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Dating A Military Personnel: My Experience. by Nobody: 5:17pm On Sep 10, 2020 |
If you are dating or ever dated a military personnel, share your experience. Here is mine. There's this naval officer I met years back in Port Harcourt. We were sitting opposite each other in a wedding reception but from a distance. The way he was looking at me, I knew he had something to tell me. He was very neat from head to toe. I love neat and smart people. I guess that was what made be fell easily for him. He was a shy type. He couldn't even approached me. So he gave someone his number to give me. Immediately the piece of paper where he wrote his number was handed over to me, he left his seat. I didn't see him again till I left the venue. Some days passed, I call his number and he picked. We started talking till we became more familiar and wanted something more so we dated. He was every caring. The first day he invited me to his house, I thought he will demand for sex like most Nigerian men do but to my surprise he didn't. Throughout my dating time with him, he never requested for sex. Sex would just happened. The way he showered me love made me became so emotionally attached to him. There were moments I could not go a day without setting my eyes on him. He was so meek and down to earth.He told me if he wasn't in the military he would be a pastor. After months of dating him, trouble set in. He wasn't having time for me anymore due to the nature of his work. I was in a relationship but I was lonely. He will go for months and I won't hear from him. There was a time he told me he was going for two weeks operation and after two weeks he will be back. Two weeks came and gone I didn't hear from my love. A month came and gone still didn't hear from him. After 3 months I heard a news that militants attacked Nigerian Naval officers I knew my love was among them. I would cry myself to sleep. I later put myself together and moved on. Two years later he called me. I was shocked. I didn't believe he was the one so I requested to see him in person. He came all the way to PH. When I saw him at first, I wanted to run because I thought he was his ghost. He proved to me that he was real and not a ghost then told me everything that happened. Right there I told him I've moved on and I can't continue again. He knelt down and begged me to marry him I told him I can't. That he is not always around me. He left that day in tears. I unfriend him on my Facebook and he didn't bug me like most Nigerian men would do after telling them it's over they still come to your inbox disturbing you. He was so so cool and a quiet type. Today I went to Facebook, I just decided to chat him up. I was shocked by what I saw on his timeline. Rest on my love. 429 Likes 35 Shares
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Re: Dating A Military Personnel: My Experience. by fidelmarshal199: 5:38pm On Sep 10, 2020 |
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Re: Dating A Military Personnel: My Experience. by Nobody: 6:04pm On Sep 10, 2020 |
fidelmarshal199:Done! |
Re: Dating A Military Personnel: My Experience. by Nobody: 6:11pm On Sep 10, 2020 |
Why did i open this thread? Sometimes its easier to get over love lost to another person than one lost to the cold hands of death. That's all i can say 181 Likes 10 Shares |
Re: Dating A Military Personnel: My Experience. by Nobody: 6:25pm On Sep 10, 2020 |
Palema007:He was the best. Very calm. The problem was not having time. 63 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: Dating A Military Personnel: My Experience. by ABANGWABOI(m): 6:25pm On Sep 10, 2020 |
#ILMOVON #Attitude #Bliv You just brought back memories Lost the best woman ever for me coz of my job.. There wasa time i spent roughly 3 years in the jungle.. travelling just thrice within the period.. Babe, thought Boko haram dn kill me finish..jungle wey network to make call no even dey sef.. Didn't blame her for moving on.. Halima, anywhere you are.. You are a beautiful soul... If i could turn back the hands of time, would have married you in 2012.. my son would have been 8 yrs old by now.. It is well thou.. 628 Likes 41 Shares |
Re: Dating A Military Personnel: My Experience. by MJBOLT: 6:28pm On Sep 10, 2020 |
tales by moonlight 201 Likes 17 Shares
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Re: Dating A Military Personnel: My Experience. by Nobody: 6:35pm On Sep 10, 2020 |
ABANGWABOI:Hmm! It is well. Military personnel are prisoners. That's how I feel. They can leave you even at mid night when duty calls. 132 Likes 7 Shares |
Re: Dating A Military Personnel: My Experience. by Nobody: 6:46pm On Sep 10, 2020 |
MJBOLT: 36 Likes 1 Share
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Re: Dating A Military Personnel: My Experience. by Scavy: 6:50pm On Sep 10, 2020 |
nollywood script writer spotted 74 Likes 7 Shares |
Re: Dating A Military Personnel: My Experience. by Nobody: 7:03pm On Sep 10, 2020 |
d matter wey dey ground be say u don start to dey collect anoda big stick person wey don die don't die 42 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: Dating A Military Personnel: My Experience. by Nobody: 7:05pm On Sep 10, 2020 |
MJBOLT: 6 Likes 1 Share
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Re: Dating A Military Personnel: My Experience. by Nobody: 7:05pm On Sep 10, 2020 |
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Re: Dating A Military Personnel: My Experience. by Nobody: 7:06pm On Sep 10, 2020 |
bukky1994:Is that your experience? 29 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Dating A Military Personnel: My Experience. by SweetCunt97(f): 7:11pm On Sep 10, 2020 |
saaphiere:God knows better. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Dating A Military Personnel: My Experience. by Nobody: 7:13pm On Sep 10, 2020 |
SweetCunt97:Yeah! All things work together for good to them that love God. May his soul find peace. 23 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Dating A Military Personnel: My Experience. by prince2pac(m): 7:29pm On Sep 10, 2020 |
Ewoooo.. it's a pity 1 Like |
Re: Dating A Military Personnel: My Experience. by GreatResearcher: 8:40pm On Sep 10, 2020 |
We don't value what we have until we ............................................. 9 Likes |
Re: Dating A Military Personnel: My Experience. by ABANGWABOI(m): 8:47pm On Sep 10, 2020 |
saaphiere: #ILMOVON #Attitude #Bliv. We ain't Prisoners oo Lol.. Just that we must obey duty calls.. Painful to read that your ex is dead.. Rip to the departed. 88 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Dating A Military Personnel: My Experience. by Nobody: 8:57pm On Sep 10, 2020 |
ABANGWABOI:You mustn't live in a confined environment to become a prisoner. Stay safe wherever you are. You guys are great people. 86 Likes |
Re: Dating A Military Personnel: My Experience. by akaahs(m): 9:13pm On Sep 10, 2020 |
saaphiere:He died ni |
Re: Dating A Military Personnel: My Experience. by Nobody: 9:23pm On Sep 10, 2020 |
illicit read this. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Dating A Military Personnel: My Experience. by illicit(m): 9:33pm On Sep 10, 2020 |
saaphiere: Oh sorry May his soul find rest Being a millitary personnel is very risky, befriending and dating them too accept my condolences 22 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: Dating A Military Personnel: My Experience. by Nobody: 9:34pm On Sep 10, 2020 |
And the day he will beat you to stupor You will come and complain here again 6 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Dating A Military Personnel: My Experience. by austine4real(m): 9:48pm On Sep 10, 2020 |
Seen next please 6 Likes |
Re: Dating A Military Personnel: My Experience. by Nobody: 10:14pm On Sep 10, 2020 |
Dating or getting married to a military personnel is risky. 3 Likes |
Re: Dating A Military Personnel: My Experience. by OscarJaden(m): 11:19pm On Sep 10, 2020 |
may his soul rest in peace. 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Dating A Military Personnel: My Experience. by youngmo001(m): 11:54pm On Sep 10, 2020 |
saaphiere: so touching..������� 28 Likes |
Re: Dating A Military Personnel: My Experience. by ProudBornoBoy(m): 12:07am On Sep 11, 2020 |
ABANGWABOI:Your signature, I can understand how you feel, when I round up my degree, I plan on dedicating my life in the military ways. R.I.P to all fallen officers and soldiers, God Keep You Safe. 49 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Dating A Military Personnel: My Experience. by Ayemileto(m): 2:27am On Sep 11, 2020 |
saaphiere: You already broke up with him na. How's he still your love? Like some people said above, it's likely a Super story. 49 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Dating A Military Personnel: My Experience. by saphiere(f): 3:09am On Sep 11, 2020 |
Ayemileto:Cry me a river. 16 Likes 1 Share |
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