ElonMosque:


My guy, focus o. Nigerian girls ain't difficult. Just have your money, the good, bad and ugly will use scope to ask you out.. Make money, package yourself well and stay in places where ladies are (bars, school, church, whatever), if you're a baller, they'll approach you I promise.

DoubleEngine007:
Op they will only distract you.. Girls are not what you need right now at age 23.. But if you insist......Truth is, asking a girl out is not hard as you think.. The key is being yourself and saying what's on your mind. Don't be afraid of rejection, and also learn to watch out for green light.. Don't go asking ,as if your whole life depends on it. Go with the mindset of making frds, just like you are with ur male frds. Ask and see what comes out of it.. This way you won't feel anything, even if she says she is not interested. (Back then wen we dey learn,my teacher go say ...Shoot 5,atleast one must enter )

gunners160:
That is why whites will be whites and black will be blacks. A young man who is old enough to date came online to share his problems and how he can be helped and the so called adults (agbaya) all what they have to say is derogatory words that will even kill the little self esteem this guy has. Do you knw what it means to be cyber bullied and not having courage to go for some one u really liked?
Shmm, even most of them here typing rubbish can't stand up to a bae

Slimtuns:
Bro, it's natural as a first timer. But if you won't make a move you'll keep being a first timer even if it takes you 10 more years to build your confidence. Was once like you tho, I'm naturally a shy guy so it was hard then, I would feel like my heart was gonna burst open with the rate at which it would be beating but I grew my confidence.

Asking a girl out requires some techniques,

You don't ask a girl out when she's in the group of friends, no! Although some guys are naturally crazy and will call out a girl in the midst of friends but that ain't me.

You need to study the girl's mood before walking up to her
When you've finally gotten her attention, just make it simple and don't ask her to be your gf immediately. Hi, I saw you walking by and I felt it wouldn't be nice not to say hello...my name is blah blah blah, can I know your name? At this point a sensible girl should be getting along. Try to compliment her a little, in a decent manner tho. Then tell her you wouldn't want the friendship to end right there, can I have your contact pls? She would want to say no of course, tell her Cmon! We tend to make friends and not enemies make some jokes in between, a mature girl will surely give you her number but if you meet a confam crazy girl just let her go. After getting the number, bounce from the scene then follow it up via text...try to build a little friendship for like 2-3 days before telling her what your true intention is. It should be easier that way. Ciao ciao

GreenKalada:


Lol good for you. But the dude needs a lady in his life that's important. You Nigerians put too much emphasis on money money money!!! That's why your country has a failed system, corrupt politicians, yahoo boys and runs girls everywhere...

Jfix:
Please nairalanders
I'm 23, turning 24 next Month October and I have never asked a girl out. The truth is that I have been scared, literally afraid of talking to them, I do have female friends But Occasionally when it comes to asking any girl I liked out, I just go off not being able even communicate my feeling to them.

I do see teenagers of 16 and 17 years claiming to be in a relationship and I wonder how is that possible.

This is irritating because I hang of with guys and we all try to boost of being smart and sharp guys but deep down I know that I'm just blabbing cause when the opportunity comes I just find a way to avoid it.

I'm i a simp or do everyone goes through the same thing and I might overcome it later please let me know cause it really embarrassing to know a problem and still act like everything is okay.

Connected1:
Don't say that Some people say I am fit to be a Pastor and I don't like it

Jfix:
Please nairalanders
I'm 23, turning 24 next Month October and I have never asked a girl out. The truth is that I have been scared, literally afraid of talking to them, I do have female friends But Occasionally when it comes to asking any girl I liked out, I just go off not being able even communicate my feeling to them.

I do see teenagers of 16 and 17 years claiming to be in a relationship and I wonder how is that possible.

This is irritating because I hang of with guys and we all try to boost of being smart and sharp guys but deep down I know that I'm just blabbing cause when the opportunity comes I just find a way to avoid it.

I'm i a simp or do everyone goes through the same thing and I might overcome it later please let me know cause it really embarrassing to know a problem and still act like everything is okay.

dsbrand:
I am now 31
And am still afraid to approach a lady

Thazard:



Hello, I'm just like the op.

Please can you tell me what to say to my crush because she obviously likes me and I don't want to miss this opportunity.

Kingscee:
Guy focus on your education first and forget about HOLE for now, nothing good comes out of it except giving birth, make money first the rest will be assured, and they will be the one running after you.

Slimtuns:


Since you said she likes you too, that's easy..but you need to confirm she's currently not seeing someone.

All you need is to text her cos anxiety won't make a physical conversation work. Text her, Vick... There's something I need to tell you, you're a lady I respect and adore a lot, for a long time I've been hiding how I truly feel about you, the more I hide the more it grows. I can't keep on hurting myself for something I cannot change, I'm serious into you, like I really like you, you know the like I'm talking about, right? Not a platonic one. I'm seriously in love with you, you're just a perfect lady for me. This text might make me seem drunk but no, I'm only intoxicated, intoxicated by your love. All I want is a chance from you, a chance to put my words into action. I hope to get a reply from you soon. Then boom her reply will determine what the next line of words would be.

Slimtuns:


Since you said she likes you too, that's easy..but you need to confirm she's currently not seeing someone.

All you need is to text her cos anxiety won't make a physical conversation work. Text her, Vick... There's something I need to tell you, you're a lady I respect and adore a lot, for a long time I've been hiding how I truly feel about you, the more I hide the more it grows. I can't keep on hurting myself for something I cannot change, I'm serious into you, like I really like you, you know the like I'm talking about, right? Not a platonic one. I'm seriously in love with you, you're just a perfect lady for me. This text might make me seem drunk but no, I'm only intoxicated, intoxicated by your love. All I want is a chance from you, a chance to put my words into action. I hope to get a reply from you soon. Then boom her reply will determine what the next line of words would be.

Sheriman:
Professional

lefulefu2:
guy be focused in passing ur jamb first leave girl matter for the now there is time for everything

Thazard:


Ha Bros

I would be going against red piller's idealogy.

Never tell a woman you love her

P.S-She was crushing on me first before I started falling for her too and we have never talked to each other before.

CC ubunja

Harddon

Slimtuns:


Why do I have a feeling you just wan shag the babe? Is not fair if that's your intention oh. Wetin Konji go cause sha! Shidren of nowadays!

gunners160:
That is why whites will be whites and black will be blacks. A young man who is old enough to date came online to share his problems and how he can be helped and the so called adults (agbaya) all what they have to say is derogatory words that will even kill the little self esteem this guy has. Do you knw what it means to be cyber bullied and not having courage to go for some one u really liked?
Shmm, even most of them here typing rubbish can't stand up to a bae

Thazard:


Honestly, that not my intention,I want her to be my first girlfriend and by the way, I'm still a 20 years old virgin.

GreenKalada:


Lol good for you. But the dude needs a lady in his life that's important. You Nigerians put too much emphasis on money money money!!! That's why your country has a failed system, corrupt politicians, yahoo boys and runs girls everywhere...

thorrvik55:


Boss

emapraiz:
Bro I'm 25 and I'm still a virgin

We plenty oh

gregyboy:



Lol, i got one rejection today but am planning to beg her for friends with benefit... Lol

ToriLoft:

LoL. She no go agree, but that's the spirit. You want to know her casually first before you go deeper.