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| He Dumped Me After I Lost My Virginity To Him by bashybabe(f): 8:18pm On Oct 19, 2011 |
I dnt knw the meaning of a break but I know it means break up after he promised not to break my heart and giving him my body he dumped me he told me he's needs a break hav never done anytin wrong to him dunno what I v done to deserve this I ♥ d guy so much av bin cryin 4 dayz , pls nairalanders when a guy said he needs a break or wanna be free for a while what does it mean |
| Re: He Dumped Me After I Lost My Virginity To Him by 25omega(m): 8:23pm On Oct 19, 2011 |
means he got what he wanted and he is moving on to the next one. Im sorry this is your experience but welcome to the real world of relationships where some people would promise you heaven and earth and still disappoint you. If i were you i would move on and dont let this scar you for life because you are not the first and you wont be the last that such has happened to. 4 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: He Dumped Me After I Lost My Virginity To Him by WAVixen: 8:25pm On Oct 19, 2011 |
How can I say this without being the SHE DEVIL. You shouldn't have been Intimate with him in the first place. Dont we all wish we never dabbled with sex until we were way mature to handle it?! The deed has been done. You say you have done nothing to warrant his behaving in this manner, so chill out for a while. He might be one of those guys who suck the orange and throw it away when the juice runs out. Or who knows what's going through his head? Heart break hurts, but you'll get over it. Try and keep your dignity next time. |
| Re: He Dumped Me After I Lost My Virginity To Him by NaJaHaJe(f): 8:34pm On Oct 19, 2011 |
Count yourself lucky , He clearly had other agendas. U love him but he never loved you. U were blinded to sleep with him and gave him something so precious. Well at least he did not stay with u and reduce u to a whimpering sobbing empty broken hearted creature. So yes u are lucky  Mind u, When he comes back have the sense to say NO. And guard your , With the wall of china  2 Likes |
| Re: He Dumped Me After I Lost My Virginity To Him by slimyem: 8:40pm On Oct 19, 2011 |
Guys lie and decieve all the time and u cant do shit bout it. i emphatise with you dear but u need to stop crying over spilt milk.he may or may not come around but dont count on it.concentrate on some other things that interest you for now. It aint easy but you'll sure get over it albeit with time.such is life! . |
| Re: He Dumped Me After I Lost My Virginity To Him by Acidosis(m): 8:50pm On Oct 19, 2011 |
I wonder why most girls falls easily to lies and deceit from men. Is it that you share the same brain with a fish? Sincerely, this baffles me alot, inspite the knowledge and enligthment. Pls don't tell me its 'love'. Why would someone fall in love with a deceiver? A deceiver is likely to smoke, drink, arrogant, rudged. Didn't you notice this things before you open something that belongs to your husband?? 3 Likes |
| Re: He Dumped Me After I Lost My Virginity To Him by freecocoa(f): 9:00pm On Oct 19, 2011 |
Op kpele Welcome to heartbreak hotel,you just have to brace yourself up and move on cos life hoes on,if he wants a break for no just reason,then he's probably tired of the relationship,you could try talking to him to find out what went wrong,if he seems indifferent, then let it go,with time you'll feel better. Someone once told me that some guys after sleeping with a girl,suddenly dislikes her(I wonder how true this is) |
| Re: He Dumped Me After I Lost My Virginity To Him by tellwisdom: 9:04pm On Oct 19, 2011 |
I dnt knw the meaning of a break but I know it means break up after he promised not to break my heart and giving him my body he dumped me he told me he's needs a break hav never done anytin wrong to him dunno what I v done to deserve this I ♥ d guy so much av bin cryin 4 dayz , pls nairalanders when a guy said he needs a break or wanna be free for a while what does it mean See ur life?? UNA GO SEE ROAD, DEY PASS CANAL  |
| Re: He Dumped Me After I Lost My Virginity To Him by Nobody: 9:09pm On Oct 19, 2011 |
what can i say to u other than sorry? its ur fault for loving the wrong person. close to 80% of our ladies are with wrong guys. they see correct guys but will never date them  1 Like |
| Re: He Dumped Me After I Lost My Virginity To Him by Nobody: 9:11pm On Oct 19, 2011 |
[size=14pt]It may mean, he'll be back or he is gone!. . . Why you choose to start thread with "I lost my Virginity to him" tire me scatter! Wetin be dat? Shey im rob you of the virginity, abi he collect am for gun point or na wetin 2 of una agree to do and jollificate? Now, because the guy mention break, you sef remember say your virginity don miss abi? If to say im no talk break, una for still dey nak akpako na, shey? Na wa o! Make u dey chose words carefully abeg! Being a virgin is a mata of choice. . . You chose to lose it. So if you dey yarn say the bobo wan break up with you, yarn along that tangent! No carry that "he dumped me after i lost my virginity to him" balderdashidic nonsense come here abeg! The fuckery was mutual. . . Give him some time, and then if you feel say the time don dey too long, you fit ask am say wetin dey happen? Him go clear you of the levels wey dey ground, then you go know wetin dey sup! But to dey cry for man, no make sense i tell you! Find better things dey do. No even do like say him tell u anything, before you know, im fit carry im baboon yansh comeback! if im no come back, just count am as -1. . .[/size] 3 Likes |
| Re: He Dumped Me After I Lost My Virginity To Him by Ariyke: 9:33pm On Oct 19, 2011 |
Bashybabe i feel ur pain but urs is beta my own guy wey don nearly propose neva told me 2 give him space i just went 2 his mummy's place and he came their with another lady to introduce 2 them after we dated 4 3yrs believe me am still wondering wat i did 2 deserve such, it happened 2sundays ago so just pull urself 2geda life continues i believe there are better guys 4 us out there!! 1 Like |
| Re: He Dumped Me After I Lost My Virginity To Him by lindabon: 9:37pm On Oct 19, 2011 |
You lost your virginity to a rascal and you are crying over split milk; What nonsense First of all, lemme start by congratulating you; WELCOME TO WOMANHOOD!! It's not easy!  Anyways . . . . . Hope he used rubber while at it, else you might even want to jump d next bridge if u are preggies . . . Cheer up my friend. . . most ladies have been there. nothing new. Don't no why YOU attached so much importance to your V. If you valued it so much, you would have kept it until u are happily married. If you wanna loose it outta wedlock, why would you be crying over it; wasn't it your choice; Abi are you crying because the guy didn't do it well?  No cry you hear. Its just one of those things. You are not the first Again you asked what he means by "a break". My dear, leave matter. . . . the guy don waka. ( dem dey call am; chop and clean mouth)So rise up, dust your urself, and explore your journey of self discovery. . . . No Time!!!! 4 Likes |
| Re: He Dumped Me After I Lost My Virginity To Him by Blazing88(f): 9:40pm On Oct 19, 2011 |
@op Use ur virginity blood to curse him! Wat kind of man is dat? Its an eye opener sha, welcome to the real world! sorry though. |
| Re: He Dumped Me After I Lost My Virginity To Him by tellwisdom: 9:42pm On Oct 19, 2011 |
Na lie, d guy still dey come back jor, He still get unfinished business with her PPUNANI OP, d guy can only come back if your PPUNANI is sweet |
| Re: He Dumped Me After I Lost My Virginity To Him by Blazing88(f): 9:51pm On Oct 19, 2011 |
lindabon:Lol, U ve a strong heart o, U didnt evem pet the gal @ all. Kai! Lol |
| Re: He Dumped Me After I Lost My Virginity To Him by Natasha2(f): 9:57pm On Oct 19, 2011 |
hmmmm don't know what to say maybe he truly needs a break, you never can tell the heart of a man, maybe just maybe, I'm saying this cos people handle things differently. on the other hand maybe he has gotten what he wants and so wants to leave but what ever it is just be strong and don't dwell on past problems or mistakes, If he breaks up you shouldn't be hard on yourself everything has a reason for happening but what is more important is the lessons they teach us but the question is ''do we really learn from them'' . |
| Re: He Dumped Me After I Lost My Virginity To Him by koolJ1(f): 2:59am On Oct 20, 2011 |
Acidosis:i wonder oh! Kai! E be lyk say na only me stl get correct brain lindabon:u dun talk am finish buh about d cursing him wit da blood. . .he didn force her did he? Like som1 said,d fuckery was mutual so no need cursing cuz it aint gon work sha. Finally @op,look on d bright side,lots of ladies make a living dishing out kitten. . .lol |
| Re: He Dumped Me After I Lost My Virginity To Him by Nobody: 4:42am On Oct 20, 2011 |
Yea, men are arseholes. You learn. Pele o. Eyah |
| Re: He Dumped Me After I Lost My Virginity To Him by otokx(m): 5:46am On Oct 20, 2011 |
Always 2 sides to any story. |
| Re: He Dumped Me After I Lost My Virginity To Him by claremont(m): 5:47am On Oct 20, 2011 |
bashybabe:You did NOT give anybody your body; he didn't r-ape you, did he?! Both of you enjoyed the act together, so stop playing the "holier-than-thou" act on us here! 1 Like |
| Re: He Dumped Me After I Lost My Virginity To Him by lagcity(m): 5:58am On Oct 20, 2011 |
^^^^^^ [size=16pt]thank you![/size] |
| Re: He Dumped Me After I Lost My Virginity To Him by sexsinners(m): 6:12am On Oct 20, 2011 |
bashybabe: Common girl i'll grab my holy water and bat,and you take some ropes with you. were gunna teach that devil of a demon a lesson that God would even allow. amen devils are after poor innoccent angels virginity and we need to destroy them. |
| Re: He Dumped Me After I Lost My Virginity To Him by Nobody: 6:41am On Oct 20, 2011 |
Op wetin e tel u wey mak u open ur nyansh yakata 4 am? I nid 2 knw bcoz me too dey on dat mission nOw bt d gal stil dEy denga. I riLy want 2 knw how it feel like breaking a gal's heart. I've been on d recieving side twice so is time 2 turn d table. |
| Re: He Dumped Me After I Lost My Virginity To Him by bashybabe(f): 7:02am On Oct 20, 2011 |
I dint for 1nce think he was a player we go on a date we call each other the way evrytin went never imagined he would ever say goodbye to me never I dunno whr to strt frm he wld av waited till I finished this semester nau I can't concentrate in skool or anytin |
| Re: He Dumped Me After I Lost My Virginity To Him by Nobody: 7:10am On Oct 20, 2011 |
bashybabe:Guess you were blinded by the blackberry he bought for you. Sad enough u wouldnt learn and still fall 4 next predator waitin 2 catch you as his prey. |
| Re: He Dumped Me After I Lost My Virginity To Him by bashybabe(f): 7:31am On Oct 20, 2011 |
He didn't buy me a blackberry bt d memories made won't fade |
| Re: He Dumped Me After I Lost My Virginity To Him by Orton10(m): 7:32am On Oct 20, 2011 |
Blazing88:See dis one :-/ . . .my friend find place siddon jor. Afterall it was purely consentual. bashybabe:O gurl give the guy -man some time, maybe he needs some space to clear his head. Most young guys feel a sense of guilt and remorse afterwards, especially if its a gurl they love or very much into. Let him get over it in his own way, he'll surely come around IF its meant to be. And hey focus on your studies o! Your education first dear, no guy or so called boyfriend should take that away from you. 1 Like |
| Re: He Dumped Me After I Lost My Virginity To Him by Godmother(f): 7:37am On Oct 20, 2011 |
Cheer up girl. As painful as it may be, just chalk it down as experience and move on. Thats life, you know. It sucks sometimes. |
| Re: He Dumped Me After I Lost My Virginity To Him by Blazing88(f): 8:04am On Oct 20, 2011 |
Orton1_0: |
| Re: He Dumped Me After I Lost My Virginity To Him by justwise(m): 8:24am On Oct 20, 2011 |
Ariyke: That is really heartless thing to do. |
| Re: He Dumped Me After I Lost My Virginity To Him by francisj(m): 8:30am On Oct 20, 2011 |
forget abt him, virginity or no-virginity,you are still the same cool and pretty girl ,virginity is stuff of the mind cos one day it will surely be open. the faster u 4get abt the i.d.i.o.t,the better 4 you. just carry-on with ur life by putting the experience behind you. |
| Re: He Dumped Me After I Lost My Virginity To Him by omogidi234(m): 8:44am On Oct 20, 2011 |
e yah! Sorry. Please move on with your life as this is not the end of life. Be cautious when entering another relationship and don't let this turn you into a rigid being. One day you will meet the one who will be honest with you. Am ouuta of here. |
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