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Re: At Age 23 Still Scared Of Asking A Girl Out by Jerkbaba: 6:48pm On Sep 10, 2020 |
Mumu dey think of girls for these kind problems wey dey so. Ok now. 1 Like |
Re: At Age 23 Still Scared Of Asking A Girl Out by Phoenix999: 6:56pm On Sep 10, 2020 |
Bro, the way out of your predicament is to understand 2 things and apply both in your pursuit of the female folks: 1. You must not always get a yes/ some will say no, others will say yes... Read no meanings to the No. 2. The fact that the one u admire refuses u, does not mean u won't get another that is better than her. Take it from someone that was also shy with women, now I am a lady's killer with unrivalled confidence. |
Re: At Age 23 Still Scared Of Asking A Girl Out by smelling5shit: 7:10pm On Sep 10, 2020 |
Jfix:Go straight to the one you like and say this : I WAN F**K YOU. |
Re: At Age 23 Still Scared Of Asking A Girl Out by drealcivilceno(m): 7:21pm On Sep 10, 2020 |
bjprodint: SCAMU! |
Re: At Age 23 Still Scared Of Asking A Girl Out by lukency(m): 7:36pm On Sep 10, 2020 |
go and wash your head in a flowing river. |
Re: At Age 23 Still Scared Of Asking A Girl Out by Drizzy5001(m): 7:46pm On Sep 10, 2020 |
There is nothing difficult in it |
Re: At Age 23 Still Scared Of Asking A Girl Out by Minemrys: 7:47pm On Sep 10, 2020 |
Jfix:you are okay, bro. N0thing do you. You d0n't force things like this. U aren't ready. When u are, you'd make it work. U are just t0o overwhelmed. Keep calm, slow down, breathe. Have a nice chat with a girl you have chemistry with, and ask to do s0mething fun together. During the course of it, talk to her about relati0nships and if she'll be okay to being in one with you. She'd play mind games or reject u. It's n0t the end of the world. People die of cancer, hunger, poverty or s0me other ailments everyday, bro, s0me girl rejecting or u being afraid of s0me girl is n0t a problem to worry over. It's never easy talking to girls if u put it in mind they are s0mething extra ordinary or s0mething to impress. The worst that can happen is u embarassing yourself, she'd laugh at u or gossip u. But she'd appreciate u tried. D0n't be ashamed of urxelf if u embarass urself in fr0nt of her. Make fun of yourself and walk away. Again, people die of things so imp0rtant everyday, d0n't worry urxelf over girls. 23 going to 24 without a girl, is n0thing to be ashamed of. U are just a late bl0omer. N0thing wr0ng with that. Ur time would c0me. 1 Like |
Re: At Age 23 Still Scared Of Asking A Girl Out by kennethfranc(m): 7:56pm On Sep 10, 2020 |
Clears throat hmhmhmm Oga personally I understand how u feel esp amongst ur fellow guys while gisting u go just talk join for the ministry to continue moving. Am 19 I just broke that chain in August this year. Mine was after church I bought new cloth ooo so the morale was very high so after church I just said in Igbo 'NNE X up' at that point people where still pumping out of the church ooo So she replied am cool Me: which side do u stay? She: a street Me: wow mine nah the next ooo She:but I don't know the place neither do I know the name Me: one of this days u will know nah At this point nepa took light so I requested for number (when I don't have my phone with me) she agreed then I form say I no know say I no carry phone and gave her mine And she called b4 I reached home Nah so e take start.. Now e be like say nah dem dey rush us..... Few tips: 1. Accept yourself the way you are if not, try and upgrade 2. Practice with those ur close female friends (that day the girl see was shy of looking at me face to face 2 Likes |
Re: At Age 23 Still Scared Of Asking A Girl Out by Ryocaj(m): 8:30pm On Sep 10, 2020 |
U should be concentrating on building a career path at that age.. not worried abt b*tches.. |
Re: At Age 23 Still Scared Of Asking A Girl Out by Myer(m): 8:32pm On Sep 10, 2020 |
Jfix: Just do it like Nike. |
Re: At Age 23 Still Scared Of Asking A Girl Out by emapraiz(m): 8:52pm On Sep 10, 2020 |
Re: At Age 23 Still Scared Of Asking A Girl Out by Dreadlock69(m): 8:56pm On Sep 10, 2020 |
Watch : After Vampire diaries (Damon part) Don't watch Titanic or Romeo and Juliet nah scam |
Re: At Age 23 Still Scared Of Asking A Girl Out by Oluwauchebest(m): 9:27pm On Sep 10, 2020 |
Just make money Bro and your money will ask him out |
Re: At Age 23 Still Scared Of Asking A Girl Out by gregyboy(m): 9:28pm On Sep 10, 2020 |
Jfix: See my style.... Most times i meet a lady i really dont have anything to say so i just walk up to her and say anything mostly rubbish that has no meaning, the lady self go smile.... Bcus she understands, then you go ask her why is she smiling, she go say nothing, discussion don start Wala Or when they are in pairs then you have to comfort yourself plan your game, proper try to signal d lady u wanna go and meet with eye contact..... While preparing what to say, just try to listen to their discussion, from there you can enter... The main necessity in all this is liver, boldness just have little youre good to go.... Rejection is inevitable even to the alpha males The rejection wen i don get for mylife for this women folk suppose make me gay... For life but even d best of bests still get rejected |
Re: At Age 23 Still Scared Of Asking A Girl Out by Nobody: 9:31pm On Sep 10, 2020 |
bjprodint:We welcome u |
Re: At Age 23 Still Scared Of Asking A Girl Out by Nobody: 9:33pm On Sep 10, 2020 |
gregyboy:Do you ask them out ni or why would they reject u |
Re: At Age 23 Still Scared Of Asking A Girl Out by JIMMY1393: 9:54pm On Sep 10, 2020 |
gunners160: I tell you oh...I visit a lot of foreign posts/forum too and Everytime they ask for help you'll always see people being supportive in the comments and actually giving reasonable advice ..but here on nairaland if it's not the redpill association it's the "make money 1st" crew or the "love is fake" gang or the "focus on your studies" group....Nigerians in general are just not helpful...abuse and complaining is all they know 2 Likes |
Re: At Age 23 Still Scared Of Asking A Girl Out by gregyboy(m): 9:57pm On Sep 10, 2020 |
slimkhalifa: Wen you ask a lady out and then you get rejected |
Re: At Age 23 Still Scared Of Asking A Girl Out by Nobody: 10:17pm On Sep 10, 2020 |
gregyboy:Lol.cool |
Re: At Age 23 Still Scared Of Asking A Girl Out by Chrisnrld: 10:22pm On Sep 10, 2020 |
afraid of asking a lady out or u wan Bleep. |
Re: At Age 23 Still Scared Of Asking A Girl Out by themaestro08(m): 10:25pm On Sep 10, 2020 |
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Re: At Age 23 Still Scared Of Asking A Girl Out by Palehair: 10:25pm On Sep 10, 2020 |
gregyboy:Lol... Don't get it twisted. Gays are the worst. They just don't reject you, they add insults to the injury. You think women rejects more, gays rejects the most |
Re: At Age 23 Still Scared Of Asking A Girl Out by Vysend: 10:47pm On Sep 10, 2020 |
Lol |
Re: At Age 23 Still Scared Of Asking A Girl Out by Tonytonero1: 11:16pm On Sep 10, 2020 |
Chai. See my 'same sake'. I don't even know if mine is fear or something else |
Re: At Age 23 Still Scared Of Asking A Girl Out by davidinchrist(m): 11:28pm On Sep 10, 2020 |
Jfix: Friend, it's really sad to be like that if you're ready for marriage. But if not, you might as well forget it. It's a blessing in disguise; cos even many are fooled in disguise thinking bondage is great. Being too free with women will only make you feel great or powerful superficially. The thing is, it doesn't satisfy no matter how you try, and makes one a progressive slave of it. And far too many of us have been fooled by it for years. Self control is 'strength'; not the lack of it. Please, ignore this if it doesn't sound too nice to you. Peace. |
Re: At Age 23 Still Scared Of Asking A Girl Out by Nobody: 4:16am On Sep 11, 2020 |
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Re: At Age 23 Still Scared Of Asking A Girl Out by themaestro08(m): 7:57am On Sep 11, 2020 |
phreddie: Bro I think after saying like hello/hi, next thing is to tell why you approached her, this I think saves one the stress as ultimately it's a matter of acceptance or rejection. 2 Likes |
Re: At Age 23 Still Scared Of Asking A Girl Out by denvers: 9:49am On Sep 11, 2020 |
A lot of fake people in nairaland, instead of advice na go and make money, At op try and start small small, forget about rejection, that's what girls are trained to do. Just try your luck. |
Re: At Age 23 Still Scared Of Asking A Girl Out by proclinician: 10:04am On Sep 11, 2020 |
At 24 I was already marking the date I will receive the payment that will make me worth 2m and how much I will be worth by the time I'm 30. May you find what you seek oo. May God bless you with many "buy for me na", " I never chop", "I need money to make my hair". 1 Like 2 Shares |
Re: At Age 23 Still Scared Of Asking A Girl Out by UYEMDO35(m): 10:22am On Sep 11, 2020 |
Same here also. Am also scared of asking a girl out. But I have numerous on social media but when it comes to physical discussion, I always find it hard to approach a girl a for relationship. |
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