to have and that's why most of them are still single. Life is a process. You don't expect men to have achieved 90% of their life goals when you meet them. People grow! A guy may not be muscular today but he can look like Anthony Joshua after spending some months in the gym. People need to understand the fact that life is a process. Then, we can take it from there. Many of them are also intoxicated with this whole feminist stuff. See, as I am, I can cook by myself and I probably don't need a wife who knows how to cook. But do you know what? I’ve had female friends who are East Africans, black Americans, and whites who cook Nigerian food and give them to me. My friends who date these foreigners enjoy Nigerian food made by these foreign girls. Yet, our Nigerian ”sisters” will be shouting up and down that it is not their duty to cook in the family. I know how to cook but I also want a wife who is homely. If I don't see these qualities in any girl of Nigerian descent but the qualities are present in a Kenyan girl or a white girl, why should I marry a Nigerian girl? The incentive is not there! Some foreign girls even embody Naija qualities than the so-called Naija girls. 58 Likes 15 Shares |
Re: Is It Really Difficult To Find A Life Partner In US Or Canada? by Gamesmart: 9:16pm On Sep 08, 2020 |
sisipelebe: To be frank, in Western countries, they are largely being left alone. But the guys in Nigeria cannot because they really don't have options. 6 Likes |
Re: Is It Really Difficult To Find A Life Partner In US Or Canada? by Nobody: 9:28pm On Sep 08, 2020 |
Gamesmart:It is because they don't want to date outside of their race. They want a Nigerian guy at all cost. Carribeans, Native Americans, Africa Americans are available, but no it's Nigerian. These guys from other race are even more romantic than our Nigerian men. I know the reasons why they don't want to test the waters. |
Re: Is It Really Difficult To Find A Life Partner In US Or Canada? by Nobody: 9:31pm On Sep 08, 2020 |
Gamesmart:They don't want to explore. Most of them are not good conversationist. |
Re: Is It Really Difficult To Find A Life Partner In US Or Canada? by vhuqnl(m): 9:32pm On Sep 08, 2020 |
MiaBeer:What has his root done for him? Why attack him? You this local champion 1 Like |
Re: Is It Really Difficult To Find A Life Partner In US Or Canada? by Crispels(m): 9:35pm On Sep 08, 2020 |
Petyprincess: Madam, not every Nigerian who is dating a white or AA girl in the US needs a green card. I have friends who have been here for decades(with a US passport) and they will tell you that they can never date Naija girls and their condescending behavior. As a Nigerian in the US, I’ve always preferred ending up with a fellow Nigerian because I just love that Naija aura; spirit and energy but most of the Nigerian girls I met when I first arrived here were so cocky, condescending and unapproachable. However, I think age plays a big factor. If you were born here(a Nigerian - American) or you came here at a relatively young age(below 23), it's somewhat easier to find a life partner. Maybe if you came here for college or grad school - you can easily find a partner while in school. Nevertheless, many Nigerian girls in America tend to waste their chances by being unrealistic when they are still below the age of 25. Many of them easily look down on people and they play themselves later on. Let me tell you a story. I have this friend of mine who lives in New York - he was born and raised in Naija. He came here for his Master’s and when he first arrived - he wanted a Nigerian girl by all means but most of the Nigerian girls around him then looked down on him. They saw him as a ”fresher” who had a thick accent, weird dressing, and all those kinds of stuff. I had a similar experience with some Nigerian girls too but his own experience was worse. When the guy was struggling in the US - none of these girls offered any friendship/support because they all felt he was not within their illusionary standard. The only people that supported him were the foreigners in his graduate school. But the guy who was talented. He worked hard at Columbia University and he eventually got a top investment job with JP Morgan. This my guy earns ridiculous six figures amount almost every month now. But do you know most of the Naija girls who looked down on him all tried to be friends with him after he was featured by Bloomberg business report? Can you imagine such nonsense! Why did they suddenly find him attractive now? Well, the guy is currently dating the white girl that stood by him when he first arrived in New York but he still told me last month that he had always preferred a Nigerian babe but life happens. What if those Naija girls had even given him a chance of being their friend? What if they had tried to know him and not just judge him based on his looks as a struggling freshly arrived immigrant? Nigerian girls in North America keep looking for finished products when they themselves are not in any way ready-made. They want guys that are 6-4 tall, beards, cars, houses, and all of those fleeting things at the same time. It's a wrong mentality to have and that's why most of them are still single. Life is a process. You don't expect men to have achieved 90% of their life goals when you meet them. People grow! A guy may not be muscular today but he can look like Anthony Joshua after spending some months in the gym. People need to understand the fact that life is a process. Then, we can take it from there. Many of them are also intoxicated with this whole feminist stuff. See, as I am, I can cook by myself and I probably don't need a wife who knows how to cook. But do you know what? I’ve had female friends who are East Africans, black Americans, and whites who cook Nigerian food and give them to me. My friends who date these foreigners enjoy Nigerian food made by these foreign girls. Yet, our Nigerian ”sisters” will be shouting up and down that it is not their duty to cook in the family. I know how to cook but I also want a wife who is homely. If I don't see these qualities in any girl of Nigerian descent but the qualities are present in a Kenyan girl or a white girl, why should I marry a Nigerian girl? The incentive is not there! Some foreign girls even embody Naija qualities than the so-called Naija girls. Cc lionlee216 10 Likes |
Re: Is It Really Difficult To Find A Life Partner In US Or Canada? by Crispels(m): 9:36pm On Sep 08, 2020 |
Petyprincess: |
Re: Is It Really Difficult To Find A Life Partner In US Or Canada? by Crispels(m): 9:41pm On Sep 08, 2020 |
Mbdovey: What he meant was that if you tell a Nigerian girl that you don't know how to drive yet or that you just arrived here, she will stop chatting with you because she thinks you are below her standard. But a foreign babe will still try to accommodate you and grow with you. 9 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Is It Really Difficult To Find A Life Partner In US Or Canada? by Crispels(m): 9:43pm On Sep 08, 2020 |
azmanaty02: There are hundreds of thousands of Nigerian men in North America. How many of them have killed their wives? 10 incidents out of over 200,000 scenarios is statistically insignificant. 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Is It Really Difficult To Find A Life Partner In US Or Canada? by Crispels(m): 9:46pm On Sep 08, 2020 |
thebosstrevor1: So, every Nigerian who dates outside of his race needs a green card? I’ve been in the US for years now and most of my friends who married whites or African Americans are already US citizens who don't need any freakin green card. So, if I marry a white girl now, it automatically means I need papers? The issue here has to do with the way Nigerian girls abroad treat guys during their lows. 13 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Is It Really Difficult To Find A Life Partner In US Or Canada? by Nobody: 9:48pm On Sep 08, 2020 |
Crispels: Many are into that green card levels, you wont deny it 1 Like |
Re: Is It Really Difficult To Find A Life Partner In US Or Canada? by Nobody: 9:49pm On Sep 08, 2020 |
lefulefu2: Most started with marrying a white or black for papers then they focused on getting qualification that is the focused ones |
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