Mbdovey:
I don't know why most men keep saying marriage is not important. What happened when you're old? who will stand by you? Who will take care of you? We all need each other. In as much as marriage is not the ultimate, it's very important.

Petyprincess:

Like seriously, even mod pushed this rubbish to front-page to promote bashing of Nigerian women from frustrated guys.

They masturbate on any topic that bashes Nigerian women but will lick a white old granny ass for green card,these men can't tolerate shit from Africa American women,they will lick their ass to get a green card while bashing Nigerian women.

Most of these guys are not sincere,some are suffering to keep their status while be deceiving gullible supposed "fans" and "asslickers" on nairaland at the same time bashing Nigerian women. Even fresh immigrants will start shouting "a white lady picked me up,payed my bills,etc

Believe these people at your risk!

Crispels:


As a Nigerian in the US, I’ve always preferred ending up with a fellow Nigerian because I just love that Naija aura; spirit and energy but most of the Nigerian girls I met when I first arrived here were so cocky, condescending and unapproachable.

However, I think age plays a big factor. If you were born here(a Nigerian - American) or you came here at a relatively young age(below 23), it's somewhat easier to find a life partner. Maybe if you came here for college or grad school - you can easily find a partner while in school.

Nevertheless, many Nigerian girls in America tend to waste their chances by being unrealistic when they are still below the age of 25. Many of them easily look down on people and they play themselves later on. Let me tell you a story. I have this friend of mine who lives in New York - he was born and raised in Naija. He came here for his Master’s and when he first arrived - he wanted a Nigerian girl by all means but most of the Nigerian girls around him then looked down on him. They saw him as a ”fresher” who had a thick accent, weird dressing, and all those kinds of stuff. I had a similar experience with some Nigerian girls too but his own experience was worse. When the guy was struggling in the US - none of these girls offered any friendship/support because they all felt he was not within their illusionary standard. The only people that supported him were the foreigners in his graduate school. But the guy who was talented. He worked hard at Columbia University and he eventually got a top investment job with JP Morgan. This my guy earns ridiculous six figures amount almost every month now. But do you know most of the Naija girls who looked down on him all tried to be friends with him after he was featured by Bloomberg business report? Can you imagine such nonsense! Why did they suddenly find him attractive now?

Well, the guy is currently dating the white girl that stood by him when he first arrived in New York but he still told me last month that he had always preferred a Nigerian babe but life happens. What if those Naija girls had even given him a chance of being their friend? What if they had tried to know him and not just judge him based on his looks as a struggling freshly arrived immigrant?
Nigerian girls in North America keep looking for finished products when they themselves are not in any way ready-made. They want guys that are 6-4 tall, beards, cars, houses, and all of those fleeting things at the same time. It's a wrong mentality to have and that's why most of them are still single. Life is a process. You don't expect men to have achieved 90% of their life goals when you meet them. People grow! A guy may not be muscular today but he can look like Anthony Joshua after spending some months in the gym. People need to understand the fact that life is a process. Then, we can take it from there.


Many of them are also intoxicated with this whole feminist stuff. See, as I am, I can cook by myself and I probably don't need a wife who knows how to cook. But do you know what? I’ve had female friends who are East Africans, black Americans, and whites who cook Nigerian food and give them to me. My friends who date these foreigners enjoy Nigerian food made by these foreign girls.

Yet, our Nigerian ”sisters” will be shouting up and down that it is not their duty to cook in the family. I know how to cook but I also want a wife who is homely. If I don't see these qualities in any girl of Nigerian descent but the qualities are present in a Kenyan girl or a white girl, why should I marry a Nigerian girl? The incentive is not there! Some foreign girls even embody Naija qualities than the so-called Naija girls.

Beautyaddy:


That's not true though.

Nigerian women abroad also have the same options as Nigerian men abroad do.

Most Nigerian women who live abroad and have develop an opened mind to date outside the Nigerian circle tend to have more peaceful and lasting relationship because these men don't treat like second class or slaves like how most Nigerian men treat Nigerian women as a whole.

Beautyaddy:


Yes, it's a crime but some men out of uncontrolled anger still beat up their spouses but they do not get way with it like in Nigeria.

Those men are faced with police and court charges which in the long term affects their record to get any meaningful jobs or high positions with job opportunities.

Beautyaddy:


Are you joking or just displaying ignorance to please yourself

So there are no Asians, Oyinbo or Latino men married to Nigerian women

Go and get yourself more exposed and learn that Most Nigerians women of the younger generation no long are desperate to marry Nigerian men who most of the time are labeled wife abuser.

There are other African men that Nigeria women are getting married to in doves lately.

trilobite:


She would make a better what?!!
Have you dated girls from Vietnam, Mongolia, Philippines before?!! even girls from Madagascar will worship the ground you walk on!!

Nigerian girls are too entitled. They should keep waiting for man to come.

Gamesmart:


No, they don't.

If you line up all the races in Europe and explore their desirability to one another for sex, dating and marriage, black men are higher up the pecking order amongst men of all races than black women are amongst women of all races.

There has been a UK TV show social survey has backed this up.

https://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-4707512/Outrage-experiment-looking-racism-dating.html

Only 9.4% of white people say they will date outside their race.

And we all know that out of this 9.4%, the white women will prefer to date black men and the white men will prefer to date orientals.

In America, black men do better for sex & dating desirability than black women. But they are both at the bottom of races for marriage desirability.

Changeofscene:


Awesome �. Spend your vacation in Nigeria if you're searching for a Naija partner. But this maybe difficult because vacation in Nigeria doesn't seem attractive after getting used to living in a sane society like Canada/US/UK them.

bezimo:


So when I called you out..you now talk true oh not that they want me..yet posing to be the next best thing after Kim K or Beyonce...nonsense.

We don't bash we relate reality as validated by many guys on the self entitled and terrible attitude that have come to be associated with you 9ja girls in the western world and if you have any sense you will know that you girls can do better and change such distasteful narative to relate in a more better way rather than challenging us for observing what it is.

Missyford31:


Lol I've watched some of their episodes n I feel bad for Michael. That woman is a cunt. We ain't all that way tho. I think that guy has more than earned his papers lol. The shit he goes thru with her. She's way too over the top

Mbdovey:
I don't know why most men keep saying marriage is not important. What happened when you're old? who will stand by you? Who will take care of you? We all need each other. In as much as marriage is not the ultimate, it's very important.

Mbdovey:
Marrying a Nigerian is good to me. My thought though

listowell:

..at abroad...broken English is allowed, guys!

EmperorMaria:


Some1 on this thread fits into this. Married to an obese AA dat he married 4 papers & deceivin gullible Naija men. I don’t like d way Naija girls behave,,,but I hate lies 2

Petyprincess:

Why feeling bad? Michael is example of greedy Nigerian man that is ready to loose his honour for green card!! These men even go for obese, ugly,entitled,abusive,old white women!!
These women have the worst attitude and treat them like trash because they know how desperate they are!! Imagine Michael wants children which this old woman can't give him yet he's still enduring this abusive and entitled old granny!! These are the kind of men that we have here also,I wnt be surprised most are like michael.

This is another green card hustler, the worst is they go for the ugly,jealous,entitled and abusive white/AA women,none of them are proud to show their partner off on social media nd they will still come online to bash Nigerian women!


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pUZQ71b2_S4

Missyford31:


Lol. Na no matter his intentions no one should treat ppl like trash. I feel bad if I see anyone get treated like trash. Hell someone could steal from me n I'd still feel bad if I beat them up or something.
Is just how I am.

Missyford31:


Lol. Na no matter his intentions no one should treat ppl like trash. I feel bad if I see anyone get treated like trash. Hell someone could steal from me n I'd still feel bad if I beat them up or something.
Is just how I am.
In fact a naija guy I know is married to an Australian woman here n she looks so much like Angela lol same hair, size, age. And the guy is like 23. They been together five years n she use to treat him bad alot. Not as bad as Angela but still bad. She even smoked like a chimney like Angela lol.
My mum's friend tho she married a naija guy n had kids then got grandkids n lived happily together til he passed away around two years ago. They was similar age and she wasn't fat or ugly. So not all are like that n he was a really nice guy.

Missyford31:



In fact a naija guy I know is married to an Australian woman here n she looks so much like Angela lol same hair, size, age. And the guy is like 23. They been together five years n she use to treat him bad alot. Not as bad as Angela but still bad. She even smoked like a chimney like Angela lol.
My mum's friend tho she married a naija guy n had kids then got grandkids n lived happily together til he passed away around two years ago. They was similar age and she wasn't fat or ugly. So not all are like that n he was a really nice guy.

Petyprincess:

Lol you must be so soft and emotional,i wish him the best also because of you and i hope he can wake up from slumber and realized that woman isn't meant for him!!!

Missyford31:


Yeah I think he knows but he needs her. thanks. lol I'm too emotional n I always end up getting screwed over cos of it most the time but is who I am.

Petyprincess:

it seems you not raised in Nigeria lol, I hope your good heart wnt be taken advantage of by dubious men! Have a nice day dear!

bezimo:


Bahahaha

Petyprincess:

Why feeling bad? Michael is example of greedy Nigerian man that is ready to loose his honour for green card!! These men even go for obese, ugly,entitled,abusive,old white women!!
These women have the worst attitude and treat them like trash because they know how desperate they are!! Imagine Michael wants children which this old woman can't give him yet he's still enduring this abusive and entitled old granny!! These are the kind of men that we have here also,I wnt be surprised most are like michael.

This is another green card hustler, the worst is they go for the ugly,jealous,entitled and abusive white/AA women,none of them are proud to show their partner off on social media nd they will still come online to bash Nigerian women!


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pUZQ71b2_S4

sisipelebe:
When I mean on my list does not mean they want me. They can be my friends, Aquintance ,church members etc
I don't know why you guys don't want to have small sense at all. Thats why you fall for the wrong girls and term all girls to be the same. Every little thing you bash. I don't even know who brought you guys up.

bezimo:


So when I called you out..you now talk true oh not that they want me..yet posing to be the next best thing after Kim K or Beyonce...nonsense.

We don't bash we relate reality as validated by many guys on the self entitled and terrible attitude that have come to be associated with you 9ja girls in the western world and if you have any sense you will know that you girls can do better and change such distasteful narative to relate in a more better way rather than challenging us for observing what it is.

topemama1:


It's vice versa as I have seen our Nigerian sisters abroad with old white men with wrinkled skin and it got me wondering. Most fine young white boys don't really date black women, they date women of the same race as them or asian women. I have actually seen a lot of hot white women with black boys

sisipelebe:
Most fine white boys don't find black women attractive, but few of them do. They prefer Latina, Asia or their own people. But white girls date black guys big time and the reason is because black men knows how to drill.

Changeofscene:


Exactly what I have found out.My boss recently told me that she sees no reason in people getting married these days,she told me how she tried to discourage her son from tieing the knots with his baby mama.Why bring the government into your love life when you can have it all and catch more fun.

In most cases the marriage thing destroys the romance,making it too serious. Na P Diddy way win am jare.

trilobite:


Madagascar girls are the last hope in Africa. Please if you meet one and she is singke, try your luck with all your might!!

Changeofscene:


Awesome �. Spend your vacation in Nigeria if you're searching for a Naija partner. But this maybe difficult because vacation in Nigeria doesn't seem attractive after getting used to living in a sane society like Canada/US/UK them.

EmperorMaria:


Some1 on this thread fits into this. Married to an obese AA dat he married 4 papers & deceivin gullible Naija men. I don’t like d way Naija girls behave,,,but I hate lies 2

MemoriesAndMe:

Many try to avoid the drama that comes with marrying Nigerians - like having their relatives move in with you whenever they come overseas, paying their siblings school fees back home, taking care of their aged parents, exorbitant bride prices some areas in Nigeria are known for etc while u have ur own family to cater for.