VirginDiva:
Make money and stop complaining about an expensive woman's taste. Better still, go for women in your financial category.
My honest opinion!

MrBrownJay1:


Shouldn't this woman go for men in HER financial category too...?! Or do you believe a woman can just wake up one day and decide she is worth what she can't possible afford/offer her own self?!

Deborah98:
unfortunately your hatred for women has blindfolded you that you can't see beyond all you listed out,I still maintain my ground that there are good, industrious and independent ladies out there who don't depend on men to survive,go hit your head on the wall

VirginDiva:
I agree. People have preferances

men have been rejecting women since the beginning over their being a virgin or not.
Men have been rejecting women for not having the right physique.
For not being up to their standards facially.
How many men would date a woman they don't find physically appealing for her personality? Very few. Be honest.
If a white woman doesn't want to date you because you're black, she isn't a racist. She grew up in a society where being fair equates to great beauty.

Deborah98:
am not reflecting my values on others I still maintain my ground there are good, industrious and independent ladies out there who don't need men to survive please...

Saintmary:
Yes o, young lady, you want money?

Work hard and roll with your type of guys.
Na money you want, you no kill person.

Saintmary:

Men have been rejecting women for flat ass and rigidity in bed since 1860, nobody died.
So, what are we talking about?

thebosstrevor1:


apparently, women can only reject a man based on only finances

My take is simple, if a woman wants a man of higher income then she herself have to be from the same social class as the man.

At the highlighted, i cant marry date or marry a white woman but lets come to think of it, if she equates white with been beautiful, i also think it will be fair to equate black with beauty

stanliwise:
Women with expensive taste should taste expensive too. Else that one na Ojoro o

MrWhaley:

So a woman is above a man's league because she depends on another man's money?

Wow. Interesting.

VirginDiva:
if an ugly guy decides to pass a girl by because she's overly dark and skinny and short, wouldn't you consider it to be bizarre?
People are hypocritical. They make choices based on what they want but cannot give...
If a broke woman wakes up and decides to date men out of her league, it's crazy but a choice she can make.
It's left to you to pursue a woman with extremely high standards and accept her rejection bravely.
This thread isn't to exonerate anyone. But to point out that people can have unreasonable demands; a bubble butt or bank account with 6figures. And that these people are actually entitled to being reasonable (blame freewill). It's left to you to know what's best for YOU.
Mind you, I mean working women not the 'entit

thebosstrevor1:


apparently, women can only reject a man based on only finances

My take is simple, if a woman wants a man of higher income then she herself have to be from the same social class as the man.

At the highlighted, i cant marry date or marry a white woman but lets come to think of it, if she equates white with been beautiful, i also think it will be fair to equate black with beauty

stanliwise:

Don’t fall for that trap o. For the fact she comes from a higher class doesn’t mean she has anything to offer o. Sometimes the reverse is the case. They have a sense of false entitlement and demand even you drops of blood.

Marry a women who has sense and is business smart. With big dreams. For me I like fearless women and Boss lady who like work and family, the ones we would build our work life to the best of our career. Those breed are rare but they are my taste. I want to marry a Nkonjo Iweala of next generation, me sef dey prepare myself so to be the next Zuck

VirginDiva:
how many women would agree? 2 out of 10.the majority would disagree, so get my point.
I can't date a white guy. Doesn't make my racism. Most are handsome, but to me, black is a demi_god.

VirginDiva:
life isn't balanced. My point isn't that being materialistic is alright, I pointing out the fact that there are women like that! It's for you as a guy to filter what would work for you.
If a woman demands a man's money, [s]there are those who have excess money and wouldn't hesitate to spoil her.[/s] If you can't, stop ranting. Walk away and accept the fact that she can place herself on an almighty pedestal.
Freedom!

MrBrownJay1:
If you believe that you are worth whatever, then men also have the right to believe that they are entitled to such women as you pretend to be (whether they are rich or poor). Expecting only rich men to approach you, while asking broke men to stay away (aka in their financial lane) makes you a hypocrite, because that's exactly what you are doing (pricing yourself higher than your financial lane)

MJBOLT:

next time dont tell a lie to stroke your ego,we all know you lots are the biggest beggers online and offline,industrious and independent my black a55.

Deborah98:
giving it to you as you deserve it, don't ever quote me again,saddist

VirginDiva:
does that change the fact that compared to those who aren't, these good, industrious and independent ladies are few?

thebosstrevor1:


actually, it is more easier to flow and adapt to people of your class. most wealthy guys will rather go for women of their class or women that comes from the same family background as their.

Marrying a women with sense and business smart the future nkonjo iweala. these type of women can be gotten from a wealthy background

You think a woman from a poor home can be the next nkonjo iweala.... it takes money to be the next nkonjo...her type of education takes money that only a wealty father can afford.

Many entitled women actually come from poor background.

VirginDiva:
there is no one who doesn't price themself higher than their actual worth. Simple reality of life. Women more so than men. Does it make them hypocrites, yes. Guess what? That would change society from slamming it into our heads that men pay the bills...women are to be taken care of...and so on.
You can't change it, people's view on gender roles.
If you decide to approach a woman who has been taught by both her mother and FATHER and everyone else that she should be with whosoever can take care of her financially, then expect to be rejected. Nothing's fair

MrBrownJay1:


Ok so what you are now confirming is that any man has the right to approach you, whether in his financial lane or not... And that you have the right to dismiss his approach (which is understandable since it is your life).

VirginDiva:
Make money and stop complaining about an expensive woman's taste. Better still, go for women in your financial category.
My honest opinion!

VirginDiva:
Same way you can reject a woman based on her virginity status or physique or height or facial features or skin colour... You can reject a women for any superficial detail...it's your Right! It's left to us who don't conform to you standard of beauty to avoid approaching you. And if we take the risk, accept the rejection.

stanliwise:

Brother please do your background research, many men and rich women today didn’t have a rich family. They started from scratch. Almost all successful men today still confess how their wife was the bedrock of their success since they worked hand in hand and ensure the best is achieved.
When I was younger, My Dad lost job at a time and my mom business sustained us like nothing happened until another job came. That sort of women is what I want, not because of to shoulder my responsibility (God forbid). But to be someone I can be rest assured that my family and bloodline(children) is save with.

VirginDiva:
Stanliwise:
A woman can have sex with either a poor or wealth man...
Society tells a woman that the best is the latter. She grows up with that doctrine...
You approach a woman with such a mentality, fully aware of the fact that she's materialistic...
She rejects you...
Whose fault is it? Hers for having an exaggerated impression of herself? Or yours for deciding to swim with sharks?
Don't chase heaven if you aren't prepared to die.
And since majority of women are materialistic, follow the golden rule: in Rome, behave as the Romans and make money. Since it's the easiest path to getting a woman!

frozen70:


I am a woman but I condemn when a woman doesn't have she will be expecting something bigger than she can afford from a man

Every woman should go and work and stop expecting something from someone who is still searching

Men are even tired of their constant demands

thebosstrevor1:


these sort of women you want are hard to see in this generation, most women want ready made men even if they have nothing to offer.

I will rather go where my asset is protected that go where it will decrease because i am feeding the girl and her family.

MrBrownJay1:


Sadly your initial post is therefore wrong....as you just stated clearly that everyone is pricing themselves higher than their worth. Thus you CANT say this and then turn around and want men to stay in their financial lanes (while you don't stay in yours)