Normal thing na

Do you have money?

gunners160:
That is why whites will be whites and black will be blacks. A young man who is old enough to date came online to share his problems and how he can be helped and the so called adults (agbaya) all what they have to say is derogatory words that will even kill the little self esteem this guy has. Do you knw what it means to be cyber bullied and not having courage to go for some one u really liked?
Shmm, even most of them here typing rubbish can't stand up to a bae

The difference between r/sex and r/socialskills on Reddit and this romance section on Nairaland be like trekking to heaven from Nigeria

Bros ignore those saying you should make money first. Truly, girls will be the ones to ask you out if you're rich, but you may not like the relationship ooooo. Rather your bank account wont.

You no go face your future first

Save yourself the stress and invest in your future.

Jfix:
Please nairalanders
I'm 23, turning 24 next Month October and I have never asked a girl out. The truth is that I have been scared, literally afraid of talking to them, I do have female friends But Occasionally when it comes to asking any girl I liked out, I just go off not being able even communicate my feeling to them.

I do see teenagers of 16 and 17 years claiming to be in a relationship and I wonder how is that possible.

This is irritating because I hang of with guys and we all try to boost of being smart and sharp guys but deep down I know that I'm just blabbing cause when the opportunity comes I just find a way to avoid it.

I'm i a simp or do everyone goes through the same thing and I might overcome it later please let me know cause it really embarrassing to know a problem and still act like everything is okay.

Nothing is wrong with you. Your brain is just protecting you from screwing your life up.

Real question is, what do you need one for at 23? You're ready to settle down?

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7jBtm1eTJw0

gunners160:
That is why whites will be whites and black will be blacks. A young man who is old enough to date came online to share his problems and how he can be helped and the so called adults (agbaya) all what they have to say is derogatory words that will even kill the little self esteem this guy has. Do you knw what it means to be cyber bullied and not having courage to go for some one u really liked?
Shmm, even most of them here typing rubbish can't stand up to a bae

word

brace up

bjprodint:
pls study hard,clean up,make money,they will ask u out

Op please n please follow this advice
E get why

gunners160:
That is why whites will be whites and black will be blacks. A young man who is old enough to date came online to share his problems and how he can be helped and the so called adults (agbaya) all what they have to say is derogatory words that will even kill the little self esteem this guy has. Do you knw what it means to be cyber bullied and not having courage to go for some one u really liked?
Shmm, even most of them here typing rubbish can't stand up to a bae

What does this have to do with whites vs blacks? Must you constantly run down your own race unnecessarily?

You are a simp

Your own don be

Start with greetings, then complimenting their looks.... So far she gives you audience...

melodyogonna:

The difference between r/sex and r/socialskills on Reddit and this romance section on Nairaland be like trekking to heaven from Nigeria

We are naturally bullies/savages online

Arrrrrrrh

Nigerian can be so hypocritical about certain things. All this babbling about studying hard, make cash are all scam, all this broke boys that date girls are the different? All this smart boys that date girls are they dull. Infaçt when I was dating them, my GPA for that semester was 3.07 did I fail? No!! So please stop all this rubbish about school affecting ya relationship. .just that if you are dull you are really dull



Bro what is obtain is, when you like a girl and about to makes friends with them tell them straight. Don't come ÇOME and be using one lie-lie lines. If she like you she will accept you that's all.

At 23 what's your financial status?. Must you ask a girl out if you aren't ready for the responsibilities that go with it?
What are you even asking her out for in the first place?
If it's not centered around courtship better stay clear of men's daughters you!!.

Jfix:
Please nairalanders
I'm 23, turning 24 next Month October and I have never asked a girl out. The truth is that I have been scared, literally afraid of talking to them, I do have female friends But Occasionally when it comes to asking any girl I liked out, I just go off not being able even communicate my feeling to them.

I do see teenagers of 16 and 17 years claiming to be in a relationship and I wonder how is that possible.

This is irritating because I hang of with guys and we all try to boost of being smart and sharp guys but deep down I know that I'm just blabbing cause when the opportunity comes I just find a way to avoid it.

I'm i a simp or do everyone goes through the same thing and I might overcome it later please let me know cause it really embarrassing to know a problem and still act like everything is okay.

I feel your pain bro.
Go to dating-drills-guys-only thread

Jfix:
Please nairalanders
I'm 23, turning 24 next Month October and I have never asked a girl out. The truth is that I have been scared, literally afraid of talking to them, I do have female friends But Occasionally when it comes to asking any girl I liked out, I just go off not being able even communicate my feeling to them.

I do see teenagers of 16 and 17 years claiming to be in a relationship and I wonder how is that possible.

This is irritating because I hang of with guys and we all try to boost of being smart and sharp guys but deep down I know that I'm just blabbing cause when the opportunity comes I just find a way to avoid it.

I'm i a simp or do everyone goes through the same thing and I might overcome it later please let me know cause it really embarrassing to know a problem and still act like everything is okay.

Having read the submissions posted so far, I am really inclined to put tthis matter to bed. Since you going to be 24years come October, one can deduce that this matter is of utmost importance to you.

Here is a better approach, rather than wanting to offload your feelings to the girl of your choice at the first time of meeting, why not work on being friends with her. Get her number. Tell her some sweet jokes and get her to laugh. Then you can work on been her friend. Take it nice and slow till you build up enough steam and let her see your intentions. There is no hard and fast rule, but blurting your feelings to a lady actually works against you. Following the indirect route pays better. Her defenses are low and you stand a better chance.

Be her friend. Then when you are comfortable with her. You can shoot your shot then.

At your age I was trading 30kusd in the financial markets


Women were at the end of my thoughts

Focus energy on profitable things and leave hooes

Please focus of seft development and leave women alone. There's time for everything

Just do it bro.

When you see a girl you fancy, walk up and say hi and follow up from there

It's perfectly normal to feel nervous at first, you just have to push past that impulse and walk up to her.

Most girls are attracted to confidence so it's not really about what you say but your body language.

Communicate confidence by subtle things, like walking up to her immediately you make eye contact, looking straight at her when you talk (with a smile o), keeping hands in pocket can work too.

Also, don't be bothered by what to say, just say whatever come to your mind.

The worst case scenario is that she will say No, and that's okay cause not every girl would want you (which is normal)

In the end you'd be happy with yourself, that you overcame your weakness regardless of the outcome.

Leave girls or woman you will not hear until them break your heart face your life channel that attention towards something else

Damn niqqa..

Guess we're on the same page.. though I had the courage to ask a girl out once.. took me some rehearsal.. when I finally hooked up with her.. the whole essay I had mastered left my brain.. I couldn't look her in the eyes like she had casted a spell on me.. I finally let the word out stuttering, she could tell I wasn't bold enough.. it was like an exam to me..I was waiting for the moment to be over and deep down I didn't know what I was going to be doing in a relationship (boyfriend was just a title every dude was flying)..

Fast forward.. I'm still single but one thing I learnt they are as shy as you.. you just need to speak up your mind even if it takes you to be shaking like a leaf in the frosty air.. they don't bite.. but you're going to hate yourself when she turns you down but in a matter of time you will get healed..

The feeling maybe mutual and She might be waiting for the day to come.. you never truly know what you got until it's gone

Nairalanders self ehn, why is this a problem to you? Last last if you finally ask a girl out you would come here to yarn trash about Nigerian women not agreeing to have sex with you, this is why this generation z is lousy and cannot produce anything of encouraging value, it is to make useless trends like simp, wap and the rest. Tufia.

Sysdatek:
At your age I was trading 30kusd in the financial markets


Women were at the end of my thoughts

Focus energy on profitable things and leave hooes

Lol good for you. But the dude needs a lady in his life that's important. You Nigerians put too much emphasis on money money money!!! That's why your country has a failed system, corrupt politicians, yahoo boys and runs girls everywhere...

This thing did me till I reach 25 years.....
I had to watched and read a little still no headings, I summoned courage and told a girl let be dating, though she didn't agree to date but I was relieved, ever since then na cruise...
How far babe, can you be my girlfriend??
Straight up, no hidden, no sweet talk...